Yuan Qiuhua and Hong Kong actor Li's love affair has gone through eight years of repair, divided and combined, broken and broken, separated, tortured and sadistic, based on the difference in birthplace, the disparity in family background, long-term emotional suffering, and the incompatibility of career outlook, and finally ended in a breakup. At the official end, Yuan Qiuhua was nearly thirty years old, his youth had passed away, his career was at a low point, and he began to doubt his life and reflect on his choices. The professor once said, girls, incapable, do not work hard, what is the use of being good-looking? Jumping out of literary and artistic theory and stepping into social practice is suitable for the actual situation of the general public, but it is good-looking, not only useful, more useful than ability for career, more useful for life than hard work, more useful than intelligence for luck, to borrow a popular phrase to conclude, that is, it is better to marry well than to do well.

As the saying goes, a girl is eighteen and one flowers, and everyone loves her when they look at her. Yuan Qiuhua is not good-looking, coupled with arrogance and stubbornness, different and unsociable, and upright and resolute, will not be docile and soft to show weakness, but also the bumpy road to leave a shadow, not only parents are anxious, relatives are worried, friends are urging, but they are also worried, they can't afford to hurt, they can't make mistakes, they can't put it aside, and they can't escape.

After being introduced, Yuan Qiuhua returned to his hometown to marry Xie Han. On the surface, his family is poor, ugly, honest, and in the suburbs, and he is a bricklayer, and his skills can support his family, and he meets the standard conditions for living a small life. As the proverb goes, you will choose talents, you will not choose family wealth, the family is not terrible, the poor know how to work hard, the rich and the arrogant are defeated, but they are afraid that people will be lazy and do not do the right thing. I don't mind if I'm ugly, the beauty of the bird is in the feathers, and the beauty of the person is in the soul. Honest man, keep his duty, down-to-earth, seems to be more reliable, cunning, flowery, imaginative, often unreliable, what she likes the most, is this, there is a sense of security, don't worry about being played, don't have to beware of being sold, even if he is playing, he is not his opponent, even if he can't control the world alone after marriage, at least he can control half of the country, no matter how he is, he will not be reduced to a resentful woman who has nothing.

Even though Yuan Qiuhua went south and north, after all, he was young, his work was quite simple and easy, his literary and artistic circles were relatively simple, and his emotional experience was single-minded. But it turned out later that the decision to marry Xie Han was still a little hasty, gullible on the surface, and overestimated his ability. During the relationship, she only talked to him when she met, and she knew that she only knew about him, and she did not follow the local customs and folk customs to send troops to Xie Hejia to make an unannounced visit and investigation of his family background, his family, and his family style. The rash bitter fruit, the dumb eats coptis, she swallows it herself, regrets it too late, and inevitably blames the introducer, the matchmaker can't believe it, hides the ugly and hides the right and wrong, and the front and back are not thorough, no matter where the woman marries, as long as a pig's hind legs, flowers are inserted into the cow dung heap, white jade is thrown into the muddy pool, and the lamb is pushed into the tiger and wolf's den.

Yuan Qiuhua stepped into the door of Xie's house, and what greeted him was not a friendly look, but a hostility in the eyes of his mother-in-law, as if receiving a rival in love who came to the door, eager to put salt in the tea and poison the dish. After marriage, getting along with each other every day, the mother-in-law saw her daughter-in-law, the more she looked at it, the more angry she became, she was not happy at all, and her whole body was on fire, as if her daughter-in-law was a fox spirit who was fascinated by Tang Seng.

Gong Magpie has no taboos against her daughter-in-law, she must let her daughter-in-law serve her mother-in-law according to her past, the old etiquette to serve her, wash her face and comb her hair, pour the urine basin, make the bed and sweep the floor and wipe the dust, serve tea and eat and please taste the food---- she used to be a child daughter-in-law, and now she still treats her daughter-in-law as a child daughter-in-law. And set ten rules for beating and scolding the new family, establish the authority of the mother-in-law, serve ungodly, beat, stiff-necked and do not listen to teaching, beat, look at the elder with cold eyes, beat, greet impatient, beat, dryness and impurity, beat, speak loudly, beat, summon not be silent, beat, show unhappiness, beat, call the east to the west, beat, do not work hard, beat.

Food and clothing, cold and warm hunger, before and after the saddle, the daughter-in-law served a little unsatisfactory, the palace magpie scolded when he opened his mouth, and the son raised his hand to beat, and raised his leg to kick.

The daughter-in-law who marries and the horse that he buys are ridden by people and beaten by others, and they can be beaten if they want to be beaten, they can be sold if they want to be sold, and they will be buried if they are killed, and they will be accepted if they cannot die.

According to the old etiquette, if the daughter-in-law scolds and does not fight back, does not fight back, and cries when she is angry, she is looking for another beating, and if she suffers a loss and reasons, she should be beaten half to death.

The daughter-in-law violates the house rules, this is a justified beating, there is no reason to scold, there is no need to be reasonable, there is no need to follow the rules of scolding, there is also the punishment of not being allowed to eat, the punishment of not being allowed to enter the room, and the punishment of not being allowed to go home. If you say that you are not filial, you are not filial, and you can't refute it, and if you say disobedience, you can't argue, the mother scolds, you can't get angry, and your son beats and can't cry.

Giving birth to a son is a good helper, obedient, obedient, with a fart, beating a wife has shown that he is not afraid of his wife, marrying a daughter-in-law is a good product, punching bag, fire venting bucket, practicing beating meat pillars, scolding daughter-in-law has shown that she can control her daughter-in-law, being a mother-in-law is good to moisturize, grow spirit, nourish mood, relax muscles and invigorate blood, and will scold and beat the majesty of the mother-in-law.

The mother-in-law does not have to do it herself, as long as she gives an order, her son will fight on her behalf. Mother and son are heart-to-heart, the power is great, the word will be beaten, and the majesty is enough.

The foreign daughter-in-law is unconditionally obedient to the ruler and her husband, which is similar to that in the Guangxu period of the former Qing Dynasty.

Mrs. Gong often said, when I was young, how could I be so happy and happy?

Half a generation of bitter daughters-in-law, scolded and beaten, tormented into a wife, have to embarrass the daughter-in-law, let the beating and scolding play style, sing the mother-in-law's scriptures, follow the mother-in-law's example, and let the daughter-in-law suffer the same ordeal.