Jiang Fan understands this truth, and Bai Xiaohua also understands this matter.

"So a person should admit that he is flawed, Bai Xiaohua, you should also admit that you are actually flawed, because you are not rational enough, because you are not calm enough, or when you encounter emotional problems, you should admit that you are inexperienced, you should admit that you are not rational enough to solve the problem. ”

In fact, Jiang Fan was not criticizing Bai Xiaohua when he said these words, but it was obvious that Bai Xiaohua had misunderstood.

"Are you criticizing me?"

Jiang Fan shook his head.

"I'm not criticizing you, I'm just telling you a solution to the problem. ”

Yes. This is a solution to the problem, if you know this truth, if you understand this truth, then you should find a way to solve it, if you don't find a way to solve it. If you understand this truth and you have not allowed yourself to slowly adapt to this truth, you have not allowed yourself to slowly follow this truth, then it is clear that you are a flawed person.

In fact, this principle is very simple. It's easy to do it if you really want to do it.

First of all, you need to tell yourself that you are not an incompetent person.

"Yes, you should be confident in yourself, you should have confidence in yourself, you should understand that you are not a particularly weak person, you should also understand that you are not a particularly rubbish person, you should also understand that you are not a particularly unconfident person. ”

So Jiang Fan told Bai Xiaohua like this.

"You should have faith in yourself, why should you have confidence in yourself, because I like you, yes, why do I like you, you should admit that you have merit, or you should admit that I am excellent, right? You should really think that I am excellent, why you would choose me as your boyfriend, why would you accept my love, then it is because I am excellent. Although you tell yourself in your heart that what you like is me, although you tell yourself in your heart that what you like is my character, what you like is all of me, but obviously if I am not a good person, if I am just a person who picks up garbage on the side of the road, then obviously you will not like me, so you should be honest, you should tell yourself that what you like is my excellence. Of course, I don't say this to praise myself, I say this just to let you understand that you are not a particularly ordinary person, because if you are Peng's person, then I am also an ordinary person, people often say that if you look at a person, you should look at his friends, so you should understand that if I am an excellent person, then you should have confidence in yourself, and you should also understand that you are also an excellent person. ”

Bai Xiaohua nodded.

"Of course, I admit that you are an excellent person, or I also admit that I like your excellence, but obviously, I don't all like your excellence, I don't love your excellence, I love you as a person, I love your character. ”

Jiang Fan didn't dwell on this issue, because it was obvious that he was not discussing this problem with Bai Xiaohua, he was telling Bai Xiaohua a reason, he was telling Bai Xiaohua how to solve these things. Because Jiang Fan was experienced, because Jiang Fan had experienced a lot of things, and because Jiang Fan was a powerful immortal cultivator, he felt that he didn't need to worry about these problems with Bai Xiaohua, so he felt that he had compulsory education Bai Xiaohua.

Yes, Jiang Fan used the word education, because it was obvious that Bai Xiaohua lacked these things, so he felt that he had an obligation to help Bai Xiaohua grow together. Yes, if you really like someone, if you really love someone, then you should grow with him. It's not that all love is suitable at the beginning, not that all two people are suitable at the beginning, if you meet someone who is right for you at the beginning then you should feel lucky, you should thank God for giving you such a lover, but obviously, all love needs to grow, all love is like a small tree, if you really love your boyfriend, if you really love your girlfriend, then you should really grow with him.

"Okay, let's not dwell on this problem, what I want to tell you is that first you need to have confidence in yourself, and then, you should understand that you can't solve this problem now, not because of your own ability, but because you are now drilled by the horns, so do you admit that you have drilled the horns?"

Bai Xiaohua nodded, of course he admitted that he was on the tip of the horns, of course he admitted that he was not suitable to solve this problem now, but it was obvious that he just wanted to solve this problem now, so he understood that this was his own defect, and sure enough, Jiang Fan told him like this.

So the second problem is that you should admit that you are flawed, but when you admit that you are flawed, you should understand that you are wrong, and since you are wrong, then obviously you need to correct your mistake. ”

Yes, Bai Xiaohua really understands a little bit at this moment, it is obvious that Bai Xiaohua didn't think of the word wrong before, or everyone feels that they are not wrong, because obviously, everyone is very good at forgiving themselves, or everyone is special in this society. Obviously, a person who does not introspect has a special self, a person who does not introspect will also be particularly introspective and will not care about other people's opinions, and a person who will not be able to introspect will not care about his own mistakes.

"If you are a thinking person, if you really realize that you are wrong, if you really realize that you are flawed, then obviously you should know that you are wrong, you should know that you should know that you should introspect. ”

Yes, Bai Xiaohua really understands at this moment.

"I see, you're trying to tell me I should admit my mistakes. Of course, I also understand that you are not saying that I am wrong, you are saying that my character is wrong, you are saying that my method is wrong, you are saying that my thinking is wrong, I really probably understand. ”

After saying this, Bai Xiaohua was actually very glad that she had met such a lover, yes, Bai Xiaohua also understood that the relationship between two people could not thrive at the beginning. Just like Jiang Fan's analogy just now, the relationship between two people may be like a small tree at the beginning. The relationship between two people may be like a newborn baby at the beginning, and the relationship between two people may not be particularly suitable at the beginning, anyway, at the beginning, two people may not particularly understand each other, at first two people will not particularly understand each other, at first two people may not particularly understand each other, at first two people may not be particularly compatible, but obviously, if you really like another person, if you really choose another person, then you should grow with him, or you should have enough patience to grow with him。

"Jiang Fan, thank you, I understand my problem. Actually, I was still in too much of a hurry, or I didn't realize I was wrong at all. In fact, we all make mistakes, but it is clear that we often do not realize that we are wrong, or we often do not realize that we are really wrong. Because everyone is not good at admitting their mistakes, but obviously, if someone really points out that she is wrong, then she will really realize that she is wrong, before I was just struggling with why I am not capable, why I am not mature enough, but obviously, since now I know that there is a problem, since now I know that I am wrong, then I should no longer care about these problems, I should solve these problems. In fact, this is a very simple truth, or it is a very simple oneself, and you have no way to detect it, and you can only rely on others to discover these problems. ”

After eating, Bai Xiaohua felt that she was really much better. Yes, sometimes that's it. Sometimes you really don't need to dwell on a particular issue, and sometimes you do need to do something else to distract yourself.

But obviously, Bai Xiaohua at this moment still didn't think of what problems she had encountered. At this moment, Bai Xiaohua still hasn't solved the entanglement in her heart at the moment.

"Then go to work. ”

Jiang Fan suggested, yes, sometimes you hate your job very much, because obviously you don't particularly like your job, if you hate your job very much, then obviously you are not suitable for this job, but obviously, Bai Xiaohua does not hate work, of course, Bai Xiaohua does not particularly dislike his job, although his work has something to do with Jiang Fan, although his job is in Jiang Fan's company, but obviously, at this moment he needs to change his identity.

Yes, he shouldn't have put himself in the position of Jiang Fan's girlfriend all the time. If Bai Xiaohua can change her identity, if Bai Xiaohua can change her identity, then obviously, Bai Xiaohua should be very clear about her current problem or Bai Xiaohua should be able to easily solve the problem she is encountering now.

Of course, easy and difficult are relative, and if you find something particularly difficult, it is because you are not particularly good at this kind of thing. You're not particularly good at solving these kinds of things, and if you think it's easy, it's because you think it's easy for you to solve, and that's because these things happen to be what you're good at.