Cui Shanhai muttered: "This kind of person is too terrifying!"

Zhu Shanxian: "Yes, not only vicious but also stupid. I have lived here for more than 40 years, in the town, in the surrounding villages, in the district, acquaintances, colleagues, neighbors, villagers, good people and bad people, I can feel good and evil, but this extreme situation is the only case. There are very few such people, but once they are encountered, they are also terrifying.

There is another kind of people, who are more vicious, but not too stupid, who are smarter and more energetic, who will do the same thing, only more covertly and unguarded, like the opponent we met in Shennongjia this time. Senior Brother Cui is more difficult and valuable than the first time I killed someone. ”

Ding Qi said at the right time: "After all, that kind of person in this world is very rare, and there are more cute people, such as our Secretary Zhu." If it weren't for Secretary Zhu, those two innocent people would have died a long time ago, and they probably didn't know about it yet, right?"

Zhu Shanxian: "Of course I can't tell them that I haven't told anyone before except my master and Lao Tan." ”

Ding Qi said again: "Senior Brother Cui, you are Senior Brother Zhu today, and you have done the same thing as Senior Brother Zhu. What we think of Senior Brother Zhu, how you should look at yourself. ”

Cui Shanhai let out a sigh and said, "Oh, I understand, you are giving me psychological counseling for a long time." ”

Tan Hanchuan said with a smile: "Yes, Lao Zhu has even dedicated the secret that has been buried for many years. ”

At this time, Bi Xuecheng said weakly: "Uncle Zhu, I just asked what happened to the later, not how the person was doing, but whether you told your master and what his old man said?"

Zhu Shanxian: "I didn't tell the master that I killed someone at first, but just told the old man that I had drunk too much at the banquet and saw strange things, and then this incident really happened, and I stopped it." As a result, my master's first words were, I heard that the man was dead, did you kill him?

It has been several days since I talked to Master about this matter, and it seems that Master has been secretly following me, and he also heard that Uncle Su is dead, and as soon as he heard about it, he knew that I had killed him. Then I happily confessed and told all the stories.

I remember that Master kept looking me in the eye as if he had seen me through, and said to me that you gave him a chance, claiming that it was a chance not to kill him. On the contrary, you know very well in your heart that you are giving yourself a chance to kill him, depending on what he will choose. ”

Ding Qi nodded slightly and said, "His old man really saw through it." ”

Zhu Shanxian also nodded and sighed: "Yes, knowing a son is like a father, and a master and apprentice are like a father and son, his old man really sees me through, and he sees myself more clearly than myself." ”

Shang Ni muttered: "Actually, you don't need him to be an old man, if you change to someone like Teacher Ding, you can see through it at a glance, what do you think Teacher Ding did before?"

Zhuang Mengzhou glared and said, "Xiao Nizi, don't talk if you can't speak!"

Why do you say that? Because Zhu Shanxian wanted to kill Sixth Uncle Su at all, but from his standpoint, it was not good to do it directly. Strictly speaking, Uncle Su Liu's crime was attempted, and before he could destroy the brake pipe, he let Zhu Shanxian stop drinking.

This kind of thing, even if the police deal with it, it's a headache, it's all the villagers, and the thing hasn't really been done, so it's probably just a matter of receiving criticism and education with a thin mud. But on the other hand, the existence of such people and the appearance of such behaviors are really terrible.

Uncle Su begged him not to tell him about it, but Zhu Shanxian did not agree, claiming that he would make it public at the banquet. Zhu Shanxian saw the truth very clearly, he was not qualified to forgive Uncle Su, let alone have a position to protect him. If you want to forgive, it's also a matter for his sister and brother-in-law.

People like Uncle Su Liu have not changed because of Zhu Shanxian's few lessons. If such a thing is done without punishment, it will only worsen. He can kill because he is worried that his sister and brother-in-law will let him pay back the money, and he will also kill because he is worried that Zhu Shan will shake out his ugly things.

Publicizing it and letting innocent people know the truth and beware of it is what Zhu Shanxian should do. But Zhu Shanxian also knew very well that Uncle Su would not choose that. Master was right, Zhu Shanxian said those words and then turned around, just wanting to kill this person!

But with another person, I'm afraid it's hard to handle it so cleanly.

Ye Yanxing also whispered: "Uncle Zhu, in fact, I still want to ask another question. When you first cultivated the Juemen Wangqi Technique, it seems that you haven't started yet, or you have just started, is it already so powerful? What that person wants to do, you can see it in advance, and even see the actions and scenes?"

Zhu Shan smiled idly: "That's a good question, I also asked Master, what was going on at that time? Master told me that my Juemen Wangqi Technique has been introduced." ”

Ye Yanxing asked, "Is it so exaggerated when the Juemen Wangqi Technique has just started?"

Zhu Shanxian shook his head again and said: "No, no, no, of course it's not that exaggerated, the master said that it was just an instantaneous spirit induction." Some people have a state of trance and enlightenment when they are just starting to cultivate secret arts, as if they have met the realm of the future, which is an indescribable feeling, just like blessing to the soul, and it also means that I have the wisdom root to cultivate the art of looking at qi.

It was just a moment of drunkenness, but I already knew that I could reach that state by cultivating the Qi Hope Technique. It's just a shame that until now, I haven't been able to do that, although I can look at people's feelings and judge a lot of things, and of course the experience in the rivers and lakes is much more sophisticated than at the beginning. ”

Meng Huiyu couldn't help but speak: "What about later?"

Zhu Shanxian: "From this day on, the master told me what the Juemen Wangqi Technique was, and said that his identity was the descendant of the Jianghu Juemen, and officially accepted me as a disciple. I asked Master if I had done the right thing, and Master said that I had done it right, and solemnly told me that no matter where I am, I must first be a good person, then a smart person, and finally an upright person. ”

Meng Hui said: "Can Uncle Shi explain it in detail?"

Zhu Shanxian pointed at Ding Qi and said, "You should ask your master, he is our Teacher Ding." ”

Seeing the eyes of several disciples, Ding Qi smiled, these three questions are not easy to explain clearly. But recently, he didn't have much time to instruct his disciples, and it was a rare opportunity for everyone from Fangwai Sect to come so together today.

Ding Qi couldn't help but think of last year, when he had an exchange with Officer Li Qinghua, talking about similar issues, but he hadn't talked about these with a few disciples, and now it seems necessary to make up for it.

At that time, he stood as a psychological researcher and told the famous story of "Heinz stealing medicine", and the American psychologist Kohlberg divided the moral level into three levels and six stages, each of which contained two stages. Note: See Chapter 115 of this book for details

The first level is the pre-customary level, where people choose their actions through consequences, rather than moral standards and legal norms. For example, the sixth uncle Su, the consequence he wanted to kill was that he didn't have to pay back, so he chose to kill.

In his cognition, he could also anticipate other consequences of killing, so he tried his best to avoid possible punishment and chose to quietly destroy the brake pipe. After his behavior was exposed, he did it to Zhu Shan based on the same motive.

However, it should be pointed out that when people choose behaviors based only on the consequences they want, the consequences they really get are often not what they want, and even in a broad sense, in most cases, they are not.

The second level is the customary level, where people choose their behaviors according to moral standards and legal norms, and the two stages are from passive compliance to active maintenance.

The third level is the post-customary level, where an individual's morality transcends the moral standards and legal norms of society, and can recognize the value orientations contained in these moral standards and social norms, the interests and rights of the public in the society they represent, and even know the logical sources of these standards, and know whether it is reasonable under what circumstances.

This kind of person is very clear about what he is doing, and he is also clearly aware of what the value conflict contained in society is, so as to make a choice, which is also the only way to self-realization.

These divisions are only from the perspective of developmental psychology, Ding Qi only made a brief introduction, and he also needs to explain the three sentences of Zhu Shanxian's master from another angle: first be a good person, and then be a smart person, in order to be an upright person.

How to define a good person is difficult and simple, but it is not complicated in Zhu Shanxian's story, Zhu Shanxian is a good person, and he is also a smart person and an upright person.

When people learn to think, they must first have the most simple cognition of kindness, have a normal mind and thus have empathy. Many perverted criminals often have a lack of understanding in this aspect.

For example, if people can kill at will, everyone can be killed. People themselves don't want to be killed? Of course not! So you can't kill people at will, and you should stop and punish them at will. This is the simplest form of empathy, the inevitable result of intellectual reflection, the original source of moral standards and legal norms, and the core of the values contained in all moral principles.

It is also the simplest definition of a good person, an abstract standard. People make mistakes, but they can define the self in a certain period of time and a certain behavior.

Then the so-called smart person is able to see the essence clearly, not only the essence of moral standards and legal norms, but also the essence of the value conflict contained in various behaviors, and know what others are doing, what they should do and what they can do. Being smart is also an abstract criterion, because people inevitably get confused sometimes.

Zhu Shanxian is a good person, and the reason why he killed Uncle Su was based on the most simple kindness in his heart, so he made a choice in the conflict of values.

If Zhu Shanxian found out about this kind of thing and neither stopped nor tried to make Uncle Su Liu punished, it means that he either lacks conscience or courage. The reason why Zhu Shanxian stopped on the spot and was not afraid of putting himself in a dangerous situation was based on his confidence in his skills, and he had a clear judgment of Uncle Su's motives, behavior, and his own situation.

But in another case, if Zhu Shanxian is an ordinary person who does not know kung fu, and I am afraid that he is not the opponent of a thug with a pair of pliers, what should he do? In fact, Zhu Shanxian can also take another approach, not to stop drinking on the spot, but to return to the banquet to remind Uncle Su's sister and brother-in-law, and also tell everyone about this matter.

The value choice of these two approaches is the same, but the way they are taken is different, and if you can take a more appropriate way according to the actual situation, you are a smart person.

Forgiveness and kindness are also virtues, but they are often misunderstood, depending on what values we uphold. Uncle Su tried to get Zhu Shanxian's forgiveness, but Zhu Shanxian was not qualified to forgive him.

Only the victim is eligible to forgive the perpetrator, and they are also entitled to choose not to forgive. And whether they are forgiven or not, people have to bear the consequences of their words and actions.

In fact, Zhu Shanxian has given the greatest mercy, he stopped Uncle Su Liu's behavior, not only saving Uncle Su Liu's sister and brother-in-law, but actually saving Uncle Su himself. It's a pity that Sixth Uncle Su didn't realize this at all and continued to make a vicious choice.

If Zhu Shanxian let Su Liushu's behavior go unpunished, it would not be merciful, because he made another choice in the conflict of values.

Many people think they have a conscience in their hearts, but in fact they act in a different way, not only failing to uphold their conscience, but also excusing themselves with mercy or forgiveness, which is precisely contrary to true conscience. The choices made in the conflict of values reflect what kind of person he or she is.

So what does it mean to be an upright person? Many people also have some misunderstandings about integrity, and the straightforwardness of the heart is not integrity, and the reckless character is not integrity, and the so-called knife mouth and tofu heart are not integrity. There is a saying in the Book of Changes that says it thoroughly: "Respect is straight inside, righteousness is outside." ”

Integrity is not superficial uprightness, first of all, the heart is right, and being able to make a choice that does not violate conscience in the conflict of values is to be straight. Honest people need to think more, like Zhu Shanxian stopping Uncle Su Liu, he may think about what to do, but he won't think about whether to do it or not.

There is a saying that the human heart is unpredictable, in fact, from the perspective of psychology, cognitive models and behavioral patterns can be analyzed, and on this basis, it can be measured and predicted, at least from a statistical point of view. So when Shennongjia was ambushed, Ding Qi was angry but not surprised, if he hadn't measured it earlier, how could he be fully prepared?

Ding Qi didn't use his thoughts, he just told the story, and he felt as if he was back in the classroom again, and then he asked a very interesting and ancient question, but I always can't get around, who am I?

When someone makes a certain kind of words or deeds, they often say, "I am such a person!" In fact, what kind of person you are, the question is not important, the real meaning is, why am I who I am?

When we say that Zhang San and Li Si are different, the real meaning is that in a certain situation, Zhang San and Li Si will make different choices, and they will inevitably make different choices. This represents who you are and why I am who I am, which is the source of the meaning of "me" and the concept of existence.

If everyone in the world is the same face, or the same furnace ding, then what is the real difference, why do I think I am Ding Qi's cultivation of the Outer Secret Method has reached the peak of the furnace peak realm, and if you want to go further, this is the way to cultivate, because the inner speculative system of the Outer Secret Method lies in directly pointing to the mind.

Ding Qi also mentions the ten rules of the Fangwai Gate: see Chapter 127 of this book for details. The door rules were formulated by Ding Qi, and the elders who founded Fang Waimen unanimously recognized that it represents Ding Qi's values and is also in line with the choices made by everyone. When you see it, you know what kind of person Ding Qi is, and what kind of people are the people who set up Fang Waimen.

The disciples who have joined the Fangwai Sect now must not only abide by and maintain it, but also understand why there are such rules. But for Ding Qi, he doesn't need to deliberately think about the content of the door rules, which is already the inevitability of his words and deeds.

Ding Qi spoke for almost forty-five minutes, which happened to be the time of one class, and finally said: "Senior Brother Cui just sounded the exclamation of the ancients, people are beasts, animals are animals, and animals are people?

With so many people sitting around, the last thing he asked was a sparrow. And Xiaoxiao stood on Xian Hao's shoulder and nodded very seriously, and everyone laughed.

Seeing that several junior disciples were also nodding their heads, and showing a thoughtful look, Zhuang Mengzhou said with a smile: "If you say that you understand, you may not really understand, in this case, let me ask a small question, and a few of you children will answer it." ”

Bi Xuecheng preemptively said: "Mr. Zhuang, you ask!"

Zhuang Mengzhou: "If you are a girl and live in a girls' dormitory, there is a female classmate in your dormitory, who is beautiful and gentle, very capable, and kind-hearted......"

Bi Xuecheng: "What do you mean, you just want to compare me?"

Shang Ni: "Xiao Bi, don't interrupt, listen to Mr. Zhuang." ”

Zhuang Mengzhou said unhurriedly: "If there is a boy in your school who likes this girl and is pursuing this girl, but this girl doesn't like him, he has already rejected this boy very seriously."

One day, you were all in the dormitory, and this boy came again with a big handful of roses, stood downstairs and confessed loudly to the girl, and took out a knife to himself, claiming that if the girl didn't accept it, he would die there on the spot......"

Bi Xuecheng: "But I'm not a girl, and I've never encountered this kind of thing." ”

Ding Qi: "Let's assume you are, let's say you meet!"

Zhuang Mengzhou: "The question is very simple, you are standing next to that girl, that girl is very flustered, how will you persuade her, or what will you do? Teacher Ding just said so much, if you really understand, then give an answer." ”