At that time, they broke off relations with Xie Wen's family for ten years, not only did their parents and brothers not recognize each other, but even their sisters, brothers-in-law and nephews did not speak when they met with Xie Wen's family.

Until this time, Xie Qingquan was seriously ill and bedridden, knowing that he would die soon, he was guilty of the gods, and under the discussion of the outside shame, he asked the elders in the clan to come forward and mediate, hoping that the eldest son's family could be lenient, and hoped that the eldest son's family could release their previous suspicions, and it was best to shake hands and say goodbye, at least to participate in the rotation of the brothers. If sibling infighting does not know how to protect each other, and sisters and brothers do not know how to take care of each other, not only will they not be blind to death, but under the nine springs, what face do they have to meet their ancestors and ancestors?

Xie Wen said: Each has its own way, does not interact with each other, and has nothing to do with each other, and it has been like this for more than ten years. Now why are you forcing me to join in the fun?

Xie Qingfeng said: Miao from the pedicle, lotus from the lotus, even if the old man does not do it right, after all, it is the parents who gave birth to you and raised you, do you want to be accused of unfilial piety?

Sun Yue'e said: The tiger is still close, and the human poison is unbearable.

Xie Qingyi said: The biggest regret in life is that the son wants to raise, and the relatives are not there.

Xie Qinghui said: For the son of man, it is necessary to provide for the elderly, you savage? Otherwise, who will respect you? Do you still have the face to live in this world?

Sun Yue'e said: The crow is not laughing at the chicken woman, and the vegetable blue is not laughing at the rice sifting. Parents are unkind, children are not filial, good and bad examples, and they are at ease in people's hearts. Parents do the first year of junior high school, and children and grandchildren do the second year of junior high school, anyway, it is not us who takes the lead.

Xie Wen said: How can you say this about your parents if you are not considerate and unforgiving?

Xie Qingyuan said: To be a person in the world, we must remember the good of others, and it is always better to encourage than to criticize, and it is good for you to be good for her. If it's someone else's fault, you are wrong and she is wrong, and in the end, no one will be wrong.

Xie Qinghui said: The first people have been, it is called the holy, and the push has reached the people, and it is called the sage. Do not do unto others as you would have them do unto you. A gentleman seeks loyalty to himself, forgives others, blames others for his words, blames for deeds, takes care of words and deeds, is consistent inside and outside, and is honest and kind. The villain is subjectively conjecturing, absolutely correct, stubborn, self-proclaimed, self-righteous, competing opinions, unwilling to give in, so there is no virtue and no merit, no words and no position.

Xie Rongrong said: Real gold is not afraid of fire, the fragrance of wine is not afraid of deep alleys, right and wrong must be judged, and fairness is in the hearts of the people. As for the contradictions, there are always more ways than troubles, and they can definitely be solved, but they need to be taken slowly, eased step by step, and resolved one by one.

Xie Wen said: I have seen through it a long time ago, in their minds, it is the ears of the deaf, purely an ornament.

Xie Qingfeng said: I understand your distress, although your opinion has not played a big role. But your father still thinks highly of you.

Xie Qingyi said: You stubborn boy, why are you angry with others? Why is your father treating you badly? I would like to hear more about it.

Xie Wen said: Unfilial piety is a common crime in ancient and modern times, and there are all parents in the world, bad is also good, partiality is also right, pain and disgust, bad and wrong, and we must understand! First, children are not easy to say, and it is not good to hear. The second is that there is disharmony between the upper and lower levels, and outsiders always think that the subordinates are wrong. The third is that my brothers and sisters don't get along with me, and it seems to be my fault. Fourth, the more you say, the more wrong it becomes, and the more you describe it, the darker it becomes, so it's better to be silent and not say it. I don't care what others talk about behind my back, people behind my back can even scold the emperor, how old am I?

Xie Qingfeng said: Vixen, ruffian, scoundrel, what kind of law is there for such relatives. Alas, what is the law? Really!

Xie Rongxing said: If I were you, I would have taken the initiative to move forward a long time ago. If they beat you out of the door with sticks, wouldn't you be cleared up of the charge of unfilial piety? You didn't consciously show yourself first, but your father asked someone to make peace, but you put up a fight, are you embarrassed?

Xie Wen said: After a long time, it must be united, and it must be divided for a long time, and in the end, it will be divided. It's troublesome and peaceful, and it's peaceful and noisy, but the ending is still noisy.

Sun Yue'e said: The matter has not been resolved last time, and I still have to seek justice. Fish, turtles, shrimps and crabs went into battle together, tucking cunning and toughness, and fighting gutter boxing. We were punched in the heart, but we were still annoyed, so we could only fight haha. Suffering such a big loss, we endured it, and this time it was even more ruthless, I think it was planned a long time ago, and I want us to be angry. It's amazing, it's evil, the sky is above, where is the axiom?

Xie Qingyi said: The banquet is easy to set up, and it is difficult to invite guests, this is also the case! In the past, there were fights, but today's anger has not subsided.

Xie Qingfeng said: Now your father is critically ill, this is his last wish!

Xie Qinghui said: Of course, he is responsible, but he can't take the main responsibility, let alone take full responsibility.

Xie Prosperity said: I really can't bear to pour cold water on you again, but you will definitely bear the charge of unfilial piety. Hospice care, if you don't go to the show, this is of course rude. But what your parents do should be measured in a specific historical context.

Xie Qingyuan said: The first article of "Guwen Guanzhi" is about the breakup of mother and son. That mother is vicious, she wants to take the country and the head. The son swore that he would not meet until he reached the Yellow Spring. But in the end, people still couldn't bear the charge of unfilial piety, so they dug tunnels, reconciled with their mothers, and said that they were happy.

Xie Qingyi said: It's convenient for you to be with others, and it's convenient for yourself, so you can give them a chance to change.

Xie Wen said: Is this my father's mind? Or is it my mother's will? Or do you mean it?

Xie Qingfeng said: We must be responsible for treating our relatives and take our own responsibilities. If there is the natural fragrance of musk deer, why bother with the wind? But do good deeds, don't ask about the future.

The sister-in-law said: The pit is familiar with slaughter, be an accomplice, you have eye sockets, no eyeballs? They hurt us, and they still put on an innocent face, unaware!

Xie Prosperity said: Think about it, you are about to say goodbye to your father, what kind of fire are you poking at the age of less than 100, life is short, forget it, don't fight, don't fight, don't play with your life, money is like dung, wealth is like clouds, life is not brought, death is not brought, it is good to be able to live well, and it is beautiful to enjoy it.

Xie Qinghui said: Unintentional mistakes, called mistakes, for offense, apologize, accept criticism, correct it, do not have to entangle. It is useless to say too much, you will lose if you say too much, and the disaster comes from the mouth, but you will become unreasonable and become the wrong party.

Xie Qingfeng said: Now that the matter has come to this, it is time for everyone to take a step back. We did our best to do the ideological work to get them to promise not to be confused again.

Xie Wen said: The tall man is happy to say that the short man is happy. Of course, you are fair, out of good intentions, whether it works or not, I am grateful to you in advance!

Sun Yue'e said: The gongs and drums are sounding outside, and the head and feet are itching inside. You sparrows eat peas, don't consult with your ass, I curse you to eat in, you can't pull out.

Xie Wen said: Blessings are not allowed to be shared, but difficulties must be shared. I don't know what the price will be paid, and I don't know how much I will lose.

Xie Qingyuan said: You can't change the weather, but you can change your mentality, a good attitude determines a good mood, and a good popularity determines a good fate. Gain calmly, is a kind of elegance of virtue, indifferent, is a kind of virtue of humility, strive for the inevitable, is a kind of mind to embrace all rivers, go with the flow, a very high state of cultivation.

Xie Wen said: The land lord doesn't care about the affairs of the City God Temple. Ahem, it's not mixed, it's not sure.

Xie Qingyi said: Your mother's mouth is annoying and disgusting, don't rest assured of her words. She doesn't change her words, she doesn't change her scolding, she is in her seventies, she takes off her shoes today, and she doesn't know if she will be able to wear them tomorrow?

Sun Yue'e said: Playing gongs on the back of the ridge, they are another group, the tones are different, the tunes are different, and they can't get together! The old man can not care, so what about the younger brothers and sisters? Have they ever known how to be reasonable and respectful? What about those who are relatives? Who have ever respected the number of etiquette? It is simply like a seed from the roots, and it is really a broken crockpot burned in a kiln!

Xie Qingfeng said: When I was young, I was a younger brother and sister, and when I was older in the township, if I got along, I got closer, and if I didn't get along, I went farther away, and if I got along, I was intimate, and if I couldn't get along, I was alienated, as long as I maintained the surface of kindness and politeness, and didn't let others gossip, that's right!

Sun Yue'e said: Originally, I didn't want to see it, but I had to pretend to like it, I was angry, but I had to smile, you let me sing on stage, I didn't learn acting, so I couldn't pretend. If you force me, you will only smash the scene, so it is better to let me be the audience.

Xie Qinghui said: It is a madman who acts, and a fool who watches the play, and without the support of a fool, there will be no madness of a madman.

Xie Qingyuan said: Face your mistakes, admit your mistakes first, correct them when you know them, take active measures, properly deal with the consequences, resolve antagonistic emotions, avoid unnecessary quarrels, obtain the forgiveness of the other party, let the misunderstanding disappear, and make the atmosphere harmonious and pleasant.

Xie Wen said: I lost money and lost anger, will they think that I am weak and can be bullied?

Xie Qingfeng said: That also needs to be tolerated, tolerate the intolerable things in the world, and endure the unbearable people in the world, that is, to take responsibility, even if the loss of honor is better than the physical and economic loss.

Xie Wen said: If they are jealous, fighting for fame and fortune, knowingly committing crimes, and intentionally colliding, how can I avoid disaster?

Xie Qingyi said: Is it a tooth for a tooth? Is it a revenge for a grievance with virtue? Or is it a direct counterattack?

Xie Qingyuan said: First, forgive ignorance, the world is dominated by ordinary people, how can we ask for it with sages? Second, we sympathize with him for his short lifespan, step by step towards death, and live one day at a time, and how can we not feel pity for him when great calamity is coming? Third, we should remember the mistakes of others and remind ourselves not to make the same mistakes. In short, be strict with yourself and don't be demanding of others. Remember people with kindness, forget people, life will be better from now on, the mood will be happy from now on, and the mind will be broad.

Xie Rongrong said: Words and deeds have always been two different things, and whether you are good at learning has nothing to do with whether you are good or not.

Xie Qingfeng said: I know that you have studied private school for a few years, but I beg you, set a trap for sour and fake vinegar, sell these laws that you don't use, and despise the ancient sages!

Xie Qinghui said: Don't think I'm showy, I just think that a person like him who is knowledgeable and reasonable, has a certain amount of life experience, and his understanding ability and tolerance energy must be first-class. If I changed them, I didn't bother to bother with it.

Sun Yue'e said: Xie Wen, you are a person, you are thin-skinned, soft-eared, and you love face, and those who really know the bottom will be brave and lifted, and you will do stupid things, suffer losses, and corrupt people, where is it good to fall back? You are responsible for them, you help them, and people will never thank you!

Xie Qingfeng said: Everything has to be seen in two, if you don't give them face, you have to give your father face, and you have to give everyone a face.

Xie Rongxing said: How about you give a word, let's go back, we can make a difference!

Xie Wen said: Practice brings true knowledge. Whoever respects me, who looks up to me, who takes me seriously, whose business is my business.

Xie Qingyi said: If one's biological father and mother are not filial, how can they be sincere to others? Loyalty and filial piety are the real masculinity.

Xie Qingyuan said: When it comes to this, you can only follow the etiquette system, respect the ancestral system, abide by the family rules, and do it according to customs and habits, you can't be the master personally. From the moment you were born, the responsibility of the eldest son was already doomed, if you don't take it, there are people who put the burden on your shoulders, and now you can neither stop working nor avoid responsibility!

Sun Yue'e said: There is no banquet in the world that will not be dispersed, once the banquet is dispersed, he will come forward to entertain guests, and he will pay for it.

Xie Qingfeng said: I don't know what will happen tomorrow today, and who can say what will happen in the future? People live for a lifetime, but they have a clear conscience, and what step you can go to within your ability! Scolding and fighting are always inevitable, and when it is time to break up, you will break up the group, as long as you are at ease!

Xie Prosperity said: If your younger brothers and sisters are not in harmony, how can you make friends with outsiders?

Under the persuasion of the clansmen, Xie Wen led his wife and children to kneel in front of his father's hospital bed to apologize, promising that his father, as the eldest son, would uphold his father's will and not change his father's way, whether it was foreign affairs or domestic affairs, he would do his best and never dare to live up to his father's trust!

Gong Magpie looked at Xie Wen kneeling in front of the hospital bed and said: "The child who is the first to suffer, suffer a lot, you, the eldest son, have to take on the family responsibility, and you want to fight for me! You are the big brother, you must take a good lead, sincerely practice filial piety, and be an example!

Xie Wen held a family meeting, and the brothers averaged how much each family to, and pooled money for his father's treatment. People obey the mandate of heaven, the disease cannot be cured, and the treatment is to do one's best, just to express one's heart.