Same-sex frying
Xiao Pearl began to declare that Xiao Lin is in her mother's house, she has been a daughter since she was a child, how to be well-behaved and exquisite, how to be smart and clever, how to be pampered, how to be a heart and liver baby, how to be gold and jade, how to sink fish and geese, and how to be glamorous.
As the old saying goes, without clairvoyance, it's hard to know what the future holds. As the saying goes, the square is not rolling, and the round is unstable. Looking at the appearance and knowing the noble and low, listening to the words and arguing and being wise and foolish, there is no real thing in the stomach, and it is impossible to pretend.
Xiao Pearl is clearly tame in his bones to the patriarchy of male power, but his mouth is disrespectful, saying that a woman is stronger than a cub, and a son-in-law is more filial than a son, but in fact, he is bent under the vulgar and bad habits, and only wants to ask for some ready-made benefits, so inconsistent, pretentious, pathetic and ridiculous, so schizophrenic, old-fashioned and distorted, pitiful and contemptible, but he relies on men's strength, discriminates against the weaker, and if he has a knife, he is a butcher, and if he has no knife, he recites Buddha!
Women don't go to the family tree, children don't have their mother's surname, they don't have their grandmother's surname, they don't have their grandmother's surname, their grandson doesn't have their grandfather's surname, men imprison women, why are they so energetic?
In a backward and ignorant environment, they are unconsciously alienated and distorted, and they all become zombies. But the sin of ignorance and mediocrity is embodied in forcing others to be the same as them, women must get married and have children, and pass on the ancestry to men, women must teach each other husbands and children, be willing to be good wives and mothers, and can't tolerate other people's differences. This stimulates the lesson of relying on the old and selling the old, the sense of honor of being a teacher, competing to perform, showing up to speak, being trapped in a black well but often not knowing it, and climbing out of the coffin to intimidate people.
Yuan Qiuhua turned his back and frowned quietly, looking down on him from the bottom of his heart, those who are rich and noble and flattering are the most shameful, and those who are arrogant when they are poor are very cheap. One second he said that his cub was not filial, could not support the elderly, and wanted to enjoy the blessing of his daughter, and the next second said that his daughter would be bullied if she had no cubs, and that giving birth to a daughter was not a blessing, reiterating that there were three unfilial pieties, and no queen was great, declaring that the granddaughter was a money-loser, and the granddaughter was a debt collector, and agreed that the granddaughter was not a person, not counting the number of heads, only the grandson was a ding, a person, and a certain population, and the daughter was only a cub in order to reflect the pride of the mother and prove the value of a woman.
In this atmosphere of self-contradiction and logical confusion, there is no reason to talk about it, and there is no need to talk about it, silence is golden. The stubborn person is unconvincing, and the elders who should be kind and kind, but they have been turned into a wolf grandmother by the old and poisonous rotten concepts. The subconscious is nothing more than that the younger generation should be unconditionally obedient to the elders, I have eaten more salt than you have eaten, I just want you to listen to me, not listen to the old man, suffer in front of you, I am also for your good. However, under the premise of short-sightedness of the present, ignorance of current affairs, ignorance of the future, and ignorance of the general trend, good intentions may not bear good fruits, and how can individual experience resist the elimination of the trend? Everyone has its own limitations, and each generation has its own limitations, and of course the younger generation cannot be based on this, just saying that she is a bad person, a wicked person, just an unwise old man, an uncivilized mother, and an incompetent grandmother.
Others allow you to demand your daughter according to the lowest standards, but you definitely do not set an example of the lowest standards, so as to emulate and follow the trend. You can be the inner saint and the outer king, pointing to the east and the west, or the absolute saint abandoning wisdom, using Qimen gossip, believing in home remedies and strange arts, to achieve the goal of distorting life and making life weird. You and your daughter have the freedom to choose a vulgar life, but others also have the freedom to judge and judge, despise and look down upon.
Sitting without sitting, standing without standing, drinking without eating, only a pair of snobbish eyes, specializing in watching people cook, measuring shrimp soldiers without bones and blood. Anyone with a normal IQ can see that her daughter can't even support herself, sucking the blood of her elders like a leech, squeezing the oil of her peers, what can she do to support you? It's like a fool's dream! Even if you don't rely on your father to eat your husband, be self-reliant, and have enough food and clothing, that is luck, and it has to be the luck of winning the grand prize in the lottery!
The daughter lives a difficult life, the situation is worse than herself, for the sake of face, she wants to brag in front of people who know the roots, it seems that the son-in-law is very rich, even if there is no money in front of him, he must be a rich man in the future, he must be a big man. Blowing or not blowing, a few words can not change the status quo of life, it must rely on action, and it must also be a practical way to get rich. You can't deceive others, you can deceive yourself first, show off your satisfaction, show off your prestige, provoke and shoot at your daughter-in-law, make it clear that you don't rely on your son, say never, leave no way out, even if it's not shameful, it's never glorious. If you are too old to move, and you are so sick that you are paralyzed in bed, but you have to rely on your son to support you, and your life can only live. Your daughter can be relied on, and the sow can go up the tree, just waiting to see how your old man turns the horse's head?
Yuan Qiuhua used the excuse of adding soup and vegetables, got off the table in advance, and went to the kitchen to work with his head down. Tired of work, sometimes talking to others, not speculative more than half a sentence, more tiring than work, time-consuming and laborious, wasting expressions, and not necessarily good.
Xiao Lin is a child of a worker, a natural superior person, with a relationship and a way out, who seems to enjoy a happy and stable life, self-controlled, arrogant and lazy, can be arrogant, sit back and enjoy his success, and scold Huai. Yuan Qiuhua is a child of a peasant, born a lowly low-level person, so he has to keep his voice down, bear hardships and stand hard work, and swallow his anger. In her mother-in-law's family, the backgrounds of the two cannot be compared, Xiao Lin's superiority is obvious, like her father, she put up a shelf and put out a pedigree.
After eating, Xiao Lin threw away her chopsticks and laughed with her parents. Seeing off the guests, she sat on the sofa and watched TV.
Yuan Qiuhua was busy washing dishes and chopsticks. Waiting for Yuan Qiuhua to clean up and enter the living room, Xiao Lin stood up and said: The third sister-in-law is tired, you hurry up and take a breath, let me wash the dishes and chopsticks.
Yuan Qiuhua said: I washed the dishes and chopsticks, but the pigs have not been fed yet, and the cattle have not been taken out to put them.
Xiao Lin said: I'll feed the pigs, and you go to herd the cows.
Gong Magpie sat down with La Shawlin, and said angrily: Have you ever fed a pig? You have never done it, and you must not splash dirty, this kind of rough work is still done by the third sister-in-law, she is used to it, I am not worried.
Xiao Lin said: Go quickly, don't you want to make the old man happy?
Yuan Qiuhua didn't expect that the in-laws also talked about the first come, first come, first come, divided into a territory, a venue, and also divided into three levels and nine grades, the later ones have to listen to the first to come, the low qualifications have to listen to the high qualifications, the no background has to listen to the background, the weak have to listen to the strong and powerful, and the weak have to listen to the gangs and factions. Finally, there is the domineering mother-in-law, the intention is the order, the behavior is the direction, only the will is followed, say you can, you can't do it, say you can't, you can't do it, you can't do it, you can't be autonomous, is a mule or a horse is not to pull out the competition, but to let her eyes evaluate, take her private scales to weigh, say how many feet and pounds you are, how tall you are, how heavy your body is.