Chapter 84 - Psychological Counseling(1)
In order to better induce Xinya to cooperate with Professor Wang's diagnosis, I picked out two simple sleepwalking things that I gave Professor Wang a general description, and also told Professor Wang the judgment of the previous psychiatrist.
Professor Wang initially agreed with the previous psychiatrist's conclusion about my sleepwalking syndrome.
Regarding Xinya's question, because it was still in the stage of psychological counseling, it was the first time I met Professor Wang, and I couldn't talk about treatment, but mainly stated events and phenomena, and answered some professors' immediate questions at the same time.
Xinya doesn't think that she has a psychological problem, or like many people, she is unwilling to admit that she has a psychological problem, so during the consultation process, I was not only present when I talked about Xinya's problem, but also became the main complainant.
I gave a detailed statement to Professor Wang about her many cases of "déjà vu" and "blind substitution" since my dramatic acquaintance with Xinya.
Professor Wang looked through the records he had made back and forth, and said, "There are a few points that I want to clarify and confirm with you." ”
"First," Professor Wang said, looking at Xinya, "you were in a car accident and had complete amnesia at one point, right?"
Xinya nodded.
"I went to the hospital that was in charge of her rehabilitation treatment to talk to the attending doctor at the time, and the diagnosis of the expert group at that time said that she belonged to dissociative amnesia, that is, she did not know who she was, it was said that 'the six relatives did not recognize', and the memory of other aspects recovered quickly, but the memory in this area was never recovered. Everything about her own car accident was told to her later. ”
When I added, Xinya looked at me in amazement. I went to the hospital where she was recovering and the doctor to find out about the situation, but I hid it from her, and I didn't tell her about it later.
Professor Wang nodded while taking notes, put down the pen, and asked, "Second, the two of you often spend time together in your daily life, and even eat and live together, right?"
"Yes, but we're not boyfriend and girlfriend. Although living in a house, there is no crossing the line between ordinary friends of the opposite sex. I recognize her as a godsister, a brother-sister relationship. "I can't say, I have made so many explanations to clarify what or to facilitate Professor Wang's analysis and diagnosis.
Xinya lowered her head.
"Third," Professor Wang turned to Xin Ya again: "Can I understand that many of the déjà vu scenes you mentioned are related to him (Professor Wang pointed to me) and his life scenes, including his work, life and daughter, and you don't or rarely have any sense of déjà vu other than that, right?"
Xinya nodded first, then shook her head.
Professor Wang looked at me puzzled, obviously hoping that I could explain.
"That's true for the most part, but not entirely. For example, on the streets of the capital, sometimes when she sees a building, a shopping mall, or a school, she will also have that feeling of déjà vu. For example, she insisted on going to work in my company, because she felt very familiar and kind when she saw the office building where my company was located, and she had been to the same before, and then ran into the building to walk around to the door of my company, so she was reluctant to leave, so to speak, begging to stay in my company. ”
I had to repeat what I had said to another doctor last time.
Professor Wang nodded lightly and continued to ask, "Fourth, those familiar scenes, when you want to find out where you saw them afterwards, can you still recall the past scenes?"
Xinya shook her head, nodded, and shook her head again.
Finding Professor Wang's stunned expression, Xinya opened her mouth and added: "I couldn't before, but recently there are times when I seem to be able to trace a little bit of a related scene, but it is fleeting. ”
Professor Wang pondered for a moment and said, "Okay! Fifth, when there is a familiar scene, you substitute for the characters in the scene, speak and do things as the characters in the scene, you didn't realize it at the time, can you realize it afterwards?"
"It's just that when I was interrupted or woke up from a daze, some images suddenly disappeared in my mind, and when I tried to figure out what it was, my mind was blank, and I couldn't remember anything. ”
Xinya's attitude became more cooperative, and Professor Wang's eyes seemed to light up, and he was very curious about what Xinya said.
"For example, the last time you just talked about, what do you realize now, what do you think about Estee Lauder cosmetics and getting ready to go to bed?"
Xinya buried her head and paused shyly, and said timidly: "I can remember what I did, but I don't know why I did that or said that." ”
Professor Wang looked at the content recorded in front of him, fell into deep thought, and then looked up and said to me, "You go out for a while, I want to talk to Xinya alone." ”
Nearly ten minutes later, Xinya came out and let me in, saying that Professor Wang wanted to talk to me alone for a while.
"Has Xinya made it clear that she wants to be your girlfriend or marry you?" After I went in and sat down, Professor Wang asked straight to the point.
"I guess you can also see that Xinya's behavior is very incommensurate with her actual age, more like a middle-aged woman with a lot of experience, she has that meaning to me, and it seems to be true and false, but it is not so serious and direct, but her behavior has exceeded the meaning that this expression can convey, and I am familiar with me, as if I have known me for many years, the tone of speech, the behavior and action, from the time she was at the door of my company to work there. Later, my colleagues at work thought that the two of us were in that relationship, and it wasn't until I seriously clarified and explained and recognized her as my sister that they slowly recognized the fact that we were not a male and female relationship. As for Xinya, when I remind her, she will admit that it is wrong, but then forget about it, as always. People who don't know us will think that we are husband and wife. ”
"Do you feel like she's treating you like her lover or husband?"
"Sometimes if you think about the tone of her voice, the way she acts, it is indeed like this. Remind her that she can't change it, I slowly get used to it, I am used to it, and I am happy to accept it, and even when she is not by my side occasionally, I am still a little lost. ”
I also felt a little embarrassed, and when I heard it, no one would believe that Xinya and I would be as innocent as we said.
"Are you sure you haven't seen her, and she's never seen you?"
"Absolutely not. She grew up in a foreign country, studied in a foreign country, and after a car accident, she always felt that the city where she was born and raised was very strange, so she sold the house left by her parents and wandered outside, and finally fell to us and refused to leave. I had never been to her hometown before I met her, so I couldn't have crossed paths with her. ”
Professor Wang was silent for a while, then motioned for me to call Xinya in.
"I'm very interested in this situation that you're experiencing. Let me first give you a brief introduction to the general situation of this phenomenon. ”