Zhuang Ziyun: Summer insects can't talk about ice, well frogs can't talk about the sea, and ordinary people can't talk about Taoism.

Confucius said: Don't talk with words, but talk with words, lose words.

Thoughts are not at the same level, they cannot be communicated, and their moods are not at the same interface, and they cannot be understood. This is not just a matter of generation gap, not just a difference in life experience, not just a conflict of two values, but two completely different types of people who originally lived in two worlds.

is like the abducted female college student in the movie "Blind Mountain", who is in a desperate situation, lonely and unable to sing, and is surrounded by a pack of wolves in a trance, without giving a chance to persuade and educate at all, and there is no possibility of retreating. In the primeval jungle isolated from human civilization, it is true that it is the duty of the wolf to eat the sheep, so why do you need a reason? The sheep do not want to be eaten, so they either hone themselves to become stronger and become the king of the tiger, or they can become more ferocious and become a wild wolf.

The eyes can't accommodate the nostrils, the begging can't call flowers, the Xie family's hostility and malice towards the foreign daughter-in-law, insult and bullying, anyone with a normal IQ can see it. This is a house where right and wrong are reversed, there is no wind and three feet of waves, there are waves and waves, hidden arrows are ambushed on all sides, open guns are in all directions, and a wrong step is like falling into the Colosseum.

The harp was played to the ox, and the piano was trampled by the ox. In a fit of rage, Yuan Qiuhua ran back to her parents' house and appealed to the court to file for divorce from Xie Han.

Yuan Qiuhua once followed the trend of working in the south and worked in Guangdong for ten years, from the initial garment factory needle turner, to the production team leader, and then to the workshop supervisor. Most of the sewing workers are women, or rural women from the countryside, and although they work in the cities, their behavior is still stagnant in the rural mode. For a small profit, take advantage of the cheap, drill when you see the hole, go on the interest when you see the profit, compete for the parking space, pick the process, grab the materials, grab the supplies, you have to make a noise, shrew scolds the street, falls and beats, cries and makes trouble, and entangles endlessly. And gang up, fellow villagers help fellow villagers, old workers bully new workers, if a word disagrees, one of the two factions has a dispute, the two factions quarrel, open their mouths to scold, the war of words is not happy, quickly escalate, hands to help, staged a full martial arts, scissors flying, stools smashing, cloth fairies scattering flowers, a big melee between women in the two provinces.

Whether it is saluting before the soldiers, or saluting before the soldiers, whether it is before, after the war, or during the truce, the team leader will come forward to persuade and mediate, order each other to sit down, calmly explain the reason, and lay out the reason. Naturally, there were also talking and talking, arguing again, and even talking and fighting.

No matter how big the fight is, there will always be a time to finish, whether it is scolding or fighting, you have to find someone to judge. I can't escape the scolding, crying, crying, and complaining to the supervisor. Yuan Qiuhua has grown step by step from the bottom to white-collar management, and has his own set of effective ways to deal with women, first of all, listening, you say it first, he will say it again, then it is an investigation, listen to the third person, and finally everyone please listen to me, move with affection, grace and power, know with reason, reward and punishment appropriately, fair and just, properly handled, should apologize, should compensate, should be fined, should be fired, the meeting was discussed and passed, and one by one was announced, so that people must be convinced.

In the 2000th year, in a suit factory in Guangzhou, the new production manager did not understand bullshit, but he was a dog, and the workshop employees did not work, and he got a guaranteed salary of 1,500 yuan per month. There is a job that does not first consider the workers, earning money does not give priority to the workers, the workers of course have opinions on him, the migrant workers leave their hometowns, just to earn an extra one or two thousand a month, so idle, the skills are useless, people can not leave the factory, not allowed to go out to do odd jobs, although the food and shelter, but can not earn a lot of money, idle all day long, in addition to playing cards, chatting, is to sleep, it is a waste of good time. As soon as the situation of not dying and not living is long, the master will change jobs, the artist is bold, he does not worry about not working, he urgently needs money to quit his job, there are old and young, he can't afford to delay, he has ideas, he also goes to relatives and friends, he goes to work, he has a doorway, he also contacts former workers, or fellow villagers, and finds a new job.

The reason why he can be a manager is because his sister is the second wife of the Hong Kong boss, with her dirty nepotism, the fox and the fake tiger, which is originally despicable, but he is the main force, does evil, and rectifies whoever is not pleasing to the eye, which is more and more disgusting to the employees. His sister is a little wife for the boss, he is not far behind, the little wife can't afford to support, the lover is economical and practical, and from time to time bring it to the workshop to swagger. He is looking for a lover, which has nothing to do with the employees, nor has anything to do with management, and the contradiction is aggravated because he wants his lover to be the supervisor to manage the employees in the whole workshop. He is a production manager, in charge of personnel, nepotism, rice buckets and thick bags, which is equivalent to using the boss's money to raise them in vain, managing production, the Changbai shift is not arranged or urged, and the delivery is in a hurry, working overtime day and night, ten yuan overtime per person per hour, and thirty yuan per person per day, and the boss has to pay out of pocket. The boss is willing to be the wronged leader, but the employee has no intention of being tortured by him, although he works overtime to catch up with the goods, each person can receive an extra 100 yuan of overtime pay per day, but every day until the early hours of the morning, the body can not bear it, and the health is affected, rather than being busy and tired to death, idle is idle and boring, it is better to produce normally, and go to the Changbai shift every day without hurry, and can also get a salary of 2,000 to 3,000 per month. He arranged for his lover to be the supervisor and Yuan Qiuhua to be the team leader, but he was impacted for no reason, of course Yuan Qiuhua didn't do it, resigned and left, and went to an underwear factory in Shenzhen.

Unexpectedly, the employees of the Guangzhou suit factory, on the third day after Yuan Qiuhua left, all went on strike, and then collectively handed in their resignations, and all of them quit. Then followed Yuan Qiuhua and transferred all of them to Shenzhen underwear factory.

Yuan Qiuhua is a special writer of "Nan Feiyan", and has won the title of migrant girl writer. Employees like to ask her for help if they have any troubles, and if they have any worries, they like to confide in her, and they are known as "intimate sisters".

The situation is not optimistic, emergency braking, U-turn, after jumping the factory, they are still production employees, Yuan Qiuhua is still the workshop supervisor, but the boss continues to work. Although he still earns hard money in the Blood and Tears Factory, the choice of supervisor and boss is ranked first, good and bad, among which salary, encounter, mood, and feeling are different.

Due to her narrow communication, busy work, and the life experience of a foreign girl, Yuan Qiuhua continued the route of a golden leftover girl, and unconsciously reached an old age. Although the spirit is free, the personality is independent, and she lives the life she wants to live, but the woman's lifelong event, talking about feelings and not money, knowing each other not utilitarian, talking about spirit and not material, romantic and not vulgar, it is always difficult to escape the marriage screening of the real society. There is an experience summary in the market, the women of Yunnan, Guichuan and Sichuan refuse to endure hardships, love to run away from home, Hunan, Hubei and Jiangxi's in-laws, their temper is difficult to serve, shouting and drinking and going out, men in Guangxi rely on women to support, and husbands in Guangdong must give birth to boys.

Young workers go home on a blind date, introduced by acquaintances, it is still the mainstream way, speaking dialects and local languages, rolling on the road, overflowing with local flavor, visiting parks, topics full of local interest, eating supper, it is easier to find common hobbies and life interests, watching movies, talking about love is also more smooth, meeting parents, talking about marriage is also smoother. After most of them get married, the children are left to be raised by their grandparents, and both husband and wife go to the city to work.