Of course, Bai Xiaohua knew that he shouldn't have any other thoughts at this moment, and of course Bai Xiaohua knew that he shouldn't have any unhappy emotions at the moment, but it was obvious that he couldn't control it at all. He felt that he should be calm, and he felt that his heart of self-blame was also calm, but obviously, his mind was not so calm at the moment, and he still hated himself in his mind at the moment, yes, Bai Xiaohua still hated himself why he was not a mature girl, Bai Xiaohua still hated himself why he was not a mature person, Bai Xiaohua was still a little entangled, why didn't he understand men so well? Why doesn't he particularly know how to fall in love, why doesn't she particularly know how to fall in love with a man.

"Naturally, I didn't eat it. ”

Yes, Bai Xiaohua didn't eat breakfast, because obviously, Bai Xiaohua's heart was entangled, yes, her heart was very entangled this morning, and this morning he felt that he was not in the mood to eat breakfast at all, when you feel entangled in your heart alone, it is obvious that he can't eat at all, and when a person is sad in his heart, he can't eat either. When a person is not particularly comfortable inside, she has no mind to do anything else.

"Then let's go get something to eat. ”

Yes, if you care about a person, then you should care about his body, and if you care about a person, then you should care about his most basic aspects. What is the most basic thing, what is the most basic question, it is clear that eating alone is the most basic problem. If a person can't even eat well, if a person can't even solve the problem of food and clothing for himself, it is obvious that he is a particularly sad person.

Jiang Fan doesn't want to be a sad person, Jiang Fan doesn't want the person he loves to be a sad person, he feels that no matter what happens, you always have to eat, he feels that no matter what he encounters, he also needs to eat. If you don't eat, you don't have the strength to think about these things, and if you don't eat, you don't have the strength to do anything else.

"Sometimes you don't need to force yourself to do something, if you don't have the strength at the moment, if you don't have the ability at the moment, then obviously you shouldn't force yourself to do something, and you shouldn't force yourself to do something that you can't do. ”

Everyone's ability has a limit, everyone's ability has a boundary, and everyone's ability is different. If you are fit to do this thing, if you can do this thing, then you do it, if you are not suitable for this thing, if you are not capable of doing this thing, then you should not force yourself.

Of course, you should also work hard, but obviously you shouldn't let yourself work hard to not eat, you shouldn't let yourself work hard to solve this problem, this is not enough, you still force to solve this problem, anyway, all in all, she feels that Bai Xiaohua at this moment is really a person who is on the tip of the horns, he feels that Bai Xiaohua at this moment is really stupid one day, yes, if Bai Xiaohua is not able to solve his current mood, then Bai Xiaohua should do something else.

Actually, it's a great way to do it.

Jiang Fan told Bai Xiaohua like this.

"If you're still feeling bad right now. If you still don't have the heart to think about the problems between the two of us, then obviously you shouldn't think about them anymore, because the more you think about them, the more troublesome you are, because the more you think about them, the more you can't solve them. ”

Yes, people are like that, if you are particularly entangled in a thing, if you are particularly entangled in some things, if you particularly want to solve a problem, if you particularly want to solve this problem immediately, then obviously, sometimes you can't even think about the problem normally, sometimes you can't even understand the problem normally, anyway, all in all, if you are particularly entangled, if you are particularly concerned, then you should let yourself not care so much about this matter, if you don't care about this matter anymore, then obviously you start to treat this problem with a normal heart, you start to treat this person with a normal heart。

When you start to treat this person with a normal heart, when you deal with this matter, you will find that you have a lot of new thoughts at the moment, you are rational at the moment, you are wise at the moment, and you are calm at the moment. If you can be calm, if you can be sensible, if you can talk about it calmly. Obviously, you should be able to solve this problem at this point.

At the very least, you should be able to think about it normally.

Yes, even if you can't solve this problem, even if you don't have the ability to solve it, but obviously, you probably understand what you look like at this point.

"I know you're right, but I still want to dwell on that. ”

Yes, Bai Xiaohua knew that what Jiang Fan said was right, if he had no way to solve his mood, if he had no way to solve the problem he encountered, then obviously he shouldn't have to dwell on this problem, he also knew that he shouldn't bother with this problem anymore, and he also knew that he shouldn't think about solving this problem in one mind, because he knew that he didn't know what the problem was.

Jiang Fan roughly understood what problem Xiaohua had encountered.

"I'll give you an example, like if you want to find something in particular, but obviously this thing doesn't come out, it's always hidden in a place that you don't know, but obviously, if you don't care about this thing anymore, if you tell yourself that I don't want to look for these things anymore, if you tell yourself that I should do something else, obviously, in a few minutes, or dozens of minutes, you're going to find these things. ”

Yes, this is a very simple truth, or this is a very simple little thing in life, but it is such a simple little thing that contains a very big truth. Of course, Bai Xiaohua also understands this truth, or she has experienced these things before, because it is obvious that Bai Xiaohua is a person who is a little careless, he often loses things, he often loses some things that he thinks are very important, Bai Xiaohua at this time is of course anxious, Bai Xiaohua at this time also feels that he should be anxious, because this thing is very important, or rather, he sometimes forgets one thing, but he obviously knows that this thing is very important, but it is obvious that it is very important to pass through this thing, although this thing is very important, she still forgets where this thing is placed, he still forgot what this thing was.

So Bai Xiaohua at this time was very anxious, so every time at this time, Bai Xiaohua would be very anxious, but he also understood that being anxious could not solve the problem at all, so he slowly exercised himself, she slowly let herself not be particularly drilled, and he slowly asked herself not to care about these things.

Every now and then he found that he could solve a lot of problems, but it was clear that now he had some new problems, and he was now experiencing relationship problems. Because emotional problems involve a person's heart, because emotional problems involve a person's real heart, Bai Xiaohua is not particularly experienced at this moment, or if Bai Xiaohua encounters many such situations, if Bai Xiaohua encounters this situation again in the future, he can let himself slowly calm down, he can let himself no longer be entangled in this matter, he can let himself start thinking slowly, he can let himself slowly solve this matter, but it is obvious that the realistic Bai Xiaohua is inexperienced.

"I understand what you're saying, but there's really no way to calm down right now, or I really can't really calm myself down right now. If I could calm myself down, then I would have calmed myself down a long time ago, and if I couldn't calm myself down, then I simply couldn't really calm down. ”

In fact, the truth is often correct, but it is clear that the truth is correct, and it does not mean that you can really do the truth. In fact, sometimes you only need to understand a few truths to live your life well, but there are often many people who can't live their own life. In fact, many people are lamenting that they understand a lot of truths, but there is still no way to live their lives well. In fact, this is the problem of the eye and the hand. Yes, you see a sentence, you think you understand this sentence, you think you understand this truth, you think this truth is very right, you think you can do it according to this principle, but when you really encounter things, when you really encounter problems, when you really feel that you can't solve problems, when you really think about this truth, obviously you know that you can't do it according to this truth, because sometimes you are a flawed person, or many people in this world are flawed。