Chapter 33: How few bosom friends
It was only on the fourth day that I remembered that there was something bad about Xiao Chenggang talking about. The flower factory only groped from the watershed to the psychological counseling office in the hot spring building in the northern suburbs when he was a child, and Jian Fan did everything to know himself and the other, and checked the information of this psychological counseling studio before coming. The industrial and commercial registration is quite complete, not a black company, but the more formal it is, the more Jian Fan feels a little weak, looking at the items listed in the consultation room, what are the marriage and love emotions, what work pressure, what other emotional distress, what sexual psychological disorders, what insomnia, depression, anxiety, obsessiveness, fear, suspicion, jealousy, the more he looks at it, the more disgusted he is, as if in addition to sexual psychological disorders, he has more or less other problems.
Knowing that Xiao Chenggang had good intentions, but this kindness was really a little difficult to accept, the car was parked in the parking lot of the building, not far from the street behind him, Jian Fan probed his brain, and he was not allowed to go for a long time, or not to go
Ye Mengqi got married the day before yesterday, her husband is still Li Yizhi, who has become a formal police officer from the Dayingpan Police Station, and in the end, Jian Fan did not say that the two little assistant policemen came to be drivers or sell box lunches, the wedding was very lively, more than half of the old brothers from the serious crime team came, and those who did not come also asked someone to bring gift money, and the wedding banquet was lively. After the wedding banquet, I remembered my teammate Zhang Jie who had been gone for several years, the old friend had left, and his wife had remarried, although it was a happy event, it was also a happy event, but it was also a drink, Jian Fan's thousand glasses of not drunk alcohol this time was not as good as even ordinary people, and he drank happily in the first half, and sent away the newcomer and then talked about these with Guo Yuan, Wang Ming, Sui Xin, Zhang Zhiyong and two masters who were in the same team that year. Tears poured out, a table did not know whether to drink or cry, and finally Shi Jihong and the fat mother and daughter sent this group of foreign-looking gentlemen home one by one.
Yesterday in the watershed processing plant, I was familiar with the kitchen knife halogen case that had not been touched for a few days, and was blocked by Zeng Nan in the halogen workshop, but as soon as men and women go to bed, whether it is true or false, their relationship will have subtle changes, ten have** The woman's attitude will be generally justified by creditors, this time it is justified that Cui Jianfan is here, and there is no specific matter, anyway, it is a bunch of wordy people who should not have such an attitude towards the Jiang family, but they have also had a period with Jiang Dijia before, let alone have such an attitude towards others, of course, the meaning of this is that Jian Fan wants to come forward to help the sales of marinated sauce food, of course, the implication is also to remind Jian Fan to pay attention to her attitude. But unexpectedly, the more awkward it became, Jian Fan rolled his eyes and asked Zeng Nan to be less nosy, Zeng Nan's temper came up and he didn't care about it, straight to Jian Fan's a little money obsessed and unkind, the two quarreled for a long time, and the only result of the quarrel was that Zeng Nan went out and picked up a stone and smashed a large piece of the window glass of the big stove to vent his anger.
Today I just sent Fei Shiqing away, Fei Fatzi is a blessing in disguise, an interview with a big newspaper and a tabloid newspaper alarmed Oolong County, parents with relatives, The wife hugged her daughter, and a large family came to visit the Armed Police Hospital, and it was easy for such an advanced person to come out of the civil servants, and even the unit was alarmed, and sent two cars to accompany him, and if she wanted to take Fei Shiqing back to Oolong, she might have to give a hero courtesy, Fei Fatzi pulled Jian Fan into the bathroom with tears in his eyes, and scared Jian Fan, and thought that something had happened to this product, but Fei Fatzi was grateful and hugged Jian Fan, more tired than a lover, and said that he had never been so beautiful when he was a child, and he had been a hero in the past two days, and his parents would never shout and drink anymore, and his wife looked at him with admiration, not to mention those reporters, blowing so much that buddies don't dare to admit themselves", to make a long story short, he kissed Jian Fan the cheek, and said a thousand words: Thank you, Brother Guo, remember to notify me next time you fight
I was confused and tossed by this nonsense again, but when I saw Fei Shiqing holding her daughter affectionately, snuggling up to her wife, and following her parents left and right, the joy of that family made Jian Fan feel a feeling: greed.
sent Fei Shiqing away, and when Xiao Chenggang was discharged from the hospital, Xiao Chenggang inadvertently mentioned this matter again, but Jian Fan had already forgotten about it, and only remembered this stubble when he reminded him, but he didn't even have the heart to go to the store, so the ghost made a miracle, and he came here and here in a daze, and he was a little afraid to move forward.
This matter is heavy when I think about it, it has only been a few days since the return of the oolong, and Zeng Nan has already judged the two of them, that unreasonable and arrogant is a little more than before, Jian Fan knows that it is easy to turn Zeng Nan into the affectionate and flattering Zeng Nan in Jianbao Township, but he is a little too young to dare, at least in this environment, he does not dare.
Looking at the surrounding environment, Changfeng Road, a wide area of the open area, the streets are wide and the buildings are high, the pedestrians are a little sparse, many places in this large city with a population of millions are unfamiliar to them, and they have not even been here, or in other words, no one should know themselves here, retracted his head and pulled the business card, the three-dimensional business card with four convex appearances, the English on it is not fully recognized, but the Chinese characters are still very beautiful and eye-catching: Bocheng Psychological Counseling Studio, Cheng Manting.
"Huh, it's interesting that I didn't pay attention to this little name, I don't know what level it is compared to Jing Wenxiu
Jian Fan thought about it, said playfully, and the shadows of several female friends flashed in his mind, and suddenly he also had a feeling, he was a little picky when he was not married, and he didn't know whether to touch that one back as his wife, and when he was married, he wanted to touch and get close to those women other than his wife. Including genres that weren't even liked before.
"I don't know if this counts as a disease!?", let's see if you can eat me
After a while, he finally made a decision. Got out of the car. A neat suit. Qin Huo" Fang entered the door of the building, asked a few words The waiter in the foyer took the elevator directly to the eighteenth floor, and was slightly stunned when he got out of the elevator, the eighteenth room was the whole floor rented by the psychological counseling room, and there were more than a dozen people sitting on the seats in the waiting hall, either the two of them pulled a dejected little girl, or a little boy with a withered expression next to his mother, and he didn't need to look at the next generation of the scourge of the education system. At this moment, Jian Fan was embarrassed to classify himself as a patient, and took out his business card and asked the front desk to greet him: "I'm looking for a teacher."
"The third home in the middle. ”
"Xie Yao
Jian Fan thanked him softly, walked up, paced for a few meters, and saw that the sign on the door was "Marriage and Family Consultation." It took a lot of courage to knock lightly on the door, and a very pleasant female voice came from inside: "Please come in."
So Jian Fan came in, and when he entered the door, he faced a woman with a long comb, her eyes were very big, and she instantly made Jian Fan's eyes widen, slightly stunned, and secretly said mentally, damn Xiao Chenggang really has vision. Such a regular girl!?Then I was surprised.,How did he know him?Can't have a leg??Don't you have an ear?",
"Who are you looking for, gentleman? Gentle and polite voice, no one let the disgusting professional taste, when asked Jian Fan, Jian Fan said generously: "I'm looking for Teacher Cheng Manting." ”
"I'm just, you're welcome, please sit down" What can help you?" The beautiful woman got up, half-bent over next to the water dispenser, and poured a glass of water, Jian Fan just sat down, and was sitting opposite the counselor, and the small paper cup was brought in front of her. Noticing the hands, the fingers are slender and beautiful, but they are no longer the type that are so tender that they can pinch out the water, and with the retracted hand, they projected their gaze directly, and saw the face of the counselor who sat down again, and the counselor was also observing Jian Fan, and the eyes of the two met in an instant
didn't call, the consultant elegantly made a gesture of invitation, and motioned for Jian Fan to drink water. Jian Fan smiled, holding the water cup and not moving, his mouth moved, but he didn't say it, or he was a little ashamed to say it.
"Needless to say, the strangers who come to me all have the same purpose, but I must first remind you that in this counseling facility, I charge the highest fees. The price list that ordinary customers see, under normal circumstances, will not choose me as his psychological counselor Cheng Manting shrugged her shoulders, and her very elegant helpless posture seemed to be a pearl and dust. Unexpectedly, Jian Fan, who was staring without squinting, sneered and said, "It's the opposite, are you blinding me!?"
"Is there any? what is the opposite?" asked Jian Fan with a hint of surprise in the counselor's eyes.
"This psychology of buying up and not buying down, buying high and not buying low, the more you advertise the high fee. The more you can highlight the value of the buyer and the seller, I will add that you have the best business and the highest income in this psychological counseling firm Jian Fan revealed the results of his observations. This result made the counselor's surprise even more a little, a little puzzled, a little stunned to look at Jian Fan, and then changed to a very confident style and pursed his lips: "That's right, because I'm the best here." It's also the best in this line
"Oh" hehe" "Understood" Jian Fan smiled and owed, leaning back on the chair, even the consultant Cheng Manting handed over any information was not interested in moving again, under normal circumstances, Jian Fan believed in his intuition and judgment more, and was originally going to show Xiao Chenggang's business card to explain the reason, but now it is not lit up, everything is still better to be revealed in the unknown, if you know an acquaintance, I am afraid the effect will be discounted, thinking about this layer, Jian Fan simply said:," Then guess my problem, the purpose of coming here, naturally very Chu, if you can see my problem, then I will hire you the best
"You're treating me like a street teller?. That Ms. Cheng was slightly displeased, but she seemed to be stimulated by Jian Fan's somewhat playful tone, and instantly disdainfully turned her face, her face was covered with a layer of frost, and she replied with a somewhat disdainful tone:
"Do you have to guess? You're cheating. I'm sick of heart
Jian Fan, who was smiling, instantly felt like a fish bone stuck in his throat, his eyes were slightly convex, his stomach contracted, and he was unnaturally surprised and said, "Uh." There was a hiccup, oh, the boat capsized. The molest was counter-molested.
"Your expression tells me, I guessed right, in fact, I have already seen your intention from the moment I entered the door, otherwise how dare I think I am the best in this industry?" Cheng Manting said casually, elegantly pulled it neatly, and now returned all the tricks to the other party.
Does she know me? Or did Xiao Chenggang tell her? No, I have such a good memory, if you want to know me, you won't have an imprint, and Xiao Chenggang shouldn't either, he will never introduce a pervert to a beautiful woman, right? This should just be a random event, if it is seen by a stranger, Jian Fan's surprise deepened a little, and he stared at it for a long time before he asked: "That's right" Can you tell me, how can you see it? Why can't it be that my wife cheated on me and came to you for consultation, or other marital problems?"
"Quite simply, a person's psychology will be reflected in his every move
Cheng Counselor crossed his hands and smiled to relieve his doubts: "I can even judge that you have a wife who loves you very much and a happy family, and even more can judge that the problems in general marriage, such as Hedong lion's roar, such as suspicious and jealous, such as economic dictatorship, such as mother-in-law and daughter-in-law war, such as the family problems caused by vanity and sophistication and Ranzi's second son, you don't have six "chews", Jian Fan was startled, his body moved and he gave a thumbs up to the psychological counselor. His eyes were very appreciative: "Amazing, can you tell me, how do you see this?"
It's also very simple, Cheng Manting smiled and pointed at Jian Fan: "I can see from the moment you enter the door, you have the charm of a mature man." Most of this kind of man's charm is nourished little by little in the appreciation of his wife, and the external performance is very proud and confident; in your eyes I see peace and warmth, especially when looking at women, it is a kind of warmth and appreciation, that is also under the influence of your wife, so that you become an informed man, most of the attraction on the body is created by the wife, "Am I right?"
In an instant, Jian Fan's eyes lit up, nodded repeatedly, nodded a little gratefully, married for more than two years, Xing'er's open-mindedness, the harmony at home, and the understanding of both parties were all in front of him bit by bit, and he never interfered with what he wanted to do outside. But here's the problem, it seems that having a wife is like this, you have to ask for something."
The counselor paid attention to the changes in the gains and losses on Jian Fan's face, still smiling, and said confidently: This is a common problem of men, who want to pursue unswerving love and not reject adultery between men and women, according to our survey, a man after experiencing the freshness of marriage, generally about two years, after that, he began to dream in his heart that there was an opportunity to cheat, especially if there was a family member who was very satisfied with him. A very trusting wife, this trust will spur him to speed up the pace to find a confidant, the release of the snake, Hongbi, the corpse of the corpse "Xu Dang." The more you are in a stable life, the more you look forward to the leaks and colorful life when you are young in love, "So, I judged it in the first second I saw you, you cheated." ”
Another helpless posture, Cheng Manting leaned back at this time, the undoubted in her eyes was obvious, in fact, the psychological defense line was like a piece of glass, hitting a point, and then there was a complete collapse, and the man in front of him was almost about to collapse.
Jian Fan listened, listened quietly, listened with wide eyes, for the first time, he was a little questioning the argument that women have long heads and short knowledge, at least the one sitting in front of him, his knowledge is definitely above him.
Noticing Jian Fan's embarrassment and uneasiness, Cheng Manting comforted again: "It's not for you, it's for most men, family is a fitting and intimate vest for most men, they are looking for a noble love in the vast sea of people, but the bones are yellow episodes, just like when you saw me just now, maybe in your imagination, I was already naked, am I right?, small."
Cheng Manting leaned forward and asked, Jian Fan subconsciously dodged back, swallowed hard in his throat, and his eyes made a few dodging movements. In Cheng Manting's eyes, you don't have to guess to know the answer, right!
"So, doctor, can I still be saved?". Jian Fan tilted his head sideways, a little helpless, and asked a little abruptly, fortunately, the psychological counselor didn't have to shy away from it, and he really felt a little embarrassed when it came to his heart.
"Do you mean marriage or your mentality? The counselor smiled, and the question followed.
Jian Fan was asked again, gently scratched the root of his ear, subconsciously touched his chin, and then sat uncomfortably, moved his body again, looked at the counselor with a good face a few times, and was a little embarrassed to be peeped at for a while before he said: "Yes," You are right, I do hope for a long-lasting love, but I am not so firm psychologically, and my heart is itching that and that," What you said is also right, in fact, in my point of view, beauty and food have the same origin, both are masterpieces of God's creation, you said that I don't itch in my heart, it is impossible to speak, heh, that is, you said to Teacher Cheng, I am embarrassed to others
Cheng Manting chuckled lightly, and Jian Fan also laughed, of course she didn't dare to say this to others, or she was embarrassed to tell others, or she had a wife who knew cold and hot, and the guilt brought by this mentality was very strong, so strong that she was a little weak like a thief. Seeing the consultant smiling, Jian Fan asked expectantly: "Doctor Cheng, you said, I have this mentality." Is it a mental illness? I would also like to ask, as far as you know, whether most men are like this. ”
"Hehe" You're not looking for counseling, you're here for me to find a balance of heart" Cheng Manting smiled, maintaining a professional solemnity This smile will not disgust the customer, and said with a smile: "In fact, psychological counseling is to give you a psychological balance."
"Yes, give me a balance of being too tired to be dedicated and innocent of cheating, so that I can often be weak Jian Fan sat upright, and said bluntly, Cheng Manting was about to say something, but she was choked by these words, and then looked at Jian Fan sitting in danger, this is probably what I thought in my heart, before I spoke, I first giggled myself, it seems that the guilt of the cheating in front of me is not very strong, but I am just ready to find some balance and continue to be guilty"