Chapter 871: Idealization
"Where am I idealized? Is it better to find someone who only values my money?"
Chen Xinghan felt that there was nothing wrong with his thoughts, and he didn't understand why Chen's father would say that he was an idealist. Originally, is it wrong to find someone who truly loves you?
Chen's father methodically broke it out and told him: "You are 28 years old this year, what kind of things should men have at what age, this reflects your own ability." ”
"If you are a recent graduate now, then the girl asks you about the garage on a blind date, which means that she values your family background more, because how many of the newly graduated boys can really rely on their own ability to buy a car and a house, and most of them are not relying on their families?"
"When you reach the age of twenty-seven or eighteen, you have a certain amount of work experience, you have social experience, then there are some things you should also have, such as a car, or a down payment on a house. ”
Dad Chen still has a lot of things to say, "When you reach the age of 35, at least your mortgage must be paid off, right? In short, when a person reaches a certain age, he should have something." ”
"I don't think it's wrong for girls to ask you these questions when they go on a blind date, really cultivated girls won't ask directly, but through your speech and demeanor, it's just that the blind date you meet may be too straightforward. ”
"That is, these things outside the body reflect your abilities, they are all part of you, you don't need to deny them, after all, being able to make money is also an advantage, especially the money earned through your own efforts. ”
Chen's mother is also brainwashing Chen Xinghan, she doesn't understand why Chen Xinghan thinks so, today she said that she would break Chen Xinghan over.
Chen Xinghan saw that this topic was going to continue, and was busy playing the emotional card: "Mom, do you have anything to eat? I'm going to starve to death, so I ate a loaf of bread in the department at noon." ”
He is purely nonsense, now the company's food is very good, every day is a variety of medicinal food in turn, so that the entire company's employees are full of red faces.
If he hadn't said that, he wouldn't know how long his grandparents would have been talking about it.
Grandma Chen felt sorry for her grandson, and hurriedly stood up: "Okay, hurry up and eat, Xinghan has had the right idea since he was a child, and he also knows about his life events, I don't believe that he is not envious when he sees Qiwu Jingyu and Yan Zheng?"
Chen Xinghan wailed: "Of course I envy, but is envy useful? Why didn't I meet someone else? Don't you see that I have a small fire, I think the animals of the Luo Tong family seem to have magical powers, can I take off the list and point to the small fire." ”
As soon as he said this, even Grandpa Chen was curious, and he stopped: "What do you say? You expect Xiaohuo to help you get off the list? What can it help?"
Chen Xinghan quickly served a bowl of soup to his grandmother, and got a relieved look from Grandma Chen, and he didn't forget to answer Grandpa Chen's words: "You don't know, the reason why Sheng Qiwu and Luo Tong know each other is because of the cat that Luo Tong raised." ”
"Yan Zheng and Chu Ci know each other because of the orange cat dumplings raised by Yan Zheng, and the dumplings are the descendants of the orange cats raised by Luo Tong, and I am now counting on the small fire in Luo Tong's house to help me get rid of the single. ”
"And this?" Grandma Chen was also interested, she frowned: "That's not right, since it's so godly, why don't you keep a cat?" Of course, Xiaohuo is also very good. ”
"How can I say that? Compared to cats, I still prefer dogs, especially our Xiaohuo, who is very beautiful and beautiful. Chen Xinghan touched Xiaohuo's ears and wagged Xiaohuo's tail in exchange.
"Then what if Xiaohuo doesn't work? You put all your hopes on Xiaohuo?" Chen's mother put down her chopsticks, and Ou was a little worried.
"How can I say this, it's a psychological comfort, really pinning my hope on others, it's very unreliable, and it would be great if Xiaohuo worked. ”
Chen Xinghan didn't raise his head when he ate, he didn't want to raise a dog with the intention of asking the dog to help him find a partner, but he really liked dogs.
"That's good, you just have to know it yourself. ”
Here, Chen Xinghan finally escaped, but the price was that he had to bring back a girlfriend during the Spring Festival. Seeing that his family was in such a hurry, Chen Xinghan thought about whether he would rent a girlfriend and go home for the New Year?
But after thinking of the consequences of being discovered by Chen's father and Grandpa Chen, Chen Xinghan dispelled this idea again, his father and grandfather really started a fire It was quite terrifying, and he didn't dare to brush the tiger's whiskers.
Chang Zheng's house is another scene, his family is very democratic, although Chang's father was stimulated by Jing's father in the afternoon, that is, when he came back, he complained to Chang's mother.
They also know that Chang Zheng is usually in the army, if he really finds a girlfriend, he will get together less and leave more, so they simply don't urge him now, and when Chang Zheng has a few years and the mission is not so ordinary, they will let Chang Zheng solve the major events in his life.
So when Chang Zheng took Momo home, Chang's father and Chang's mother were happy, and they didn't urge marriage before Chang Zheng met at all.
They also know that urging Chang Zheng to find a girlfriend now is easy to distract him, so they simply let him concentrate on his future first, and then he will have a girlfriend.
Haven't I heard a saying that if you are in full bloom, butterflies will come? The key is your own conditions, enrich yourself, what kind of girl will not have in the future?
Chang's father and Chang's mother are another way, they are anxious in their hearts, but they never put any pressure on Chang Zheng, so Chang Zheng is also willing to run home as soon as the army is on vacation.
Because there is no fancy marriage urging at home, it all depends on his willingness. But Chang Zheng is not without feelings, every time his parents look at the children in the courtyard with envious eyes, Chang Zheng thinks that after he retires next year, he will put the matter of finding a girlfriend on the agenda?
He didn't resist looking for a girlfriend, maybe because he was the youngest of the five, and he had been in the army for many years, and he usually came into contact with the opposite sex, so Chang Zheng was still a little unenlightened.
But seeing that the brothers above are all in pairs, Chang Zheng sometimes looks a little envious. Single dogs have no human rights, every party is all-you-can-eat dog food, and when they come back, they can only hold Momo by themselves, which is quite sad to say.
It just so happens that next year is the tenth year after he enlisted in the army, and he always goes out on missions, and Chang Zheng is also a little tired, he has already reported a few days ago and applied for a change of job.