The foundation of the roof is used as a dowry
Greedy people only have property in their eyes, but they can't see feelings, and their hearts are full of calculations, so they can't pretend to be family affection.
On a winter afternoon, Xiao Lin and a group of aunts and grandmothers sat on the street basking in the sun, gossiping in a circle, saying that the east family is short and the west family is short.
Zhang Haibin and Xie Jiani passed by, and they had no intention of participating in the small talk of women and children, and they had no intention of listening. In the back of my head, I suddenly heard Xiao Lin say, "I have a share of my mother's property, which is worth hundreds of thousands, and I have a piece of my mother's house foundation, which is worth hundreds of thousands." The husband and wife were stunned, and the two looked at each other for a moment.
Xie Jiani turned around and said to Xiao Lin: I have to go to work again, and I have to take care of the children, I am so busy that I am dizzy and tired. I don't know if Sister Lin is a rich and idle Mrs. Kuo, who can accompany the old people to bask in the sun, you are so blessed!
Xiao Lin said: It's better to marry well than to do a good job, and it's better to be smart than to be geographically advantageous, expropriation can make you rich, and demolition can break out.
Zhang Haibin said: Sister, you are mistaken. In 90 years, the village divided the house foundation, which was calculated by the number of heads, and our family had two men, so we were divided into two house foundations.
Chen's mother, a neighbor on the left, said: In this case, I know that my family has no sons, only two daughters, and I didn't get a new house foundation that time. I was not convinced, and I even went to the village to make trouble, demanding that it be divided according to the household, regardless of whether there are boys and girls, no matter how many children are born, and each household will be divided into a unified piece. But the village said, "In the last round, it was divided according to households, and after the daughter got married, each household had a house to live in, but after the son married a wife and gave birth to a wife, the house was not enough to live in, so it was proposed to divide the house foundation again." According to the custom, when the son gets married, he has to separate the family, and the daughter is in her mother's house, and there is no way to start a new business."
Zhang Haichao said: Your daughter is angry, more promising than ordinary sons, admitted to university, stayed in the provincial city, became a professor, lived a lot of nourishment, admiration!
Chen's mother said: These are two different things, don't interrupt. I couldn't get angry, so I cried. "When you arrested me to be sterilized, you promised to give birth to boys and girls the same, but now that the foundation of the house is divided, why is it different?" The village then held a show of hands to vote, saying that the minority should obey the majority, and that democratic management and democratic supervision should be fully implemented. Phew, more than 200 households have sons, and only 15 households have no sons. It's useless for me to make trouble, now my family only has an old house.
Huang Jiefang said: Back then, a piece of the foundation of a house was worth more than 100,000 yuan! As the saying goes, the loss of the public is not the loss of one, and nearly 500 yuan is divided, but the only one who is reluctant to pay these 15 yuan is obviously bullying!
Chen's mother said: Cadres fool honest people, and whoever is obedient will suffer. Early dawn scored the house to talk about men, and I was also hiding from giving birth to superbirths, giving birth to eight or nine children in a row, so I didn't believe that I couldn't give birth to a boy.
I gave birth to two daughters, and after being arrested by the cadres and sterilized, the couple divorced falsely, and I divorced without leaving home, so he found a widow from another province and gave birth to two sons, gave the widow a sum of money, and asked her to return to her hometown, and we remarried and raised our sons.
Huang Jiefang said: Gossip is a fart, if you don't listen to it, there is no nature, whoever is rich is the uncle. In comparison, you are still wise, the old house is renovated into a new four-storey, the children live on one floor, sell a piece of the foundation, build a nine-story apartment for rent, and rely on the rent alone to worry about food and clothing. The son was raised by his own hands, and he was no different from what he gave birth to, and he has both children and daughters, and now he is filial, and it is not in vain that you have worked hard.
Chen's mother said: The foundation of the forest, at the crossroads, the location is better, but unfortunately it was sold early, and the pork ribs were sold at the price of cabbage. If you keep it until now and sell it again, the selling price will be worth at least 1 million!
Xiao Lin said: I don't care, anyway, my parents promised me to make a dowry for the foundation of the house.
Zhang Haibin said: The two foundations were distributed to our brothers by the men in the village, not to our parents. Your parents don't have the right to be the masters, and they give you a dowry in private, and this promise is invalid.
Xie Jiani said: The old man coaxed you to get married, it was to send the plague god. You draw bread to satisfy your hunger, and you want plums to quench your thirst.
Xiao Lin said: Just now Chen's mother said that the last round was divided by household, and the old house foundation assigned by my parents was given to me as a dowry, can you manage it?
Xie Jiani said: Are your parents your parents? There are still conditions attached to the inheritance, and you must fulfill the obligation to support. How many years have you been married? Your parents are not only raising you, but also raising your children, and they are so embarrassed to fight for your mother's property?
Zhang Haibin said: The old house foundation assigned by his parents only built three flat-roofed houses in 76 years, and the kitchen and toilet behind the house were still built as earthquake-proof sheds.
Chen's mother said: That's true. Your mother raises chickens and pigs in the backyard, and there is a vegetable field behind the shed, and your mother grows vegetables and sells them.
Zhang Haibin said: Later, my parents sold a piece of the foundation of our brothers' house to build a three-room building. The neighbors know it and can testify.
Huang Jiefang said: This is 93 years, I know, when your family demolished the roof and built the building, my old man was a big worker, I was a small worker, he built the wall, I moved the bricks, your father built the frame, your mother and the mud, worked in the workshop from morning to night, and often heard your father and your mother chattering.
Wang's mother said: Your family sells the foundation of the house, and there is indeed such a thing. From beginning to end, I know best, I will be the middleman, and the house foundation will be sold to my brother's aunt and niece.
Chen's mother said: I heard that your brother's aunt and niece, who worked in Shenzhen in 89, was raised by the Hong Kong boss and gave birth to a son, and the boss took the son away and gave her 800,000 yuan. She went home, sold the foundation of the house with 100,000 yuan, built a luxury kindergarten, and implemented the aristocratic education model, charging 5,000 per semester, making money is as light as picking leaves.
Wang Ma said: Young and beautiful is capital, Sensei said in a contemptuous tone that she knows how to use capital and obtain huge profits, that is also her ability, what working girl has been selling coolies in factories all her life? She took her parents from the countryside to the city to support the elderly, and sent her younger siblings to college one by one, how many girls can do it?
Xiao Lin said: Money doesn't matter where it comes from, no matter where the hero comes from, it's nothing if he wants to open it, it's not a big deal, just marry someone and leave again.
Wang Ma said: Reform and opening up, people are becoming more and more realistic, they can see everything, they can figure it out, as long as they have money. Isn't she still married? married to an unmarried hospital pharmacist!
Huang Jiefang said: She took her husband's family from the mountains of Jiangxi to take care of her, her father-in-law was the doorman, her mother-in-law was the cleaner, she sent her sister to study as a kindergarten teacher, and her younger brother to learn to cook.
Xie Jiani said: Tsk, look at the way this daughter lives! Uh, look at what this wife does! The mother's family is happy, the mother-in-law's family is happy, both parties are so good, the relationship between husband and wife is naturally getting stronger and stronger, there is no money, no matter how poor they are, they can't be separated!
Chen's mother said: Xiao Lin, I watched you grow up, and I should really learn from her in terms of how to behave in the world. Don't stay with aunts and ladies all day, take us as an example, mess around, and get by!
Huang Jie Fang said: If you don't go out to work hard while you're young, what will you do in the future? When your parents are gone, how will you live when you are old?
Xiao Lin said: Parents live, rely on parents, parents are gone, rely on husbands, husbands are gone, rely on children. People live for a lifetime, but for a few decades, chaotic, confused, dazed, eating and drinking, it's over!
Xie Jiani said: If you live well, you are either smart and capable by yourself, or you are confused and vulgar and rely on others. Most of those who are not doing well have no self-knowledge, and the foolish worm pretends to be a smart man, and he has to turn around the whole world, and he is the enemy of society and life, can he have a good end?
Chen's mother said: To serve people's jobs, you have to serve people, rely on people to feed, and listen to people. The sheep has the grace of kneeling and breastfeeding, and the crow has the righteousness of feeding! If you don't obey and disobey, why should people raise you?
Xie Jiani said: Pity the parents of the world, they will never harm the hearts of their children, but the unfilial children have done all the things to gnaw the old pit father, raise wolves to bite meat, feed tigers and eat, and regret it too late!
Zhang Haibin said: When the house foundation was sold, my parents discussed it with our brothers, one got the building, and the other got the house foundation. If you get the foundation, when you build a house in the future, the price of your parents' old foundation will be divided into two, and the one who gets the house will have to pay for it and buy it from the other.
Xie Jiani said: Sister Lin, do you hear clearly? The old house foundation of my parents has already been divided, what else will I give you as a dowry!
Xiao Lin said: My parents lied to me and wrote empty checks! Hmph, I don't care if I cheat or not, I want a piece of the house foundation anyway! How should my parents tell you brothers, I don't care!
Xie Jiani said: Sister Lin, be virtuous, be elegant, pay attention to your image, don't be a scoundrel!
Zhang Haibin said: You don't care about your parents' hardships and hardships, and you don't care about your brother's hardships and hardships, you just care about your own happiness! I really don't know what your parents did when they gave birth to you? Why do they still support you to this day? You stay in your mother's house and want to dominate the house and occupy the foundation of the house? Tian is shameless, how can this be reasonable!
Xiao Lin cried and wiped her tears: A mother, you have a share in the house, I don't have a share, why?
Wang's mother said: In the village, when the house foundation is divided according to the household, you are not yet born, and when the male is divided into the house foundation, you are a daughter, and you still have no share. The custom is like this, Lin Ling, accept your fate. Sometimes there must be in life, and when you hit it, don't force it, and if you don't do it, you will be ashamed!
Chen's mother said: Girls beg outside, their mother's family has no share, and her mother-in-law's family has a share, so she goes to her husband to ask for the house foundation.
Xie Jiani said: The village divides the house foundation, talking about men and women, but the money does not matter whether it is a man or a woman, as long as there is money, women can also buy the house foundation.
Xiao Lin said: I have money, but I don't buy it, and I want my parents to give it to me, and I said that I would make a dowry!
has been married for seven years, the children born are all in elementary school, and the house foundation is used as a dowry, Xiao Lin has always remembered it and remembered it. I don't know the so-called dowry, as the name suggests, is the day of the wedding, accompany the bride together, from the mother's house to bring the in-law's property, if it is a wedding car, drive away with the auspicious time, if it is a wedding house, that is, the marriage house, if it is a marriage house, either sold into cash, carry it with you, or carry the gift paper, out of the mother's door. Before she got married, her parents only verbally agreed, and did not formally enter into a document, and when she got married, her parents did not sell it for cash, and after she got married, her parents did not go through the change procedures and changed the house foundation to her name. Verbal conventions are infinitely variable, people will change, feelings will change, things will change, social needs will change, family conditions will change, living environment will change, and people's attitudes and treatment will naturally change. Even if her brother and sister-in-law don't resist and stop it, as long as her parents regret it and deny it, she is helpless.
Xiao Lin indulged in a state of self-pity and self-appreciation, thinking that her parents owed her too much, and the house foundation was just one of the compensations, and she couldn't think of too many things that didn't conform to human common sense, and she couldn't think of the reason why her parents delayed their promises and didn't fulfill them so far, even if it was just to watch the after-effects, she had to perform well, strive to be excellent, and win glory for her parents, at least she couldn't let her parents go from disappointment to despair, treat her as cold as ice, and finally disgusted like garbage. Eating and drinking spicy food in her mother's house, the comfortable life of idleness, has cultivated Xiao Lin's habit of taking all enjoyment for granted, under the careful protection of her parents, Xiao Lin is not afraid of the ground, she has never suffered any losses and hardships, and she has not eaten any losses and hardships, she looks very beautiful, and she is very happy to think about it, she only thinks that her parents' doting on her is not only natural, but also eternal and forever. She is stubborn and self-minded, but she still shows off when she meets others, and when she meets a show of favor, she has to show off when she opens and closes her mouth and says, "I have a share of my mother's property, which is worth hundreds of thousands, and I have a piece of my mother's house foundation, which is worth hundreds of thousands." ”
Words start from the heart, words come from thoughts, gossip is true, Xiao Lin said too much, brother and sister-in-law have listened to it for a long time, Xiao Lin is nothing more than relying on the favor of her parents, she wants to fight for family property, she wants to occupy real estate, she wants the house foundation to be used as a dowry, and she wants her brother and sister-in-law to give it up, and her face is hateful. Even if you think a yellow-mouthed child farts, the smell also pollutes the environment and destroys the mood. But in order to maintain a harmonious atmosphere at home, although she had a big opinion and was very angry, she tried her best to restrain herself, held it in her heart, didn't say anything on her lips, and saw that she was still uncomfortable, and her face was no longer pleasant.
Xiao Lin repeatedly taught and was incorrigible, so Zhang Linlin stopped teaching and watched coldly, watching her eyes gradually dissipate and become indifferent.