Qin Shasha's living environment is actually very simple, from the hotel to the home, from the home to the hotel. Two points and one line, with no transition in between.

In addition to family members, the people who came into contact were colleagues, and the original children gradually became estranged with the relocation and lost contact.

It is also family and friends who give advice on the big matter of marriage.

The so-called friends are colleagues, that is, a few people at the front desk and tea house in the hotel. Some have long been married and have children, some are in love, some are still single, and some are even in the entanglement stage of divorce. More than a dozen people, each with their own attitude. Their perception of Yu Yuanming is a little bad.

The first is that this person is warm and generous, but he seems to be too eloquent. This kind of person is obviously a little unreliable.

A lot of playboys are like this, they deceive women's bodies and even money with their rhetoric, and in the end they all run away after leaving a mess.

The second is that Qin Shasha is not small. Now is not the time to be in the early 20s, so look for it if it's wrong. Instead, you should find a reliable person to marry. To be realistic, this Yu Yuanming looks well-dressed, but in fact, he doesn't have much money. Women, you still have to think about yourself. It's always right to be realistic.

Therefore, these analyses and truths made Qin Shasha a little confused and stuck, in the wave after wave of gossip of the sisters.

She is also analyzing this man named Yu Yuanming, who broke into her life.

It seems that everyone is right, but it doesn't feel absolute.

Before Qin Shasha hesitated, Yu Yuanming had no doubts. That's it!

Looking back on his bumpy love path, those various deep or shallow fates have become a thing of the past. Occasionally, there are still small ripples in my heart.

Especially Fang Yuli, who once met on the street. Yu Yuanming still made a straight face and regarded the other party as air. After a long journey, my heart is still heavy.

Everything is in the past. Let's do what we have now!

For Qin Shasha, Yu Yuanming thinks so.

There are many kinds of women, some are suitable for being friends, some are suitable for lovers, some are suitable for colleagues, and some are suitable for wives.

Qin Shasha belongs to the kind that is suitable for being a wife.

Fang Yuli is the kind that is suitable for being a lover, but she doesn't have her conditions, and at the same time she misreads the other party's information. Therefore, misplaced feelings will not end well in the end.

Qin Shasha's second brother is an artist who opens a gallery, has a beard, and feels decadent at any time. I usually eat very little at home, and I usually meet up with three or five friends outside to drink and sing. Only when his friends are busy will he come back for dinner when he is alone. He and Yu Yuannian were about the same age, and they kept a polite distance from each other, less than talking. That day, he suddenly asked Yu Yuanming a very serious question: What do you think Qin Shasha is good?

This seemingly nonsensical question can still make Yu Yuanming laugh dumbly after many years.

This fully shows that in the heart of this seemingly unruly second brother, it is actually very important for his sister to find a man or not.

Men are also a little unbelievable to men. It is necessary to ask in person.

Yu Yuanming replied like this, thinking that he was decent, and after many years, he also felt that it was sincere and appropriate.

"During my time with Qin Shasha, I felt that she was a combination of traditional virtues and modern consciousness. That is to say, she is not the kind of girl who mixes society, flies in nightclubs, drinks a lot, and mixes society. It's not a stupid girl, who only does housework at home and doesn't know anything. I don't think what I need is the kind of wife who can do simple laundry and cooking, nor does I need the kind of high-talking daughter. Instead, I need a wife who can go up to the hall and down to the kitchen. ”

After saying this, the second brother smiled. Say no more.

In fact, Yu Yuanming was pondering this passage later, guessing the other party's thoughts.

It should be said that Qin Shasha is not the kind of bright woman, and she is not outstanding in appearance. Does her second brother have some doubts about Yu Yuanming's choice?

In fact, judging a person is just your choice.

For Yu Yuanming, both spiritual and material things are important. Of course, those beautiful women are good, eye-catching, and have face, but are they very suitable for being wives?

Not necessarily!

Also, rich and powerful families, Yu Yuanming may not necessarily feel good. Those families with better conditions than themselves will inevitably have arrogance and a young lady's temper. I don't want to serve an uncle! No matter how rich and beautiful she is! Yu Yuanming thought.

Therefore, based on reality, choose what you can accept, and the other party likes you, and the conditions are comparable.

As the saying goes, husband and wife are both high and low. This is another layer of meaning from the traditional saying that the door is the right person, and it is a happy family.

Between people, long-term relationships are stable, and what is needed is not who pays more. Rather, it is a kind of dynamic equilibrium.

This is true for husbands and wives, brothers and sisters, friends and colleagues!

Therefore, all poorly handled relationships are caused by imbalance.

When Yu Yuanming's wedding was being prepared, he suddenly received a call from his mother. It's not my own business, it's my eldest cousin's business.

Yu Yuanming has two uncles, four cousins, and one cousin. Among them, the eldest cousin is three years older than him. Now is the exhaustion period of entering the marriage for many years, the child is in his early teens, everything is gone, and he is in the prime of a man's life.

Yu Mu's voice was anxious and high: Yuanming, tell you something! Do you know?

Yu Yuanming asked: What is it?

Yu's mother said: Yang Jintao, this guy is too disagreeable! Not only is there someone outside, but he doesn't care about the doll!

Yang Jintao is the eldest cousin.

When Yu Yuanming heard his mother's words, he also felt a surge of blood in his heart, and immediately wanted to call Yang Jintao.

After thinking about it, I felt that it was inappropriate, so I took out the phone and hung it on my waist again.

He sat down and sorted out Yang Jintao's derailment from the beginning.

Since several people have grown up together, they have been familiar with each other for the past 30 years. Therefore, Yang Jintao's history lies in the fact that Yuanming is speeding through movies in his mind.

Studying, learning art, talking about friends, getting married, renting a house, getting married and having a baby, demolition, children going to school...... Everything is going on like this, why is there an extramarital affair all of a sudden?

Yu Yuanming thought that before calling Yang Jintao, he needed to understand the cause and effect of his incident.

Although they are cousins, they are also brothers and sisters.

This thing is extraordinary, if you are in a hurry, it is not good for each other.

In particular, if you don't understand the situation, it's easier to do bad things with good intentions.

Yu Yuanming learned that the object of Yang Jintao's cheating was a woman from Guixi, so he took out the phone and prepared to call an old friend.