"Mr. Liu, if my guess is correct, you grew up in a rich family, right?" Wang Qian asked Liu Xiaoxi. Pen Fun Pavilion wWw. ｂiquge。 ｉｎfo

"That...... Sort of, the family is relatively wealthy, the big family, and the relatives are very harmonious, and they haven't suffered much since they were young. Liu Xiaoxi smiled.

"Well, so to speak, you have lived in a worry-free environment since you were a child, and you never thought that people's hearts could be so bad?" Wang Qian inspired Liu Xiaoxi.

"Oh?" Liu Xiaoxi's expression didn't quite understand.

"Because you have lived in a big family full of love since you were a child, and your life is full of love, you are more kind. But not everyone is like you, many people in this world have very sinister hearts, and they always use the kindness of others to achieve their own ends. ”

"In the face of bullying and oppression, how can we protect ourselves? No one can harden their hearts on the first day, but only to avoid being cheated by others one day, so we must be careful. You have lived in a harmonious and loving environment since you were a child, and you don't know that biological differences can be so big! You are so good to Xu Yaheng and Chen Rui, and the reason why they betrayed you is because of the promotion of Mien and the fight of Mi Hatred. ”

"Shengmien, fighting Mi Qiu?" Liu Xiaoxi looked at Wang Qian, the history of this life is slightly different from the previous life, the ancients did not have the saying of 'Shengmi En, Dou Mi Qiu', she has not heard of it, so she will not understand it for the first time.

"Once upon a time, there were two families who were neighbors, and they usually had a good relationship. One of the families was much richer because they were more capable. The two families originally had no grievances, but this year, God's anger sent disaster to him, and the grain in the field was not harvested. The poor family had no harvest and had to lie down and wait for death. At this time, the rich family bought a lot of food, and thinking that everyone was neighbors, they sent a liter of rice to the poor family to save the emergency. ”

"The poor family is very grateful to the rich people, and thinks that their neighbors are so kind! They are their life-saving benefactors! After surviving the most difficult moments of the year, the poor people go to thank the rich people. When talking about the seeds of next year, the rich family generously said, "This is it!" I still have a lot of grain here, so you can take another bucket of rice! The poor man took a bucket of rice home with great gratitude. ”

"After returning home, the brothers of the poor family are a little unhappy, what can we do if we get this bucket of rice back? Except for eating, it is not enough for us to have seeds in the field next year! This rich man is too much, since he is so rich, he should give us more food and money, just give us such a little, my heart is too bad!"

When these words reached the ears of the rich man, he was also very angry, thinking to himself that if I gave you so much food for nothing, not only did you not thank me, but also hated me as an enemy, and I was really not human! ”

"So, this is the kind of rice that says when a person is about to starve to death, if you give him a liter of rice, he will take you as a benefactor, but if you give him a bucket of rice, he will think, since you can afford to give him a bucket of rice, you can give me more, and if you don't give it to me, then you will become my enemy. Wang Qian ended his story.

"This ......," Liu Xiaoxi said thoughtfully.

"Xu Yaheng, these wicked people were recruited by yourself, or rather, their evil was cultivated by you, your kindness, strength, generosity, and connivance. Wang Qian summed up a few sentences.

"Alas...... It's my responsibility!" Liu Xiaoxi looked a little embarrassed.

"The biggest risk of being a good person is that your kindness is taken for granted, and your unsolicited help is taken for granted. Once you make a slight mistake, you will be kidnapped by morality and besieged by a group. Because you're a good person! How can you be inconsistent?"

"Life forces us to be 'wicked people'! To be an evil boss, all kinds of contracts, all kinds of punishments, at most we will be scolded behind our backs, at least we will not be swept away by others, and you will be helpless to step on you a few times. ”

"To tell a truest joke, a gentleman gave 10 yuan to the beggars along the road every day on his way to work, and one day he gave only 5 yuan to the beggar, and the beggar was very upset and asked him what else he had for 5 yuan? The beggar angrily scolded him and said, "How can you use my money to support a woman?" This is the bandit logic of 'I am poor and I am justified', who made you rich? Who made you the boss? So whatever I did wrong, you should give me the full amount of the bonus and subsidy!"

"When you fail to correct the other party's misplaced transgression in time, and the bandit logic begins to breed, you will have to pay for this distorted master-servant relationship! The consequences may be beyond your ability. Wang Qian continued to explain to Liu Xiaoxi.

"I've never thought about this before. Liu Xiaoxi sighed.

"Tell you a few things I've experienced or heard about, and I'm sure you've done the same, but you're just a philanthropist and never care about them. ”

"In the third year of high school, I had a classmate's father who was critically ill, she had to study for the college entrance examination while accompanying the bed in the hospital, she couldn't sleep at night and was exhausted. The mother and daughter really couldn't take care of it, so they called the little nanny from their hometown to come and see the house. ”

"This little nanny has been with my classmate's grandmother since she was 17 years old, and she has been with her for 6 years. When something happened at home, my grandmother hurriedly called the little nanny to help her daughter look after the house, and she could help if she could. ”

"The little nanny helps cook and sweep the floor for the mother and wife at home, and usually someone comes to visit, helps to receive gifts and money to leave a message, and sometimes goes back and forth to the hospital to deliver daily necessities. One day, the little nanny called in a panic and said that she was pregnant, too tired and afraid of miscarriage, and said that she wanted to go back to her hometown to raise the baby. I hurried away without even seeing each other. ”

"The hostess went home and opened the drawer and found that there was a shortage of 10,000 yuan in cash, which was the life-saving money sent by relatives and friends during the critical illness of my classmate's father, a total of about 300,000 yuan, and the little nanny took 10,000 yuan no more, no less. She probably thought that with the hostess's usual careless character, she must not remember the specific number, but she didn't expect that this time the hostess made a mark on the money. ”

The little nanny evaporated from the world, never returned to her grandmother's house, never gave birth to children, and disappeared from everyone she knew. Just for this 10,000 yuan, she never wanted to appear in front of her former acquaintances, friends and even relatives again in her life. ”

"The little nanny's evil idea of stealing at first was only a thought, it was the kindness, dullness, and carelessness of the hostess who watered and fertilized the seed of this demon until it caused a tragedy that could not be harvested. ”

"You think you're doing it good for them, but you're hurting them. ”

"In terms of workplace management, the hardest bite after betrayal is the employee who makes you pay the most, Xu Yaheng's thing happens once, and if you wrestle on the same thing again and again, then you should reflect on whether there is a problem with your kindness. ”

"I used to have a friend who opened a company, because he sympathized with a poor employee whose mother had cancer when he first joined the company, and helped him run to find an expert doctor for free treatment. ”

Later, the employee's uncle died, and he didn't go to work for half a month, and at the end of the year, like other employees, he was paid an extra year-end bonus for one month. Because of the luck of the first three 'salary payments', this employee started fishing for three days and drying nets for two days, and joined the company for less than half a year, and the vacation time added up to three months, and the salary must be paid. ”

The HR manager couldn't get used to it and deducted his attendance bonus for the last month, and the employee was furious and used his work to spread rumors and smear the company and his boss, distorting the facts and reversing black and white. ”

"The company was in a state of turmoil when the employee was finally fired, and this 'victim' who lost his mother and lost his job looked very aggrieved in front of the other employees: 'Didn't you just give me a doctor's phone?

"Wait! I'm going to sue you at the Labor Bureau!"

"This friend of mine touched his conscience and said: I have no enmity with him, just because I helped him like this, but it turned out to arouse such a great hatred from him!"

The reason is very simple, it is your kindness, initiative, and enthusiasm that have made the relationship between superiors and subordinates into relatives and brothers and sisters; it is your carelessness and tolerance that treat the other party as a child, and regard the stubbornness of lying as childlike and repeatedly tolerated. Your self-inflicted affection and parental mind let the other party constantly test your bottom line. ”

"From lying to sick to job-hopping with all your employees with a hefty signing fee, the other party is testing your tolerance, and your tolerance becomes a matter of course for them. The workplace is the workplace, the employee is the employee, and it is important to reach a common understanding of the relationship between each other and not to confuse the employment relationship with other emotions. ”

"Any relationship without boundaries will not end well. No one can blame it, only themselves. ”

"Therefore, this bonus subsidy must be deducted, and it must be deducted! I want all the remaining employees to understand that when joining Hypnus, they must be loyal to the company, loyal to the boss, and unconditionally obey the company's instructions! If you are unhappy and do not accept this kind of management, you can get out immediately! I would rather spend more time and more money to train and select new people, and I will not train a second Xu Yaheng and make myself unhappy!" Wang Qian ended his tirade.