In the countryside, it is impossible for a daughter-in-law to meet an unreasonable mother-in-law and a dog-skin plaster-style sister-in-law, so that the old and young women and children do not talk about it.

Especially the married daughter Xie Jiayan, who suffered hardships and losses in her mother-in-law's house, was a little daughter-in-law who relied on people's snorts, fled back to her parents' house to take refuge, and became a housekeeper and a little mother-in-law, a troublesome little mother. The brother and sister-in-law fight, the brother and the daughter-in-law scold each other, she goes not to drag the fight to persuade peace, mediate, but to help the brother beat the sister-in-law, help the younger brother scold the brother-in-law, of course, the sister-in-law and the brother-in-law hate.

If there is a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, she will help her relatives and not help her, so she will naturally sit on her mother's side, and inevitably sing and harmonize beside her, 1234 examples to confirm, saying that sister-in-law and brother-in-law are ruthless, when they are unrighteous, how not to be filial, how to be disobedient, and make their own opinions, no respect for the elders, no big or small, no up and down, everything is upside down, selfish, ungrateful.

Mother and daughter joined forces, counted the zodiac black, reversed right and wrong, ruined the daughter-in-law, and made the sister-in-law and brother-in-law even more disgusted.

Sheltering the daughter's family, the mother can also rely on the old and sell the old, under the pretext of prevarication, saying that she is old and confused. What about a young and strong daughter? If she marries and does not leave, she is purely dead skin, eating and waiting for death, no matter how she dislikes it, she can't leave her mother's house, she makes a mess and is wasted, and she doesn't leave her mother's house no matter how disgusted she is. There are many daughters in the clan, but none of them are as shameless as her, and no one lives as shamelessly as her.

Poor since childhood, the same is true when she grows up, her mother's family is still poor after getting married, the conditions of her mother-in-law's family are lower, the family background is even more dilapidated, her life is really poor, and her daughter needs the help of her mother's family, so it shouldn't be this method. It stands to reason that ten fingers have lengths and shortnesses, mountains and forests and trees have heights, abilities have sizes, and minds are smart and foolish, and it is impossible for people to force unanimity. Daughters in the situation of not being able to support themselves and feed the family, on the one hand, they can cry poor and beggar, cry for help, beggars on the side of the road also have to kneel and kowtow, wear tattered clothes, pretend to be suffering, and put on a pitiful face, before they dare to open their mouths to complain, reach out to beg for money, and accept the food that comes, on the other hand, learn to be low and small, do as much as possible to do what they can, at least be kind to others, endure humiliation and seek perfection, share joys and sorrows, and the mother's family takes care of the blood and family affection, and talk about the righteousness of relatives and friends, but it can be accepted, and the monk must say a few words of flattery and auspiciousness, and want a good reputation for harmony。

Xie Jia's cow is tall and big, not sick or disabled, has a husband and children, but the water is rotten, beating and turning back, nesting in her mother's house to play a scoundrel, her father died of illness, her mother is widowed, her niece is lonely, and she still doesn't move her nest, and the dog can't change to eat, the thief can't forget to steal, and he has to take advantage of the fire to rob and openly occupy the niece's property.

She is spineless, unconscious, and not intelligent, and the clansmen don't say anything to her face, but behind her back, they are short and long, and there are many discussions, and the water spilled by the married daughter is difficult to collect, and she is a guest of relatives, and she is a guest of her mother's family, why should she point fingers and scold Huai, point fingers, and stick a penny in the end? What qualifications do you have to talk nonsense about your mother's brother and sister-in-law, talk about long and short, and compete for wealth and property?

said that she was poor since she was a child, but her parents were pampered, she couldn't endure hardship, she didn't want to suffer, she was lazy and only liked to listen to good words, she was violent and obedient and had to have fun, marrying a ruffian would drag down her mother's family, she only wanted to enjoy the blessings of her mother's family, and she didn't want to honor her parents at all, filial piety to her in-laws, respect her brother and sister-in-law, and be harmonious and concubine, she didn't learn to be a good wife and mother at all, persuaded her husband to build a family, helped her son to start a business, blindly greedy for her mother's industry, arrogant and unreasonable, and disturbed the peace of the family, scourge!

The rumors and scandals, the elders in the in-law listened to them, and their faces were dull, hating her for not being angry, and being ridiculed by being involved, both aggrieved and angry, and even more embarrassed. Grandma Tang couldn't help but rely on the old and sell the old, and admonished: If you don't cultivate this life and the next life, you should not be your own children and grandchildren, but you should also accumulate some virtue and do some good. If you are young and vigorous and don't listen to people's advice, you will bury trouble!

Xie Jiayan carried the bull's head on her back and refused to admit the stolen goods, did things during the day and denied it at night, talking with red eyes and arguing with white eyes: hell, how can there be such a thing? They have a problem with their minds, psychopaths, and take care of them!

Aunt Tang reminded again: The mother's family, the parents are alive, and it is the home where the daughter can come back often, and the parents are not there, it is the home of the brother and sister-in-law, and the sister-in-law is just a visitor, and the brother and sister-in-law are the rightful members of the family.

The elders beat and spoke bitterly, speaking lightly and falling heavily, but she couldn't understand, her brain was not flexible, her heart was not open, and she couldn't do superficial articles. A smart and clever person, when he hears that his brother and wife have a civil war, he will either ask his parents to persuade him, or invite the elders of the clan to mediate.

Xie Jiayan has always been reckless in competing for power, shaking and playing tricks, like a-stirring stick, stirring up harmony everywhere, making her mother's family unpeaceful, as long as she goes to which brother's house, which couple will have contradictions and conflicts. If she is not used to seeing things, she wants to say, if she doesn't listen to pleasant words, she wants to scold, her sister-in-law blames her for talking too much, and her brother and sister-in-law complain about her many things, so there is a quarrel, and the quarrel and quarrel, and the sister-in-law scolds and fights. She jumped like thunder, crossed her hands on her waist, scolded, foul language, and piercing words, from the sister-in-law in front of her, to the sister-in-law's mother's house in other places, from the sister-in-law's living parents, to the sister-in-law's dead ancestors.

She shrewd scolded the street, spoke foul language, disgusting vices, and used her hands and feet to push and shove her sister-in-law. The sister-in-law first put up with her, reasoned with her facts, and saw that the more she scolded, the less she looked like a person, the more she was ugly and fierce, and the more she scolded, the more she was not human, she couldn't bear it anymore and scolded back,-for-tat, if you scold me, I will scold you, if you scold my parents, I will scold your parents, if you curse my husband, I will curse your children.

The cloak is scattered, the hands are clapped and the feet are stomped, the sister-in-law scolds, the mess, the noise, the chickens and dogs jump and the children cry. The elder brother came to persuade the fight, and the younger brother came to make peace, but she changed her words, accusing her brother of being a wreck, and her younger brother's wife being strict, suffering from internal fear, and being afraid of her wife, not helping her to speak, and not standing up for her.

The brothers knew that she was a fool, that the tiger turned into a pig--- stupid and evil, that the stone --- of the pit was stinky and hard, that a brown horse could not be torn apart--- that it was not level and stubborn. Clumsy and clumsy, chattering for a long time, not daring to make a statement, talking nonsense, provoking her to be jealous, making trouble in the heavenly palace, the scene is getting more and more out of control, but her hands are shaking with anger, her legs are twitching, her intestines are disordered, she is churning inside, and she can't help but mutter: What are we doing to stand out for you? Want us to cripple our wives, and then we pay for the medical expenses, we serve day and night, and we earn money to support our families? Let us sweep our wives out of the house, and then our wives are separated, our family is broken and poor, and we are lonely until we are old? If we talk to you like a mother, we will betray our relatives with our mother, the sky will be angry and resentful, and the evening will be bleak!

The mouth is clever, hesitates for a moment, and then stops his wife, Sensei is serious, Sensei is calculating, don't be like her.

Sister-in-law and sister-in-law saw that their husbands were one-sided, and they pressed themselves and protected her, arousing a stomach full of resentment: Where are we inferior to her? What have we done wrong? Do you rely on her to make a family and generate income? Or do you want to live with her to have children and raise children? You want us to be careful, to be angry with her, to suffer from her sin, to be insulted by her, you want us to treat it correctly, not only today, since the day we got married, how much have we been wronged by her? She is not your aunt and grandmother, she is your living ancestor, she counts our old accounts, she turns our old words, you don't allow us to hold grudges, only allow her to seek money and kill her? She sets fire, you hand the lighter, she burns the house, you pour oil, you are accomplices!

After hearing this, my husband became angry and lost his temper.

The wife quarreled with her husband, arguing and scolding, and the husband and wife fought.

Xie Jiayan was not idle when she supervised the battle, either helping her brother beat her sister-in-law, or helping her younger brother scold her brother-in-law.

If you are cunning, you will find a reason to take your wife and children out of the house, hide out, avoid a head-to-head confrontation with her, start a war directly, leave a line of affection, and see each other in the future.

When she caused a lot of trouble, he became the most unpopular person, and when he saw her coming during the day, he closed the door and turned her away, and when he heard her talk at night, he turned off the light, and did not want to deal with her.

The father died, the mother needs the brother to support the elderly, Xie Jiaxi lives in her mother's house, lives as a guest and land, the guest does not oppress the host, the guest is as the host, and it is necessary to avoid the suspicion of the guest bully. For more than 40 years, she has lived deeply in her mother's home, and she has no feelings of guests in her heart, only the pride of being the master of the house. As a matter of fact, her own family could not afford it, and the house had already collapsed, when and where, and how could she hold up the heavens of her mother's family? Her mother's belongings, private money, and popularity had already been ruined by her, and her brother and sister-in-law's family, how could she be allowed to be the master and let her be defeated? The battle began here. She relied on her mother's favoritism, moved her mother out as a shield, and used the rhetoric of "unfilial piety" to coerce her brother and sister-in-law.

As the proverb goes, you will recognize your relatives and recognize your relatives, you will not recognize your relatives and recognize one person, you will be a group of people, and you will not be a person. Once this person dies and the people betray their relatives and leave, what will they rely on? In the sisters' family, among the three parties, the mother party is the largest, and the mother's brother does not show up, the sister-in-law and sister-in-law do not cheer, the nephews and nieces do not come to the door, and the mother's family does not come, and they are unwilling to support her face, what face will she show to the public?

People who are shallow and short-sighted cannot see the broad future, and are only greedy for small profits in front of them, and they rely on the big tree of "old lady" to get something for nothing in private, and openly sit back and enjoy their success, and they can also eat and take cards on their family wealth, be greedy and take advantage of everything, and force their brothers and sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law and sisters-in-law everywhere.

I don't know, this matter can't be erected, and people can't stand steadily, so it is clear that they can't be brought to the court table for discussion. If the brothers-in-law, sisters-in-law, and sisters-in-law are unwilling to be the wronged leaders, the united clans will be driven away by force, and no one can suppress them by force. If you don't get a fight, you may become the enemy of your brother-in-law, and your sister will not be able to live in peace in the next life. Besides, the mother is old, the brothers, sisters-in-law, and brothers-in-law are still young, even if they throw a mouse trap, there is no way to take their relatives for the time being, once the mother is dead, they have real power, and they have gained power, and the brothers-in-law and nephews will be angry! Other small things can be ignored, only to protect the niece's family property, this major matter, at that time, they will be numerous, upright, justifiable, and have the support of the family, and the support of the national law, but the brother-in-law and nephew are obviously not their opponents, just afraid that the sister will kneel down and beg for mercy, will not be lenient.

As the saying goes, filial piety can give birth to a filial daughter, and disobedience can also raise a disobedient child. Gong magpie is not filial, not cowardly, not kind, and the children born are not well educated, I don't know what filial piety is, I don't know how to be kind, I don't know how to be kind, I don't know how to turn back, I can't cultivate virtue from the good, just learn from her example, slap and scold, fight for wealth and property, like her, make the father and son separate, and the brothers turn against each other.

Although it is said that if you plant melons and you will get melons, and if you plant beans, you will get beans, but the palace magpie is pitiful enough. When the son grows up and marries a daughter-in-law, even if he sells a son, he will also share a share of the family property. Now, the son and daughter-in-law are unwilling to support the elderly, the daughters are married, and a dowry is also shared. The family property was divided, her husband died, and she was left alone, not only helpless, her reputation was ruined, the evening was bleak, and the hard days were still waiting for her, only endless anger and endless sin.

It's terrible to have no culture, and if you don't educate and cause evil consequences, what can you hate? Who can you blame if you drink bitter wine?

The ancients said that it is better to raise a donkey if you don't teach a son, and it is better to raise a pig if you don't teach a daughter. As the saying goes, wives and virtuous husbands rarely encounter disasters, and mothers and virtuous sons do not suffer. The slang saying is that marrying the wrong wife will harm generations.