"What's wrong with the hospital? This incident is clearly that the in-laws did not take the daughter-in-law's life seriously at all, and the husband and mother-in-law cruelly refused three times, which caused the extremely painful mother to have a nervous breakdown, and thus made irrational behavior. ”

"If you don't want to have a caesarean section, you must want to have a second child, right? Now many places can privately identify the sex of the fetus, and it is likely that they know that they are pregnant with a daughter, so they don't want to have a caesarean section, and the caesarean section will take three years before giving birth to a second child, and there is no need to wait so long for a natural birth. ”

"When I gave birth, I knew that the baby had a big head during the prenatal checkup, and the consequences were big after birth! The amniotic water broke for 24 hours without opening the fingers, the situation is very complicated, but my husband has been with me, did not leave for a moment, everything let me make my own decision, my husband also spent extra money to find a one-to-one midwife service and a separate delivery room, my own mother can also accompany the whole process, gave me a great sense of security, my doctors and midwives are very professional I trust them to insist on giving birth on their own, and it took 36 hours after the amniotic water broke to give birth to my son!"

"Although I had a massive postpartum hemorrhage, I didn't panic at that time, because my understanding of the medical level of the midwives who took care of me during the delivery process let me know that I would be fine!

"My experience and the experience of this mother give you some advice, first, trust your doctor and trust their professional judgment, second, don't save money at a critical time, money can't buy life, third, when giving birth to a child, your mother's family must make up your mind at a critical moment, fourth, find an assertive husband who loves you, especially when you have a strong mother-in-law. ”

"If you think about it carefully, it should be the responsibility of the hospital, first, people are in the delivery room, family members can't enter, the hospital has full responsibility for care, why suicide, maybe there is a factor of verbal stimulation by medical staff; second, what are you doing in the delivery room for more than ten hours? Third, the video outside can't explain the problem, it's hard to say whether it's kneeling for her husband and mother-in-law, maybe it's because the pain can't stand, I've also encountered a similar situation, and it's only convincing to publish the video footage of the suicide scene, otherwise it's all. Fourth, after going to the hospital, honest patients are generally doctors who tell them to do whatever they want, if you don't know a little common sense and a little defense ability and awareness, you can only be confused when you encounter some situations and scum and low-tech doctors and nurses. Ask for a third-party autopsy and an authoritative lawyer investigation plus authoritative media. I don't believe that the truth can't be revealed, and the public will be given a bright world, and the families and the deceased will be innocent!"

"Seeing the record of the mother's lack of cooperation reminds me of one thing: it is important for expectant mothers and fathers to attend antenatal training classes, especially for the first child. I had ten classes at the time, and about four of them were with my husband. From theories to simulated labor, it will tell you what to expect, how your body will change during childbirth, what to do with your doctor and how to deal with it. ”

"I was actually scared, but it will be much better when I understand it. What impressed me the most was what the midwife in the class said when he talked about the smooth delivery: When you are in pain, the baby is also in pain, and the squeeze he will be subjected to at birth is also very painful, maybe no less than you. Labor pains are the baby's struggle, he wants to come into this world. So when the pain comes, please cooperate and silently say, 'Mommy is ready to welcome you!' to encourage yourself!"

"When the baby rests between labor pains, you rest. It's a mom and baby collaboration. In this incident, I felt that the mother was not mentally prepared for the possible pain, and the previous day she was examined and said that the double parietal diameter was likely to be difficult to give birth, which caused her to be mentally stressed. The hospital was understaffed, unable to provide temporary psychological counseling, and without the support of her husband and family, so her spirit collapsed in an instant, and such a tragedy occurred, and it is strongly recommended that expectant mothers and fathers-to-be read the relevant books. ”

"This matter has nothing to do with the hospital! All the responsibility lies with the husband and mother-in-law! The woman has already knelt down, which shows two problems: first, she is in too much pain, she can't give birth, and she kneels and begs for a caesarean section, there is no doubt about this; second, she has no status at home, as a mother-in-law, they are all women, and they have all given birth to children, so they must be able to understand, but when the women are kneeling, she still refuses, why? Because she doesn't take her daughter-in-law seriously at all!"

"As a man, you can think about it, when your woman is in unbearable pain and kneels in front of you and asks you to sign a caesarean section, you don't feel a little distressed? Don't talk about it! I can't imagine how distressed my daughter-in-law would be if this is the case, so these two points can be concluded that the woman was killed by her mother-in-law and husband! It is estimated that she is usually angry at home, but this time she can't think about it, and she has been gone for a hundred years! It's a pity, everyone should stop blaming the hospital!"

"Girls, you have to keep your eyes open when you get married! It's best not to marry far away, and someone from your mother's family must be present when you give birth to a child! To put it mildly, you have no blood relationship with your mother-in-law's family, so don't hand over your life to others! The pain of a woman giving birth to a child is not understandable to men, and some people are more pain-tolerant, and some people are more sensitive, and it is really a blessing for a lifetime to meet a husband who feels sorry for you!"

"When I gave birth to my first child, my husband accompanied me alone in the hospital to give birth, he helped me walk in the corridor for two hours, encouraged me over and over again, the pain was so painful that I couldn't walk, just sit on the hospital bed added in the aisle, and then walk after the pain, if it wasn't for him, I guess I would have had a caesarean section! The first-born mother is afraid of giving birth, because she doesn't know the labor process, she has not experienced it, she has no psychological preparation, she is afraid, she is worried, and the pain is unbearable!"

"In addition, the pregnant woman knows that it is a huge baby, and it is not easy to give birth, and at this time the family members do not understand, and it is easy to collapse psychologically! Before entering the delivery room, the waiting room should actually be accompanied by family members! She can go to jump off the building, which shows how painful it is! Isn't there no pain in natural delivery now? It is a good choice for first-born mothers, because the first-born labor process is relatively long, hey, poor woman, sad!"

"I've also experienced this! My wife asked for a caesarean section back then, but my mother refused to let her live, and then my wife made a caesarean section by herself, which made my mother angry and angry for a lifetime, and my mother said that the melon should be born naturally! And my wife said that our family only cares about the unborn child, not her life or death! My wife said that she also holds a grudge for the rest of her life! Now that the children are in junior high school, neither of them cares about anyone!"

"The husband of the mother, as a man who talks nonsense with his eyes open! Look at the five-minute interview, there is not a trace of sadness and guilt in your eyes. Seeing his wife kneeling in front of him three times in pain, he was still indifferent. You are simply not human! What about a caesarean section, the child is not in good condition? As a mother, I feel sorry for your wife! She found a man who did not love her, and she harmed herself and the child in her womb! The hospital was at fault, and the fault was that it did not take good care of the pregnant woman. But the biggest mistake lies in this irresponsible man! The mother doesn't know how desperate she is to have the courage to jump with her baby ready to be born. Maybe the heart is dead at that moment! Go all the way, remember to find a husband who loves you in the next life!"

"If the hospital doesn't agree, won't you change hospitals? As a husband, if you really think about your wife, you would have changed hospitals long ago when you encountered such a hospital! I am a woman, I have given birth to two children, and the first child does hurt for a long, long time, and I want to die in the past, hit the bed with my hands, and roll, but I persevered, and my whole body trembled when I gave birth. However, there was a pregnant woman in the same ward who was not very smooth, the baby's umbilical cord fell out, and the amniotic fluid flowed a lot, the doctor wanted to have a caesarean section, and the family quarreled and scolded the pregnant woman at the door, and the pregnant woman was also begging them to agree to sign at that time, and she had been crying silently. ”

Later, the quarrel until the amniotic fluid was gone, the mother's family rushed over, the mother's family forcibly signed to let the pregnant woman into the delivery room, the man's family claimed that something went away, two hours later the baby was born, the doctor called the family at the door to hold the child, shouted at the door for a long time The man's family did not come to hug him, because they were all gone! Her husband was not there! Then the doctor took the child back to the delivery room, the mother came out after the operation, the man still did not come over, the pregnant woman has not cried, I know she is in pain, She was desperate, so she looked calm on the outside, but she was in such a state that I wouldn't be surprised if she jumped off the building. ”

"It's really heartbreaking to see this! My situation is similar to this mother's, Dabao was also born with a big head, and at that time, if I really had a knife for me, I would have wanted to die directly! Halfway through, I told the doctor that I was going to have an autopsy, it was too painful and too painful! But my mother-in-law, they didn't agree, anyway, if it wasn't the pain on them, who would care if you lived or died? When Erbao was born, he was bleeding heavily and almost died, and I asked my husband what would happen if I died?

"When I heard this, my heart was really chilled! Fortunately, my life was great, otherwise the ending might be like this! When the bones were still cold, I watched a group of brutes in the sky arguing over the issue of compensation! Who cares if you live or die? Who will understand your pain at that time? I hope that these brutes will not have a good life for the rest of their lives! But the fact may be that they are living happily with the compensation money!

"This mother is really stupid, no matter how she does, she has to keep her child, otherwise what about now? After a while of the in-laws' family will take the compensation, the limelight will pass, and the living conditions will improve, and after a while, everything will disappear, and there will be no more things about herself! Only the parents who raised her with hard work will be sad and reminiscent! I really feel so sad and sad when I see this news! Although I don't know each other, I feel the same way!"