Looking at the cold face, receiving evil words, drinking herbal tea, and sitting on the cold bench, Yuan Qiuhua felt aggrieved, Xie Han went home, she told him about her distress and sighed that it was difficult to be a man.

The unconventional family structure and the chaotic status quo in the family, even if Xie Han has 100,000 reasons to be unhappy in his heart, hindering his reputation and face, he is still afraid of people's words. Besides, the mother is not a kind and kind old man who is easy to talk to, and the second sister's family is not an easy-going relative who is easy to get along with, everyone lives at home under the same roof, and they don't see each other when they look up all day long, and everyone grabs food in a nest together, even if they are all virtuous women, for a long time, there is no nest shovel that does not touch the edge of the pot, and there is a time when the teeth bite the tongue.

Rural proverb: Build a high courtyard and build a wide house, it is better to have a good son. In the countryside, children can do things seriously, rely on craftsmanship to ensure income from drought and flood, and can be down-to-earth, with a bright future, for elderly parents, it is a happy heart, a bright face, and decent outside the door, which is the fairy medicine for treating pain, and it is all the reason to be blessed in old age and live comfortably.

Gong Magpie's daughter-in-law is competitive, motivated, and filial, and Xie Han and his wife can make their mother and niece, and the second sister's family live a good life without worrying about food and clothing.

Gong Magpie heard it inadvertently, didn't agree with it, didn't say it, didn't say it, but unceremoniously blocked the words in public: A good daughter-in-law is going to spend three June! I'm afraid it's too early to say, but look at March and May, it's not as good as the beginning!

Three women in one play, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are disturbed all day long, sister-in-law is noisy and ordinary, Xie Han is a face-loving person, naturally he doesn't want the family to make trivial things, trivial things that can't be put on the table, dogs bite pigs all day long, cause trouble, and make jokes. He knows that his mother and sister can't be persuaded, and he can only do the persuasion work of his wife: even if the elders are a little annoying and unreasonable, the magnanimity of the younger generation, isn't it okay if you don't care? As long as the relationship between the husband and wife is deep, the rest of the family relationship does not matter, there is no need to be too serious, let alone win or lose, fighting to make the family have no peace, and there is no benefit to the upper and lower levels. The ancients said how good, filial piety and filial piety, obedience is filial piety, kindness is the foundation, harmony is precious, and forbearance is the best!

How can the living standards of poor and small households not be affected by the fact that they have added five mouths to the air? After they came, the family had no money to buy oil, so they cut bacon for three meals a day to make oil. Bacon is delicious, but I can't stand eating it every day, I eat too much, I don't want to talk about it, I have to get on fire, and I eat it until Yuan Qiuhua's tonsils are inflamed and he has a high fever of 39 degrees. The money spent on medical treatment is more than the money spent on buying water and oil. Yuan Qiuhua paid out of his own pocket and bought a shell of water and oil, and dozens of catties of lard.

The bacon is eaten up, the water and oil are gone, the lard is gone, the family has three meals a day, either radish and greens, or pumpkin and squash, lack of meat and oil, and the stomach is sour and sour when the clear soup is eaten with little water. There are no good dishes, and there is no good food. In the morning, it is either gruel or noodle soup, and at noon, it is mostly pickled vegetables and corn cake, or a bowl of rice, and potatoes can be taken. In the evening, it is either gruel or noodle soup, and a jar of water is beaten, and a handful of rice or noodles is put in.

Others are still okay, Yuan Qiuhua is pregnant, even if she drinks her belly is swollen, a few bubbles of urine will be gone, she does not fight hunger, she has many dreams at night, and she is dizzy and groggy from hunger. She didn't say anything yet, Xie Jiayan's eldest son Shu Shilei shouted everywhere: There is a big-bellied woman, she can eat a bucket for a meal, and she needs someone to help her walk!

Yuan Qiuhua ate two bowls of porridge and stood up to serve it for the third time.

Shu Shilei said: I eat one bowl, the third aunt can really eat, and I have to eat three bowls for one meal.

He is the heart of his grandmother, from birth to the age of ten, he enjoys his grandmother's love and care, and even sleeps next to her at night. He surrounds the palace magpie all day long, wants to eat this, wants to eat that, has no free in his mouth, tastes enough snacks, eats a hundred kinds of pastries, and when it is time to eat, he barely eats a bowl of scare. This bowl, unlike everyone, others eat gruel, he eats dry rice, or fried rice with eggs, and there is still a puddle of oil at the bottom of the bowl after eating, which can raise goldfish.

Yuan Qiuhua said: I'll eat with you, okay? I only eat one bowl, you can eat three bowls, three to one more, isn't it?

He said: Third aunt, no interest, greedy and shameless, Hubei Yankee, good foodie, reincarnated!

Xie Han said: It's not oily, the food is poor, and the belly is bigger.

Gong Magpie said: It is difficult for a good woman to cook without rice, I also want to eat fish and meat, so I have to have money to buy it, why can't I cut off my meat and throw it into a pot to cook?

Xie Han said: Two meals of soup a day, lack of nutrition, will drag the body to the hips, if you are hungry and sick, it will be a big loss because of a small loss!

Gong Magpie said: If you don't do heavy work, you won't die of hunger. If it's 60 years, you won't even have to eat two meals. This food is better than Chairman Mao's!

Yuan Qiuhua said: Yesterday I went for a pregnancy test, and the doctor found out that I was anemic, saying that it was caused by malnutrition.

Xie Jiayan said: There is no day, my mother is reluctant to waste money in terms of eating and drinking, and she is diligent and thrifty.

Shu Zhiqiang said: As for the grains harvested in the field, I don't know if I can eat the new grains!

Gong Magpie said: Young people can earn money, and if they want to eat alone, they can go out to eat fragrant and spicy food. I'm old, I can't make money, and people dislike me as a burden.

Xie Jiayan said: I am young now, and I will be old in the future, and I am afraid that I will also suffer from the dislike of my children and grandchildren!

Xie Han said: Everyone has to be old, and it is the same when they are old, dragging down their children and grandchildren and becoming a burden.

Yuan Qiuhua said: The newspaper said that after the only child gets married, he has to support four old people, and the young people have a lot of pressure to live in a stressful life, and they have to raise their children and train them, buy a house and a car, and take care of themselves.

Gong Magpie said: Raising children to prevent old age, accumulating grain to prevent hunger, children do not support the elderly, what do you do to give birth to children and daughters? It is better to raise a pig and kill it to have meat to eat!

Yuan Qiuhua said: The ability is limited, and it is difficult to fulfill the obligation to provide for the elderly, so that young people must live! Experts have proposed that middle-aged people buy old-age insurance as soon as possible, so that young people can have fewer children and earn more money, and keep money for the elderly, so as to prevent problems before they occur.

Shu Zhiqiang said: When you talk about it, what you mean is nothing more than that raising children cannot prevent old age, and you have to rely on yourself. Then why are you getting married? Why do you want to have children? Have nothing to do when you are full, do you panic and play around?

Yuan Qiuhua said: I didn't mean that!

Gong Magpie said: Pointing to the east melon and scolding the gourd, other people's ghost thoughts, I understand, I just don't want to support the elderly!

Yuan Qiuhua said: I didn't say that!

Xie Jiayan said: My mother worked hard and raised eight of our brothers and sisters, how can I leave private money for the elderly?

Yuan Qiuhua said: Newspapers and experts are aimed at the only child and the issue of old-age care, may I ask everyone here, who is the only child? Don't be suspicious of dark ghosts, everything is right, okay?

Xie Han said: What is it necessary to raise a child to prevent old age?

Xie Jiayan said: I have hands and feet, I didn't graduate from primary school, so I farmed and sold hard labor, when did I rely on you to support me?

Xie Han said: You are the reincarnation of Nezha, you raised your parents, your mother's family should support you, support your husband, and raise your children until you are old!

Shu Shilei said: Quarrel, quarrel, quarrel, noisy, noisy!

Shu Zhiqiang said: Children don't eat for ten years, not to mention the two of us adults?

Xie Han said: Since you are suffering such a loss, why do you still live here? The Shu family has a field, you go back to plant it? Your mother's family doesn't need your help, and your mother's family is not rare!

Xie Jiayan said: The meat is rotten, it is always still in the pot, and it is always your own person to please you!

Gong Magpie said: Can you conjure fish or meat in a mouth-to-mouth fight? I can't get peace when I eat, and I'm full of anger when I don't eat it!

Xie Jiayan said: I can't eat it either, I always bully people for no reason, and I was angry with you when I just took a breath!

Yuan Qiuhua said: You don't understand the meaning of newspaper publication!

Shu Zhiqiang said: What the newspaper said, is that correct? You are fashionable, worship foreign countries, we are dirt bags, sitting in the well and watching the sky, of course we don't understand what you mean!

Yuan Qiuhua said: It is not enough to do good deeds, but also to do them in a good way. Using bad means to achieve good ends is no different from an insidious villain, and it is often counterproductive!

Xie Han said: The tiger does not bite people--- its mouth and face are ugly, even if the heart and eyes are not bad, the tiger is not harmful, and people have no good impression of it.

Gong Magpie said: Don't let me live? Shut up for me!

Yuan Qiuhua took out his pre-wedding savings and bought four catties of pork belly at a time to go home. Mother-in-law is thrifty, she thinks that it will be a long stream, fry a little a day, stain a little fishy, and solve a slander, but I didn't expect her to braise all of them, serve them on the table in a bowl, and eat a meal clearly. If it weren't for Xie Han standing up, leaning forward, stretching out his arms, holding two pieces of meat with chopsticks and not letting go, and helping Yuan Qiuhua to hold two pieces, she wouldn't even be able to eat a piece of meat.

She tasted it, not only did she not solve the slander, but she wanted to eat meat even more. In the past, in her mother's house, she ate meat and did not eat fat, only thin, and ate four meals with a pound of meat. Now when she goes back to her parents' house, she can eat two catties of pork ribs with rock sugar, and she can eat them for three days in a row. Now it's good to buy four catties of meat at my mother-in-law's house, but I don't have enough stuff between my teeth, and I have to vomit out after eating, and my mouth is fragrant.

But it is important to protect the fetus, if you want to eat meat, you can buy it, and then earn it when the money is used, and your mother-in-law is so poor, can you ask for anything?