And it's a psychologist, I don't dare to be a psychologist, who is a psychologist, I don't have that level, but what, we all have parents, right? We all have to think about this, mainly consider the mood of Lao Rao, the old and the old, the young and the young, think about your feelings about your parents, you know how to help others deal with it, the feeling between us and our parents, when I go out, I want to go out when I cross the street and see this uncle is more than 80 years old, trembling from the top of the road to the bottom, that is a little unsteady, and then I helped her to go shopping, when I helped this uncle to cross the street, the car on the other side has a green light, and some cars may be movingI raised my hand like this, and the quality of the driver was very high.

They all parked the car there quietly, and no one honked the horn, so I passed by the old man with my help, do you know what I think? Friends, when I am as old as my father, there are people who can pass it out, and I know that all the drivers who are waiting there quietly may think like this, that is, when our old man is crossing the street, he hopes that someone can take care of her like this, love her, and hope that our whole society will be like this.

The pounding in my heart is like this, because I am now confused about whether I want to have a second child or not, and I want to hear your opinion.

I've always felt that I was worried about this maybe I was thinking a lot, I don't know if I want it or not, it's just very tangled, so I want to hear your opinion, do you want it or not? I just want it a little now, but it's more applicable, the reason why I don't want it, my husband and I are educating our children, and there are a lot of differences in our concepts in life, I'm afraid that there will be contradictions, and then because the children have contradictions, so I'm very scared now, because we have a lot of contradictions when we have the first child, but my in-laws showed me that we all live together for a year, because the concept is very different, so we often have conflicts because the children are sick.

It's all because of the child, the contradiction is okay, but the main reason is that the concept is different, so I've been very confused and want you to tell others that it doesn't matter if he has a boy or a girl, but you want to have another child, but what are your concerns? In terms of parenting, for example, if the child is sick, you think that you should observe first, and then consider whether to take injections and medicines, but the husband is more nervous, and hopes to feed the child medicine or an injection immediately, in fact, I personally think that your idea is more reliable, but I also understand your husband's idea, his motivation and starting point, and you must also understand it.

Because the child is sick he is afraid is understood, but I think it shouldn't be because of the different concepts, this is easy to solve, change the concept, the change of parenting concept and the individual is the change of values compared to it is much simpler, maybe the living habits and values of this thing he is very heavy, he has formed a thing for many years, then you can't change, but the knowledge of a certain aspect of the concept of parenting, we can change their original inherent ideas through this intake, worried about this and he always loves to cover the child, you feel that you don't have to wrap so tightly, you can still bear the economy, want to ask and ask if you want,Is this husband dedicated to taking care of his daughter, you answer very much more than your heart,Especially will take care of a good father,If you're just worried about your parenting concept is different,I think this thing,Some of the changes are still hopeful,If you're just worried about this,No problem,You can still have a second child,I feel for a while,The key to this matter is that we've just done。

The closest people let us change our minds, maybe ours is as long as the rebellious psychology will come up, I don't want to change my own ideas, but there are many other ways to change, such as not you persuade sometimes everyone to send it didn't find it, this feeling between the two people is very, very subtle, if the two people have different opinions, and even didn't want to have different opinions, but the two people's views on both sides are more serious, you are so I have to admit it, it seems that I have the upper hand or what, then maybe you and your friends are very on a problem, the same problem is easy to reach a consensus, but when the two of them are still here, they have to fight and quarrel, right?

For example, it is to cover more and less for the child, the baby's body temperature, that is, its ability to withstand the cold is actually a little stronger than that of adults, many of our friends have a few parenting concepts that know that you don't cover the child so much, the most important thing is that within two weeks of this baby, he has no children who do not kick the quilt at night, but it, this nursery teacher may tell you that the most important thing for you is that you may sell that kind of pocket on the Internet, or let the child's grandmother, or grandma to make one, you can cover his stomach there must cover his arms and legs leak out, but it doesn't matter, and then there is your most important thing is that the belly of the piece of his belly is well protected, otherwise the child is prone to diarrhea, in mine is this kicking quilt, if it is kicking the quilt, some mothers in the middle of the night, more than several times to cover him as long as it is hungry to protect and the temperature in the house.

You don't have to worry about too much within the range that the baby can bear, such as between 23 and 26 degrees, but the child's meter but these knowledge are like your husband to learn, but you can't carry his ear in his ear to directly conflict with him, so that he can use other ways to subtly influence him with other ways to imperceptibly influence, this is very critical, just like I have a friend, they disagree on parenting, they will call directly.

Why is it because sometimes the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law have a conflict of parenting concepts, or a husband and wife, in this aspect of parenting, when there is a conflict, they will call their sister, because Sister Kaiqi is not only yes, she will invite pediatricians in the live broadcast room, come to this broadcast to testify, and she is also an expert with very rich experience in parenting. The big host is for us, basically all our colleagues are, if this problem is not clear, no one should rely on their own experience or what, most of us are raising children for the first time, so directly call the person who understands, especially simple and simple, you see our child is a little bit of that now, what should I do? I didn't go to the hospital, or his body temperature was a little high, I remember I was also very nervous at that time, the child lost a hair.

It's that I think I'm okay in this regard, but just now you are for example, I will also talk to her, I am an expert or whatever, my husband means that he has seen more children on him and his experts, so the situation of each child is different, and there is nothing wrong with your family. Is there a problem with my big treasure? There is no problem with his growth, these innocuous things, what are you doing so deeply? I'm still afraid that I won't want to take him to the hospital when there is a child quarreling or something, I think this thing is harmless, why is there a big premise, this father is not the kind of person who messes around, he loves children very much, he loves children very much, he will not treat children like this. To tell the truth, he put an extra layer of quilt on the child, what can you do? Is there any big problem?

I explained to you half, I just think you think a little too much, people are not the kind of hands-off dad or parenting, I usually don't care about anything, I suddenly fought with my daughter-in-law, how to cover so little, has always been very good to children, more careful than you, but there are some places with you, it may be different, then you are sure that people will not raise children, your big baby is growing up very well, half I still think you think too much. It's also because of the child's side, so it's also because you're scared of the conflict, I don't want to be like that before, if you have to arrange it before you want to tell all your friends. Everyone views family conflicts in this way, and family conflicts may not necessarily be bad for forgiveness. You are afraid of family conflicts, we can change from ourselves, how many family conflicts are caused by you?

It's not that big, you have to think too much, you cause conflicts, and other people think you have a lot of things, I think it's a little too much, and the generation of family conflicts or unpleasantness is not to be spared?

The example has something to say, the excitement is continuing, really, each of us has to improve our emotional intelligence, a big opportunity is to have contradictions, don't spare the mistakes, are giving me grievances, if you are always playing the victim friends, your life will not be happy, that can not touch the corner of happiness, can not touch the shadow of happiness, if people want to live, live a happy life. We have to know that two points are very important, the first is to know how to be grateful, the second is to know how to self-criticize, and these two points are often complementary to each other, so if you think about the misfortune first, you always feel that the grievance is not gratitude, but that the next person or the people around me are all sorry for me, everyone is sorry for me, including me, next to me this week, uh, this bush he is sorry for me, why did he hang me when I walked over just now, right?