Yu Yuanming hurriedly cleared himself: Shi Lei, please understand one thing: Wu Mei and I have broken up for a long time, and we have not been in touch since then. Please communicate with yourselves!

I don't know how this kind of thing happened to me, I didn't eat the mutton, but I made a fuss.

In less than half an hour, the crying Shi Lei called again: Yu Yuanming, really. I really can't help it. Wu Mei said that she was going to commit suicide, and everyone slashed each other a few times, and she didn't want to bandage her when I bandaged her. She's also drunk, now what should I do?

The first time Yu Yuanming encountered this kind of thing, he could only say: You hurry up and bandage her, and then call the police. Call 110 and let the police deal with it.

Later, through a variety of channels, Yu Yuanming learned about some things at that time and later things, although it was impossible to have any connection with Wu Mei, but it was also possible to solve some historical mysteries.

That Xiaoxiao is a junior who was raised by an old man, extremely snobbish, and gave Wu Mei a lot of negative influences. Later, she also talked about a boyfriend, who was a security guard at the bank as a cash truck escort. The security guard didn't know Xiaoxiao's background at first, but later left her after learning about it. She has been in an abnormal emotional state for a long time and needs to be accompanied. Seeing that Yu Yuanming and Wu Mei were a little jealous together, he provoked Wu Mei from it. After separating from Yu Yuanming, Wu Mei still regretted it a little, and she didn't know how to get it back, so she had those text messages. The text message was sent by her cousin, and when she called, her cousin answered it, and she was by her side.

Wu Mei later met Shi Lei, a young man who advertised. The two heated up quickly, and decided to get married in a few months. After marriage, they found a lot of incompatibility, and the two often quarreled. Especially after getting drunk, the small contradictions between the two can easily lead to big contradictions.

Yu Yuanming thought: This kind of thing actually happens every day. It's too cliché. No matter what time it is, I will never go to this kind of life. If you can't find the right person, you simply don't get married.

Wu Mei's topic came back, and an incident happened in early 2001, which had a far-reaching impact on Yuanming. That is to participate in part-time instructor training, or PTT training for short.

It turned out that the part-time lecturer training in Longcheng was arranged by Xu Xiubo, and it was her words who went and who didn't. This time it was different, Lei Wenjie held a selection competition. All those who have not participated in the selection can participate in the selection, and the final ranking of those who participate will be determined.

The content of the test in the selection competition is also consistent with the PTT training, that is, the blind selection of questions is given in public, and the following judges score and select according to the ranking of the scores. The judges are also group training and department managers, and there are internal staff.

Yu Yuanming is relatively relaxed, talking and laughing. Lei Wenjie was still laughing at him: What is the point of participating in this training? It is a one-minute, three-minute speech, and a five-minute speech. It's a breeze for you.

Yu Yuanming was still modest: That's still not good, you need to learn more.

Many people in the outside world say that people who do insurance will say it, but in fact, there is no level of understanding and speaking. The function of speaking has been simplified, and I thought that talking or vibrating words means being able to speak. The people who sell rat medicine in the township can also be said to be very good at talking, and the people who set up stalls on the rivers and lakes to sell herbs are also very good at talking. Actually, it's not, it's a big thing to talk about!

Judging from private chats and public expressions, many people who talk in private are nervous as soon as they come to power, and their words do not reach their meaning, and their sentences cannot be formed.

Divided by dialects and Mandarin, many people who speak dialects fluently and fluently have pimples and sweat as soon as they speak Mandarin, and they can't always find accurate words to express their true meaning.

Not to mention that there is also a division here about what is sales, what is training, what is communication, what is sharing, what is praise, what is criticism, what is persuasion, and what is explanation....... Different communication goals, the context of the occasion and the person to communicate with determine the use of language.

The so-called insurance person can only say that he will introduce the company after training, explain the product, and promote it according to the sales process. All the talk is actually the result of many rehearsals and recitations. The reason for the appropriate response comes from the accumulation and inheritance of the wisdom of the predecessors, and is not a natural reaction of the self. Having said that, the salesman is training and learning every day, and the customer is not. Speaking of which, they're all about those problems. Insurance companies have been researching it over and over again, so the two are not equal. The customer thinks that the salesman of the insurance company is very good at speaking, but winning the customer does not mean that the customer will sign the bill.

Faced with the random selection of temporary questions, many people were nervous, but Yu Yuanming didn't feel it at all. However, when he got the topic in his hand, his mind went blank in an instant. Three words: maltose. I don't know what it is, and it's only three minutes to prepare. After the previous one, you have to go up and play.

Fortunately, the experience of hosting the morning meeting saved him.

Say hello, say what your topic is, and then make a self-righteous interpretation of the word "maltose", which is just over in three minutes.

The final result was that among more than a dozen entries, Yu Yuanming ranked first.

He himself knew that this was an instinctive victory, not how well he spoke it. First, the language is clear and fluent. Second, the timing is just right. Third, Mandarin is quite passable. Fourth, every prescribed process is not missing.

On the other hand, some of them were so nervous that they couldn't speak as soon as they took the stage. After fumbling for a long time, I forgot the process again, and started talking about it without introducing the topic. Either the time has not been finished for two minutes, or the topic has not been reached for three minutes. Some laughed as soon as they came on the field, and after laughing for a long time, they finally controlled it. As soon as he opened his mouth, he smiled again. The end is a full three minutes of laughter. Some of them speak with trembling voices and trembling feet, and speak upside down.

In particular, Fang Huimin, from Lion Lake, is Fan Jianhua's apprentice, a rural woman in her forties. Although the performance is good, the audience is the right to talk about insurance. But as soon as he came on stage, he was so excited that he couldn't speak, his whole body was shaking, and his face, which was relatively red, was even more like a pig's liver. Later, I trembled and talked nonsense, and I didn't know what it was, so I ended up embarrassed. She knew that she was not behaving well, so she covered her face as soon as she got off the scene and ran to the toilet. Later, it was also very unnatural to come out, and when I saw people, I said: No. I still can't do it.

But when the results were announced the next day, in addition to Yu Yuanming and several others who were ranked high, there was actually that Fang Huimin. Yu Yuanming didn't understand it, and he couldn't figure it out when he thought about it.

When he was alone with Lei Wenjie one night, he couldn't help it, and asked: Manager Lei, about the company's selection of part-time lecturers to participate in the training, that Sister Fang didn't perform well, why could she also participate?

Lei Wenjie still looked like an understatement, and slowly said something that subverted Yuanming's cognition.