Wen Zhimei began to think seriously about his marriage, what is it like?

Naturally, the answer was not found so quickly, and the first thing that came before the answer was the child's first birthday party.

The matter of the child's first birthday is a relatively important thing for the three families, but because of a little disagreement, Xiao Hai's performance made Wen Zhimei a little cold......

Before Wen Zhimei's thirty-first birthday, when she was sitting at home for dinner as usual, she said in a calm tone: "Xiao Hai, let's get a divorce." ”

Xiao Hai paused for a meal, and said, "Are you confused in your brains! Can you talk about divorce casually?"

After a while, Xiao Hai looked up at Wen Zhimei, who had a calm face, threw the chopsticks, slammed the door and left.

After three years of intentional exploration before marriage, and two years after marriage, Xiao Hai actually knows Wen Zhimei better, but he thinks that Wen Zhimei just has damn art cells, and always yearns for something unrealistic!

After that, it's noisy... It's noisy......

"There's no way I'm going to agree to a divorce!"

"Absolutely impossible, even if it's a separation!"

"Don't think about this possibility anymore, even if there is a lawsuit, I don't agree!"

“……”

A month or two after the involvement, on the day of Wen Zhimei's thirty-first birthday, the two went to the civil court.

"I thought about it carefully, once when I watched some TV dramas and said 'inappropriate', I always felt that the girls in them were hypocritical, but in fact, inappropriate is inappropriate, two people with completely different views are really difficult to live together. ”

Even if she faced the court on her birthday, Wen Zhimei was calm and her tone was not shocked, although in fact, she and Xiao Hai had been arguing for many days for the divorce.

Although, the day of the trial was the same day as his birthday.

Although, Wen Zhimei was exhausted and just wanted to get rid of it as soon as possible......

"Isn't this hypocritical? The life of two people is different from the love of two people, there will be firewood, rice, oil and salt, and there will be trivial things, do you have to make trouble to the point of divorce?" Xiao Hai's attitude was very resolute: "It is impossible for me to agree to divorce!"

"Xiao Hai, you know I didn't mean that, and besides, we really don't need to maintain it, you can find a better and more suitable one, not a literary woman like me, you don't like. Wen Zhimei's counterattack was peaceful.

Xiao Hai said categorically: "Impossible!"

"What's wrong, you can say it, me, we can all change it together, we've only been married for a few years?"

"And there is nothing wrong between us, every man will use some means when pursuing a girl, which is understandable, but it can't be said that the three views are inconsistent!"

"Just because you like music, I don't like it? Just because you like to go out and about, just because I don't want to go with you?"

"Yes, I don't want to, I have to support my family, I don't have anything to rely on, I have to keep succeeding, I can live better, you, and my children can live better. ”

"In addition, I made it clear that it was impossible for me to agree to the divorce, and even the division of property I did not agree to, and my mother was too old to accept such a blow. ”

"There's no way I'm going to accept the failure of my marriage!"

“……”

Xiao Hai said many, many, many words in one breath, and the central idea expressed was actually unaware of himself, and there was only one - refusing to accept failure.

Some of the words are just nonsense.

For example, in the division of property, Wen Zhimei just wants to get back what she deserves, and the real estate certificate has her Wen Zhimei's name on it, which is half of what she Wen Zhimei exchanged for real money, and she deserves it.

and the other part, child support, according to common sense, should be fought for.

Wen Zhimei was silent for a long time, looked at Xiao Hai, and said.

"You're right, just because I like music and I like to go out for a walk when I have nothing to do, you don't like it, just because I'm a literary and artistic duo!"

"I just don't like to live like you, I can't accept you like that!"

"Yes, you can use means to pursue a girl, but you can't pretend to be intentional in order to pursue a girl!"

Xiao Haihe sneered: "As long as I can successfully get you, what is a lie?"

"What's more, after I did this, did we enter the palace of marriage, and the rest...... Hehe, it's nothing more than an excuse for the losers!"

“……”

After listening to Xiao Hai's cold words quietly, Wen stopped his eyebrows and said quietly: "Actually, you don't like me, you just like the feeling of chasing me." ”

Yes, it took Wen Zhimei a marriage to get along before she figured out how Xiao Hai felt about her.

In layman's terms, this is that he moved himself, but he didn't find out what the truth was, how much Xiao Hai liked Wen Zhimei, not necessarily.

In fact, what Wen Zhumei felt that Xiao Hai liked was the process of successfully catching up with her Wen Zhumei and getting married, in order to make up for the calm rejection in her teenage years.

This kind of marriage is terrible, and it is unacceptable to Wen Zhimei, not a minute or a second.

Even if she never marries again in this life, she can't live like this, she is not a thing, she is a person, and she has thoughts.

And she is more and more afraid to live such a life, it is not terrible to refuse to fail, it is terrible to do things to refuse failure.

Hearing Wen Zhimei's words, Xiao Hai suddenly became hysterical.

"Even if that's the case, what's wrong with me? When I get married, I already have a result, and things that have a result don't need to put in too much effort. ”

"For example, if I pull a customer and sell all the cars to him, I won't spend too much energy on maintenance, which is a clear waste of resources, right?!"

"And, let me tell you, I know very well who I am, I, a man who crawled out of the countryside and struggled to see the mud on the soles of my shoes. ”

"All I wanted was those small successes, like, in high school, I knew that I could only study hard, so I loved playing basketball, and I turned down a basketball game invited by the sports commissioner. ”

"What do you say I'm wrong, I don't think about things that can't succeed at all, what I can pursue is something I'm sure of, I will work hard for a business that will definitely succeed, I will work hard to successfully grab a small business from an opponent, but I won't move those big orders. ”

"Because I know who I am, I'm just refusing myself to fail within the limits of intolerability!"

"I've worked hard for a long, long time to stand in front of you! I think this kind of dedication is enough!"

"Even so, I still put a lot of effort into getting you to accept me!

"Am I at fault?

“……”

Wen stopped his eyebrows and suddenly smiled: "You're right, I was wrong." ”

"I was wrong, I forgot about the high school life that you mentioned again and again and I still can't remember, at that time I obviously made the right choice, but I had to make a mistake later!"

"I was wrong, even if you appear by my side for a year, two or three years, I still can't raise any interest in you, I will agree to try with you. ”

"I was wrong, I knew that you and I had completely different ideas about things, and I would think that this was the hypocrisy of our girls. ”

"I was wrong, I didn't have any feelings for you, but I just gave you a chance!"

"I was wrong, I was afraid that I might not be able to conceive when I was old, and when I realized that it was wrong, I didn't dare to kill the child and decisively draw a line with you!"

"Xiao Hai, I've never liked you, not at all, because we're really different!"

“……”

Xiao Hai smiled and gritted his teeth and asked, "What's the difference?"

"Yes, no matter when, there are people around you, when you were in high school, you were very high, you didn't care too much about anything, and you can play the piano, a county town that is not very open, pianos are rare, you will!"

"Even rejecting a boy who shows his heart to you seems very casual and doesn't take it to heart!"

"Yes, for you, I, Xiao Hai, am just an ordinary high school classmate who forgets in the blink of an eye, but, Wen Zhimei, I got the opportunity to be with you through my own efforts and marry you. ”

"It's me! it's me, the result of hard work!" Xiao Hai said, pointing to his nose.

"You didn't just give it!"

"Now, I can still work hard and not let my marriage fail!

"Marriage, I won't divorce!"

"It's even more impossible to divide property! Even if you want to go out to live, even if you go to court with me once, twice, or three times, I still say this, impossible!"

"I, Xiao Hai, will never accept the failure of my marriage!"

"Don't think!"

“……”

From the calm at the beginning to the hysteria at the end, Xiao Haiming knew that it was actually an irreparable result, but he expressed his meaning simply and directly.

does not accept the failure of his marriage, whether there is a Wen stop in this marriage, everyone can see that Xiao Hai actually doesn't care so much.

He just wants things to be on the trajectory of success, even if they have failed where he can't see, he doesn't care that much, as long as he can't see it directly.

He, Xiao Hai, a rural person, has worked hard for so many years, and every time he carefully defines the boundary that can refuse failure, he never dares to cross it, and marriage is the same, so how can he accept it!

In the end, Wen stopped frowning and took another step: "I don't want child support." ”

“……”

From 9 a.m. to 11:45 p.m., before the court adjourned, the judge pronounced the dissolution of the marriage......

In the end, Xiao Hai himself was in a mess, and there was no evidence that he was responsible for this marriage, especially when he crashed into the court during a fierce period.

Wen Zhimei attacked his marriage very calmly and hideously, and came up with some evidence to show that Xiao Hai was not responsible for his marriage, especially Wen Zhimei's lawsuits were legal and even concessional, and he did not want to leave the house like in the TV series.

Moreover, the judges and even Xiao Hai's lawyer saw that Xiao Hai was actually only refusing to fail, not rejecting the divorce itself......

When he came out of the court, Wen Zhimei waited for Xiao Hai and said quietly:

"I'm also a failure, the two of us will have children who will grow up in a single-parent family like me, which is very different from the life I envisioned, and it is also the future that I have always wanted to refuse. ”

Xiao Hai looked at the hot sun hanging in the sky: "Heh, is it?"

"I just want to get a little bit, is it that hard......"

Wen stopped frowning and smiled: "Today is my birthday......

As she spoke, she walked down the stairs, and her girlfriends were waiting for her at the bottom of the steps......

……

At the end of the experience, guests are requested to take off their immersive helmets and leave the experience room in an orderly manner. ”

"Thank you very much for your patronage. ”

Yu Jiacheng took off his helmet, and it took two minutes to bring himself back to his senses, get up and leave the experience room, and walked to the old opposite: "Store manager, you have something here, this product is very good, and the experience process is also very good." ”

"The 40,000 yuan is probably the most worthwhile time I've ever spent. ”

"The name "Refuse to Fail"? is a bit interesting, the name of the protagonist also has something, there are a lot of meanings to be expressed in this product, but it is a bit general, if you really refuse to fail, then what is left?"

"The three views don't agree, and it's very difficult to even be friends......"

"People just don't want to wake up, there is a good saying, you can never wake up a person who pretends to be asleep......"

Yu Jiacheng sighed a lot, and he didn't say anything.

"Store manager, you're too serious, you don't mean anything at all, you can't even make a joke, alas, no one can share this great relief with me, it's too boring!"

"Let's go, I'll come back and see. ”

"Thank you!"

Yu Jiawei had a lot to say, but he didn't answer all the time, and he had no choice but to leave when he was bored.

Looking at Yu Jiacheng's back, he scratched his head a little.

"I can't see anything, I just feel very strange, it's obviously Wen Zhumei's memory source, but the protagonist seems to be Xiao Hai, and because of my text editing ability, the show is not so good, in summary, it's just a disagreement, how can it be a big relief?"

I really can't figure it out, and he doesn't feel much from "Refuse to Fail".

After that there were no guests all night, and nothing else happened, except ......

After the closure of business, it was old enough to walk back to CUHK......

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