Dismount
The food is served, Yuan Qiuhua's craftsmanship is good, the braised fish is spicy, the meat is mellow, the stewed chicken is thick, the poached egg is refreshing, the stir-fried vegetables are clear, the vegetables are crispy, and the pork ribs and simmered lotus root soup are light.
The in-laws ate very little, and only ate a few bites at the kind invitation. Zhang Linlin praised in his mouth: It's delicious!
No one understands better than him in his heart that his daughter has long been inseparable from the pampering, shelter and assistance of the elderly. To be honest, he doesn't like to eat such fish and meat, and he eats a few bites casually with chopsticks, just to satisfy the Xie family's heart, and hopes that the Xie family will favor his daughter as always. He doesn't need his daughter to support, he doesn't need her to take care of him, and he doesn't need her to reciprocate, he lives freely, he can live how he wants, and all his belongings are at his disposal, but after providing free services to his daughter and forming a habit, he not only adds endless toils and burdens, he has to get up early and be greedy to earn money, he has to bow his head and give gifts to beg for help, even his spiritual freedom is gone, and his material enjoyment is gone, but he is happy to do it, his daughter can't support herself if she doesn't earn money, her son-in-law has no formal job, the child has a heavy burden, and the parents don't help, who else can you rely on to help?
After his daughter and brother and sister-in-law fell out and left, the more he thought about it, the more uneasy he became, and it was a manifestation of ambition, but he could leave his blessed parents, lose his pampered living conditions, follow his mediocre son-in-law, and then return to his dilapidated and impoverished husband's house, just like Tang Seng who walked out of the demon circle, reliving the days of weakness, helplessness and no support. The problem of the style of men and women is a killer weapon that destroys a woman's reputation and honor and affects the status of the family, the daughter's words and deeds are disorderly, the son-in-law mishandles it, the dignity has been damaged, and the dignity has been lost, I really don't know how to save it? Moreover, the Xie family has many contradictions, many entanglements, many bumps, right and wrong, grievances are difficult to understand, no one is a fuel-efficient lamp, and if the son-in-law can give her what she wants, she will not return to her parents' home. If there is another conflict, how can she resist? She has already been disliked by the clansmen and cut off the way for the family's foreign aid! The more he thinks about it, the more unbearable he becomes, looking at people with cold faces and eating eye food, afraid that she will be humiliated, have no money to suffer hardship, and is afraid that she will fall ill, only continue to receive help in private, only as always, he will give his son-in-law a very noble treatment, never slacken, never say that he is not, praise his benefits everywhere, and even please his in-laws, flattery is not stingy, never stingy, in the final analysis, it is still to take care of their daughter, as long as the Xie family is good to their daughter, what do parents care?
Serve a cup of food, and drink for three rounds. Suddenly, Xiao Pearl sighed for a long time: If the cub is not filial, he is not a daughter-in-law!
Yuan Qiuhua's sister Yuan Chunhua is Xiao Lin's second sister-in-law and her second daughter-in-law. Xie Jiani, the niece of Xie Qingquan, is her eldest daughter-in-law. She said this in front of Yuan Qiuhua, knocking down both daughters-in-law with a stick, and saying this in front of Yuan Qiuhua's father-in-law and mother-in-law, a penny knocked down a boatload of people.
As soon as her mother finished speaking, Xiao Lin immediately helped: The people of the Yuan family regard unreasonableness as their ability! Born in a poor family, they know how to practice filial piety? With shallow forehead and high cheeks, thin lips and thin eyes, thin bones and shoulders, and vertical eyebrows, they are born with a poor and lowly appearance, even if they are rich and prosperous, they can't carry Fu Luli!
The mother and daughter sang and harmonized, yin and yang weird, obviously deliberately said it to Yuan Qiuhua, and they were not friendly, neither afraid of Yuan Qiuhua's words, nor afraid of Yuan Chunhua's displeasure. To be honest, for Yuan Chunhua's running away from home, both of them suspected that it was a bad idea behind Yuan Qiuhua. When he learned that Yuan Qiuhua had accepted Yuan Chunhua, it seemed that the evidence was conclusive. If Yuan Chunhua didn't leave, there would be no later scalding accidents, and if there were no accidents, there would be no incident of Xiao Lin returning to her mother-in-law's house. Yuan Chunhua, who was timid and afraid of things, went out on a long trip, and suddenly became careless, daring to argue with reason, daring not to give an inch, and not afraid of offending people. Both of them believe that the series of accidents is inseparable from Yuan Qiuhua's instigation.
If Yuan Chunhua still obeys it, the foundation of the house that Xiao Lin remembered will not be used as medical expenses, and will be given to Xiao Lizi, who previously paid for the medical expenses, to build the office building of Yuhua Company. The company has a nine-story building with an elevator, no longer need to continue to rent stores, the ground floor is the "Baijiafu" supermarket, the second floor is the seafood hotel, the third floor is the office, and the upper floor is a commercial house. What made them most angry was that the Yuan family lived on the fourth floor, the father and son lived opposite the door, and the sisters lived opposite the door. Xiao Lin thought in her heart, the foundation of the house that was bound to be won was gone, and she didn't get a single bubble to blow it. With the foundation of her mother's house, the two brothers each exchanged for a set of commercial houses, but she was so angry that she couldn't sleep all night, wandering around like a ghost, the more she thought about it, the more she hated the Yuan sisters, especially Yuan Qiuhua, from scalding to treatment, and then to going abroad for plastic surgery, it seemed that every step was secretly manipulated by Yuan Qiuhua, until the roof base was used to pay for medical expenses. She speculated the cause from the results, thinking that Yuan Qiuhua had the heart of seeking to build an office building, and it was too early and long, and the scalding was just an opportunity, so that Yuan Qiuhua could seize the opportunity to achieve his goal. She has reason to believe that even if there is no scalding incident, as long as there is an accident in her mother's family and she is in urgent need of money, Yuan Qiuhua will definitely take the initiative to help, donate generously, and finally exchange for the house foundation. She couldn't get used to Yuan Qiuhua's confident face, the spring breeze on her face, and the way she walked with the wind, and she wanted to kill Yuan Qiuhua's majesty and extinguish Yuan Qiuhua's momentum.
Yuan Qiuhua smiled: As the old saying goes, one generation learns to wear, the second generation learns to eat, and the third generation learns antique calligraphy and painting. It is easiest to be crowned by a monkey, and it is also easy to overeat and drink, but it is difficult to cultivate mentality, spirit and temperament. Oh, is it three generations of nobility, or is it not more than three generations of wealth? The inheritance of spirit and concepts does require the accumulation of two or three generations to get rid of some seemingly blatant and vulgar performances.
Xie Han said: Plant melons and get melons, sow beans and get beans, there is a cause and there must be an effect, those who dislike their daughter-in-law are angry with their daughter-in-law, and those who do not respect their mother-in-law are angry with their mother-in-law. If a single slap doesn't make a sound, the one who will hurt the cub will hurt the daughter-in-law first, and if the daughter-in-law makes a mistake, the mother-in-law is not at fault?
Xie Ying said: As the old saying goes, there are three discords in the world, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law rank first, since ancient times, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are incompatible.
At that time, Yuan Qiuhua married Xie Han for less than ten days, because she was the last to marry into the Xie family, so she lived with her in-laws. Xie Han is Xie Xiong's third brother, Yuan Qiuhua is Xiao Lin's third sister-in-law, even if Yuan Qiuhua enters the door for less than a minute, she is also the eldest sister-in-law, Xiao Lin is also the younger sister-in-law, and her status is in front of her. Brother Daoyou, brother Daogong, Xiao Lin said knife words, not worried about stabbing Yuan Qiuhua, and said it in front of her in-laws and the Xie family brothers. There is no doubt that not only is he condescending, not only is he looking down and underestimated, but he also attacks openly and secretly, his words are arrogant, and his semantic threats are threatening, and he doesn't treat Yuan Qiuhua as a big dish at all, only as a shallot, which is clearly to give her a dismount.
Although the Yuan family moved to the county seat more than ten years ago, Yuan Qiuhua also grew up in the city, but her courtesy and compliant parents insisted on returning to their hometown in the countryside to hold it. Within three days of getting married, Yuan Qiuhua heard the Xie family talking about how the Yuan family was poor, even the bed cover had to be patched, and even the mosquito net had to be patched and mended.
Yuan Qiuhua sneered: The people of the Yuan family have no tutor, but the daughter of the Yuan family has earned money in her mother's house, and she can make a new house in the county for her parents and brothers to live in, and in her in-law's house, she can also earn money to make a new house for her in-laws, husbands and children.
Xiao Lin said: A woman is virtuous if she has no talent, she eats only one belly, sleeps on only one bed, money is something outside her body, benevolence and righteousness are worth a thousand gold, and a filial piety is passed down through the ages.
Xie Xiong said: Holding talents and arrogant things, being rich and unkind, and attracting the most hatred!
Shu Zhiqiang said: Having money is not necessarily a good thing, wealth is harmful, and those who can work hard, it is a blessing or a curse, and maybe it's a curse!
Zhang Linlin said: This kid is crazy, and he makes mistakes at every turn, and my family finally got an old girl, and her mother spoiled her, and there were no rules. She is short-sighted, shallow-insighted, and has a stupid and stubborn temper, so don't be like her!
Xie Han said: The pig arches forward, the chicken pulls back, and the dog looks for wild food, and there are all kinds of ways to live.
Xie Ying said: That's the case, half of the road is facing the sky, and the well water does not interfere with the river water.
Xie Qingquan said: Don't gossip, don't be ashamed. Can't stuff your mouth when you eat?
Zhang Linlin said: Don't look at the children born by Xiao Lin, they have grown up so big, but they don't understand firewood, rice, oil and salt, people are sophisticated, they don't understand anything, and they don't know what to say or do.
Xie Qingquan said: The population is large, the family background is poor, there is no happiness, even pulling the child with feces and urine, making her suffer and suffer, I can't help it.
Xiao Pearl said: I gave birth to two people who threaded the needle, and I didn't have to ride a horse and shoot arrows, some people laughed at it, and some people bullied it, will I be aggrieved again?
Gong Magpie said: Xiao Yuan, you are not too young, you should have a child this year! Look at it, Zhang Yufang is the same as you, everyone else has children, two sons and one daughter, how rare, what a blessing!
Xie Han said: Get married and have children, and marriage is to have sons. I will give birth this year, and I promise to let you hold your big fat grandson at the end of the year.
Yuan Qiuhua said: If you brag and don't make drafts, are you a mother who gives birth to a son?
Xie Ying said: That's it, maybe there will be two more embroidery needles.
Xie Han said: Aren't you in love with the library to read books? If you look up more information, you will definitely find the secret recipe for giving birth to a son.
Yuan Qiuhua said: In today's society, men and women are taught the same and paid equally, and women can ride horses and shoot arrows and write articles. I'm not afraid of giving birth to a daughter, I'm just afraid of giving birth to a son who is like Dongfang Undefeated, not to mention painting flowers and embroidery, but also to train embroidery needles into murder weapons.
Xiao Lin said: Standing and peeing on the wall, squatting and peeing to write articles, giving birth to a cub, it is amazing, tail to the sky? Is life particularly good? Are people extraordinarily smart? Holding oneself as a character, not being sensible, and making a mistake! I like girls, and my daughter is obedient, caring, taking care of her family, and not causing trouble, which is not a blessing.
Yuan Qiuhua said: It is really rare to have a man and a woman to be sad, and to see her daughter shine on the lintel, there is no old concept of patriarchy!
Xie Ying said: In addition to the men's prison, there is also a women's prison.
Xie Han said: Children are not divided into men and women, the emphasis is on education, and the most important thing is to be successful and promising.
Xie Xiong said: Wait and see, my daughter will build a new house for her mother and son to live in, and she will be able to support her old age!
Yuan Qiuhua said: In the knowledge society, the era of competition is more than diplomas, more capable, and more intelligent. A girl is virtuous and talentless, and she can't even support herself, so what can she do to support her parents?
Xiao Lin said: It's better to marry well than to do well, beautiful women are virtuous, you can marry a rich husband, and you can support the elderly.
Yuan Qiuhua said: Do you know the final outcome of the four beauties in history? Don't rely on yourself, rely on men, and die one by one!
Xie Han said: The crow's mouth says that it is not good and that it is evil. If you celebrate the New Year, can't you say a few good words and ask for good luck?
Xiao Lin said: Women are desperate to earn money, they can only support themselves, what's the big deal? If you don't work, you can not only support yourself, but also support yourself, you can really be smart and clever!
Xiao Pearl said: Marry a daughter-in-law, sell a son, those two cubs listen to their wives, they can't count on it at all, we have to rely on our daughters and sons-in-law for the rest of our lives!
Gong Magpie said: Today's sons are almost the same, and their conscience has fed the dog! When I was a child, my mother's milk was good, and when I grew up, I was my wife's B!
Xie Ying said: The cub is poor, the woman is rich, the daughter wants her parents to worry more, I am worried that when she should study, she is not good at reading, she wants to fall in love, when she should start a family, it is not good to get married, but the seeds are secretly blooming, and it is not suitable for the family to marry, the red apricot is out of the wall, stealing people to raise Han, I don't know how ugly there are, so that the parents and brothers and sisters have no face to see people.
Xiao Lin said: You also have a daughter, you can manage it well, it's good. Can't you open your mouth without yin and yang?
Xie Xiong said, "What are you talking about?" Shut your crow's mouth! What do you want to do?
Xie Han said: This kind of vicious stinging words, no matter how unconvinced you are, you can't say it in front of your elders!
Xiao Lin said: I am not angry when others are angry with me, I have no intention, he is still angry, if he is sick, he is lucky, he is sick, no one is angry, he is not angry, he is not angry, he is really not angry.
Xie Xiong said: If I am angry, he will win, and if I am not angry, he will lose.
Yuan Qiuhua said: Acting, they are all pretending, whoever pretends to be like, who gets applause!
Xiao Pearl said: Lin cub, heart and liver, you have to compete with your mother, and you will give birth to a noble son and jump the dragon gate!
Zhang Forest said: Son-in-law, I am used to being pampered, you have to bear the firewood and water, you are tired of the field work, you don't go to play cards and roll the dice, you can't go to the waves, you can't do it, the family is prosperous, the people are happy, it all depends on you!
Xiao Pearl said: Marriage is a pre-life decision, everything has to be discussed, respect each other's in-laws, and be good and harmonious when you are old in the same bed!
Xiao Lin said: Marriage is relative, and the hammer cannot be retreated.