New Year's greetings
On the second day of the first lunar month, Xie Xiong carried a pork leg to his father-in-law's house to pay New Year's greetings. Xiao Lin has never raised pigs, and the generous gift is naturally her mother-in-law's love for her.
Yuan Qiuhua married in less than ten days, even if Gong Magpie failed to find out her conduct and ethics, just because the father and son were not separated, the pork leg in the family was given by Xie Xiong's father-in-law, but Xie Han's father-in-law couldn't give it away?
In the following days, not only the fresh meat and live poultry at home, poultry eggs, but also bacon and bacon and bacon fish, smoked chicken and smoked duck, Xie Han did not have a share, and even the New Year's gift received by his parents, the palace magpie turned around and gave it to Xiao Lin, let Xiao Lin carry it as a gift, and then go to her relatives and friends to pay New Year's greetings.
As the saying goes, relatives and friends are saws, if you don't come, I won't go, or if you come, I will go. Parents can receive New Year's greetings because Xie Han went to pay New Year's greetings first, gave New Year's greetings, and people came to pay New Year's greetings and returned New Year's greetings. And because the father and son did not separate the family, they also gave New Year's greetings to their parents. The relatives of the three parties returned the New Year's greetings, and the other brothers' families had a share, and Xie Han gave this share to his parents. The parents accepted the New Year's gift and gave it to Xiao Lin, which means that Xiao Lin took a double share, and Xie Han didn't get a share.
Xie Han went to send the New Year's gift first, and he had to pay out of his own pocket, his parents received the New Year's gift first, and Xie Han went to return the New Year's gift, and he had to pay out of his own pocket. Send the New Year's gift first, and then go to return the New Year's gift, Xie Han took out a double share of the money, but there is no return, there is no name, the name belongs to his parents, there is no benefit, the benefit belongs to Xiao Lin, he is not wronged, what else can it be?
In a normal family, the regular practice of reasonable parents should be for Xie Han to go to the elders to pay New Year's greetings first, and the New Year's gifts should be paid for by himself. But the parents first accept the New Year's greetings from the younger generations, and when Xie Han should go to return the New Year's greetings of his peers, he can choose one of the New Year's greetings received by his parents, take it to return the New Year's greetings, or the Zhang family, return it to the Li family, return it to the Li family, return it to the Zhao family, and return it to the Zhang family, so that you don't have to pay out of your own pocket, that is, you can save a few expenses.
To live a careful life is to be able to calculate the running account, not half of the loss. After the New Year, Yuan Qiuhua calculated the general ledger once, New Year's goods, with 2,000 money, 2,000 for eating, 1,000 for snacks, and 1,000 for snacks, only one New Year's gift, Xie Han sent the New Year's gift first, with 2,000 money, and Xie Han went to return the New Year's salute with 2,000 money.
If the father and son are separated, Xie Han and his wife will spend the New Year with 2,000 yuan, and if the husband and wife, plus their parents, plus their nieces, spend the New Year together, 4,000 will be enough. The four families are one family, and they spend the New Year together, and Xie Han's income for a year is inexplicably gone, not to mention, and he also overspends a little.
The accounts should be filled, the discrepancies should be consistent, some people will suffer losses, some people will gain, some people will empty holes, and some people will store warehouses.
Excitement needs money support, reputation needs money to grow, and honor needs money to exchange. Xie Han is honest, good-looking, and loves to brag, the biggest problem is that he slaps a swollen face and becomes fat, he doesn't suffer a loss, so he bears the nickname of "Shui Bai" in vain. Besides, he suffered a dumb loss, but he couldn't say it in his heart, and the dumb suffered a loss, but he couldn't say it because he was suffering, but he knew in his heart that he had suffered a loss, Xie Han had suffered a loss but he didn't know it in his heart, he didn't know when and where he suffered a loss, and he didn't understand who made him suffer a loss.
After Yuan Qiuhua settled the accounts, he told him: You have suffered the loss of your parents, the old man is unfair, and he is too partial!
Xie Han disagreed: his parents gave birth to eight, and it was not easy to live. Now that I am old and confused, it is inevitable that I will not think about it. You have to be more considerate, less picky, calculating will only hurt harmony, family and everything is prosperous, and harmony will make money.
Yuan Qiuhua said: My parents are going to have a lively New Year, we have suffered a loss of nearly 10,000 yuan, which is all counted as my small belly chicken intestines, how many big losses can you care?
Xie Han said: Life is given by parents, and no matter how big the loss is, you can't care about it.
Yuan Qiuhua said: Parents are down, Xiao Lin stole the New Year's gift, how can it be regarded as a loss?
Xie Han said: Xiao Lin has a lame leg, has many children, and life is not easy. Her parents saw her pitiful, and they used to make up for her like this. This year, I am afraid that you will have an opinion, and I will hide it from you and give it secretly, like a thief, my parents are shy, and she is ashamed. If you can do it, you will make money, and if you don't want to help, forget it, everyone has everyone's suffering, so why blame it.
Yuan Qiuhua said: Those who are capable work hard, work hard but do not work, and being able is also a kind of fault, must we harm those who have already helped? If I want a "bride price" and "three golds," is the money still in your hands? I don't want it, you can turn it into my parents' and Xiao Lin's, and I will not lose it? I am stupid to go home!
Xie Han said: Money is like dung, benevolence and righteousness are worth a thousand gold, fools have foolish blessings, and good people do not lose money. If you don't make a profit in your career, you won't be able to attract more people to help you make money!
Yuan Qiuhua said: Doing business is about mutual benefit, my parents and Xiao Lin can help me make money, and I will let me divide the profits! If you use the money on them, it is just consumption, not investment, and there is no profit.
Xie Han said: It is a responsibility to honor your parents, and it is an obligation to help your brothers, not to do business. Before you came, we celebrated the New Year every year.
Yuan Qiuhua said: Every year for the New Year, I don't pay my respects to the New Year every year, and I don't even go to worship the New Year of the three parties and nine clans, and the three relatives and six relatives. If you don't have the money to buy a New Year's gift, you don't recognize your six relatives, forming a stranger and not getting along.
Xie Han said: People are poor and short-sighted, they can't support their façade without money, and their food and clothing have not yet been solved, so what dignity and decency do I have?
Yuan Qiuhua said: This year, if it weren't for the wedding gifts, you wouldn't have gone to pay New Year's greetings to your relatives. Gifts are still exchanged, received gift money, in the future to repay the favor, when the time comes, what do you take to pay back? In the future, when your family is sick, what will you take to treat it?
Xie Han said: Burn your eyebrows, only look at the present, and use money in the future, and then talk about it then. If you eat enough food and go into debt, the poor will try to survive! What is the matter, you will not die without help!
Yuan Qiuhua said: I have no food to eat, I prefer to cut meat to feed others, I know why you are poor, you have wine today and drunk today, you have to live a mixed life, you are short of ambition, your bones are soft, and you have no face and no shame! If you are poor, you will think about change, and if you are a minister in a thatched house, why can't you work hard and get rich?
Xie Han said: Studying in college changes fate, but my family doesn't even have money to pay tuition, except for my eldest brother, who is in high school, the rest of the primary schools have not graduated, learning a craft, barely living.
Yuan Qiuhua said: Since there were no New Year's greetings in previous years, why make an exception this year?
Xie Han said: It's not that I married you, the newcomer leads the new fashion, I give you a long face, you still don't know how to appreciate it? The bride price is not worth a cent, the dowry is not lacking, and the relatives all praise you for your wisdom, and envy me for my shit luck! When I got married, old relatives and distant relatives, new friends and old friends all came to cheer on you, and the banquet set up 20 tables to cover the whole village. My parents were sixty years old, and they only set three tables. People give me face, and I have to respect them, if I don't go to worship for many years, isn't it ungrateful?
Yuan Qiuhua said: Fox friends and dog friends, snobbish and cheesy, poor in the downtown and no one asks, rich in the mountains have distant relatives. People are coming for my Yuan family!
Xie Han said: No matter what you are aiming for, it is a good thing and a glory to come, which shows that the future of my family is full of hope and light.
Yuan Qiuhua said: You treat, I pay, I get the name, you benefit.
Xie Han said: You are famous, I am beneficial, we have both fame and fortune, you and I are husband and wife, what is yours is mine, and mine is also yours.
Yuan Qiuhua said: I am advantageous, I am famous, this profit was originally mine, what does it have to do with you? I still need you to give it to me!
Xie Han said: It's yours, it's all yours, even I am yours. The eyes of the masses are bright, and the parents are confused, don't care, as long as the two of us are good, everything will be fine! Money is something outside the body, and you can earn it when you use it.