The cultural supplement of "Southern Metropolis Daily" and the special edition of "City Notes" column on Saturday published a documentary article on Yuan Qiuhua's social research.

- See how courtesans hollow out the pockets of flowery men!

Successful men, be sure to be wary of the huntress around you.

Parents all over the world must know what kind of woman their son is hunting by.

A wife must know in her heart what opponents she is facing.

This condensed article, from the special reporter of this newspaper, after half a year of unannounced visits to Yijihua, I hope to give you a wake-up.

For the sake of narrative convenience, this article is written in the first person.

(a)

I am 26 years old and work for a foreign company in Guangzhou. The sisters said that I cut down men, and the knife saw blood, and gave me a homophonic nickname "beautiful knife", which not only refers to dollars, money, but also alludes to beautiful and bright flying knives.

Girls are eager for romantic love, to have a golden beetle son-in-law, to take good care of themselves, single-mindedly, as romantic as they want. But I want to ask, if you look like Zhu Bajie's sister, Zhu Jiumei, will there be a handsome and golden domineering president who will spoil you as a princess? Of course not! It's a pipe dream, don't even think about it.

A country man with no money and no status hopes to use some small means, spend a little thought, and sprinkle a small fish for a while, catch a rich girl from a wealthy family, and share wealth and prosperity with her. If she doesn't want to, they will scold others for being too realistic, disgusted with the poor and loving the rich. So, why doesn't he love those black and ugly poor?

Seeing through the man's face, I don't want to be fooled by this. To marry, I must marry a good man. However, marriage is an equivalent exchange, and I also understand that this kind of man will not look at a woman who is only beautiful but has no social added value, and if I want to marry an elite man, I must at least turn myself into the middle class.

I come from a poor family, although I worked hard to get admitted to the university and joined a foreign company, but I can only get an annual salary of 60,000 yuan, but what can I do with this income in Guangzhou?

If I start my own business, I lack capital, experience, and connections, what can I rely on to make money? I can only run men first, and then try to develop. That's right, I'm the kind of courtesan that everyone despises, and the scheming woman who sees men as prey.

Through playing with a series of men, my level is getting higher and higher, and the income is getting bigger and bigger, and in the first man, I only got less than 10,000 yuan, and then it was tens of thousands of yuan, hundreds of thousands of yuan. Now, the man I am eyeing will not give up if I don't pay millions. Don't be surprised, I'm at a low level in the courtesan team.

Here, I will first explain the idea of choosing a hunting target.

First, he must be rich, but not too rich. Very rich men, such as the richest man in Hong Kong, Macao and Taiwan, and Sister Hong Kong are in the way, so it's good that I can squeeze in front of them, and can I still hope to pull money out of them? Moreover, very rich men, conceited and arrogant, full of self-confidence, do not bother (nor use) to use money to get women. This kind of man, at least a low-level low-level woman like me, can't make any oil and water at all. I can only look for the kind of man who has a little money, but is not too rich, and it is easier to swing in half a bucket of water, and they are afraid that others will call him a stingy man, a miser, and a superstitious man who is very superstitious about the power of money. Even though they don't have a drum in their purse, it's easier for them to shell out the money!

Second, he happened to have a certain amount of powerful resources at hand and had a gray income. If his income is transparent, then his wife and family will know everything about it, and it will not be so easy for him to take it out. In addition, his private money, if it is not so sunny, even if he turns his face against me in the future, he will not dare to squeak. Of course, it is also necessary to examine whether his personality is strong, whether he has a strong family background in the local area, if it is the kind of black and white master, then don't provoke it, lest you walk with a sack and throw it into the Pearl River.

Third, he has to be, otherwise I don't have a chance. If he is lustful and lustful, extremely stingy with women, and wants women to stick upside down, then he can't touch it. Only men who are willing to spend money for women are worth hunting. And, of course, to investigate whether he cares about his wife. If his wife has no status, he cannot threaten his wife, and if his wife is too tough, he must not be provoked, otherwise once he tears it up, I may not be able to win! Only the kind of man who cherishes his family and respects his wife is easy to deal with. If you think that this kind of man will not look for women outside, I can only say that you are too innocent, too kind, too immature, and too ignorant of what kind of animal a man is. Of course, the stronger his dependence on fame and honor, his work unit, and his job prospect, the better. He is afraid, so that he is more easily controlled.

Yue Guanghui, who broke up with me recently, meets all the above criteria. Let me give you an example of the process of playing with him.

(b)

Yue Guanghui is a middle-level manager in a government unit, with an annual salary of only 200,000 yuan, but he has a lot of state resources in his hands, and he privately controls several small individual companies, so he has a certain economic strength.

His public institution is a partner of our company. I've heard his boss introduce him more than once, saying that he is a man with a lively mind and extraordinary skills, but he is very. He is generous to good women, loves face, is vain, and has a certain sense of responsibility. After all the analysis, he was the best target for me.

I found an opportunity to get close to Yue Guanghui, and he was immediately attracted to me. I flirted with him, but I kept my cold heart the whole time, and I didn't care about his overtures. It was only after he had whetted his appetite that I agreed to eat with him. My outfit is more graceful and luxurious, not to mention that the clothes I wear and the bags I carry are all international famous brands, even a pack of tissues is imported. As we chatted, I handed him a tissue to wipe his mouth, and he understood how high or low my B was high.

I only go to high-end restaurants that cost more than 1,000 yuan per person. However, the order is very casual and saves for him. I am a frequent customer of this kind of restaurant, and eating a light meal from him is a kind of psychological crushing for him, at least he understands that I can't eat a big meal from you and go to bed with you. After eating, he was embarrassed to mention going to the hotel.

In fact, eating three or four thousand in one meal has already made him invest in the cost, and it will not hurt his flesh. With my charm, I dangle at his lips, but I can't eat, his heart is itching, and he is definitely willing to continue to invest. Later, we had dinner a few more times, and I took the initiative to buy an order once, indicating that I disdained to eat white food, and eating with him was purely a matter of friendship.

In fact, he spent more than 20,000 yuan on food, but he didn't hold his hand, and he was definitely unwilling. He began to confess, and at first I was noncommittal, and after talking too much, I coldly stated that he had many lovers, and I could not believe that he was sincere to me. And I will only sleep with men who truly love me.

I poured cold water on him, "You don't have a high income, and you can't afford to love a woman like me who wants true feelings and has high requirements for the quality of life, so it's better to let it go."

This was, of course, to provoke his desire for conquest. In order to show his affection, he transferred 52,013.14 yuan to me. I laughed at it, but complained to him, "You, you're really cheesy, the number is auspicious, do you want me to look at this number every day? I thought you would buy me a watch!"

This time, he hugged me and when he wanted to kiss me, I pushed him away and I said, "I haven't thought about it yet." The next day, he took me to buy a 68,000 yuan watch. This time, I was no longer reserved and did it with him in the car. His surname is Yue, he is not strong, and he will finish it quickly. I was very dissatisfied with this, but he didn't make it clear, he felt guilty, and took me to the mall to buy a pair of gold bracelets, which cost more than 10,000 yuan.

When he asked me out again, I didn't go. I made him understand that he spent more than 100,000 yuan on me, and there was only one chance, and if he still wanted me, he would have to pay the price again. I have studied several of his lovers, and even the woman whom he favors the most is not as beautiful as me, and the level of education is not as good as mine, and among his lovers, I can give him a long face. He's not going to just leave it at that.

He played the emotional card, and that played into my hands. How can a woman like me with a clear goal be impressed by these small details such as delivering breakfast every morning, picking up and dropping off from work, sending medicine when she has a cold, holding an umbrella when it rains, and sending a bouquet of flowers on her birthday?

Naturally, the more he confessed how much he loved me, the more I didn't believe it, so he could only prove it with gifts and transfers, but for me, it wasn't a five-digit number, and I didn't blink my eyes. I joked with him, "My eyes are so big and beautiful, it's not easy for me to blink!"

I felt that he was reluctant, so I did it with him once, and when he thought I was single-minded about him, I broke up with him. When you ask a married man for "true love" and marriage, he can't do it, and he can't give you up, so he can only spend money to eliminate the disaster. Every time he quarreled, he had to let him bleed. In this way, he spent more and more on me, and the greater the sunk cost, the more he could not give it up. Of course, if it's just arguing + doing, you can't tie him down, I'll give him some other benefits.

I'm usually good at socializing, and I pay special attention to meeting some leading people from all walks of life. Seriously, these men really don't have a few good things, and there are a lot of people who want to take advantage of me. I don't think the other party is a very good target, I can't control him, so no matter how tempting he is, I won't play ambiguous with him. I didn't blush and said that young women like me with good looks and good overall qualities, those bigwigs are still willing to make friends with me.

Sometimes, I will help Yue Guanghui to do business with a certain bigwig. Yue Guanghui is very smart, as long as he pulls the line, he can basically do business with the other party. He made money, and I relied on the credit, so naturally I had to take a share. I asked him for money, and the reason was even stronger. However, this kind of behind-the-scenes deal, as a middleman, is difficult for me not to grasp his handle. As the relationship deepened, I consciously or unconsciously mastered many of his secrets. These made him dare not offend me easily.

Because I was greedy and fussy, he decided to break up with me several times. From this point of view, my emotional intelligence is still lacking. I can eat him, I can only say that the goal I chose is right, and I don't have to challenge the masters.

Once, he made up his mind to break up with me and gave me a breakup fee of 100,000 yuan. I was not reconciled to losing this ATM, but I didn't blackmail him either. I want to make it clear that blackmail with a handle is a double-edged sword, you can hurt him, but on the other end there may be a person, or organization that I can't mess with, and I can't ask for trouble.

The best thing to do is to reconcile with him. However, I can't let go of my body to beg him, then I will be passive in the relationship, I have to think of a decent way. The opportunity has finally arrived. In August of this year, Yue Guanghui's unit was going to participate in an international exhibition, and he was the person in charge of setting up the exhibition, and I asked a big guy to help me get a ticket for the rostrum. When he entered the arena, he saw me sitting on the rostrum, surrounded by a big guy who needed to be courteous to talk, and he was blindsided. After the exhibition, he took the initiative to add my WeChat again. After I had been him for a few days, I suddenly went berserk, hitting and scratching and biting him, saying that I was in love with him, but he broke my heart. He kept apologizing, and it wasn't until I transferred 13,145.21 yuan that I burst into laughter.

(c)

To tell the truth, I can see a man like Yue Guanghui, and other scumbags can also look at it, and he seems to lack resistance to women. He has had affairs with many women, and when I found one, I had a big fight with him, and he had to spend money to coax me, no less than 100,000 yuan each time. It's not that I'm prettier than other women, it's that I have too many secrets, and he loves and fears me, and he never wants to turn his back on me.

However, I met a great character. In June of this year, I suddenly found out that he had that kind of relationship with a female subordinate, Sunset, who was not beautiful and a little fat, but had big breasts, so I called Sunset and quarreled with her. Unexpectedly, Sunset took out the posture of a shrew scolding the street and scolded me to the blood. Afterwards, I learned that Sunset was not simple, born in a provincial city, only with a college education, but entered their public institution that recruited people with a starting point, and became a regular employee in less than two years.

I felt that I couldn't take advantage of the head-on confrontation with Sunset, so I called Yue Guanghui, "The surname Yue, you are really any woman, you are an insult to me, do you know what Sunset said, she said, you lick her mouth with X, kiss me, I am disgusted, what do you say?"

He apologized on the phone, and I said no, I must compensate me 1 million yuan. Otherwise, I will tell his wife about his relationship with me and with Sunset, tell him about his unit, and go to his children's school to make trouble.

Yue Guanghui was so frightened that he begged for mercy on the phone, and transferred 500,000 yuan to me in two installments, and then said that he really had no money.

I accepted it when I saw it, but suggested that he must cut ties with Sunset and transfer Sunset out of his department. I don't know if he broke up with Sunset, but he really transferred Sunset to the branch in Shenzhen, and it was inconvenient to date.

In less than two years of getting along, I have taken out more than 200 yuan from Yue Guanghui. He finally couldn't bear it anymore and begged for mercy, "I really don't have any money, you're too ruthless, I can't love it!"

Later, even if I tempted him to, he wouldn't want to. I understand that when a guy doesn't want to sleep with me, he's really desperate. At this time, there is no point in the two continuing to date.

Of course, I won't knock his bamboo pole just because I have his black material in my hand, this is the way to get trouble, even if he tempts me to know how many secrets I know about him, I will pretend to be confused. I just let him understand that I have feelings for him and will not harm him, but he can't afford to offend me and dare not retaliate against me.

We broke up amicably, and in order to make him think about it, I still used some of the relationship to help him a little. I made amends in this way, maintaining my friendship with him, goodbye and friends.

A wise woman, even if she is greedy, must be moderate, and she can't dry up and fish. You can sprinkle under the guise of love, but don't kill them all. People have grown up all their lives, and maybe one day they will meet again.

When I continued to help Yue Guanghui find some resources, the insider said that I was affectionate and righteous. That's right, even if I am a scumbag, I have to leave a good reputation of "heavy feelings". Otherwise, I will be scared in the circle, and where will I go hunting?

Five years after graduating, I have already bought a two-bedroom house in Guangzhou, and I still have millions of cash on hand. With this wealth foundation, I can follow some big guys to make investments. Invisibly, my worth and B rank have risen to another level. Now, I'm targeting the billionaire crowd.

When you are reading the story of Meidao, you will probably think that Yue Guanghui is too stupid, this is obviously a courtesan, and desire is written on his face, why can't he recognize it?

It's a misunderstanding, because that's what it feels like when you're standing in the middle of the spectator and reading her mind.

But when Yue Guanghui was dating her, he was chasing a cold goddess, and he would feel that he was that powerful conqueror, and he never dreamed that he was the prey of the other party. When people are in the game, they will inevitably make stupid mistakes.

In the eyes of people with conservative concepts and a relatively high level of morality, the courtesan of American knives will not end well. But I have to regret to point out that the American knife not only has a high level of gambling, but also knows how to stop in moderation, looks very ruthless, and is very vicious when you think about it, but it will not be wiped out, and it knows the truth of releasing water to raise fish.

This kind of woman is terrible when she sees through it, but the men around her think she is very cute. Even the men who were all pocketed by her didn't hate her so much, and many still maintained a good relationship with her, but they just felt "unloved".

She knows how to ask and how to avoid trouble. Under normal circumstances, she would not be unlucky. However, after all, this kind of woman cannot be tolerated by social justice, and her actions cannot be exposed to the sun. So, she said she was insecure. Its actions are worth learning from, but they are not worth learning and worshiping.

It is worth noting that Yue Guanghui belongs to a man with a relatively high IQ and EQ, otherwise he would not be a middle-level person in a large unit, and he can control several companies in private. Even so, he became the hunting object of courtesans and was played badly. Men, shouldn't everyone be wary?

For some genuine wives, you must know that no matter whether your man is rich or not, as long as he is relatively good (those rich and status courtesans are easy to attack honest and good men when they wash their hands and go ashore), they are very likely to be targeted by courtesans, which will not only hurt your love, but also hurt your family's economy. Therefore, it is useless to be honest and forbearant, you should send a female power, or you still have to send it, otherwise the loss will be very miserable!