Chapter 36: Refusal to Fail

"Stop your eyebrows, how about coming back to my house with me?"

Three months later, Xiao Hai came up with his idea, "I think it's time to take you to meet my mother." ”

In the three months that he tried to get along, Xiao Hai followed Wen Zhimei to see the scenery, art, or the future.

After hearing Xiao Hai's words, Wen Zhimei fell silent, and replied seriously after a while: "Give me a little time to think about it." ”

Xiao Hai smiled and nodded, unhurried.

As a salesman, when he encountered this situation, it was obvious that things had entered his rhythm, calm down, and wait for the receipt.

Xiao Hai turned around and left in a dashing manner, and at that moment, he moved himself.

After Wen Zhimei went back, he had in-depth communication with his girlfriends, and this kind of girlfriend who can walk with her regardless of wind and rain will give her certain opinions and will not make decisions for her.

In the state of the bystander, he is indeed more satisfied with Xiao Hai, who has not yet met.

After that, Wen stopped thinking about it for three days, and finally decided to go along.

It's time to settle down.

Although at this time, Wen Zhimei still couldn't tell how she felt about Xiao Hai, whether she liked it a little bit, and whether she was a little excited.

But from a normal point of view, she doesn't want to miss such a good man in the popular sense, although he is not rich and expensive in his career, he has more than enough food and clothing, and he is self-motivated, and he knows how to live a cold and a hot life.

Wen Zhimei is not a person whose heart is higher than the sky, and such a man can be regarded as what she has always been looking for.

Although there are always some small details that don't fit well, Wen stopped his eyebrows and comforted himself, how can it be so easy to find a perfect soul? At least now it's not a good one, it's a 'very good' encounter.

The first love in college was not as 'good' as it is now.

……

"Stop frowning, marry me......"

In a specially arranged sea of flowers in the countryside, Xiao Hai held flowers in his hand and knelt down on one knee to propose to Wen Zhimei, with the quiet and industrial night in the countryside, and the clean starry sky, there is a different romance.

To be honest, Wen Zhimei was moved for a moment, and after a heartbeat, she was an ordinary woman who agreed to Xiao Hai's marriage proposal.

In addition, in the two days that Wen Zhimei followed Xiao Hai in the countryside, he felt more of Xiao Hai's life, and some of the same touches as the two of them-

A parent divorced with his mother, and a father died with his mother.

All are single parents.

In a way, sympathy.

From meeting Xiao Hai in another city to agreeing to Xiao Hai's marriage proposal, three years have passed in between, and with the age of the two of them, it is really not short.

Especially at present, the pace of life is getting faster and faster, and even the blind date is to the extent that as long as you like me today, you can go to get a certificate tomorrow......

"I'm pregnant?!"

Soon after returning to the city, Wen finally discovered this astonishing fact, and the first feeling was apprehension and trepidation, and then joy mixed with unease.

When she told Xiao Hai the news, Xiao Hai's excitement, joy, and excitement made her feel a sense of security for a short time.

Now that he has accepted Xiao Hai's marriage proposal and things have developed to this point, Wen Zhimei feels that there is nothing to worry about, he can't beat the child, and continue to wait, some things are what you and I want to happen......

Go through the marriage process and tie the knot before the child is born.

Xiao Hai has no opinion at all, Xiao Hai's mother has no opinion, and her mother on Wen Zhimei's side has no opinion.

Wen Zhumei was very satisfied with the wedding, although there was no sea of flowers and romance, and there was no imaginary trip to get married, but in the case of her physical inconvenience, everything was already very good.

The girlfriends have also come to bless them in person, and from any point of view, they are all good.

Because he wanted to use the house that Xiao Hai bought as a wedding house, Wen Zhimei simply paid off all the loans at once, and it was basically five or five open, and the names of the two people were naturally written on the real estate certificate.

The happiness after marriage has not had time to experience it, and the hardships that a mother should experience have come in advance.

When the pregnancy reaction was the worst, I couldn't even smell the most basic rice, which was very uncomfortable, but Xiao Hai's care during this period was still in place, and he didn't shirk socializing or anything like that.

Interestingly, from Wen Zhimei's point of view, it was not as good as knowing the cold and hot in the past few months, and she could only convince herself that it was because she was not sensitive to the current situation.

However, what Wen Zhimei didn't pay much attention to was that Xiao Hai was more willing to listen to her own things before marriage, and occasionally talked about her own affairs, but after marriage, it slowly became all Xiao Hai talking about his work......

"Wife, you don't know how smooth it is today, the customer who has been grinding for more than half a month has finally been won by me, the one in our company before is smaller, you know, he also advised me to give up, alas, there are so many people who are not motivated these years!"

"Now, he can only watch me take the money! This order can almost earn our children's milk powder money!"

“……”

"Wife, secretly tell you good news, there is a competitor's customer who was robbed by me, it's not too easy, I heard that their sales have been grinding for half a month, and I succeeded in three hours!"

“……”

"Wife, I really hope that I can successfully win this list today, so that the baby should not have to worry about the milk powder money when he is two years old......"

“……”

Whenever this happens, Wen Zhimei doesn't know what to say except for echoing two meaningless words while fighting pregnancy reactions.

"Wife, I think I'm really successful and can marry such a beautiful wife as you......"

Occasionally, Xiao Hai will also say a little warm words.

During the sensitive period of pregnancy, Wen Zhimei could see that Xiao Hai told her these things that made him proud, especially when he mentioned the word success, his eyes seemed to radiate light.

That full sense of accomplishment and the attitude of refusing to fail, in a sense, especially for a man who has become a family, is a rare quality, and she should feel very happy and proud!

Wen Zhimei also heard Xiao Hai talk about high school in a show-off tone more than once, and he was sure that he would succeed with her Wen Zhimei in his life.

Talking about the efforts made to learn the four words well at that time, talking about the persistence in my heart at that time, and talking about many things.

At first, Wen Zhimei felt a sense of security, thinking that this was the enlightenment of the relationship between the two of them, which was worth remembering, although she didn't remember it very well......

Later, Wen Zhimei slowly felt that the meaning of Xiao Hai's words was different from what she understood.

After that, the child was born smoothly, which added more joy to the family......

At this time, seven or eight months have passed since the two got married, and more than half a year of married life has exposed many problems, especially that Wen Zhimei is unmarried and pregnant.

Especially after marriage, it is almost all kinds of trivialities of pregnancy.

Wen Zhimei gradually discovered that Xiao Hai actually didn't like music, and she had expressed direct disgust with the prenatal education music she often played for her children, which was not particularly obvious......

Xiao Hai likes the feeling of success very much, and he also has a great sense of frustration with some small things that have failed before, and always wants to make this failure disappear......

Xiao Hai refuses to fail, he doesn't like his failure to be known by his family, and he rarely mentions the word failure at home, which is more obvious from pregnancy to confinement, Xiao Hai's mother came, and Xiao Hai's attitude towards Wen Zhimei during this time is very different, not easy to describe in one or two sentences......

These seem to be true, and there is nothing worth mentioning, it is nothing more than that Xiao Hai wants to be a successful man, and even this is a very good man's character.

But it seems that everything is wrong again, and Wen Zhimei is just a little confused.

Because of the serious pregnancy reaction, coupled with the fact that he wanted to take care of the child by himself, Wen Zhimei simply resigned from his job, Xiao Hai didn't approve of this at first, but he didn't say much, strictly speaking, the two were relatively independent of each other's economies.

But everything is made up of subtle, possibly insignificant details.

After the confinement, Wen Zhimei rested for almost three months, found a light job again, and was close to home and could take the child from time to time.

When the child was eight months old, Wen Zhimei was just 30 years old, and there was a concert in Guangzhou, which was given by a musician she liked very much.

"I want to take my children to Guangzhou to see a concert and come back tomorrow. ”

Wen stopped his eyebrows and asked Xiao Hai's opinion.

Xiao Hai frowned, and said casually: "What's so good about the concert, you also take your children to go, Guangzhou is not close, if you go by yourself, it will be very troublesome." ”

"There is high-speed rail. Wen stopped frowning and smiled.

Xiao Hai pondered for a long time, and finally said: "Okay, then you go by yourself, I still have a list to ......."

“……”

Some days before May Day, Wen Zhimei communicated with Xiao Hai in a consultative tone: "Why don't we go to Inner Mongolia on May Day?"

"Okay. ”

The night before May Day, Xiao Hai said excitedly: "Wife, I made an appointment with a few friends to drive to Sanya together, just so that I can take my mother there, if you go from here, plus the ferry, it will take eleven or twelve hours, and you don't have to stop to rest overnight!"

"Leave in the morning and arrive in the evening, just right!"

Wen Zhu, who was about to pack his luggage, was stunned: "Didn't you go to Inner Mongolia?"

"No, no, no. Xiao Hai said while busy with his own affairs.

There is no room for negotiation.

Wen Zhumei thought for a while and asked, "Can't you take a plane over?" It's close, and the ticket is not expensive. ”

Xiao Hai, who had already begun to plan his trip, waved his hand: "I have already told my friends, what plane to take, it will be convenient to drive over and have fun when the time comes!"

Wen stopped frowning: "......"

On May Day, Wen Jimei packed up, and the family set off, and when they were about to leave, Xiao Hai said: "You will take the child to sit in the back row in a while, and a friend is coming." ”

Wen didn't say anything.

After hitting the road, Xiao Hai kept emphasizing that we would not rest on the road this time, and we would go directly to Sanya!

"You come to drive! I've been driving for more than five hours in a row, I'm very tired and tired, I'll change your drive!" Xiao Hai turned around and said in front of another friend in the back seat.

Wen stopped his eyebrows and looked at Xiao Hai incredulously: "I'm driving, I'm very tired with the children along the way, why don't we get off the highway and find a place to rest?"

"Can't you open it?"

"The ferry will be less than an hour away, do you want me to die of exhaustion?"

Wen stopped frowning: "......"

After arriving in Sanya, Wen Zhimei's whole person was soft, although she rested for an hour or two during the ferry and didn't have to drive, but she drove all the way after that.

"Isn't that the end of it, really. After Xiao Hai finished speaking, he went to sleep, and he didn't care about Wen and his mother at all.

In fact, Wen Zhimei saw that Xiao Hai was simply rejecting his failed plan.

Wen stopped frowning: "......"

Before going back, Wen Zhimei communicated with Xiao Hai to take a rest on the way back, or everyone would be very tired, and the consequences of dangerous driving were very serious, but to no avail, he resolutely chose to take the child back by plane, and did not go on the same road again, Xiao Hai was very angry at that time and said a lot of ugly things.

Xiao Hai and Wen Zhimei are completely opposite in this regard, Wen Zhimei has been well-educated since he was a child, and he can't say anything that is too much and too ugly, but Xiao Hai is different.

Wen Zhimei was not at the mercy of Xiao Hai, in this case, for the sake of his own safety and that of his children, there is no doubt that the plane is safer.

After this incident, Wen Zhimei thought carefully about his hasty marriage, and was a little disheartened.

As time goes on, the discord between the two people becomes more and more intense, and the incompatibility in life increases.

To put it mildly, the two of them appreciate things from the same level at all, and their views on things are very different.

When Wen stopped frowning about something, Xiao Hai replied in a proud tone: "I don't like those things in the first place, just to chase you, these are all the costs that should be paid to achieve the goal of success......

I'm amazing, I've worked so hard to chase you, and I pretend to like the things I don't like......"

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