Chapter 870: Idealism

After the girl came back, she was aggrieved, saying that he was inconsiderate and stingy, and in short, she didn't say a word about the merits.

When Chen's mother's little sister was relaying the words of the girl, Chen's mother felt embarrassed when she heard it. She knew that Chen Xinghan had this problem, and she was a little picky, but she didn't expect to pick the door to this point.

Why are you embarrassed to invite someone to drink a cup of milk tea? No matter how much you invite someone to have a meal or a hot pot barbecue or something?

She was about to boast about him as a flower in front of her little sister, but he ended up in such a situation.

Chen Xinghan was dissatisfied, "Don't talk about this, are people who work in banks so realistic? ”

Chen's mother was stunned, her little sister didn't say it, but Chen's mother still had a reason: "It's normal for girls to ask these questions, if you don't have a house, a car, no income, and you are not self-motivated, who will look down on you?"

Chen Xinghan pouted: "I'm not saying that I can't ask this, but it's the first time I ask this, isn't it bad? ”

"What is the blind date when you ask what these are? Feelings, when you fall in love with others, do you still look at the economic conditions? If the economic conditions are not good, don't talk about it? So does she like my money or my people?"

The more Chen Xinghan talked, the more he felt that he was reasonable, in his opinion, the real emotion is that you are not because of my external conditions, but just because of me.

Besides, he also envied Sheng Qiwu and Yan Zheng, both of whom were able to find each other's soul mates, perhaps because of the fact that there were young people in front of them, Chen Xinghan didn't look down on these blind dates.

Blind date, to put it bluntly, both men and women put out their own conditions, the conditions are quite equal, and if one of the conditions is not met, then hurry up and continue to look for the next one.

Chen Xinghan feels that the blind date model is no longer a test of the emotional foundation of men and women, but the basis for considering reality. In other words, reality is already ahead of feelings.

This is something that Chen Xinghan absolutely can't accept, besides, after being single for more than 20 years, how good it is to be free and easy, if there is someone who manages him all day long, Chen Xinghan feels that he is going crazy.

Chen's mother pondered Chen Xinghan's words and felt that there was some truth, but she was persuaded by him that it was not Chen's mother. She raised her eyebrows: "I don't want to urge you to go on a blind date, but have you taken the initiative to meet the girls outside?"

"Since you reject blind dates, it's okay, our family is also democratic, you don't want to do what you don't want to do, but you won't go out to find a partner?

"Look at you, every day and every month, you are weak like a white chicken, you can't lift your hands and shoulders, which girl will take the initiative to know you, and you won't take the initiative to attack?"

When Chen's mother trained Chen Xinghan, the words were one after another, and Chen Xinghan lay on his back on the sofa: "Mom, are you still my own mother?

"Besides, I don't have anything else to do, either writing code or doing programs, and I also have serious things to do. Besides," Chen Xinghan put down his arm and smiled: "Don't look at my house, I still haven't fallen behind in the exercise I should have, I don't believe you ask Comrade Lao Chen, Comrade Chen is not my opponent now." ”

He looked at Dad Chen, who was watching the play, don't think he didn't see the corners of his father's upturned mouth hidden behind the teacup, Ya is gloating.

Hearing this, Chen's mother cast her suspicious eyes on Chen's father, and Chen's father put down the teacup and nodded helplessly: "That's right, this kid doesn't know what medicine he took after the year, he is fierce, and he also knows that he has gone out to exercise, and his body and bones are much better than before." ”

Chen Xinghan pouted, he was really fed up with others saying that he was weak. When he first went to Qingshui Village, Dr. Xu said that he was weak, but Chen Xinghan was frightened. He was still young and frail, how could he get it in the future?

So after conditioning his body, Chen Xinghan also began to consciously exercise, which is to prevent himself from entering the ranks of premature aging. Father Chen didn't say anything else, but he was quite satisfied with Chen Xinghan.

Seeing that Chen's mother was taken astray, Grandma Chen coughed, and Chen Xinghan immediately sat upright. His family is Grandma Chen's final say, and whether he can pass the test smoothly today depends on what Grandma Chen says.

Grandma Chen glanced at her most proud grandson, of course, she only has one grandson like Chen Xinghan at present. She cleared her throat: "It's the end of November now, the Spring Festival at the latest, Xinghan, if you can't bring back my granddaughter-in-law during the Spring Festival, you won't come back for the New Year this year, so I won't be upset." ”

Chen Xinghan suddenly looked like a frosted eggplant, wilting. He leaned his back and tried to make a final struggle: "Grandma, the Spring Festival is less than three months away, do you want to extend the deadline a little longer?"

Grandma Chen smiled: "The period I gave you before is long enough, after all, the previous 28 years have been given to you, my words are put here, there is no need to discuss." ”

Chen Xinghan knew that the old lady was really coming now, and he agreed weakly: "Okay, I'll go out tomorrow to find it, but if I really can't find a suitable one, what should I do?"

"As long as you get rid of your little picks and gossip, where will there be girls who can't look down on you?" Chen's mother spoke, and Chen Xinghan pouted: "Anyway, I will never accept girls who only like my money." ”

Chen's mother was puzzled: "But your money is also earned by yourself, and it is also part of your ability, you are too open to divide the land like this, is it too demanding?"

Chen's mother also knows the reality of people nowadays, but your economic level itself reflects your ability, since it is your ability, why do you want to bring it out alone? Is it too important to pay too much attention to this?

Chen Xinghan was stubborn: "Anyway, I just want to find someone, she doesn't see my money first, but the person who sees me first, and thinks that I am a high-performing stock, safe and reliable, I will associate with her, and I won't consider the rest." ”

Dad Chen: "Then some of you have to wait, I think you may not be able to wait for three or five years." ”

As soon as he said this, Grandma Chen, Grandpa Chen, and Mother Chen all glared at him, did you talk like that? What if this kid can't find a partner by then, so he depends on you?

Father Chen shrunk his neck, but still said confidently: "I think your idea is immature and idealistic. ”