The act of sending rice, Sun Yue'e was originally angry, but she couldn't be angry, so she made the decision to fight for her strength, and she expected that Yuan Qiuhua would not accept it, but she didn't expect an accident. The daughter sent several pots of rice one after another, but they all went and did not return, and her anger rose to anger. After that, in the passage at the door of the house, she found that Yuan Qiuhua took a detour, and when she met on the road, she was far away, in public places, she didn't speak first to say hello, let alone take the initiative to wave her hand.

Yuan Qiuhua is from a cadre family, Sun Yue'e is from a teacher's family, the cultural atmosphere, and the economic conditions are similar, originally speaking speculatively, complaining, nagging, and agreeing with her in-laws' views. Yuan Qiuhua took the initiative to take care of her daughter by herself, of course she was grateful, and he would naturally repay her in the future. Daughter sent rice to the door, Yuan Qiuhua Bingxue is smart, smart and clever, it is impossible not to understand the strangeness! But Yuan Qiuhua has become weird now, hiding and hiding in trouble, and she has something to say, so that her anger gathers into humiliation.

She went home and carefully interrogated her daughter, and when she heard that Yuan Qiuhua had warmly received her, gave money to buy instant noodles, and refused to accept pots of rice, she was slightly relieved, but she wondered why Yuan Qiuhua hadn't personally sent it back? It may not be that it is bad to say one thing and do another! There is grain for food, and she is reluctant to give it to her nephew, but it is another thing to be willing to give it to her nephew, but it is another thing to be willing to give it to her nephew.

After being depressed for a few days, Sun Yue'e couldn't hold it back, and found Yuan Qiuhua behind her back to inquire about what it was all about, what people said, what kind of thoughts, and what intentions they had.

Yuan Qiuhua knew that her sister-in-law was refreshing, a rectum led to the bottom of her feet, she couldn't pretend to be in her heart, she was quick to talk and talk, and she liked to be lively. If I say what I think about my mother-in-law's decision to be in power, and the second sister's husband and wife's offside and political behavior, it will be a bad comment, and the sister-in-law who is prejudiced against them will inevitably think that I am helping her speak, preaching it everywhere, and shouting so that people from all over the country know it. If you don't speak straight, hide the evil and promote the good, and make up lies, it is unfair, it seems to be deliberately currying favor with them, and it provokes speculation and association, attracting people like "two-faced and three-knife fickle face, swaying the wall grass with the wind, peeing and mud old good people" and so on, and so on, boiling, noisy, directly affecting their own image and reputation. If the truth is copied, even if the sister-in-law does not quarrel with her mother-in-law and the second sister, she will chat with others in the future, and pour beans on the bamboo tube, that is, to spread small words and distinguish right and wrong. Even if his account is fair and the reasons are sufficient, in the eyes of the mother-in-law and the second sister, it is not the same behind the scenes, which will inevitably lead to misunderstanding or cause trouble. The unhappy prejudices and contradictions between the eldest sister-in-law, the second sister-in-law and them are not accidental, but by many trivial things in daily life, and uninterrupted small frictions, which accumulate into a "suspended animation" volcano with underground magma boiling, once it breaks through the rock layer and rushes out of the volcanic cave, it will cause a disaster.

Yuan Qiuhua persuaded her sister-in-law and said: It is difficult for a Qing official to judge family affairs, so what is there to worry about in such a trivial matter? It is not worth putting it in your heart.

Sun Yue'e said: Now you are a legitimate hostess, they are guests, and they want to be guests as they please, but they have no concept of guests in their hearts, and they continue to be the masters of the house, and they think they are the pillars. You can't even be the master of the dinner, isn't that a great bully?

Yuan Qiuhua said: You are a sister-in-law, she is a sister-in-law, and she doesn't remember the villain, forget it. These little things are more important than care, because everyone knows in their hearts that you are only making tolerant concessions, not being afraid of her.

Sun Yue'e said: Who does the family surnamed Shu eat, and which one of Xie Hejia has not counted in his heart?

Yuan Qiuhua said: Everyone sweeps the snow in front of the door, and does not care about the frost on the tiles of others, for fear of meddling in their own affairs, and provoking fire and burning themselves! Zhang Lang is here, Zhang Lang is good, Li Lang is here, Li Lang is high, and the bamboo tube water flows at both ends, and neither side can be offended.

Sun Yue'e said: Yes, everything depends on yourself, the wound is in the body, the pain is in the heart, no one can take the pain for you, suffer for me!

Yuan Qiuhua said: Just know it in your heart, there is no need to explain. We can't say it, I fully understand your feelings, but we will say it unpleasantly, others will laugh at your shallowness, say that I am not easy-going, discuss us not tolerant, and be childish.

Sun Yue'e said: They have done everything, and we are still afraid that others will say that they have done it, can we still not say it?

Yuan Qiuhua said: As soon as they do it, you will say it, and if you do it, you will do it, and then you will do it, and if you talk about it, there will be five of them, and six of them, will you talk about the effect? You say that you want others to help you, but you have said that over the years, has anyone helped you? As long as they do it, everyone will naturally see it in their eyes, and if you say it or not, others will understand what is going on.

Sun Yue'e said: They are rampant and domineering, everyone knows it, but they are collectively silent, we are wronged, how long will we have to endure it, and our pain can be ended?

Yuan Qiuhua said: The state has national laws, the clan has its own rules, the good has good retribution, and the evil has evil retribution. Justice is at ease in the hearts of the people, everyone does not say or move, for their own reasons, we also follow the example, do more and say less. As the saying goes, if you say too much, you will lose, and the trouble will come out of the mouth, and if they catch the handle and cause chaos, maybe they will break the overall situation and break the big thing!

Sun Yue'e said: If you can't bear it, you will make a big plan, I should keep my mouth shut, and stop talking more.

Yuan Qiuhua said: If you think you will suffer a loss, send rice back, don't use a basin, but use a small bowl. A bowl of rice and a meal, they still please, but your loss is smaller, and you will want to think about it.

Sun Yue'e said: What I want is not more than rice, but fairness. May I ask you, should they do it?

Yuan Qiuhua said: People are always accustomed to taking themselves as the starting point to look at problems, you think it shouldn't, but they think it should. Victory is king, defeat is evil, and the means are not divided into what should be or should not be, and it only works and does not work.

Sun Yue'e said: You also follow the profits, do you think they are doing the right thing?

Yuan Qiuhua said: If I want to take advantage of your family, will I still ask my niece to go to dinner? I am caught in the middle, the mouse drills the bellows, and the two ends are angry.

Sun Yue'e said: You are like me, you can only work, you can't speak! As soon as you open your mouth, you will become a living target, and ten thousand arrows will pierce your heart.

Yuan Qiuhua said: You and I are dissatisfied, what can we change? There are no tigers in the mountains, and monkeys call the mountains, so we are only blamed for being useless, how can we not pay the price for this!

Sun Yue'e said: Their fake faces are ruthless, I don't don't understand, I just see through it, I don't bother to pay attention to it, I don't bother to care.

Yuan Qiuhua said: Do you understand who is unreasonable, you know who is in charge, should you blame me, right?

Sun Yue'e said: The reason is that they are both foreign daughters-in-law, I understand, they are ostracized, bullied, and discriminated against, and I also feel the same way. When I was young, I didn't want to endure it, I quarreled with them, beat and scolded, but the result was that I suffered more losses and suffered more anger. Compare your heart to your heart, you must learn my lesson!

Yuan Qiuhua said: Oh, good and evil will be rewarded in the end, people and evil people are not afraid of the sky, the more treacherous the more cunning and poorer, and the treacherous and cunning are originally tolerated by heaven.

Sun Yue'e said: That's it, a few words of gossip from others can't change the facts, why can't you think about it? Everyone lives their own life, husband and wife are of the same heart, family members are harmonious, and it is more important than anything else to live a prosperous life in their own family!

Yuan Qiuhua said: Alas, it is completely impossible to change them, so let them suffer by themselves. It's hard to be smart, it's even harder to be confused, people sometimes might as well pretend to be confused, and being stupid is also asking for more blessings.

Sun Yue'e said: It's okay to find people who hate you, don't be ingenious to rectify your people, no matter how much energy you spend to please, it is useless, and no matter how big the sacrifice you make, you won't get anything in return. It's better to take the time to thank the people who like you and help the people you like, it's worth it.

Yuan Qiuhua said: There is also a fate, you and I help each other and sympathize with each other.