As the saying goes, although a woman is weak as a mother, she is strong, and the pain of childbirth is certainly uncomfortable, but the greatness of motherhood will not make a woman choose to die regardless of her child, and after careful analysis, I personally think that it may be that the mother knelt down and begged her husband and mother-in-law when she was in such pain, but the mother-in-law still ignored the feelings of the mother, and her mother did not react when she was so helpless, which was the last straw that crushed the mother. ”

You can imagine that when she needs the help and understanding of her relatives in such pain, what she feels is that her loved ones are so ruthless, and she wants to take revenge! She wants to make those so-called relatives regret it! In the face of the ruthlessness of her relatives, her spirit is almost broken at this moment, and she has done something that makes her relatives painful and outsiders regret. This is definitely a tragedy that can be artificially avoided!"

"Mr. Wang, please express your opinion!"

"Yes, Mr. Wang thinks it is the responsibility of the hospital or the family?"

"Mr. Wang, "The Voice of Justice" should not only describe the incident, but also have the voice of justice come out, right?"

"Her husband and in-laws should be punished!

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"After a detailed understanding of the Voice of Justice, I personally believe that there are four aspects of this matter that should be held responsible. Wang Qian appeared after a large number of barrages from netizens and interacted with netizens.

"The four parties are all responsible? Which four parties? The hospital, the family, and the two parties? Teacher Wang's views are really different!" netizens continued to barrage.

"There is no doubt that the main responsibility lies with the man's family, according to the analysis of netizens, the man's family has two motives, one is unwilling to bear the cost of caesarean section, but the man has strongly denied this;

"Regardless of the motives of the man's family, there is no doubt that the main responsibility for the suicide of the mother by jumping off the building lies with the man's family, who refused to kneel down three times and asked for a caesarean section, which is the main reason for the suicide of the mother. Some netizens have announced the details of their family, asking all women to keep their eyes open, and never marry into this family in the future, in addition, "The Voice of Justice" will also punish them as they deserve, so that their whole family can bear the pain of the mother before jumping off the building every day, and fully understand the despair of the deceased mother at that time. ”

"The Voice of Justice does what it says, and if you do evil, you have to pay the due price, even if you can escape the punishment of the law, you can't escape the punishment of the Voice of Justice!"

"Although our people have repeatedly questioned the hospital, from a fair standpoint, this matter is mainly caused by family conflicts, and it really has nothing to do with the hospital, and the only relationship that can be related is that the mother died in the hospital. After the incident, the hospital quickly released all the surveillance videos and related materials, which is very different from the previous doctor-patient disputes, which is also a kind of progress in the medical system!"

"I said that there are four parties responsible for this matter, and two other parties cannot get rid of the responsibility. ”

"I would like to say that the mother herself and the mother's family are also responsible for this matter, which is hardly seen in the comments of netizens. ”

"Why?"

"In China, more than 20,000 babies are born every day, but because of family conflicts, there are almost no cases of women jumping off buildings to commit suicide before they go into labor. ”

"Every day, more than 20,000 mothers are experiencing the pain of childbirth, and there are all kinds of family conflicts, some of which may be greater than this family, but not every mother will choose such a drastic way to deal with family conflicts. ”

"What I want to say is that this woman who chose to commit suicide by jumping off a building because of pain and family conflicts, when she knelt down to her mother-in-law's family three times to beg for a caesarean section, she had more other options to achieve her goals, such as pretending to jump off the building in front of them, crying and making a fuss in the hospital to attract more people's attention, and arousing more people's help or condemnation, perhaps she could quickly achieve her goal. ”

But she chose to solve this matter by being angry and jumping off the building to solve this matter, which is the most stupid and irresponsible way to solve it. ”

"We can imagine that the mother jumped off the building to commit suicide because she was angry with her husband and in-laws, and after she jumped off the building to commit suicide, her husband and her in-laws will not suffer because of her departure, and they will even use this to blackmail the hospital. After her husband gets the money, he will find another woman to marry and have children, completely forgetting her to the clouds, and occasionally when he thinks of her, he may sigh a few words: The money I spend now is what the fool bought with his life!"

The mother wanted to take revenge on her husband and in-laws with her life, but she didn't achieve her goal at all, she just used her life to help them earn a lot of extra money to squander, and no one would be sad at all, and she might have scolded her for being a fool over and over again in her heart. ”

"Who is the person who is really sad? It is her family, it is the parents who have worked hard to raise her and have the grace to raise her, they have lost their beloved daughter in middle age, this blow is very fatal to them, you can imagine how painful they will be, and it is the mother who jumped off the building and committed suicide, even if they want to sue the in-laws, they can't find a way to get justice from the in-laws, and even have to quarrel with the mother-in-law's family for the pension given by the hospital to the mother-in-law. ”

"What did the mother do?

"Who is most responsible for a person's life? not others, but himself. ”

"The woman committed suicide by jumping off a building, not only not responsible for her own life, but also not responsible for the fetus in her womb, she had no right to end a life that was about to be born, she ended her own life irresponsibly and impulsively, and at the same time murdered another life that was about to be born. ”

"If a woman is disappointed in her husband and in-laws, she just leaves them and uses her life to punish them, not only does she fail to achieve her goal, but she is also extremely stupid!"

"Leaving your heartless husband and leaving this heartless in-law's family, in China, where the population ratio is seriously out of balance, there are high-quality bachelor men who can't marry a daughter-in-law and want to love their daughter-in-law, why hang themselves on a crooked-neck tree?"

"This choice of the mother has caused great mental pain and blow to her parents, but in this matter, her parents also have responsibilities that they cannot get rid of. ”

"The responsibilities of maternal parents are in two areas. ”

"One is that the child has not been educated about the necessary setbacks since she was a child, so that she can not be strong in the face of pain and other pains in life, we know that there are many people in this world who experience pain and life is extremely difficult, but not everyone is fragile enough to solve the problem by suicide. A child's ability to cope with setbacks and whether the child's character is strong are inseparable from the cultivation and education of parents from an early age. ”

"Another aspect of the responsibility of the mother's parents is that when the mother knelt down to the man's family three times to ask for a caesarean section, she has been standing not far away without any interference, if the woman's family can be tougher at this time, for the sake of their daughter, and resolutely ask the hospital for a caesarean section, the hospital is afraid of taking responsibility and will eventually agree to the woman's family's request, at this time the woman's own will and her family's signature can also allow the woman to achieve the purpose of caesarean section. ”

"One of the causes of tragedy is the failure of maternal parents to educate their children about the necessary frustrations, the children's personality is too fragile, and the failure to intervene in time after an accident occurs. ”

"It is the combination of the man's family, the woman's family and the mother herself that ultimately led to this tragedy. ”

"As I mentioned earlier, there are four reasons for this tragedy, and in addition to the man's family, the mother and the mother's family, the hospital, and these three parties, there is also the last party that is also responsible for this incident. ”

"This last party is our society, our country, which has the second largest GDP in the world, but its people are still not very wealthy. ”

"Why do you say that? Speaking of which, this news has sparked heated discussions from all angles, with some commenting on 'how painful it is to give birth to a child, which can make a woman jump from the upper floor', and some people asking, 'Why do families insist on choosing a smooth delivery?' These two questions are the most asked by netizens. ”

"Here I want to publish a data, although I have made a lot of comparisons between China and the United States in the "Voice of Justice" program, confirming that China is indeed much safer than the United States, but China is indeed much worse than the United States in many aspects, especially in terms of people's welfare. ”

"For example, in China, less than 1 percent of women are able to enjoy a 'painless delivery' during childbirth, while in the United States this figure is 61 percent, because in China's current public policy evaluation system, the improvement of women's comfort does not seem to be in this category. Therefore, the implementation of painless childbirth has become a 'not cost-effective' thing. ”

"For most Chinese women, 'painlessness' is often a rare thing that can be encountered but not sought. There is a shortage of anesthesiologists and the need for hospitals to increase investment, the reduced caesarean section rate has reduced hospital revenues, and the government has adopted a strategy of not approving or opposing and letting the technology speak for itself. ”

"At present, 'painless delivery' is usually regarded as a 'luxury' rather than a basic medical need in China, and only a few relatively affluent areas have included this technology in the scope of medical insurance by the local government, and in most areas, painless delivery has not even been included in the hospital's fee list, and there is no such option at all. ”

"The painless delivery in the obstetrics and gynecology hospital is better than that in the general hospital, because the anesthesiology department of the general hospital needs to undertake the surgical anesthesia tasks of each department, and it is difficult to allocate manpower and energy to the delivery room to do the labor analgesia work that does not seem so urgent. However, critically ill mothers in general hospitals need obstetric anesthesia to escort them. ”

"From the perspective of society as a whole, the greatest benefit of painless childbirth technology is to reduce the pain suffered by women during childbirth, rather than reducing mortality, especially compared with vaccines and infectious disease prevention and control. ”

"China has made remarkable achievements in reducing maternal mortality, and by 2012, China's maternal mortality rate was below 24.5 per 100,000. In China's current public policy evaluation system, the reduction of mortality rate is an important indicator, and there are data showing that anesthesiologists entering the delivery room can reduce maternal mortality, but under the current maternal mortality base, this reduction is not so obvious, and the improvement of women's comfort does not seem to be in this category. ”

"For hospitals, it needs to increase investment in delivery rooms and anesthesiologists, and it brings little to no output. As a result, labor analgesia becomes a cost-effective investment for individual hospitals. ”

"Childbirth causes severe pain in most mothers, and it is inhumane to experience such severe pain under the doctor's nose without giving analgesic treatment, which has been proven to be safe and effective. Whether a mother gives birth or not is painful reflects the degree of civilization of a society. Alleviating maternal suffering is a sign of respect for the individual and a reflection of a reproductive civilization. ”

"With the development of our country, I believe that sooner or later painless delivery and production costs will be included in the scope of medical insurance, after all, every Chinese woman is born to a Chinese person, is contributing to the future of China, is the foundation of Chinese civilization, the country should not ignore their suffering, should not be from the national level 'patriarchy'. ”

"At the end of this episode of "Voice of Justice", on behalf of Blizzard, I took out 10 billion yuan of charity funds to set up a 'maternity care fund', mainly to increase the hospital's investment in painless delivery. ”

"In order to prevent the Black Cross from turning these funds into luxury goods for certain women to show off, this 'maternity care fund' will be managed by Blizzard itself. ”

"With 10 billion yuan, it is definitely impossible to let every mother in Huaguo enjoy painless delivery, so we will sort and screen applicants. If the application is approved, the Maternity Care Fund will cover the full cost of a painless delivery, even the cost of childbirth. ”

"The first principle of our sorting and screening is that only mothers who give birth to girls can be reimbursed through our screening for the relevant expenses, the reason is very simple, the idea of preference for sons over women in our country is still very serious, resulting in a serious imbalance in the ratio of men and women, and the purpose of this principle is to try to correct the gender ratio in our country. ”

"In addition, first-born mothers are given priority, and common sense shows that the pain of the first birth is the most intense. ”

"The last principle, of course, is to look at the family conditions of the mother, and for women with particularly poor family conditions, when giving birth to a girl, we will support not only the cost of painless delivery, but even all the cost of childbirth. ”

"If the country can't do it, Blizzard is willing to do its part first!"

"I also ask the relevant departments to give Blizzard more room to survive, so that we have more funds to do more meaningful things. ”

"If you need our help, please scan the QR code at the bottom of the screen and our staff will follow up on each application. ”

"Thank you, I'm Wang Qian!"