Lan Xinyan frequently changes girlfriends, and her thoughts are very obvious, "You don't like me, there are a lot of women who are rare to me, you don't like money, there are countless women who like money."

He just wanted Yuan Qiuhua to be jealous, regret it, and snatch him back. But Yuan Qiuhua was not only indifferent, but regarded it as normal and legitimate, but wished him and them happiness, growing old, and having many children and grandchildren!

Yuan Qiuhua didn't fall for it, Lan Xinyan set a trap, but put himself in it, and he couldn't say anything about his suffering.

Yuan Zhizhi couldn't get used to it, and at the same time he was worried, so he persuaded Lan Xinyan and said: Look what kind of women you talk about? You find a civil servant, or a university professor, and fall in love seriously, can't you? You have to find someone who is not careful, showing that you have high taste, or is you charming! Such nonsense, which serious girl will look at you squarely?

Lan Xinyan quibbled: Why are they not serious?

Yuan Philosophy said: Just like a public dung pit, anyone from three religions and nine streams can squat down and urinate.

Yuan Qiuhua said: He is single, and it is his freedom to choose who he chooses and who he is with. Is he happy or not, and you are lenient in your business? You are not his elder! Be careful that he plays the power of the boss and fires you.

While eating, I watched the news broadcast. On World AIDS Day, a report from the Chinese Center for Disease Control and Prevention shows how many AIDS patients are there in China? 718,000. The number of people increased in the first half of the year, 67,751. Another troubling statistic is that between 200,000 and 400,000 infected people remain undetected across the country.

Yuan Philosophy said: This is the most authoritative figure. Love is noble, it should not be built on dirty deals, wake up, dear humanity!

There was an incident on the TV about a little girl who received a large box and opened it to see a set of shrouds and a note that said: Welcome to the AIDS Club. The girl broke down, crouched in the corner, and cried bitterly. She called and asked the man, I love you so much? Why do you want to hurt me? That man is crazy, I love you too, I love you to death! If I were a beggar sleeping on the street, would you love me? She burst into tears, even if I cheated money, it was not a capital crime! You shouldn't hurt me like this? That man barked wildly, if you lied to me, I would lie to you, and I would play with you to death! Now I just ask you, are you surprised? Are you surprised? Exciting or not? Happy or not?

Yuan Qiuhua glanced at Lan Xinyan.

Lan Xinyan said: I'm not sick.

Yuan Zhezhi also looked at Lan Xinyan.

Lan Xinyan shook his head, a swarm of wasps buzzed in his ears, they crowded and squeezed, burrowed into his skull, their wings flapped to find an exit, they couldn't get out after a few turns, they bit and stung frantically, team after team, one after another, bent on escaping. His head was painful and swollen, his eyes were golden, he began to feel dizzy, and his consciousness was dazed. He must not be quiet, he has a thousand words, but he has no spirit to speak, he feels disappointed, and he is too lazy to explain. Then he roared angrily: Why should I lie to you? I have money to spend? I really don't have AIDS.

Yuan Qiuhua sighed softly: Are you sure?

Yuan Philosophy said: Extraordinary things need extraordinary evidence. No, it can be prevented, there is, it can be treated. We should not shy away from medical treatment, because we have already hurt people.

Angry impacts, dying struggles, heads are flesh coffins, and efforts are ineffective. Hornets dancing in coffins. The last. The silence of death. Lan Xinyan was like a deflated ball, deflated, and he looked ashamed, like a thief caught red-handed. He snorted and said, "I've checked it, I'm not sick."

Yuan Qiuhua said: I dreamed last night and heard the old bustard say to Lan Shao, "This girl is 6 years old and is proficient in piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, so she must make her son happy! Come, come on, play a song for the public!"

I didn't want her to understand, but she actually understood, a little girl, like a weathered old lady, understands everything, didn't she drink Meng Po soup? She didn't look at him with her eyes, she didn't dare, she couldn't bear it, but she wasn't coquettish, she was shy, her eyebrows trembled, her eyebrows were crumbled into a soft knot, and the silky and tender bud tips were like the leaf buds of the tea garden before the Qingming Dynasty.

Lan Xinyan understood that there was no hope, she was someone else, an irrelevant person, and she still misjudged her. He was annoyed and angry: From now on, which of the two of us speaks first, who WBD!

Yuan Qiuhua: Crazy? Mental illness is not easy to treat!

Only talk about work, not feelings, but how can feelings be broken and broken? How can I say no? The next day, Lan Xinyan said: I know you are for my good, I'm sorry, I made you worry, I'm fine!

A year later, Lan Xinyan didn't toss anymore, he clarified himself, summed up his experience, and learned lessons.

He said: Don't look at the fact that they are not married, but the boyfriends they talked about, I don't know how many men have experienced them, and they may not even remember themselves. Some have been living with men for many years, some have maintained various relationships with various men, and some are simply dating a large number of men at the same time. Talking about marriage with such a woman, you will find out how complicated her past experience is, often on the street to meet the man she has talked to, or lived with, some are even your former friends, classmates, customers, etc., sometimes talking about these women, there are always buddies who know, and will talk about their past experiences.

Yuan Philosophy said: Although they are not married, their past experience is almost acceptable to almost all men, and it can be said that the vast majority of older women just haven't got a marriage certificate. Chances are, you're just her pick-up man.

Lan Xinyan said: They have always thought that they are young and have not played enough, so they only fell in love and did not get married in the past, thinking that while they are young, they can be more chic, and then they can marry an honest man. Now most of the older women have this mentality, either because they were deceived in their former love, and they are angry to find an honest man; or they feel that they really should get married, and if they don't marry, they can't get married, and finally they find an honest man to marry; some even just want a child and have to marry, and they won't consider living with you at all; even so, they are still very proud in front of you, and they think that she will suffer a loss if they marry you, marrying such an older woman, you are actually the so-called platter man, is it worth it? An honest man, could it be that what you owe you in your previous life should be your food and fig leaf to vent?

Of course, Yuan Qiuhua does not agree with this view: although this phenomenon is more common among older women, it does not mean that all older women are so unbearable.

Lan Xinyan immediately asked: Can you be sure that I am so lucky?

Yuan Qiuhua was speechless for a while.

These things, black and white, do not mention, so vaguely passed.

Lan Xinyan turned around and was good to Yuan Qiuhua, but she was a good horse and didn't eat back grass, her heart was wandering, and the dog couldn't change her eating, she ate it before marriage, and she still ate it after marriage. She doesn't know these things, but she can deceive herself, she accepts it when she knows, and if she doesn't acquiesce and connive, isn't he unscrupulous?

Yuan Philosophy said: You don't want anything, you just want him to be good to you. If one day, he doesn't treat you well, then you have nothing. He didn't treat you well, and in the end he was sincere and fed the dog!

Yuan Qiuhua lives a simple, down-to-earth, and stable life. If you choose a rich talent to be your husband, it is equivalent to participating in a game of the brave, and there will be temptresses anytime and anywhere, competitors anytime and anywhere, and challengers anytime and anywhere. The reason is very simple, little goblins generally like rich men, little girls also worship talented men, rich young masters and elegant professors, is definitely a conductor that attracts women's attention, marrying such a man must have a fly swatter, follow him and slap the buzzing flies. You know, since ancient times, talented people are amorous, men have always been romantic, goblins like to tempt men, and men's curiosity and curiosity, and vanity to show off in front of friends, so that men like women, but there is more than one, you are just a fan, how can there be status at all! There is no point in fighting for wind and jealousy, there is no value in competing for favor and love, you may win today, but you may lose very badly tomorrow. He loves her now, it doesn't mean that he loves her all his life, a life is too long, and no one knows what the future holds, but she knows that life is full of variables, feelings are the most difficult to control, and no one can guarantee that he will only love one person in his life. There are gains and losses, more money and more troubles, only big arrogance and big wealth, she is afraid of complicated situations and relationships, and she doesn't want to live too tired.

Lan Xinyan said: You are the person I love the most, the person I can't give up in my life, my heart belongs, I won't love others anymore.

Yuan Qiuhua said: Aren't you playing happily? You have been among thousands of flowers, and not a single leaf has touched your body.

Lan Xinyan said: From now on, you will love me in my heart for the rest of my life, and I will love you until I die, no matter who I meet, I will not be as good as you, and I will not be tempted again.

Yuan Qiuhua said: I can't bear to split my legs and cheat, someone will accept it! I won't play with you, a lot of people will accompany you! I won't accompany you.

Lan Xinyan said: When I meet others, I always compare with you, but compared to you, they are not as good as you, and they can't replace you.

Yuan Qiuhua said: Is there a regret medicine in the world? I understand you, but I can't forgive you.

Lan Xinyan said: I opened my eyes and it was you, I closed my eyes and I thought about you, during the day, I was busy thinking about you, and at night, I was lonely and thinking about you. Take your little temper and give it to me!

Yuan Qiuhua said: I have a stumbling heart, it doesn't mean that everyone cares, you don't mind chasing it!

Lan Xinyan said: My heart has been taken away by you, how can you let me love others again?

Yuan Qiuhua said: A lover is a lover, a wife is a wife, while soaking a woman non-stop, while trying to marry a virgin martyr, how do you do it with two hearts? I'm curious!

Lan Xinyan said: No one is perfect, I am not a sage, why are you so strong? I love someone deeply, I am a heart, and I will think of you all my life. If you fall in love, it will be a lifetime, and if you don't love it, it will be a lifetime if you are in your heart. I can't forget you, engraved in my heart, or for a lifetime.

Yuan Qiuhua said: You have made "wishing to win the heart of one person" into a fairy tale, and you have turned "the white head is not separated" into a joke, and you think that I will still believe you? I don't play with you, who wants to play with you, who do you go to!

Xie Heshun and Lan Xinyan ate in the cafeteria of Sun Yat-sen University. Lan Xinyan was worried and sullen.

Xie Heshun asked: Seeing that you are preoccupied, can you tell me about it?

Lan Xinyan said: I met a weird person, she can understand my situation, respect my views and beliefs, support and encourage me to work hard, mingle with me, and make me feel comfortable, down-to-earth, and at ease. But when I wanted to go further and have a deeper relationship with her, I found that she always kept a certain distance from me, which made me feel that we were always separated by a layer.

Xie Heshun said: She is eighty percent smarter than you. If you can't be a girlfriend, it's because you're not good enough.

Lan Xinyan said: I took out my heart and gave it to her, isn't it good enough?

Xie Heshun said: To put it objectively but also utilitarianly, it is difficult for people with unequal IQs to communicate. I found that these "really smart" people, with similar friends and family backgrounds, have excelled in their respective fields - so-called birds with the same feathers, flying together.

Lan Xinyan said: I'm good to her, but she's been forbearing?

Xie Heshun said: Smart people are good at leapfrogging logical thinking, ordinary people state according to the rules of A/B/C, and smart people are A/D/G, so that they take the time to explain the steps that have been omitted, which is tantamount to making money and killing people - this is what Lu Xun said.

Lan Xinyan said: People gather by like, the circles are different, and strong integration cannot be integrated. There are rich and poor privileged strata in society, people are divided into three, six, nine and so on, the second generation of officials, the second generation of the military, the second generation of the rich, family background, status, vision and knowledge, the threshold is there, and ordinary people can't cross it.

Xie Heshun said: So you know the real reason why you can't get involved, can't make deep friends, and can't get high-quality contacts, right?

Lan Xinyan said: In the eyes of outsiders, they are conceited, lonely, and even paranoid, but in fact they have limited energy, only do important things, draw a line with secondary people and things, and show "one layer apart", or "unsociable".

Xie Heshun said: I have seen the worst side at the trough of life, I have experienced the hot and cold of the world, and I have also seen the best side at the peak of my life.

Lan Xinyan said: New love is just "joy", and only old love is "love". I didn't figure it out in the past, but now that I do, she won't give me a chance.

Xie Heshun said: If you make a mistake, you will have to bear the consequences if you make a mistake, life is like this, what else do you want?

Lan Xinyan was "choked", a little annoyed, and more helpless.

Yuan Qiuhua rejected Lan Xinyan, she has her bottom line, morally, emotionally, and at work, she adheres to her principles, and it is impossible to compromise to the point that there is no bottom line. She had been silent, probably dead. She has been forbearant and does not explain, thinking that explanation is a superfluous thing, because people who understand you will trust if they don't explain, and people who don't understand you won't believe in explanations. She didn't want to blame Lan Xinyan, although he was amorous, but whatever you want, I will do whatever you want. He didn't refuse to come, and the neighbors knew about it, but they thought that only Yuan Qiuhua was in the dark, so he didn't want to die with a "thief's heart", and he just wanted to fight quickly. It's a pity that he knows the root of the matter and knows the bottom of the neighbors, and out of the unaccustomed "righteous indignation", he has already reminded Yuan Qiuhua. She's smart, exquisite, and can see other people's tricks, she's Ultraman, and others are little monsters.

Lan Xinyan hesitated, and then crackled and rebranded, she had no choice but to "hehe", "oh oh". She is not afraid of losing her job, as long as she has the ability, no matter where she goes, she will not be buried. If the temptation fails, no matter how much coercion and coercion are made, if you don't agree to the "unspoken rules", you will be fired, she will leave without hesitation, of course, she won't say anything, don't cry or make trouble, and vote directly with her feet.

If you talk too much, you must be adulterated, suspicion is because you don't understand, and fear is also because you don't trust, and you don't know the bottom of your heart. The honey of A, the arsenic of B, went around in a big circle, always judged by their own standards, always loved with their own understanding, so they couldn't get it, they were reluctant but self-reserved, and finally missed all the way, missed but couldn't let go, regret was like a blunt knife cutting meat, pain for a lifetime, guilt was like sawtooth slow chopping, tossing for a lifetime, it was really infinitely embarrassing.

Lan Xinyan believes that the more intimate it is, the better the relationship. It's just that Yuan Qiuhua just doesn't fit in, such a very close relationship. She longs for her own personal space, so she even feels particularly uncomfortable in the face of particularly enthusiastic people, and is often scared and at a loss. But in the face of those people who seem to be cold, but are actually warm-hearted, she will be more and more unable to let go of the heart-wrenching and silent dedication. No matter what kind of relationship she has, she needs an independent space, not that two people who love each other don't need privacy, what she prefers is to maintain a relationship with a suitable distance, both parties have the feelings of mutual companionship, and also have a tacit understanding of not interfering with each other. For her, deep and lasting feelings, seamless cooperation, and long-term companionship can last forever.