Yan Xile asked solemnly, "Teacher Ding, what is my inner demon?" I do know that I have a problem, but I don't think too much about what the problem is. ”

Ding Qi asked rhetorically: "I didn't think too clearly, that means you must have thought about it for a long time, what did you think?"

Yan Xile: "I know that this is something wrong with some people and things in the world, and it's not my fault. Let's be honest, although Dr. Wen is not responsible this time, I dare not say that my hospital is full of good doctors, and there are many people who are not even used to myself, even though they are also my students.

What went wrong with them and who I met this time, Mr. Ding has already analyzed it thoroughly just now. But I came to you because I was not in the right state, but I couldn't get out of it. ”

Dingzi: "You're in much better shape. ”

Yan Xile smiled: "Yes, after chatting with Teacher Ding for so long, I unconsciously felt much better, and I didn't feel tightness in my chest." I forgot to tell you just now that I've been feeling tightness in my chest for the past few days. ”

Dingzi: "The cause of your illness has been identified, which is incompatibility with your other hypothetical self, conflicting with each other, and engaging in constant self-doubt and denial. ”

Yan Xile: "I'm a little dizzy by you, can you make it clear?"

Ding Qi took out the paper and pen and said: "We can use the psychological chart analysis, I will propose options on this paper list, and you will answer." Have you ever wondered how good it would have been if all this had not been born?"

This psychological meeting finally seemed to have entered a "normal" rhythm, and Yan Xile nodded: "Of course." ”

Dingqi: "If all this is not born, it can be divided into two situations. The first scenario is that there was no accident in the hospital, that the trauma emergency patient didn't come that morning, or that you didn't meet that group of family members. ”

Yan Xile: "Of course this is the best!"

Ding Qi shook his head and said, "But this assumption has no meaning for you, because it has no effect from the psychological logic, this is not something you can foresee, only the world is big enough, you have enough experience, you can always meet this kind of person, this is not something you can choose." As he spoke, he crossed it out with his pen.

Yan Xile agreed: "Yes, it was not my own choice. ”

Ding Qi then said as he wrote: "Then there is only one other possibility, the situation you can choose for yourself is that you didn't save the truck driver on the road, have you thought about it?"

Yan Xile looked a little gloomy and said: "I admit it, I really thought about it like that, it was just such a flash of thought. If I hadn't encountered this on the road, and no one was hurt in front of my eyes, I probably wouldn't have had these things. ”

Ding Qi also wrote down Yan Xile's words, and then crossed out and said, "You have provided one more situation, but this assumption is also meaningless, because this is not something you can decide." In fact, in psychological logic, there is only one thing you can choose and decide, that is, whether you can save him or not. ”

Yan Xile sighed: "I've thought about this question repeatedly, but it's impossible for me not to save him when I die, and I'm fully capable of saving his life, it's just a gesture." If I hadn't done that, I'd have been upset for the rest of my life. ”

In this incident, Yan Xile was not an ordinary passerby, he was a highly respected surgical specialist. If you see a truck driver injured, but he chooses to stand by and watch when he can save his life with a simple minor operation, this is not in line with his own personality at all, and if this incident spreads, it will be a subversion and ridicule of his life achievements and evaluation.

Ding Qi nodded and said, "Your inner demon is born from this. As long as you think about this choice, you are assuming another self. We often make another hypothetical choice about what has already been born, as if we have opened up another parallel world in which there is also a self. This other self is something you can't accept, so there's an inner conflict. ”

Yan Xile said movingly: "I have thought more than once, what would have happened if I hadn't saved people at that time? There is indeed another self in my mind, I am afraid of becoming that kind of person, and I don't want to meet such a person." ”

Dingzi: "This deep fear and fear that leads to your symptoms. Now we can change the chart to you in various situations and the choices you will make. He took out another piece of paper and said as he wrote, "An imaginary self appeared just now, let's make up a code name, the name is Yan Jiale, that is, Yan Jiale who will not be saved when he sees death." ”

Yan Xile added: "I'm actually still afraid of another thing, if I encounter such a thing in the future, will I really become the Yan Jiale you said?"

Ding Qi: "We can't decide what will happen to us, but we can decide who we will become, are you Yan Jiale?"

Yan Xile: "I'm not. ”

After writing it, Ding Qi crossed out the name again and said, "This Yan Jiale no longer exists, because you don't want to be him." And in fact, you didn't become him. Then there's another question.

You are a surgical specialist with outstanding professional achievements and want to gain a good reputation in society. Your choice to save people does not have any contradiction in your heart, which not only proves your professional level, but also gets the respect and praise of public opinion.

This is who you want to be, you have become such a person, and you are doing this, so this name does not need to be codenamed, he is called Yan Xile. Dean Yan Xile is highly respected and professional, how could he not save the truck driver?"

Yan Xile nodded again and again: "Yes, this really goes to my heart, but ......"

Ding Qi intercepted the conversation and said: "But the reality does not seem to be the case, a respected expert was pointed out by Qianfu, because he left his post without permission, and the patient died of ineffective rescue." Such a self is unacceptable to you, let's also use a code name, let's call him Yan Yile. ”

Yan Xile sighed helplessly: "Yes, I can't accept the existence of such a Yan Yile. ”

Ding Qi: "This is your inner demon, it is precisely because of Yan Yile's existence that Yan Jiale appeared! Many things are not something you can choose, if you don't want Yan Yile to exist, it seems that the choice you can make is not to save the truck driver." But in that case, you become Yan Jiale. This is the conflict within you, which has always been in your subconscious. ”

Yan Xile opened his mouth and was stunned for a long time, and finally only said: "Psychological chart analysis? Teacher Ding is worthy of Teacher Ding! You have straightened out all my inner activities, and the problem is very accurate." This is really my inner demon, so how can I ......"

Ding Qi said in a very gentle but very affirmative tone: "The real Yan Xile has always existed and has never disappeared. And Yan Jiale doesn't exist, he has been erased by you. As for Yan Yile, in fact, it has never existed. As he spoke, he wrote off the name Yan Yile on the paper.

Yan Xile was a little distracted and said, "Why doesn't it exist?"

Ding Qi: "Because this Yan Yile is just an image made up by the family of the deceased, not a choice you made." When we look at the real heart, it is in fact that it never existed.

So what you are facing from beginning to end is only the family members of the deceased who are venting their emotions, and this is just an encounter in social life. People who really know you in work and life know that Yan Yile does not exist, and you yourself know it very well.

What you have always feared is that you will become Yan Jiale. Your problem is different from Xiaobao's, Xiaobao's inner conflict is that he really has such a self, he has chosen to be that person, so he needs to make a new choice, and you don't need to. ”

As he spoke, Ding Qi held up the second piece of paper to Yan Xile's eyes, only three names were written side by side on the paper, Yan Xile was in the middle, and the "Yan Jiale" and "Yan Yile" on the left and right had been erased, his tone and rhythm were a little strange, not only did he say slowly: "I count from one to five now, you will be completely awake, and when you wake up, ......"

After Yan Xile "woke up", his expression was a little dazed, but his mood and body were very relaxed, and he felt lazily leaning on the sand and didn't want to move, and it took him a while before he reacted, sat up straight again and asked, "Teacher Ding, did you hypnotize me just now?"

Ding Qi smiled and nodded, "Yes, when I told that story, I had already hypnotized you." ”

Yan Xile wanted to speak and stopped: "But hypnosis shouldn't be ......"

Ding Qi smiled again and said: "Confused, relaxed or stiff, whatever I tell you to do? Those are just stage performances, which are very different from psychotherapy." There are many forms of hypnosis, and it can also be done completely in a waking state, but with some subconscious adjustments appropriately. Let me tell you this, some people can hypnotize themselves by listening to music......"

What followed was a very relaxed conversation, Yan Xile remembered everything that happened just now, and the two chatted about hypnosis for a while, and Ding Qi didn't even ask Yan Xile if his feelings had returned to normal. But Yan Xile took the initiative to say again: "Teacher Ding, thank you very much, I'm fine, but I'm a little hungry." ”

Ding Qi: "Because you didn't eat at noon before you came, right? I'll invite you to dinner later, it's almost time." ”

Yan Xile: "No, no, no, of course I should invite you." Looking at my watch again, I said, "Oh, it's been more than three hours, and I've only made an appointment for two hours." ”

Ding Qi: "We talk for a long time, and if we have more time, even if I have a treat." ”

Yan Xile: "Can this kind of thing still be discounted? Besides, I don't pay you directly, it's your Boci Medical who has to charge for it, so don't be polite to me!"

Ding Qi: "Then let me treat you to dinner, it's almost time to get off work." ”

Yan Xile: "It's three and a half hours now, let's make it up, let's talk for another half an hour, I still have something to ask you." ”

Ding Qi: "If you want to ask, just ask it, just just chat normally." ”

Yan Xile: "The diagnosis you and Director Xin made on Xiaobao is neurosis, and his psychological conflict is a deformation conflict. I'm also a doctor, so I can understand these technical terms. So you can give me a medical diagnosis, is my psychological conflict a deformation conflict, and the symptoms are also neurosis?"

Ding Qi said in an irrefutable tone: "You are no longer symptomatic. ”

Yan Xile: "I mean, before you come, you can diagnose me, this is also a professional curiosity, be satisfied." ”

Ding Qi smiled: "You don't have neurosis, it's not serious enough to that extent, it's just a psychological conflict but no mental disorder, and the type of psychological conflict also belongs to normal conflict." ”

Yan Xile seemed to be a little unconvinced and asked rhetorically: "Why is my problem a constant conflict? I think it's also very serious!"

Ding Qi: "This is completely in line with the logic of reality, no matter who encounters something like you, it's strange if you are not depressed, if you are not depressed but your eyebrows are fluttering and elated, then it is not just a neurosis, it is definitely a problem with self-awareness, I will diagnose you as mentally ill!"

These words made Yan Xile laugh, and the atmosphere became very relaxed for a while, Yan Xile said with a smile: "It turns out that I am really not sick." ”

Ding Qi: "You've never been sick, and someone else has got sick." ”

While talking and laughing, Yan Xile suddenly sighed again, waved his hand a little helplessly, and said, "Teacher Ding, I'm really fine." But after thinking about it, it doesn't seem to solve any problems, and when I walk out of this psychological clinic, the world is still like that. ”

Ding Qi: "Psychiatrists only solve psychological problems, not other problems of the help-seeker in reality, such as we can't help lovelorns introduce people. But you yourself are a part of the world, and if your psychological problems are solved, the world will also be changed. ”

Dean Yan's encounter is very complicated, full of all kinds of unexpected situations, and it is difficult to sort out the myriad things. Dantinzi helped him find the source of his inner conflict, which was actually a very simple question of whether to save the truck driver. The answer must be clear, because the other encounters are not something that Dean Yan himself can foresee and choose, and deep down, there is only one choice he can make.

This kind of conflict exists in the subconscious, and Dean Yan himself is not clearly aware of it. If it is not resolved, his symptoms will not be alleviated, and even more severely, he may become a person who disappoints himself and thinks that he doesn't care anymore.

Yan Xile finally said: "While you are still here, you are a psychiatrist, so I will say a few words from my heart." Do you know how I feel now? I want to scold my mother, and I want to beat people, this fucking ......" He actually scolded a series of foul words, it is hard to imagine that these words will come from the mouth of the respected and gentle Dean Yan.

When he was scolded, Ding Qi said: "Psychiatrists can't solve real problems, for example, it's impossible to help you run outside to scold and beat people, but someone has already helped you solve it, it's the truck driver." It was he who called a group of people and drove away all the people who were besieging you, armed with wrenches and large pliers. ”

Yan Xile patted the coffee table and said, "That's what I said! Let's go, eat, and have a few drinks!"

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