17o, liberation

Sometimes when people comfort another person, they often say, "Don't be sad anymore, it's already happening, and take care of yourself." "We shouldn't always be immersed in grief, everything makes sense to look forward......" and so on. However, this often does not work, and the more you persuade the other party, the more sad you will become, and even the pain will not be able to extricate you.

Most of these words are true, but why is this the result? When people use language to communicate, many words themselves carry a specific implicit meaning, and if a certain emotion is repeatedly emphasized, it seems to be persuading, but in fact it continues to exaggerate this emotion, and it often becomes a subconscious suggestion.

People sometimes tell another person "don't be sad anymore", but in fact, the subtext in the heart is that the other person has experienced something that is bound to be sad, and the accompanying tone of sympathy and pity, which often inadvertently forms negative hints. Many people, including medical professionals, often make this mistake when dealing with people with depressive tendencies.

Therefore, when comforting a person, it is best not to repeatedly and constantly mention the words "sad" and "grief", which is to strengthen the corresponding emotion, and sometimes it is better not to say it.

As another example, when a girl is crying, the boy advises her, "Don't cry!", "This kind of thing is not worth crying!", "Don't cry, okay?...... Girls tend to cry more and more fiercely. Because the boy is always emphasizing the fact of crying, he might as well say something else and do something else at this time to guide and change her emotions.

So Ding Qi didn't say anything like "please mourn, the matter has long passed, there is no point in being sad, you have to cheer up and ......" or something like that. People always feel that they should say such things on such occasions, and if they don't say it, they will appear to be not kind enough, but sometimes it is not necessary.

Lao Gu not only has a strong personality, but also has a strong heart. Ding Qi didn't spend any time exaggerating the tragedy or pathos, he gave him this material straightforwardly as soon as they met, and at this moment he silently looked at Gu Zhujun who was in tears, and he also knew that Lao Gu's emotional focus would soon be directed to something else.

Sure enough, Lao Gu stopped crying after a while, frowned and carefully looked at the materials in his hand, his expression was extremely focused and serious, he looked at it twice in a row before raising his head and said: "This gentleman, thank you very much! I have been living a peaceful life in the past few years, but there is a knot in my heart that has not been untied, I thought I was going to take it to the grave......

Ding Qi said in a calm tone: "As long as it is useful to you, I will come in vain." ”

Lao Gu's eyes were no longer sad, but full of hatred, his eyes didn't know where to look, he gritted his teeth and said, "Of course it's useful, I won't let go of any of them this time!" Then he turned his head to look at Ding Qi and said, "I want to know, why is this?"

Ding Qi took out a piece of printing paper, on which a page from the "Fangwai Tuzhi" was printed, the content was three artifacts, held it up in front of Lao Gu's eyes and said: "They are for these things, you once took out two of them and sent them for identification, so they targeted them." The middle one should still be in your hands, right?"

The materials brought by Ding Qi were handed over to Zhu Shanxian by Zhang Wangxiong, and Xiao Gu's case was also mentioned. Zhang Wangxiong is a chicken thief, and the information that may involve him has not been provided, so the blackmail is not mentioned in the materials, because the two artifacts are now in his hands, and only the truth about Xiao Gu's encounter with the immortal jump is mentioned.

According to the materials, when and where the girl was born, five years ago, she was not yet 14 years old, but had just turned 18. Her ID card is real, but the age on it is fake, and it was changed when the household registration was transferred from a township police station, but the other original records are nowhere to be found.

These procedures were all done by Fan Yang for her, and of course, she also bought some people to complete them, and the purpose is self-evident. The materials also talk about who planned the fairy jumping incident, who was involved, what role they played, and so on.

If these alone only reveal the truth that Xiao Gu was framed, it can't do anything to Sha Langzheng's gang, at least not let them accept severe punishment in the law. The reason is very simple, the girl changed her mind during the second trial, and Xiao Gu was also released, and there is no record of the gang blackmailing Lao Gu behind the scenes in the materials.

But Zhu Shanxian asked Zhang Wangxiong for incriminating evidence, not only about this case. Zhang Wangxiong thought that Zhu Shanxian wanted to control this gang for his own use, so he also provided other materials. For example, Xiao Gu, he was not the first person framed by that girl, but the fifth.

The first four victims all chose to compromise and did not report to the police, but were extorted from their property, and the list of victims and the time and place of the incident were recorded in detail in the materials, and there were even corresponding bank transfer records.

The most serious case is not these five immortal jumps, but another kidnapping and extortion case. Sha Langzheng and others kidnapped a man and extorted an object in his wife's possession. As a result, the wife of the kidnapper called the police, the extortion was unsuccessful, and then the hostage was torn up. So far, the police have not solved the case, have not caught the suspect, and have not even found the victim's body.

In the materials provided by Zhang Wangxiong, many details of the case were recorded in the original form, who carried it out, what methods were used, and the final burial site. If this material falls into the hands of the police, none of Sha Langzheng's gang will definitely want to run. If Lao Gu wants to avenge his son and return his son's innocence, it is enough to get this material.

When Lao Gu saw the piece of paper in Ding Qi's hand, his expression had regained his composure, and his body even became relaxed, and he sighed: "Is your purpose the third thing left in my hand?"

Ding Qi shook his head and said, "Because some of the materials I have collected are missing, I want to confirm with you whether the blackmailers came for these things back then?" As far as I know, they only took two of them, but they didn't know that there was a third one.

If this is the case, then you must keep the situation a secret, otherwise there will still be danger...... I don't want your stuff, and I don't plan to exchange this material for you, I just want to ask one thing, do you know where these things come from?"

Lao Gu looked at Ding Qi with scrutinizing eyes, slowly shook his head and said, "I don't know, I only know that it was handed down from my ancestors." ”

Tintzy: "Where is your ancestral home?"

Gu Zhujun: "My great-grandfather's generation has moved to Xuzhou, and the ancestral hometown should be the area of Fangshan District, Beijing, called Zhangfang, which is an ancient town. ”

Ding Qi: "Fangshan District, Beijing, Zhangfang Ancient Town, thank you for telling me this!"

Gu Zhujun: "It should be that I thank you! Can you take out this picture and know what these things are for?" This sentence is what he will definitely ask, because the ancestors handed down three artifacts, Gu Zhujun has not known what they are all these years, and even took them to experts for appraisal There is no result, and in the end, his son died because of this, of course he wants to find out.

Ding Qi thought for a while and replied: "For ordinary people, it is not useful, it is just an ancient artifact with a special shape. In fact, they are three magic weapons, and in the hands of special people, they may be used on a specific occasion, or even a key item to open a certain ruin. There's only so much I can tell you. ”

At this time, Gu Zhujun's phone rang, he picked up the phone and said, "There is a little delay on the road today, I will come to the office later." Before I knew it, a long time had passed, and it was past the time to work, and someone from the company was looking for him.

Lao Gu picked up the phone and stood up and said, "This gentleman, you didn't tell me your name, I can understand this, and it is also risky to collect this material, so I won't ask." But I also want to ask, is the last thing I have left in my hand useful to you?"

"It may be useful to me," replied Tinc, "and if you wish, I may come and borrow it in the future, but I don't want to keep it for myself." ”

Gu Zhujun: "The purpose of your coming is to let me lend you something?"

Ding Qi shook his head and said, "That's not it, in fact, that group of people also framed me in secret, although it didn't work, but I don't want to let them go." And I think it might be better to hand over this material to you, and let you know the truth. ”

Gu Zhujun lowered his head gloomily and said, "I understand, I want to thank you no matter what." If you're still in Xuzhou, at the same time tomorrow morning, or in this place, can you come again?"

Ding Qi: "Okay, tomorrow morning at half past six, I'll still be waiting for you here." ”

Lao Gu turned around and walked out of the park. When he walked into the park, his waist was straight, but now he was slightly hunched, clutching the brown paper bag in his hand, and his gait was a little staggering. Ding Qi looked at his back and secretly sighed, this old Gu is actually not simple, especially knowing what he has experienced, and he has this feeling, but it is a pity that such a person has not been able to fight Fan Yang at the beginning.

Early the next morning, Ding Qi came to the park again, sitting on the recliner from yesterday with his eyes slightly closed, as if resting. What is the purpose of Lao Gu's appointment to meet him today? Or there is a situation, that is, Lao Gu feels that his origin and identity are suspicious, so he simply called the police, and took the police to detain him and ask him clearly.

If this was the case, Ding Qi would not have shown his face again, and even though his eyes were closed, he could detect the movements around him even if he unfolded his senses. In fact, Ding Qi is not too worried, the possibility of having this situation is very small, and in fact he is not born.

Lao Gu still came alone, and his description seemed to have become a lot older, but when he walked into the park, his steps were very steady, and he straightened his waist again, holding a seemingly ordinary wooden box in his hand.

Ding Qi raised his hand to say hello, Lao Gu walked to him and sat down, handed over the wooden box in his hand and said, "This is my little thanks, I gave it to you!"

Ding Qi didn't need to open the box to know what was inside, and quickly waved his hand and said, "Actually, you don't have to be like this, I don't mean to rob your family heirloom treasures." ”

Lao Gu, who seemed to be strong, suddenly became choked up at this time, and forced the wooden box into Ding Qi's hand and said, "I know, yesterday you let me go directly with the materials, and I knew." In fact, I didn't want to be reluctant to do anything, I just didn't want to be blackmailed, and my son also had this idea, so he insisted on going to court.

I've been regretting it all these years, if I had promised to give them the things when I got the first phone call, maybe nothing would have happened to my son, he had died for these things! All these years when I think about these things, my heart hurts, but I can't find anyone to say.

They only took two things, and I had the last one left in my hand. But I didn't dare to tell anyone all these years that I still had such a thing left in my hands. I'm really scared, I don't dare to take this thing out again, and I don't know what to do with it, every time I see it, I will remember what happened at the beginning, and it has become a heart disease that torments me.

There have been countless times when I have wanted to throw it away quietly, but I have always been a little reluctant because I haven't figured it out yet...... If I could save my son's life, I would like more, but he's gone. I thank you...... If I can avenge him, I will do whatever it takes......"

Ding Qi took the wooden box and said in a very clear and firm tone: "Okay, I accepted it, thank you, you are also relieved!" His words seemed to have some kind of magic, and Lao Gu stopped his sadness when he heard this.

In the morning of the same day, Ding Qi took his things back to Jinghu City by high-speed train, got off the train and found a place to have lunch first, and then went directly to work at Boci Medical, because there was still an appointment in the afternoon. To Ding Qi's surprise, the person who made the appointment was Guan Xiaoyin, who had not been seen for a long time, and the reason for registering for help was emotional anxiety.

As far as Ding Qi knows, Guan Xiaoyin and Sha Langzheng have always seemed to be broken, often living together, and maintaining a relationship that looks like a couple and friends. Guan Xiaoyin wanted to change and save Sha Langzheng at the beginning, although Ding Qi had pointed out her mentality, but she still had thoughts, unwilling or a little reluctant, after all, she had already paid so much.

Sha Langzheng went to Huangtian Village not long ago, sneakily went up to Huangzi Mountain, and finally was carried down the mountain by his comrades unconscious, apparently stumbling and hurting himself. Ding Qi and the others have been dealing with Zhang Wangxiong for a while, blocking Zhang Wangxiong through this clue, and getting the materials to hand over to Lao Gu, but they didn't pay much attention to Sha Langzheng who was sent to the hospital.

When Guan Xiaoyin walked into the psychological clinic, she looked a little haggard, but it was obvious that she still carefully put on makeup before going out, and her clothes were also very well matched, which could show the charm of women. Ding Qi remembered that when he first saw her on the train, Guan Xiaoyin wore heavy makeup and looked very charming, and when he saw her again, she was already dressed up a lot, and her makeup became more and more decent.

Even if she comes to a psychiatrist every time, she doesn't forget to carefully retouch, which shows that this person pays great attention to her own image, or cares a lot about what others think of her. Some people may wonder when it has been, how can they not forget to put on makeup and dress up before going out, but this does reflect a kind of psychology, and it is also consistent with Ding Qi's previous psychological diagnosis of her.

After inviting Guan Xiaoyin to sit down, Ding Qi poured her a glass of water, and smiled gently: "Ms. Guan, we meet again, what can I do to help you this time." ”

Guan Xiaoyin's tone was a little anxious: "Yes, of course there is, Teacher Ding is the best psychiatrist in the province!"

Ding Qi waved his hand and said: "I can't say that, there are many people who are better than me professionally, let's talk about your problem." ”

Guan Xiaoyin: "It's not my business, it's my object's business." His name is Sha Langzheng, I mentioned to you, he is sick now, and I am here to ask you for help to save people. ”

Ding Qi was a little puzzled: "This is a psychological clinic, not a surgical or internal medicine ward. We only solve the psychological problems of the help-seeker himself, and if he has psychological problems that need to be solved, it should be him himself. ”

Guan Xiaoyin: "You are the best psychologist in Jinghu City, and the fee is also the highest, I have inquired about it! You are also a psychotherapist and psychiatrist, right?"

Dingzi: "What does this have to do with your subject? It seems that you are not here to solve your own problems today. ”

Guan Xiaoyin: "It's really not my problem, it's my object's business." He himself couldn't come, he was already hospitalized. ”

Ding Qi: "Whatever hospital he lives in, the doctor of whatever hospital treats him, how did you find me?"

Guan Xiaoyin: "Because he is mentally ill, he lives in Jinghu City Ankang Hospital, where the doctors can't cure him, and they say that they will give him an electric shock." I believe in you, Mr. Ding, you are the most capable psychiatrist in Jinghu City, and I would like to ask you to diagnose and treat him. ”

Ding Qi sat down and said, "Mental illness? What kind of illness is it?"

Guan Xiaoyin: "I heard his colleague say that he should have collided with Wong Tai Sin when he went out, and was caught by Wong Tai Sin." I saw with my own eyes that this was indeed the case, and it was like a different person. However, the doctor there said that he had some kind of paranoid schizophrenia, and he had been hospitalized for a week, but his symptoms had not been relieved......

The psychiatric clinic is not a psychiatric ward, and Sha Langzheng is not a help-seeker, and in such a situation, Ding Qi usually refuses outright because it does not meet the regulations, and it is too outrageous. But what Guan Xiaoyin said aroused Ding Qi's interest, he waved his hand and said, "Don't worry, you drink saliva first and speak slowly." ”

Last Wednesday, Sha Langzheng entertained customers and accompanied them to nearby scenic spots, but he scared away a weasel on the mountain, and when he fell to the ground with convulsions, foaming at the mouth, he was taken back to Jinghu City by his colleagues and sent to the hospital. When Guan Xiaoyin heard the news, she also went to the hospital to accompany her, and happened to see the scene of Sha Langzheng waking up.

Sha Langzheng opened his eyes and raised an arm at that time, Guan Xiaoyin hurriedly asked with concern, "Xiaosha, are you finally awake?"

Unexpectedly, Sha Langzheng sat up from the bed, and said in a strange manner: "Little girl, you are very beautiful!"

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