If you want to finish the house, you have to go into debt, and in the future, we need to work harder in life, but there is a drawback to this matter, I just told you to mention you, remind you, if I miss this matter. You don't have to be my sister at that time, as long as this matter is omitted, no matter who you are, you will be angry, because you have been deceived and you are the same, many families have a big conflict because of this, because the husband finally knew that you lied to me at the beginning of the curtain, and the money itself is your own private money, you lied to me that I borrowed it from my mother's family, and you teamed up with your mother's family to deceive my husband, there will be a very big sense of being deceived and the relationship between husband and wife is particularly unfavorable, I listen to your words, and it seems to be very difficult to hide this matter from every drop. Don't I like to lie?

But this time I was very entangled in whether to use the second method, which was to tell him directly that I saw you at the beginning, I judged that you were lazy and irresponsible to your family, and you had been hungry for many years, and you didn't get a penny back for working outside for several years, so I was afraid that you would not be motivated, so I secretly saved up the money, but this does not belong to my private money, I just want to wait for our friends. When you use it, take it out for emergency relief, so that the nature of private money changes all of a sudden, this is a part of the savings you make for your family, don't let your husband know that it's for the sake of it, the government only considers, then in the end the money is still taken out to be used for the family, so it is no longer the private money you save for selfish purposes, but it, you take it out, you save it for family emergency. There are also certain drawbacks to doing things, and your daughter-in-law is so capable, right?

Then I can save tens of thousands of dollars in the past few months, maybe I don't have to work so hard. If I had saved it just now, he would have made me look like my husband, and my husband's character he must have thought that I must still have private money, so my mother asked me not to talk about it, and I didn't feel happy if I wanted to lie to him, because I paid tens of thousands of yuan to this family, and he didn't even know that my steamed buns were borrowed, and I made him feel pressured and uncomfortable, so I was entangled in whether to hook it this time, and told him not to hide these according to your second method? I've used it anyway, right? Why are you hiding it? You're leaning towards the second option, so the second one, about the previous thing on a construction site like mine?

I don't mention him now, I don't mention it before, now I just need to adjust the current state, I used to know everything, I don't know anything, I don't see anything, I don't know anything, don't give it casually, because I can't see where to go. Do you want to come back? I can only look at it, because the point of my argument with you just now is that you can't see that taking the money back necessarily means that she is irresponsible for life? If you want to prove that she is irresponsible for life, you should at least find out the direction of this flow from him before him, and then you judge him, and there is no evidence against you, so he has attached a label to your husband, which is the atmosphere of getting along with people.

Because you didn't investigate, you don't have the right to speak, and you can't label it casually, okay, then I have the result directly with him, you want to plant it before, and if you want to choose the second one, then you choose the second one, and the second one is obviously more in line with your mind.

But I didn't understand it, and I remember very clearly that I was just getting in the car. What does Ran Di think? Really I really don't understand what he thinks.,At the time,Because,Friends who have read this book know this author.,The protagonist he created is such an image that doesn't matter what happens.,It's as if nothing has anything to do with me.,Yes,I have carp in addition to all things.,I'm an outsider to everything.,This image is actually particularly unpopular in real life.,This person doesn't have his own principles and this scale.,He seems to be different from all people.,He has his own way of life.,His way of life is that the world has nothing to do with me.,I don't care about anything.,Very indifferent. I can't see what she likes, I can't see what she hates, and even when his mother died, it seemed to her that it was all about me that it had nothing to do with me. But there is a critic who saw this later, and a very famous critic commented that Camus wrote this book that outsiders are meeting places, how do we love? When I read this outsider Rao when I was in my time, I felt that this person was as cold as a stone, and he could never cover it hot, he lacked enthusiasm for everything, and his way of dealing with everything and his attitude towards locking were different from those of the world, so why is there still a book that teaches people to love?

Let's put this thing aside for a while, let's do this, so I want to recommend this book to everyone in this future reading club. Two of them are very good, why are they so good?

The way of life is very out of place, how out of place, very lazy, and then like my mother, I am with you, he is now with my mother, I don't want my sister to live with me, what about you? Where are you? I put you out of town. The pattern is like this, you work in the field, he lives with your family, how often can you see each other once a month, go home for a few hours, go home for a month, go home for three or four, and the rest of the time your wife lives with your parents and this sibling.

When the conflict broke out, in the early stage, my mother didn't find out a very serious chronic disease, and then I lived in the county seat for three years, and the second was about to go to this hospital, and my father just told me that my lover and child are children.

He thought it was my father who was out chasing him. Then go straight back to my mother's house, and then I originally planned to stop the operation, it is the young man who listens to these things behind you are useless to answer the previous question is, since they can't get along with you to listen to it, what a thing you told just now, even an unintentional sentence will be misread and evolved, and this bad explanation shows that the contradictions between them may have accumulated for a long time, as far as your parents and your wife are concerned, so in this case, I ask why they can't live separately? Why can't they live separately? Why do people who can't come out have to be crowded together? You and I haven't heard any force majeure, what are you doing when you come out to work? Is it to make more money? You don't accompany your children to grow up, you don't have a husband and wife, you can stay together, don't you even transfer out the money you have to rent a house for your wife and children to live in? If you don't even earn that money, why do you still run so far and sacrifice so much?

I can transfer them out, but if I take them all, I won't be able to make any money left. In this case, it is better to bring them directly over, even if you rent another house, let your parents and brothers and sisters live with your wife and children not together, he can also, not necessarily you must be together, of course, it is best to be together, even if there is no money left, the whole family can eat, the problem is that the husband and wife can be reunited, and the children can also grow up in the environment where their parents stay together, which is for the healthy growth of children, that is simply not exchanged for any amount of money, don't you see this? The little money you have left is important, or is it the emotional estrangement caused by the separation of husband and wife, or is it a child, from this to this he has not been accompanied by his father throughout his childhood, there is this kind of missing, you don't understand it? A problem that he solves so easily, don't let them be together if he can't get out, why does he have so much force majeure?

Why does he delay solving the problems that can be solved? I'm at fault, you have to take this responsibility is not necessarily your fault, he may have deliberately done this kind of suspicion, but I think you are, that there is a guy who doesn't, I don't mean this, it's my key I don't mean this, guy, just call me, his daughter-in-law and his mother are inseparable, but he feels that he has to be in a hurry, he must have my mother to live with the two of us, otherwise it is unfilial, I just think this is such a foolish point of view, your father, your mother and your daughter-in-law live with your two generations, it is unpleasant on both sides, and my mother is so angry that she is about to have a heart attack, The daughter-in-law has also become incompatible with her mother-in-law, everyone is unhappy, you think you are filial, isn't this like a dream?

If you separate, both parties are happy, but at least the mother-in-law can't look at the daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law can't look at the mother-in-law, she doesn't worry about it, both of them can be in a better mood, do you think this is unfilial piety, who do you want to fulfill? I don't have this kind of thought, for example, we didn't before, equal to me, my mother now has a chronic disease, I think you used to not be allowed to live together and let go, now is it the same, did I have a little unpleasant trouble with me some time ago?

And if the other party is like in the TV series, forced to be helpless, but in fact, it is good to have affection and righteousness for you, and if you think about it yourself from an objective point of view, her dislike is about to overflow, and it is about to flow out of the other end of the phone, don't you count it in your heart? And just like you, people are afraid that the impact of you going to the unit again will not be good, so they agree not to block you. We can't block you from the people who don't chase you so much, the good thing you found in the other person's unit is already harassing you in his eyes, believe it or not?