Bao Qin (pseudonym) is 25 years old, graduated from a key university with a master's degree, and has just been able to work for less than half a year. He is a neurotic with a mental disorder.

Bao Qin first went to Jinghu Ankang Hospital, and was a patient in charge of Director Xin Shuanghong. Xin Shuanghong's treatment had little effect, and with his professional experience, Xin Shuanghong felt that the patient's condition also contained the characteristics of PTSD, and that only by finding the real cause could it be effectively cured, so he suggested that the patient's parents bring the patient to Ding Qi.

Counsellors who encounter such helpers usually recommend a referral to a specialized hospital psychiatric department for treatment, but the situation is now reversed. This was a special case, Xin Shuang specially greeted Ding Qi and transferred the detailed medical records to him. Ding Qi himself is not only a psychological counselor, psychotherapist, but also a psychiatrist.

Bao Qin's symptoms are very peculiar, and they first started from an incident in the unit.

Bao Qin's parents are both civil servants and have some social connections, so after graduating with a master's degree, he was arranged to work in a large state-owned enterprise, and the treatment and benefits were very good, in short, it was enviable.

When Bao Qin had just joined the work for two months, an imported testing equipment worth hundreds of thousands of yuan in his department was damaged. In a unit like this, the equipment is damaged or repaired, but the equipment is almost brand new, and it is obvious that it has been deliberately damaged to the extent that it cannot be repaired.

This equipment is placed in a small room next to a large open office, and the large open room outside is the department where Bao Qin is located, and you need to swipe the access control card to enter and exit the office area, and then bypass the office area and open the door of the cabin to access this equipment. Who would go out of their way to come here and damage an inspection device? It's very unlikely that someone else would do it.

The most suspicious is the staff of this department, there are more than 30 in total, and the purpose may be to vent, such as dissatisfaction with the unit or a certain leader. But who is it, there is no monitoring in the hut where the equipment is placed, and there is a photocopier in the corner, and everyone often comes in to copy materials, so everyone is suspicious.

The leader was very angry and, of course, called the police. The police also believe that the suspect is mainly an employee of this department, and deliberately asked every employee to talk to investigate and make records, including Bao Qin, but in the end they have not found out who it is, and the case has not been solved so far.

That's when Bao Qin's symptoms began. He was inexplicably uneasy and became sensitive and suspicious, a pain that stemmed from a grotesque sense of self-doubt. He was always afraid that others would think that he had done it, and when his colleagues got together to talk, he couldn't help but wonder if he was accusing him of damaging the department's equipment.

Because of this mentality, he felt that the environment and atmosphere of the department had changed, everyone was staring at others like a thief, and he was stared at by every pair of eyes.

In fact, Bao Qin himself knew in his heart that these thoughts did not make sense, and this was not the case, but he just couldn't help but feel this way. He was a new employee, and his taciturn relationship with his colleagues, which had not been very familiar and close, had become even more distant, even in the normal course of work.

Of course, the equipment was not damaged by Bao Qin, and it was said that Bao Qin did not need to be weak-hearted, but he just felt weak-hearted, anxious all day long, and had no bottom in his heart. Sitting in the office, he often sweats, is very nervous, and cannot concentrate.

In such a state, he also suffered from insomnia after returning home, and he couldn't bear it, so he told his parents that he wanted to quit his job. The parents were also very surprised, it was not easy to arrange such a good job, how could they say that they would not do it if they didn't want to?

The parents pondered that it was not a problem with the work, but that the person was sick! So they helped Xiaobao take sick leave to take him to Ankang Hospital for treatment, and they also specially asked someone to make a special trip to find Director Xin Shuanghong...... Xin Shuanghong later not only transferred the medical records, but also specially told Ding Qi about his diagnosis.

It's not a small thing to do when it comes to damaging equipment, which makes many people wonder. Ding Qi doesn't think it's too strange, people in this world are often not criminals, and many ordinary people who have not done anything wrong are often inexplicably uneasy, and if you investigate carefully, there are actually subconscious reasons.

Ding Qi looked at the medical records and confirmed that Bao Qin was indeed suffering from neurosis. Neurotic patients tend to experience persistent pain and can experience inner conflicts that have hindered work and life, but are not based on any organic pathology.

But neurotic people also have self-knowledge, which means that they are able to recognize facts. For example, Xiaobao, he knows very well what the truth is, and he also thinks that he should not be weak because he has not damaged the equipment. Self-awareness is the main difference between a neurotic and a psychotic.

Psychosis is a mental disorder, and the main difference between mental disorders and ordinary psychological problems is that the psychological conflict of psychotic patients is deformed. The so-called deformation, simply understood, is that it does not match normal logic.

Psychological conflicts are divided into normal conflicts and deformation conflicts.

Constant conflict is directly related to the real situation and conforms to the normal logic of thinking. For example, if you attack the family members of the deceased who attack Dean Yan, you can say that they have psychological problems, but they need to vent their emotions because of the pain of losing their loved ones, or they want to blackmail the hospital to seek practical benefits, these are normal conflicts.

However, Bao Qin's psychological conflict is obviously a deformation conflict, and ordinary people may not understand, why does he have this reaction when it is clear that he didn't do it?

Based on years of clinical experience, Director Xin believes that there must be a latent psychological cause, but he has never found it, so he recommends the patient to come to Ding Qi.

The first time Bao Qin came to see Ding Qi was accompanied by his parents. Xiaobao's parents have also heard of Ding Qi's name and know that Ding Qi is a "hypnotic master", so they hope that Ding Qi can hypnotize Xiaobao, and it may eliminate Xiaobao's heart disease. But Tintzi himself knew that simple hypnosis could not cure the neurotic patient.

The essence of hypnosis is to modify some subconscious minds without going against the will of the other person. And Bao Qin's illness is psychogenic, and in the absence of a cause, even if he directly gives a hint command to tell him not to feel this way anymore, this kind of instruction is ineffective, otherwise wouldn't hypnosis become omnipotent?

Therefore, Ding Qi did not hypnosis Bao Qin for the first time, but only conducted an intake meeting, trying to observe and collect materials and establish a mental book. Bao Qin seemed to be very depressed, very introverted, spoke very little, and barely took the initiative to speak, and he needed Ding Qi to repeatedly prompt him to answer some questions in detail.

The first meeting lasted two hours, and at the end of the meeting, Tintzi only gave a simple hint of emotional reassurance, and did not "leave homework" for Xiaobao. But after the meeting, Ding Qi made a point of contacting Xiaobao's parents again, saying that there were some situations that needed to be consulted individually.

Originally, I said on the phone that it was okay, but Xiaobao's parents attached great importance to it and were very anxious, so they came here on purpose. Tincey did so with due diligence, and there was no charge for the conversation.

"Your children are not only very introverted, but also clearly autistic. Have you noticed when he started to develop this trait?"

Xiaobao's parents both replied: "He has been this temper since he was a child, he doesn't like to talk to people, and he doesn't like to run out to mess with people, so he knows that he is bored to study and his grades are very good......"

Ding Qi: "It's unlikely that he was born like this! That's why I called you here in private, and asked you to seriously recall, when did his personality appear with such obvious characteristics?"

Xiaobao's father replied: "When he was very young, he was actually quite lively, and when he grew up, he became quiet. If you think about it, it should be the period from the upper grades of elementary school to the beginning of junior high school. ”

Xiaobao's mother gave a more accurate answer: "If you say so, it should be ten years old." During the period from the fourth grade of primary school to the fifth grade of elementary school, he suddenly seemed to become sensible and no longer as naughty as before. ”

Ding Qi asked, "So when he was ten years old, what major events were born that you still remember clearly?"

Xiaobao's mother recalled: "It's been fifteen years, there are many things I can't remember clearly, and there don't seem to be any major events, I only remember that at the end of the fourth grade, he won the award of the three good students in Jinghu City......"

In fact, Director Xin has also done similar inquiries and investigations, and Ding Qi did not ask for more clues from Xiaobao's parents. Then Tintze had a second psychological meeting with Xiao Bao, this time he gave Xiao Bao deep hypnotization and used the time regression technique. The meeting lasted for more than three hours, and Ding Qi's physical strength and energy consumption were very large, and the cause was finally found.

When Xiaobao was ten years old, he had summer vacation, and his parents still had to go to work, so they told him that he couldn't run around and be naughty. But he ran to the side of the street to climb a tree to catch it, but he fell from the tree and was injured. A young man passing by appeared, sent him to the hospital in time, and Xiaobao's parents also rushed to hear the news......

The mother went to the hospital first, of course, to find out how the child was injured, and she specifically asked: "Were you hit by someone riding a bicycle?" This sentence also came out casually, because the children of her colleagues in the unit had encountered such a thing.

As a result, Xiaobao actually nodded and replied, "Well, yes!"

It was this answer that turned a good deed of righteousness and courage into an incident that caused an accident and hurt people. Of course, the young man who saved the man would not admit it, and he claimed that he did not even ride a bicycle. At that time, the Tianyan system of the public security department was not installed at all, and the location of the incident was not monitored, so it seemed unclear.

Xiaobao's mother called the police, and the mediation done after the police came was mainly to deal with the mud. Because Xiaobao's mother had a very tough attitude and was very emotional, the young man who finally saved people thought he was unlucky and compensated for the medical expenses, but fortunately, Xiaobao's injuries were not serious......

Dean Yan was completely attracted by the story told by Ding Qi, forgot about himself for a while, and had been listening very intently, and couldn't help but say at this moment: "This matter is the cause of that little bag, right?"

Ding Qi nodded and said, "Yes! Ten-year-old children are already very rich in inner activities, and what they are best at distinguishing is the attitude of their parents towards him in various events. Xiaobao was already keenly aware of his mother's attitude at that time, so he replied according to his mother's words, so that since then, the main responsibility for the accident does not lie with him, and he can escape the punishment of his parents.

In fact, not only children, we have seen in many news reports that some elderly people will do this when something similar happens. Why do they lie? Because they are more worried about the blame of their children and the trouble and burden they will bring to them than the harm they do to strangers.

Telling the truth means that they are at fault, and they are afraid to admit their mistakes and find it difficult to take responsibility for their mistakes. Xiaobao told a lie, this lie is selfish, just to avoid being punished by her parents.

In his mind at the time, he may not have fully understood the nature of this lie, which was revenge and actually hurt himself. As he grows older, he will understand more and more clearly, know what he has done, but he will also become more and more afraid to tell the truth...... It was also from this time that his personality changed.

So after this incident happened to the unit, although he was not at fault, he would also doubt himself. When the police made the interrogation record, it touched his original state of mind, and the last time he was questioned by the police was actually when he was 10 years old.

The events of the unit are just a trigger, which leads to the explosion of accumulated psychological conflicts, and the contradictions between the actual events and the inner feelings. Therefore, Director Xin said that his symptoms may also include post-traumatic stress disorder, and the cause is latent for a long time, so it can be said that the judgment is very reasonable, and he was hurt by another self who wants to forget but cannot forget. ”

Dean Yan sighed and said, "I see. ”

Ding Qi: "The things of the past, the self back then, has always been lurking in his heart...... Recently, I've been dealing with a group of people who are engaged in spiritual practice, and I've also read some related texts, and this kind of situation can also be called inner demons. The demons in the heart are planted by oneself, and they cannot be eliminated if they want to get rid of them. ”

Dean Yan said thoughtfully: "Heart Demon? This title is interesting! So Teacher Ding, how did you later resolve this little bag's heart demon? Since you told me this story, the patient must have been cured by you, right?" Unconsciously, his name for Ding Qi has changed from Xiao Ding to Teacher Ding.

Ding Qi smiled: "Since I found the cause, I ended the hypnotic state, let him tell this past in a lucid state, and told the truth that had been hidden for fifteen years, and his parents were also surprised." Now that he's spoken out, the rest is easy to do, and cognitive therapy can be combined with behavioral therapy......"

Dean Yan: "Let's be specific!"

Ding Qi: "My treatment plan is very simple, but it is a bit troublesome to implement, and they need to be willing to take the initiative to cooperate. I asked Xiaobao to take his parents to find the young man who saved him back then, tell the truth and apologize.

If possible, try to find the person who witnessed all this, such as the doctor at the hospital from fifteen years ago, the police at the police station, whether they remember it or not, and tell the truth, not only for the young man, but also for himself. ”

Dean Yan asked with great interest: "It's been fifteen years, and his parents can't remember, can they still find the young man who saved people?" Is it through the police's questioning records?"

Ding Qi shook his head and said: "At that time, the police only came to do on-site mediation, and there was no case filing at all, and no records could be found. But Xiaobao remembered the young man's name and mobile phone number, because when the police were questioning, the young man said it himself.

Are you surprised? After fifteen years, after I found the cause of his illness, when he was willing to face the memories, he could still remember it so clearly, even his mobile phone number could be memorized!"

Dean Yan said slightly: "After listening to your story, I don't think it's strange, this is his inner demon, lingering...... What year is this?"

Ding Qi: "In the first half of last year, not long after I came to work at Boci Medical, it was 15 years back, 2003. At that time, there were no smartphones, and after so many years, the mobile phone number has not been changed, so I can still be contacted. ”

Dean Yan: "I'm very interested in what that young man is doing now, who is he?"

Ding Qi: "His surname is Chen, his name is Chen Zhijun, he was in his twenties at the time, and now he is in his early forties, an executive of a biomedical company, and his work place is in Shanghai. Not only did this person get in touch, but the police who mediated back then, the doctors in the hospital, and Xiaobao's family managed to find ......"

Dean Yan: "How is that little bag now?"

Ding Qi smiled: "It's good, he'll be fine after all this." Now he is still working in the original unit, and his personality has become very cheerful and even very outgoing, not long ago, I heard that he participated in the speech contest of various departments organized by the unit and won the award. I'm still wondering, was it overkill at the time, and the strength was a little too much?"

Dean Yan also smiled: "It's better to make it bigger, that's right!"

Ding Qi pulled the topic back: "In fact, similar things are not uncommon in life, but they are different forms of life, which are often not so extreme, and may only manifest as psychological problems rather than mental disorders, such as the family of the deceased who is troublesome to you this time."

Since you have reviewed the case and emergency records and found that Dr. Ding is not responsible, can you tell me the cause of the patient's death? Since it is an emergency department for trauma, is there any place where the family members did not send the patient to the hospital in time or made a mistake in treatment?"

The direct cause of the patient's death was excessive blood loss, and if he could have been sent earlier, or if the correct bandaging method had been used to stop the bleeding in time before he was sent to the hospital, it would still be possible to rescue him. ”

Ding Qi: "Do the families of the deceased understand this?"

Dean Yan: "They did delay a little time, and after arriving at the hospital, they learned that the way to stop bleeding was incorrect, but they are not professionals......"

Ding Qi: "This is more in line with psychological logic! This result is actually the most difficult to accept, because the fault is not someone else, but is likely to be themselves." In the midst of pain, there is no way to admit and face such a fact, so subconsciously, they need to find another self-righteous fact that they can accept better. ”

Dean Yan sighed again: "Teacher Ding can see through it!" Then he suddenly came back to his senses, patted his thigh and said, "Huh? No, I'm the one who asks for help! I'm not here to analyze their psychological problems, but to ask Teacher Ding to analyze how to solve my problems?"

Ding Qi smiled: "Just now I was just beating rabbits with grass, by the way, I'm sorry, professional habits! Of course, the focus is still your problem." In fact, the story just told is focused on the word demon, and everyone has a different demon. ”

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