Ding Qi smiled bitterly: "This situation is actually very common, and today's consultation has made progress. The small goal I set for her was to change her unreasonable expectations of so-called men. He also gave her a little homework and asked her to go back and fill out a form and list each item by herself.

The various patterns of behavior that men observe towards women, as well as the corresponding possible outcomes, and evaluate their own acceptance, are carefully written.

\tIf there really was a perfect good man, what would it look like? According to this standard, there are five levels, and there are the standards that are barely close to the standards of good men, the standards of men who don't care whether they are good or bad, the standard of bad men in general, and the standards of bad men in general.

What kind of man would be interested in her for what reasons, and where is her attractiveness, and what are the highest and lowest expectations......? I reckon she'll come back, and it should almost have an effect. ”

Ding Qi's speech was extremely measured, and out of the principle of confidentiality, it did not involve Liu Guonan's private information, especially personal privacy content, and even her name was not mentioned. However, in front of the mentor, he truthfully introduced his consulting process, especially the method used, which is to do a case study from a professional point of view.

\t Liu Feng nodded and said: "It seems that she is asking her to analyze men, but in fact, she is doing self-analysis, and the method is not bad...... Think men aren't good things, how many have you encountered?"

"Thirty-second case, for different reasons. ”

Liu Feng took a sip of tea and said: "This is a kind of popular remarks in society, many people have said it." ”

Ding Qi smiled and said: "Most people are just talking, and they are addicted. Some people are coquettish, and they will do whatever they should do after they finish speaking, and they will still be when they meet the right man, and they have no psychological problems, and there is no need to do psychological counseling. But for certain people, it is easy to form a hint and turn this statement into a fixed behavioral tendency. ”

\tLiu Feng put down the teacup and said with a smile: "Psychiatrists should pay more attention to self-regulation, otherwise they will come into contact with this kind of person all day long, and they really think that men are not good things." ”

\tThe tutor's words certainly mean something. People's cognition, thoughts, motivations, and behaviors are all influenced by their environment. In the working environment of a counselor, they will be exposed to a lot of negative emotions, which is determined by the nature of their work. If you understand the world by the people and things you are in contact with regularly, there will also be psychological deviations, and sometimes they are born unconsciously, and you need to remind yourself at any time.

Ding Qi also smiled: "Men are not good things, I have encountered thirty-two cases in the past three years." But it seems that there are more people who say that women are not good things. ”

Liu Feng asked with interest, "Oh, how many?"

Ding Qi thought for a moment and said, "Whether there are serious psychological problems or not, whether the views are stubborn or not, and for whatever reason, in psychological counseling, it was said that 'women are not a good thing' or something like that. In the past three years and two months, I have encountered a total of thirty-nine cases. ”

Liu Feng: "Alas, thirty-nine is more than thirty-two, men complain more about women? This is not the same as the survey statistics of the earlier years, but it is a new social dynamic, which is worth studying. ”

"This is just me, and the statistics made in the past three years of psychological counseling work may not be authoritative and representative, but they can indeed reflect some social development trends." ”

\tLiu Feng was in a good mood today, waved his hand and said, "Don't talk about this, I have two good news to tell you today." The first is that you got your intermediate title and were hired as an attending psychiatrist. ”

Surprised, delighted, and at the same time a little puzzled, Ding Qi asked, "Really, but how many years I have been in the industry......

Liu Feng interrupted him and said, "You have enough years of practice, not only have you obtained a master's degree, but you have also had five years of clinical experience, which is counted from your third year of college. You can rest assured that there are no problems with the formalities, and there is no problem with your professionalism. ”

\tThe clinical internship that began in the third year of university, even if it is a work experience, is this in line with the regulations? Under normal circumstances, it should not be counted, but Tutor Liu Feng said that if it meets the requirements, it will be compliant, and the hospital can issue the procedures that meet the regulations. That's networking, that's resources, and in all walks of life, it's often happening.

\tDing Qi leaned up and said, "Thank you, mentor, I don't know what to say......"

Liu Feng waved his hand again: "Don't get excited, there is another good news, your psychiatric forensic expert qualification has also been approved, and the registered practice institution is the Mental Health Center of Jinghu University." ”

Ding Qi was stunned, and said after a while: "Unexpectedly, I actually got this qualification!"

Judicial psychiatric evaluation refers to the assessment of the person's various legal capacities, or the causal relationship between his mental state and specific events, in accordance with legal procedures and professional norms, in various litigation activities, according to his or her mental state.

For example, in criminal cases, the focus of forensic psychiatric evaluation is not what the suspect has any disease, but whether he can identify and control his or her own behavior in a specific situation.

The conditions for psychiatric forensic experts are: an attending physician or above who has more than five years of clinical experience in psychiatry and knowledge of forensic psychiatry. However, meeting the requirements does not mean that the qualification can be obtained, and the so-called conditions are only the bottom line standard, and most of the appraisers in actual work far exceed this standard.

Ding Qi knew very well in his heart that he had walked through a big back door, and this back door was opened by his mentor Liu Feng on his own initiative. Although he applied at the request of his mentor, he did not expect to obtain this qualification, in fact, he was not very interested in it.

Of course, Liu Feng could see his thoughts at a glance, and said with some seriousness: "Ding Qi, you may feel that there is no need to be a forensic expert anymore, just be a psychological counselor." But if the scope of specialization is too narrow, the development space is very limited, for example, I am an example.

So you also need a wider platform to get started early. You can't say how much these platforms will help you, but you will definitely have access to more resources, which is very important in the early stages of life, as long as you are good at grasping it, this is your advantage. The guru can only help you as much as he can, and it's up to you how much you will be able to achieve. ”

Liu Feng's words are inspired by feelings, everyone will have their own predicament, even him. Liu Feng is the vice president of Jinghu University Medical Branch, and is a leading authority expert in the field of psychiatry and psychology, as well as in Jinghu City and even in the province. But on the other hand, it is not easy to go further, regardless of professional achievements or social status.

Founded at the beginning of the founding of the People's Republic of China, Jinghu University has a history of more than 60 years and was originally a national key engineering college. Later, in order to rush to the 211 and 985 projects, several other colleges and universities in Jinghu City were merged to become a comprehensive university, and the medical branch of Jingko University was merged with the original Jingko Medical College.

For Sakaiko University, medicine is not the most important and important subject. Moreover, within the medical branch, mental health is not the most important and high-profile specialty.

It is not easy for Liu Fengneng to serve as the vice president of the medical branch of Jinghu University and the vice president of the affiliated hospital of the university. It will be difficult for him to become the full dean of the medical branch again, and it is even more distant for him to enter the leadership team of Jinghu University.

Therefore, Liu Feng used his own situation and experience as an example to imply that if he wants to overcome the dilemma of development in the future, he must start to make a good life plan and have a broader resource platform from now on.

Some people may be puzzled, just to obtain the status of a psychiatric forensic expert, does it have such a great effect as Liu Feng said? It depends on who the person, what kind of background he has, what kind of quality he has, and whether he has the enterprising spirit.

Forensic appraiser is only a qualification and a professional identity, and it is not interprofessional for Ding Qi, but it is definitely cross-industry, from the field of university teachers and residents to the field of public security and justice. Take Liu Feng as an example, if he had only taught at the university and worked as a doctor in the university's affiliated hospital, I am afraid that he would not be where he is today.

Jinghu University is a national key comprehensive university, and there are a bunch of well-known scholars in various majors, and it is difficult for Professor Liu Feng to show his turn. However, Liu Feng is a cross-industry compound expert, and now he is also full of peach and plum, and his disciples, protégés, and old friends are not only from the faction of mental health major of Jinghu University School of Medicine.

Liu Feng is also a criminal psychologist, an authority in the field of criminal investigation, and has trained many cadres in the public security and judicial system for many years, participated in the analysis and investigation of many major cases, and has achieved outstanding results, and his deeds have been widely spread, and he has been awarded and commended many times outside the school and outside the hospital.

Due to the limitations of the professional field, it is difficult to produce purely academic results on campus or in the hospital, and sometimes even if they do, they may not be taken seriously, so it is necessary to cooperate horizontally across industries. But there are many professionals, why these good things will come to you, first of all, you have to find an opportunity to step in.

Liu Feng's continuous meritorious service awards in the public security and judicial system, especially in the field of criminal investigation, are also an important contribution to the continuous consolidation and upgrading of his academic achievements and professional status. Needless to say, the process of solving a major case has received extremely high attention from public opinion and the news media, and this is the best way to win widespread social praise.

\tIf you just make some achievements in the research room, out of a professional circle, how many people can know?

Liu Feng extended his professional achievements to another industry and became a compound authoritative expert, which seemed to be a detour, but in fact it was a shortcut to overtake. Liu Feng achieved this series of achievements at the earliest time when he became a forensic appraiser. This identity is just a stepping stone to open up a greater space for development.

There are still some things that Liu Feng didn't say, and Ding Qi also understood. In recent years, there have been many people who have come to Liu Feng to collect materials, some people want to write a reportage for Liu Feng, and some people hope to use Liu Feng as the prototype to write the most popular online literature.

If this feature film is launched and receives a good response, Liu Feng's status in all aspects may be higher, his academic achievements will be more valued, and he may really have the opportunity to enter the school's leadership team.

\t Ding Qi nodded very movingly: "Teacher, I understand your hard work, no matter what, I will definitely work hard." ”

\tLiu Feng leaned on the back of the sofa and reached out to brush his hair: "I'm old, that's it, I hope you can have greater development in the future." ”

Ding Qi: "You are only fifty-four years old, as a top expert in the industry, not only are you in the prime of life, but I am afraid you are still a young backbone! Of course, you will have greater breakthroughs, no matter in which aspect, that is certain." ”

\t Liu Feng smiled, he liked to hear this, because Ding Qi said it very sincerely and thought so from the bottom of his heart, and he looked at Ding Qi like this after putting away his smile. The teacher's reaction meant that he had something to say, but was thinking about what to say, so Ding Qi waited.

After a while, Liu Feng spoke: "There is one more thing I want to tell you, it is not your personal, it is the entire industry. The latest document of the Ministry of Human Resources and Social Security has come out, and it will be released tomorrow, that is, the "National Vocational Qualification Catalogue", from this year, there are no psychological counselors among the 140 professional qualifications recognized by the state. ”

Ding Qi was taken aback and said in a lost voice: "What? The state has really revoked this professional qualification!"

\tIn recent years, many students, graduate students, people who are looking for jobs or planning to change jobs, always like to take various vocational qualifications, related to the major or industry, or unrelated, and even have been called a certificate family. If someone hears that the certificate they have worked so hard to take or are taking is suddenly canceled by the official and will no longer exist in the future, it will be a blow to the head.

Liu Feng waved his hand and said: "This is just the government's withdrawal from the professional qualification certification of psychological counselors, to put it bluntly, it is to cancel the examination and certification for social personnel, and there will be no such certificate in the future." In accordance with the spirit of the relevant documents, the vocational qualification certificates that have been obtained continue to be valid and can be used as proof of the level of competence.

But you don't need to use it to prove your professionalism, the profession of counselor will of course continue to exist, and you have really engaged in this profession and are excellent practitioners, and you will only be more popular in the future.

The so-called professional qualification certification must also be rectified. Many people do not have systematic professional education at all, nor do they have any clinical experience, after a few months of certification training, they get the psychological counselor certificate, in fact, they can't meet the requirements of really engaging in this profession, so what is the point of this qualification?

\tNon-professionals who get vocational qualification certificates are not only difficult to have the opportunity to practice, but also difficult to meet the job requirements. Speaking of this, Liu Feng's tone was already very dissatisfied.

Ding Qi frowned and said: "But what about this industry, the state has canceled the qualification certificate, so many people who have been engaged in this profession and plan to engage in this profession, what will happen?"

Liu Feng: "Since the profession still exists, it depends on how to standardize it in the next step." I think it should be the same as doctors, it should be within the medical and health system, and the job recruitment and title evaluation standards should be formulated and regulated by industry associations.

\tPsychological counselors are uneven, and the current certification system cannot cultivate qualified talents, so they should indeed be eliminated, and the entry threshold should also be raised, otherwise not only can it not help people with psychological problems, but it may harm people. If you look at our center, have you ever hired people who don't have any professional qualifications and experience, just got certificates?

But these things have nothing to do with you, you have long been a recognized, excellent counselor, and the latest policies are even more beneficial for people like you. And even if you don't talk about the qualification of a psychological counselor, you still have the qualification of a psychotherapist assessed by the Ministry of Health, which is impossible to cancel. ”

Psychotherapist, a professional title obtained by Ding Qi as a psychiatrist, is within the medical system, after the assessment of the Ministry of Health, he was already an intermediate psychotherapist half a year ago. Why is it not senior? Aside from other reasons, there are currently only two levels of psychotherapists assessed by the Ministry of Health: junior and intermediate.

Psychotherapists are similar to psychiatrists, and the clients are mainly "neurotic" and "psychotic" patients, that is, neurosis and psychosis as the saying goes. The clients of psychological counselors are mainly normal people who may have psychological problems, and they are not patients.

In contrast, Tin Qi is still more willing to deal with normal people and provide services to a wider number of normal people. Ding Qi has reacted now, why the mentor told him the two good news first, and finally said the content of the latest document of the Ministry of Human Resources and Social Security, it seems that it has been expected and arranged.

After the two finished eating, Ding Qi packed up the coffee table and put the lunch box on the table, Liu Feng walked behind the desk and sat down and said: "Young people can't just work and not live, Jiajia told me, she wants to return to Jinghu during the National Day Golden Week, so you can go out and have a good time." ”

\tDing Qi replied as he packed his things, "Well, I know, Jiajia told me a few days ago." ”

Liu Feng laughed at himself a little: "I told you a few days ago? ”

\tDing Qi just laughed, didn't answer, packed up the garbage and threw it away, and went back to the office to refill Liu Feng's teacup before asking, "Tutor, do you have anything else, do you have any work tasks or homework to assign?"

Liu Feng handed him a dossier and said: "You have obtained the qualification of a judicial appraiser, not only have you passed the examination and assessment, but you have also participated in many specific work when I was my assistant. This time, there is a suspect in the case that needs you to go for identification.

Don't worry, the appraisal itself is not complicated, and this time there are three appraisers, you are only the least senior one among them, just be a foil. But this is important for your career experience and future evaluation, so be sure to prepare carefully.

This is a simple introduction material, you take it back and take a good look at it, and first have a preliminary understanding and judgment. The detailed dossier will be provided by the criminal investigation side when doing a specific judicial appraisal. ”

Before Ding Qi took the file and said goodbye and left, Liu Feng told again: "Don't use your special talent when doing spiritual evaluation, and it's best not to mention it to others." Although theoretically it is almost the highest level of 'empathy', it is easy to misunderstand. Even if it is in the future to promote your promotional materials, pay attention. ”

Ding Qi nodded and said, "Yes, I have always been very careful, except for you, the mentor, I have never told anyone. Even when you were doing counseling, you never used that talent, so you can rest assured. ”