Chapter 34: The Traces of the Heart Dawn Now
Shark-like bar.
Let's do a simple psychological test.
Don't please... Need to make sure that I make a real choice about the selection items I give.
Only real results can give you a practical and effective path, agree?.
Cheng Manting swayed back and forth on the work rocking chair sideways, both relaxed and direct, the pen she picked up at random in her hand quickly and elegantly came to the thumb, middle finger, and ring finger, and then looked at Jian Fan as if she was consulting, Jian Fan did not say anything, her eyelids moved slightly, and she seemed to have a steady intention.
"Oh" I understood that Cheng Manting stared for a few seconds and suddenly realized, leaned over and said: "Don't worry, we keep the identity of the customer and all other information confidential here, not to mention that we don't know each other yet, if you agree."
I will do psychological counseling for you.
Of course, there is an obligation to keep it secret for you, if you don't agree, then the result will be a shot and two scattered, and I have no way of knowing who you are, not to mention, I am not interested in spying on other people's privacy, do you agree?" This time Jian Fan nodded solemnly, slightly surprised that the woman in front of her was really informed, worthy of being a psychiatrist, and she knew the little Jiujiu in a man's heart before she said it.
As soon as she agreed, she smiled, and Cheng Manting instructed a few more words.
followed the printed test questions, but they were in their hands, and when they started to ask, they didn't forget to remind Jian Fan to drink water, everything was done professionally and solemnly, Jian Fan also subconsciously looked at whether the door was closed, everything was in order, and then An Ansheng sat in front of the psychiatrist, waiting for the start.
At the beginning, the first sentence was not shallow, and the beautiful woman asked directly: "Have you ever had premarital sex?" I mean a woman other than your wife, Jian Fan's eyes widened, and he looked at the doctor without raising his head, and said softly: "Yes." ”
"Have you been many times?" the doctor asked.
Well, not only have there been many times, but there have also been many people Jian Fan squinted at Doctor Cheng, and it was the first time he said such a thing to a woman, and it seemed that "it doesn't seem to feel very bad."
"The second question, what about sex after marriage? Have you ever had it once or several times?" The doctor asked again, glancing at Jian Fan, very professionally sharp, Jian Fan did not hide it, and nodded his head Second, "Well, there were, several times the voice was almost unheard, but the doctor could hear it, and he didn't ask too much of Jian Fan, and then asked the third question: "That is to say, you have a lover, and the third question is when you get along with your lover."
Have you ever thought of giving up your current wife and marrying her?"
Cheng Manting looked up at Jian Fan slightly, Jian Fan's eyes were rolling, and he shook his head a little abruptly, denying it, he didn't have this thought.
"The fourth question, if there is a sexy, beautiful, and open woman in your life again, you can imagine her as the lover of your dreams, the question is: if such a woman appears and favors you, or you have the opportunity to have a relationship between men and women, will you refuse?" It's like you encountered a fragrant escape in an instant, do you have any refusal?" Jian Fan looked at Cheng Manting, it was hard to believe that such words involving a man's stability and privacy would come from the mouth of a beautiful woman, like a daily conversation, without thinking much, he shook his head and answered.
"Won't refuse.
Very good, I appreciate your honesty" Fifth question, after getting married, that is, after you have a regular life, including sex, have you ever watched movies, have you ever had **, have you ever had other sexual fantasies about women other than your wife?
Dr. Cheng asked again, very bluntly.
Jian Fan's eyes turned upward, girl, I was going to say to a beautiful woman that we had a plane, how embarrassed, his eyes narrowed slightly, closed again, and simply nodded, of course there is, if you say that there is no ghost, you can only believe it.
"Sixth question, are you going to confess to your wife about your affair, or do you ever want to confess in order to seek forgiveness?" Cheng Manting asked, looking directly at Jian Fan.
This time, Jian Fan shook his head anxiously, of course not.
The doctor asked, "Question seven."
Do you have an income item that your wife doesn't know about? That is, do you have disposable private money?
Jian Fan nodded, of course there is.
"The eighth question, when you and your lover are in **, is the freshness, excitement and pleasure very strong?" Jian Fan nodded, nodded happily, and asked Cheng Manting to bite her lip slightly, probably because she was secretly saying in her heart, and met a shameless guy again, this is a typical mentality of wanting to catch a lover's wife, and she is even more happy to bloom in her heart.
"The ninth question, suppose your wife and your lover are sick at the same time, who will you care about more?" Cheng Manting mentioned a difficult question to answer, sometimes from the details can be deduced to the patient's mentality for counseling, like this question, which can reflect a man's sense of responsibility and most men who marry and cheat do not lack a sense of responsibility, and often subconsciously choose a wife after consideration.
This man is a bit of an exception and has little discretion at all.
Without hesitation, he blurted out: "My wife Cheng Manting smiled suddenly, smiled slightly, and then asked questions about her private life."
Including the position of **, the feeling, including the attitude towards the parents, one will be serious, one will be relaxed, one will be tactful, one will be direct, twenty questions will be asked quickly, when Cheng Manting raised her head, Jian Fan saw that this was already a made question, the doctor just ticked the two answers and made a choice, just when she didn't know what this thing was for, Cheng Manting smiled, the kind of slightly professional smile, knowing her own stability, it was not offensive, and she was waiting for the result.
Yu Yiting leaned over and explained: "Through this simple test, I don't dare to say that I know you very well, but I already have a little understanding, next, I will uncover the mystery for you" turned around.
The row of cabinets behind you, bottom left.
Standard cabinet door, please open, inside there is the answer you need to know.
Jian Fan was stunned, looking at Cheng Manting puzzled, at this time he became more and more interested in this lightweight psychiatrist, looking at her encouraging gaze, Jian Fan slowly got up, stepped forward and opened the cabinet door, a thick stack of half-human-high papers, bound with more than a dozen copies, this is incomprehensible, and looked back at Cheng Manting puzzled.
I saw Cheng Manting smiling lightly, and waved her hand elegantly with a disapproving expression: "This is the goose 2 answers collected by Bo Cheng Psychology Studio for nearly ten years, and the test you just received is the same, if you are interested, you can read it yourself, the statistics are like this, premarital sex, your answer is the same as that of concave, 2 men;
You think the same as 24% of men, and you have the same answer as 5% of men in terms of family responsibility, that is, your lover and wife are sick at the same time, and you and your lover** are fresh and exciting, and you and your lover** have the same answers." In other words, you are one of the ordinary men who can no longer be ordinary, you are no different from most men, you love your wife, you also love your family and children, but you will inevitably sneak around and have some sexual fantasies and the like, when your marriage loses its freshness, once the time is ripe and the economic conditions allow, it is inevitable to do something stealing" Waiting for Jian Fan to stretch out his hand to stop it, he roughly flipped through the test pages, but he was not in this line, he didn't know much about these things, put down his things and asked Cheng Manting: "What does this mean, I don't know much, didn't I come to you to solve the problem?"
"Yes, listen to me about the test results" Cheng Manting looked mysterious, smiled and revealed the bottom: "Just now I have proved with rigorous scientific investigation data that you are no different from most ordinary men, since there is no difference, do you still think you have serious psychological problems?" "Oh, "Oh" Jian Fan suddenly realized, and in an instant, his mentality was completely balanced, pointing at Cheng Manting, and then looking back at the thick stack of test pages, and suddenly understood the psychologist's intentions, which means that everyone is like this, you are very ordinary, there is no problem at all, it is you who came up with the problem yourself, as soon as you think about it, you are happy, and when you think about it, you are really happy, and then you look at the stack of voices that I don't know how many gentlemen's voices are left here, and I am even happier, that's it, everyone is sexual, who said who!? That's it, the world is as black as a crow, why am I ashamed of myself!?"Awesome" "Really powerful" It's worth the trip, thank you Dr. Cheng," Jian Fan Zhengse said, a little admired, Zheng Zheng bowed heavily, which made Cheng Manting laugh, and when he smiled, he motioned for Jian Fan to sit down, and said very seriously: " The mentality and psychological problems you experience are the experiences that most adult men have, the difference is probably that your sense of family responsibility is a little heavier than average, so the feeling is a little stronger, although I say this to let you let go of the psychological baggage, but the final solution depends on yourself, "If you want to solve it simply, I believe you know what to do, from now on the precipice, take this page from your life, start again, I can teach you how to increase the interest of life between your husband and wife."
Keep your marriage fresh, huh, what's wrong? ”
Cheng Manting saw the embarrassment on Jian Fan's face rise again, and asked with concern.
Then she kind of understood, since it is a simple and direct solution, no one understands, but I am afraid that there are very few people who can do it, and it is not easy to open that page, and it is even more difficult to open that page.
As soon as Jian Fan was silent, Cheng Manting frowned, and then understood, leaned back, and said with a little hatred: "Oh, it seems that you don't agree with my opinion, adultery and feelings want to have both fish and bear's paws, right?。
"This,, hehe,Isn't this also a popular idea?Isn't it a little possibility?" Jian Fan asked with a smile, Cheng Manting smiled, this time it was indeed a knowing smile, and then looking at Jian Fan's gains and losses like a candy in his left and right hands that a naughty boy can't bear to have, you can't deny that this hateful man sometimes looks quite stupid and cute.
I laughed for a while.
Jian Fan was a little embarrassed when he laughed, and he also laughed with him.
After a while, the laughter stopped, and Cheng Manting explained the topic gradually to the depths: "I understand your feelings, but the ideal can't stand the test of reality most of the time, unless your wife never knows, unless she has no feelings for you, otherwise don't expect that woman in the world to be generous enough to accommodate you to have adultery with other women" You can think about it empathically, if you show that your wife has adultery with other men, can you tolerate it?" Cheng Manting attached to the guide and looked at Jian Fan very suspiciously, Jian Fan was thinking about it, hearing this, it was like being poured a scoop of cold water on his head, and he was stunned all of a sudden, yes, of course it can't be tolerated, but", "hehehehe" I sympathize with men's machismo very much. ”
Cheng Manting asked Jian Fan, smiled and maintained a solemn demeanor, gave Jian Fan a few seconds to think about it, and continued: "But between an affair and a family, few people can go through the golden mean and maintain both, do you want to hear about the examples I often come into contact with? Or give you a few results for your reference" Jian nodded a little mechanically and looked at Cheng Manting expectantly.
Bao Gong's fearful and respectful attitude, this woman who looks almost the same age as himself shows wisdom, and the subtle observation shown is really the only one in Jian Fan's life, compared to preferring to talk about yellow tunes with those big-chested and brainless girls**, in the face of this kind of high-IQ woman, it is obvious that even the sperm in his body does not dare to get into the brain.
"It's very simple, as the old saying goes, you can't contain fire in paper, there is no impermeable wall, after your affair is spied on, the first result, and the result that most people experience, start to be suspicious, start to doubt, start a cold war, start to attack each other, until you exhaust the feelings you have worked so hard to accumulate, and when there is no trace of feelings left, the result comes out: divorce. ”
Cheng Manting said, seeing that Jian Fan was coldly excited, her ass seemed to be a little nervous, and she smiled secretly in her heart, whether she felt sorry for his wife or his property, as soon as a man met and said divorce, he was so sexual.
Jian Fan didn't say anything, nor did he ask, Cheng Manting changed her words and said: "Divorce, you know, a divorce is very cruel to both parties, and it will put a shadow on your children." After the divorce, there are two possible situations, your lover happens to be single, and the two of them form a family, but the family is built on the ruins of another broken family, and after your lover becomes your wife, you dare to guarantee that she will be better than your current wife, or that she has already understood your nature, will she be more guarded against you? Just like when you remove the hand pin and put on the shackles, freedom does not belong to a man who has a marriage, and it is even more difficult if you do not form a family with your lover, and you have to find your other half again, or you can choose to be single "As long as you have loved your original wife, loved that family, and loved your children, no matter how you choose, as long as you think about it, it is a big, big regret, and the regret is so regretful that you can't make up for it in this life." ”
"I, I", I don't divorce Jian Fan's head shook like a drum, and gradually cleared up the eloquent persuasion given by the psychiatrist opposite, to put it bluntly, it is better to persuade or not to disperse, and not to persuade Lai.
"If you let your wife break down, even if she reluctantly forgives you, it will cast a shadow on your marriage."
Cheng Manting deliberately paused, stared at Jian Fan, and said in a tone that accentuated the shadow time limit: "The time limit of this layer of gloom is" Jian Fan has been quiet all his life, like a stone carving and wood sculpture, motionless, and also staring at Cheng Manting, like thoughtful, like a heart, you are uncertain, but all the external expressions and movements remain still, as if they were deeply pierced by Dr. Cheng's words to the depths of the heart, Jian Fan moved, the mobile phone rang in his pocket, and suddenly Jian Fan woke up from his contemplation, took out the mobile phone, and saw that it was Wu Chenguang's phone, and suddenly remembered why this call came from, and answered it a little suspiciously: , Uncle Wu, it's me, what"Okay, what time is it? Then I arrived at four o'clock on time to confirm the identity of Jian Erdonkey, and I want to officially recognize my relatives."
Jian Fan was a little strange that it took four days from finding it to being confirmed, I really don't know why there was such a long time in between, I always felt that something might happen in it, and I was hiding from afar these days, but in the end, nothing happened, which made Jian Fan a little strange.
It seems that this is a simple search for relatives, and I think about it too much", but it is so simple, it seems that it is difficult to convince myself.
"Is there something wrong?" Cheng Manting asked, and Jian Fan sighed.
Raised his head, at this time he felt refreshed, it seemed that he felt after being hypnotized for a nap, but obviously there was no hypnosis, and then looked at Cheng Manting, Jian Fan smiled slightly and returned to his original state, and looked at Doctor Cheng with a lustful but not obscene look, of course Allure is not counted, Allure is still a little worse, but a smart woman will always give the viewer a feeling of looking up and admiring, at this time, look at the shawl cloth, Cheng Manting, who has a thin neck and a snow-white pendant, is holding a curled up at one end, solemn with a bit of elegance, elegant and not pretentious, it seems to be born like this, if it weren't for a psychiatrist, maybe the joke would have been out earlier.
Jian Fan didn't say anything, Cheng Manting blinked her eyelashes, and didn't dodge the eyes projected by Jian Fan, but asked with a little surprise: "Yo, you don't have a covetous heart for psychiatrists, right?" was stunned, followed by Jian Fan's smile, and said bluntly: "Men have a heart of covetousness for beautiful women, and it has nothing to do with their profession, this is an ordinary psychology" Thank you, Doctor Cheng, I am now, and an open conversation is an excellent way to mediate psychology.
It's like a woman crying, and when she doesn't dare to say it, she feels much better, "By the way, how much should I pay you." ”
There is no need to pay, Cheng Manting seemed to move her eyebrows and refused.
"Butterfly free!?" Jian Fan asked abruptly.
"I didn't do anything, at least I didn't solve any problems for you, rashly charging will make you underestimate me" I have a hunch, you don't seem to have any psychological problems at all, and you didn't come to me to solve psychological problems, "Spray, why, can you tell me?" Cheng Manting leaned back in the chair and asked Jian Fan very solemnly.
"I have a problem, you don't think I have a problem? I'm really cheating, it's a big problem."
Jian Fan explained, and took out his wallet as he spoke.
Cheng Manting smiled, ignored it, and said bluntly: "Anyone who cheats and worries about his family will cringe and cower when he comes here."
The conversation will be hesitant, and asking a ** question will dodge, and you, on the contrary, are still very grandiose in cheating, although they didn't speak, their attitude is very reasonable, I talked about the consequences, and you just used it a little.
It has returned to normal, one by one, one by one, and can take the liberty of asking the end sentence.
What kind of profession do you do, "Master, chef" Do you know Xiao Chenggang?
Cheng Manting heard the name and nodded: "Oh, it's him" I know, there is a case of a husband killing his wife, and their serious crime team has made a special trip to consult me, yes, if you are an experienced policeman, I would prefer to believe that the psychological quality of the police, especially the psychological quality of dangerous work, is different from ordinary people, you are really a chef?" "Good eyesight, I used to be a policeman, but now I am a complete master."
"You didn't solve my problem, but you made me realize something I didn't realize before" "What is it?" "It's my wife, as you said, I haven't seen any charm in me, but like you said, even if there is, it's my wife's creation."
In the past, I was more or less self-aware, but today your test is spreading, I reflect my character, my behavior, and what I do, which is really enough for my wife, which makes me realize that my wife chose me to be her husband back then, how much courage did it take? Xiao Cheng Mantingye asked secretly, smiling, it was hard to believe that the master in front of him was a master.
"Love is a permanent topic, but also a permanent mystery, although I will never know the mystery, but I am willing to appreciate the beauty of it, it is in a certain situation and opportunity, from the bottom of my heart burst out of the feelings, like a flash of inspiration, I like her, She also liked me, and we tasted this wonderful and joyful affection together, and I was hesitant because there was a complicated issue of marriage, but now it was not complicated, and I knew very well that I would not give up on my wife and family, and I knew what to do. ”
Jian Fan's confidence at this time was beyond words.
Cheng Manting asked casually: "What about the other one?
"Hehe, since you said that I am an ordinary person who can no longer be ordinary, is it a little difficult for me to become Yanagishita Hui in one day?" Jian Fan asked.
"Understood, I still want to continue to play with fire, but I have to improve my skills, don't play with fire**" This is your decision? Cheng Manting was slightly embarrassed and made a helpless move.
Jian Fan nodded, got up, perhaps got a lot of inspiration from the psychiatrist's words, and said with a smile: "Deliberately forbidding yourself will make people feel more tired of marriage, the best way to maintain a marriage is to replace the original love with feelings and family affection, and the way to make love never dry up is not only one kind of unswerving loyalty" In fact, I also like to ponder people's psychology, such as Cheng Doctor, I just pondered, you must be single, and you don't even have a boyfriend, very arrogant, Very elegant and reserved external embodiment is honed in a high and cold environment, all you are very lonely, right, like a kind of attitude of subordination to look at sentient beings, "Huh? This psychiatrist has been psychoanalyzed, but it has been done to make Cheng Manting a little stunned and surprised, he glanced at him stupidly, and asked in an aggravated tone: "How do you know that I am single? I can't be married, can I be single, will I still be abstinent and lonely?" "Hehe" You are not as honest as me Jian Fan smiled, and began to reveal the mystery, smiling and saying sneakily: "The reason is very simple, you know everything about men's dirty psychology, and you are in this environment every day, I doubt that you still have the courage to choose one as your husband" Did I guess right?" Almost a dramatist, the words are very playful, it is to judge ordinary things with a very ordinary eye, Cheng Manting, who has become a loyal listener for a long time, looked at Jian Fan in amazement, at this time, it was saved, while he was happy with you, in fact, you were also spied on by him A lot of things, the first time he came into contact with such a strange consultation, Cheng Manting looked at Jian Fan without blinking, and only said after a while: "Congratulations, you guessed right."
But guess these, is it to solve my psychological problems, or marriage problems, smiling slightly, looking at the strange man in front of me.
Cheng Manting was a little curious, very curious about why the other party would speculate about his life for no reason, and thought that this person would have some wise words burst out, but unexpectedly Jian Fan shook his head: "I can't solve it, I'll teach you a simple way, just like my wife, I have always regarded me as the best man in the world, and if I turn a blind eye, that's life; Hehe, joke, don't mind Doctor Cheng, this is your revelation to me, so let's do it, I will also pay you in person, I will come to consult once a week, and I will pay you directly to your account, and I will leave first" Jian Fan finished the last sentence, smiled, very relaxed, and did not forget to signal the psychiatrist when he turned around, and gently closed the door.
There is a problem left, but it seems that the problem is left to the person who solves the problem, Cheng Manting sat for a long time, and suddenly remembered that she didn't know who this person was, and then made a phone call to ask Officer Xiao's friend when the scar on his face, and finally knew who it was, I really didn't believe that it was a master, in fact, it was a master, and it was a well-known food boss, thinking about the conversation between the two for a while, and thinking about the person's narrow demeanor for a while, after a long time, the more I speculated, the more I felt that I had a problem, otherwise how could I be so upset”