Hospice care
At this time, the so-called sick and rushed to the doctor, the palace magpie joined Christianity, hung the statue of Jesus in front of the church, opened the tape recorder and put it into the tape before the three meals a day, led all the children and grandchildren to kneel in front of the statue, each with a Bible, followed the chant in the tape and sang songs, sang and prayed to the old man: O Almighty Lord! My God! Please forgive the sins of my relatives and friends! Amen! Holy Lord! My god! Please grant health to my relatives and friends! Amen! Great Lord! My soul!
Prostrating and worshipping, being so pious, and having little to do with filial piety, is to do a very stupid thing. But the "filial piety" decided by the palace magpie only takes "obedience" as "filial piety", obedience and obedience are filial piety to her, filial piety, filial piety, filial piety, filial piety, and reward, otherwise it is unfilial piety, disobedience, and a bad daughter-in-law, and it must be punished.
Xie Xiong and his wife are the most obedient, and they follow her in everything, telling them to recite the scriptures, and they are frustrated, so that they can kneel and bow, and they are respectful. Xie Ying and his wife were the most perfunctory, chanting the scriptures silently, kneeling and bowing on the spot, just asking for something to happen quickly. Shu Zhiqiang didn't return to the house all day, and Xie Jiayan didn't recite the scriptures at will. Yuan Qiuhua is pregnant, so she is exempted from kneeling, and she has to cook and chant scriptures. Xie Han didn't believe that it was effective, so he slipped into the kitchen halfway, saying that he was helping, but in fact he was evading.
As the son and grandson of the palace magpie, he is quite aggrieved, quite helpless, and wants to be a filial son and daughter-in-law, but he has no multiple choices, and the only answer is that he can only obey her wishes, and his spirit is particularly depressed. Xie Xiong and his wife often condescended and obeyed orders, even if they were ridiculed and coldly treated by their peers, not only did they not care, but also said beautiful things and praised their mother. Acting and showing others are inseparable from the audience, and showmanship requires applause in exchange for rewards. At first glance, it looks like a joke. Everybody is smart! No one will make a loss-making deal. Yuan Qiuhua thought that it was not easy for Ping without roots to do this, after all, acting, and it also took talent to do fake plays. Gong Magpie saw that Xie Xiong and his wife could be so humble, which showed that they were guilty, sincere, loyal and filial, and gave support to the family.
Palace magpie see recently, no quick effect, no miracle. She converted to Buddhism, went to the temple to burn incense and donate merits, kowtowed and made a wish, please return a statue of Guanyin Bodhisattva, offer it to the shrine, worship as a god, go to the three fruits, and lead the descendants to worship three pillars of incense in the morning and evening, worship with palms together, kowtow and worship: Nan no Amitabha, all things are animist, Tantric law, immeasurable merits! Nan no Amitabha, hear the name of the Buddha, open the eyes of the Dharma, all sins are eliminated! Nan no Amitabha Buddha, pious heart, reminiscence, recitation, can eliminate the four serious sins! Nan Wu Amitabha Buddha, pure heart called Buddha, comprehend the three causes, give the eight dharmas of the present world, the merits obtained are as satisfying as the wheel of the sun, can subdue all evil demons and foreign paths! Nan Wu Amitabha Buddha, transcend cause and effect, see the Buddha with a clear mind, preach the scriptures and speak the Dharma to save all sentient beings, cultivate a perfect body, and be able to transcend the world for thirty turns!
Guanyin Bodhisattva statue, three pillars of incense in the morning and evening, kowtow to worship, serve the Buddha like a monk, so as to tie the relationship with the gods, connect with the Dharma, beg the gods to bless the old man to recover as before, live a long and healthy life, and enjoy the old age.
Not only does the family eat a long fast, but also asks all the children and grandchildren to join her every night, sit down and chant the scriptures, and silently recite the Buddha's name: Amitabha Buddha in the heart, may the three treasures be blessed and protected, Amitabha Buddha in the heart, happiness in the world, Amitabha Buddha in the heart, Amitabha Buddha in the heart, teach me not to be greedy, Amitabha Buddha in the heart, put aside the red dust and distractions, Amitabha Buddha in the heart, practice meditation and meditation, Amitabha Buddha in the heart, free in the world, Amitabha Buddha in the heart, stick to this belief, Amitabha Buddha in the heart, keep me auspicious!
Serve the Buddha with his palms together, kneel and worship like a ritual, and the Xie Wen family does not participate in the absence of children and grandchildren. As for the reality of the extended family, if you can't integrate into the mainstream, you can only seek to avoid it. The sense of estrangement and alienation in his heart is very strong, since his ability and knowledge are not "evenly matched", since his mother is domineering, his son is not submissive, and he has been bullied repeatedly, so he has to seek liberation. He doesn't have to be bullied by his mother in order to integrate into the big family, but he can run a small family according to his own wishes and abilities and live a good life, wouldn't he be more free and easy? Isn't it based on one's own prejudice that divides his children into filial piety and unfilial piety? Living all his life around "food and clothing" and crying and stealing, the city government and scheming are all used to calculate relatives! Then ignore her, forget each other in the rivers and lakes, live separately, let's form our own group of relatives and friends, play by ourselves, build a family and a business, and glorify our ancestors! Self-improvement and hard work, not unsociable, but not in her group, and his life circle and career group. broke out of a world, made a fortune in a muffled voice, lived a very comfortable life, and when the interest came up, he even sang: "My filial piety, you will never understand".
Eating fasting and chanting Buddha all day long, the house is full of incense, all mouths are muttering, all tongues are nicknamed, and the room is chaotic and noisy.
As soon as Xie Wen came in, he frowned: there is a lot of work on the surface, covering up the eyes of the world, and showing off the process.
Gong Magpie said: Those who believe in Buddhism will go to heaven and gain eternal life, and those who do not believe in Buddhism will go to hell and will not be able to live forever.
Yuan Qiuhua's belly: The mouth is so poisonous? I'm afraid I grew up drinking pesticides.
Xie Wen said: It is Jesus, God, Bodhisattva, and Maitreya again, just like eating a buffet, what kind of religion is the religion? What kind of Buddha do you believe? False emptiness, true hypocrisy!
Gong Magpie said: Six books of Confucianism, three Qing Taoism, but Buddhism is the first.
Yuan Qiuhua said: Buddhism is divided into Tantra and Zen Buddhism, and Buddhism is divided into Mahayana and Hinayana Buddhism. May I ask you, what way do you learn and what method do you teach?
Xiao Lin said: Watching "Journey to the West", it is said on TV that the Mahayana Sutra was retrieved by Tang Seng when he went to the West.
Xie Wen said: The name of Tang Seng is Tang Sanzang, what is Sanzang?
Ma Huilan said: Heavenly Tibetan Bodhisattva, Human Tibetan Bodhisattva, Earth Tibetan Bodhisattva.
Xie Wen said: "Nonsense! Tang Sanzang are the three Bodhisattvas? The Bodhisattvas are so angry that they vomit blood and ascend to heaven! With your level of education, what kind of Buddha do you believe?
Yuan Qiuhua said: If you don't read, you can't understand, if you don't learn, you don't learn, you don't think, you spread falsehoods, and everyone is the same, and there is a difference of 108,000 miles from the teachings of Buddhism!
Xie Xiong said: Damn, it is to eat the loss of no culture, simple-minded, the taste of life is great, eat well, sleep where is safe, strong and strong, one wins ten.
Xie Ying said: Xiucai doesn't go out, he can know the world's affairs, because he knows the world's affairs, he doesn't dare to do an inch, shrinks the corner of the house, and bakes oracle bones for a lifetime.
Yuan Qiuhua said: The true meaning of Buddhism is to make people look good, do good deeds and accumulate virtues, and seek more blessings for themselves. Only with a pure heart and few desires can we turn danger into peace, be kind and charitable, and turn misfortune into blessing.
Gong Magpie said: The master said, cut off evil and do good, change cause and effect, change fate, repent and practice, transcend cause and effect, and become a Buddha on the ground.
Xiao Lin said: Wholeheartedly to the Buddha, abide by the rules and precepts, practice the eight laws of the present world, accumulate blessings and virtues, be compassionate, give for goodness, and cultivate a perfect meritorious body, even if you can't live forever, you can live a long life, have a good appearance, feel at ease, and have good popularity.
Gong Magpie said: Buddhism talks about karma, and it can be summed up as ten kinds of good karma and ten kinds of bad karma. Choosing between cause and effect in a rational way can change one's destiny, and at the very least, one must stop evil and do good, turn bad karma into good karma, and turn evil results into good results. The first is not to kill, but to release more.
Ma Huilan said: Buddhist books predict that December 21 this year will be the end of the world, when earthquakes, tsunamis, landslides and earth cracks in the world, the world is full of tides, and there is a vast sea everywhere. When the time comes, Avalokiteshvara will send the Buddha to drive * to the next life to save people. Only the Dharma descendants, and those who are connected with the Buddha, can board the bottomless boat, survive natural disasters, and survive.
Yuan Qiuhua covered his mouth and bit his cheeks tightly to prevent his laughter from breaking through his throat. In her heart, she felt that nothing was right, she touched her chest with her other hand, and said to her heart, don't speak, don't make a sound, for the sake of stability and unity, for the sake of a group of harmony, you must hold back! When you see the opportunity, you should endure it, retreat when you should retreat, pretend to be pretend, and close your mouth when you should keep your mouth shut. She didn't know if it was a kind of insincerity, but she knew very well in her heart that there was no need to make enemies, it was a skill of life. In the past, she was a straight intestine, saying whatever she wanted, and occasionally adding fuel to it in order to express her dissatisfaction. I suffered too many losses, fell too much, and slowly learned to be obedient. The scars in my heart are the pain I have experienced. Although it is unbearable, it never dares to forget. Every wound makes the heart stronger and the person more mature. If you do things for others, just open your mouth, and don't practice just talking, then if you say it, it will slap you in the face.
Gong Magpie said: The guru can only show you the way, can guide you, teach you methods, tell you what is good cause and what is evil effect, tell you to stop evil and do good, change cause and effect, and change your destiny.
Ma Huilan said: Understanding the causes of good and the consequences of evil, and what you do in the future depends entirely on how you practice.
Gong Magpie said: Because the Buddha said, this is karma, as long as you stop evil and do good, I guarantee that you will be blessed and happy. There will be no mistakes in the Buddha, there will be no waste in transforming cause and effect, it will not be too late to repent and repair, only immeasurable merit will lead to eternal life.
Yuan Qiuhua said in his heart, I am really embarrassed about the old antiques, I remember so much, I have to memorize it so smoothly, I have to exhaust a lot of brain cells.
Xiao Lin said: Some people do evil everywhere, and there is no evil result for the time being, but it is not that they do not report it, but the time has come. When the negative karma has not yet manifested, when the negative karma has not yet matured, it is necessary to repent sincerely.
Gong Magpie said: Before the end comes, we should cultivate and respect the Bodhisattva, burn incense and wash our hands, shower and change clothes, chant sutras to be quiet and meditative, cultivate no self, dwell and cultivate nothing, communicate with the Bodhisattva with our minds, and listen to the spiritual enlightenment of all things. In our daily lives, we should preach the sutras and teachings to sentient beings, understand all causes and conditions, and live up to the Bodhisattva's entrustment to us.
Xie Wen said: Please make it clear before you speak. Can you be empty of the four major things? A mind full of immortality, a mouth full of blessings and longevity, and still believe in Buddhism? Open your mouth to speak, stir up, and really think that you are the savior! Can you benefit all sentient beings?
Gong Magpie said: No brain! Nan no Amitabha, Guanyin Bodhisattva, please forgive my sins! Children are ignorant and violate their dignity, I am willing to recite the sutra ten times to make up for my mistakes!
With a cross on her chest and forehead, she bowed deeply and confessed to God: Lord, you have laid out your blessings and curses before us, and we have not obeyed your commandments, and we have made people despise the power of our gods, and have brought you to shame, please forgive us for our sins!
Yuan Qiuhua said: The reason why people are suffering is that they chase the wrong things, do bad things, are full of fear, worry about what they have done, are not tolerated by the world during their lives, and are sent to hell after death. Believing in the Buddha, worshiping the Buddha, and praying is because the gods are gracious and can let them go, and the Dharma is boundless and can shelter them.
Xie Wen said: And because they believe in Buddhism, they think that all sins can be erased by a worship, and any evil can be written off by a fast, so they are more and more unscrupulous. Therefore, as the saying goes, the more poisonous you are, the more you fast, the more you fast, the more you fast, the more you fast.
Gong Magpie said: What are you capable of? Son, don't you want your father to live a long and healthy life?
Xie Wen said: If you are sick, you can cure the disease, don't ask God to worship the Buddha! You ask God, do you see God coming to my father's door to ask him? Do you worship the Buddha and see the living Buddha appear and give him a panacea?
Xiao Lin said: Man is the soul of all things, sincerity, and gold and stone are open.
Ma Huilan said: All things have a spirit, there is a heart to respect the wall, and the wall is also a spirit.
Xie Ying said: Dead horses are regarded as live horse doctors, and there are three shots before there are dates.
Yuan Qiuhua said: Well, freedom of religious belief, you have the freedom not to believe, and they also have the freedom to believe.
Xie Wen said: My mother said that I don't worship Buddha, and my father was killed by me. Didn't you hear? How can I be free! If you ask a random clansman, you will know that my father is sick and dead, and he has cancer!
Xie Xiong said: Dad is not dead yet, you curse Dad to die as soon as possible?
Gong Magpie said: Wrong, you give me a go, immediately, immediately, get out!
Yuan Qiuhua said in his heart, the spirit defeats the virus, God has eyes without eyes, you should kowtow every day, worship more, and thank God sincerely!
The so-called home remedies for serious diseases, Gong Magpie heard You Fanglang say that gecko wine can cure liver cancer, she spent 300 yuan to buy a bottle, containing three taels of medicinal wine, and forced her husband to take it on the same day. Unexpectedly, Xie Qingquan became unwell the next day, vomiting and diarrhea, with blood in the phlegm and blood in the stool. As the saying goes, alcohol hurts the liver, and smoking hurts the lungs, Xie Qingquan is liver cancer, and the doctor told him to quit drinking. She didn't believe it, "It's medicine, not alcohol, it's harmless." He told his children and grandchildren to search for geckos, and they were caught alive, and she threw them alive into a grain wine bottle, soaked them for three days, and then gave them to her husband. It becomes a panacea, and it seems that if you drink it, you will get rid of the disease.
Three times a day, the palace magpie is busy burning incense and worshiping the Buddha, busy chanting and praying, busy visiting home remedies, and neglecting to turn over and scrub her husband who is sick in bed. Xie Qingquan had a few pimples on his back at the tail vertebrae, which slowly turned into boils, which were only red and swollen at first, but became sores over time, and began to fester, and pus flowed out of the pimples. She wiped it with a towel with hot water, and Xie Qingquan was in unbearable pain, so she cried out.
After Xie Wen observed, he said that he had dorsal gangrene, just like a rotten donggue, and the skin looked intact, but in fact, there was a large piece of meat on the back waist, which had already rotted from the inside to the outside.
Xie Ying said: The sore head, pointy, like a gecko's mouth, I'm afraid that the drowned gecko is rewarding.
Xie Xiong said: What age are you still believing in this kind of nonsense? Then you have a scarf shell, and what kind of animal is rewarding?
Yuan Qiuhua said: We should talk about science, not superstition.
Gong Magpie said: If you believe it, if you don't believe it, you don't believe it, you would rather believe it, you can't believe it, and your heart is spiritual!
Xie Han went to the village clinic to ask a doctor to come and treat him. The doctor diagnosed: This is a bedsore wow, plus liver cancer, there is no rule of law, slowly uh uh. Eat when you want, drink when you want, and drink as soon as possible!
Xie Wen said: With liver cancer alone, it is possible for my father to live for another half a year, and he has added back gangrene, and he still has more than a month, and his lifespan can be known.
Gong Magpie said: I have also reached the age of being taken care of, I have been waiting for him like this day and night, not to mention the delay in sleep, not to mention the bothering to work, you still have to blame me for not being able to serve, then you do it yourself!
When his mother went on strike, the brothers took turns serving their father.
During this period, Gong Magpie sold the sow and a litter of piglets for a total of 3,000 yuan. Everyone thought she was preparing for her father's funeral expenses. Unexpectedly, on July 24, my father swallowed his breath and just burned the first money, and she said: Xie Wen, you are the boss, and you will take the lead in paying the funeral expenses!
Everyone thought about it, maybe the mother kept the money from the sale of pigs, yes, wow, if it is a headache and brain fever, it is more convenient for her to have money in her hands, and she does not have to find her son to make money at every turn.
Xie Wen held a family meeting, and the brothers averaged how much each family to, and pooled money for his father's funeral.
Xie Xiong was generous and took out 3,000 yuan at a time, and he said that he was borrowing it from his father-in-law. With his large number at the bottom, the other brothers only made up 2,000 yuan each.