As the saying goes, there are thousands of families, one person in charge, a big family, and there must be a helmsman who is the master of the house, the checkpoint and the direction, which is equivalent to the general manager of the interior, not only in charge of the spiritual outlook, but also in charge of the material foundation, the life skills of preaching and teaching the family, and the external can also be a spokesperson and image ambassador who speaks and counts.

The big boss, the big shopkeeper, whether he is competent, the key is to see whether this person is upright, fair or unfair, whether he has the ability, whether he can convince the public, whether he will lead everyone to the right path, and the public is selfless, intolerable, fearful and unrelated, and has a good teaching.

It is most taboo to abolish the public service for personal gain, martyrdom and fraud, and must not unconditionally favor a few, shameless and incompetent, vying for fame and fortune, and being close to the villain, and harming the interests of the majority, those who are capable of hard work, have the ambition to work hard, and are benevolent and honest.

There are three bad consequences because of the cover, firstly, the disparity in the contrast of strength, small things and small selfish interests, a few close followers can be operated in the dark, but big things and big public welfare, it needs the support and cooperation of most capable people, secondly, capable people, heroes are useless, either choose another master, or overhead the unconscious master, parents become puppets, and puppets can be replaced at any time, again, when foreign insults are invaded and unstoppable, cronies are Bao Fulu, only limited to defecting to the enemy, offering the city for glory, and cutting off the head of the lord, as a gift of surrender.

But looking at the twenty-four histories, those who do not govern their families properly and cause trouble all stem from being close to foreign relatives and friends, small slaves and servants, and alienating their own flesh and blood, resulting in jealousy between the two parties, fighting for fame and profit, fighting for wealth and property, and the dispute originates from this, so they are in danger, and self-preservation, to selfishness, the family is not broken, the industry is not defeated, and the household is not lost.

In this regard, the palace magpie is selfless and ignorant, diligent and thrifty does not know anything about housekeeping, kindness and kindness do not understand at all, the stinky beauty of the feudal female head of the family is served nine days away, the mother and son are out of harmony, the brothers and sisters do not care about their relatives, the life is chaotic, the family loss does not matter, and their reputation is not good, no matter who can shake it, her supreme authority of the queen mother.

People are iron, rice is steel, if you don't eat a meal, you will be hungry and panic, and your family will take food as your day. In terms of eating, Gong Magpie's rule for Yuan Qiuhua is that Yuan Qiuhua will eat whatever she wants, but Yuan Qiuhua will do whatever they want to eat. Yuan Qiuhua wanted to eat anything, so he had to pay out of his own pocket and buy it for everyone to eat together.

Gong Magpie wants to eat whatever she wants, she will open a small stove to do something, and she will also worry about Shu Zhiqiang's family, if she works with Yuan Qiuhua, she will find an excuse to call them home, close the doors and windows and secretly enjoy the food like a thief. Often Yuan Qiuhua went out to work, or she went to sleep in a new house under the mountains, they played in the old ancestral house for the New Year, chickens, ducks, fish, meat and eggs, everyone was tired of eating, fruits, pastries and drinks, everyone drank enough.

Slang said: It's not good to carry people, but good things don't hide from people. Sunny and daylight, sneaky, closing doors and windows, originally suspicious, coupled with the romantic life experience, more and more attention, there are peepers, eavesdroppers. The appearance of the food, the appearance of eating, can be closed, the fragrance of the vegetables, but the smell of wine cannot be closed, and the rumors are also trending.

There was a lot of discussion, boiling, and the matter finally reached Yuan Qiuhua's ears.

Liu Ruixiang said: Oh, they eat and drink spicy food behind their backs, it's too unusual! I exclude you alone, and I don't treat you as a human being!

Sun Yue'e said: If you are not tired to death, you will have to die of anger, and if you are not angry, you will die of shame!

Yuan Qiuhua said: Didn't you say that my mother-in-law has always done this? The first few daughters-in-law can't do it, so what can I do? I don't have to rush over to open the dinner table?

Liu Ruixiang said: You must poke the hornet's nest, a few scold you, a group beats you, and you are not Jet Li, you are bound to suffer!

Sun Yue'e said: We are all semi-illiterate in the countryside, you are highly educated, you don't swear when you swear, you have great knowledge, you still smile when you play people, you have no sword in your hand, you have a trick in your heart, you are fierce every step, and you are invisible.

Yuan Qiuhua said: How old am I? Sensei provoked me to be the first bird, and piggyback to help you take revenge.

Sun Yue'e said: Forbearance will only be exchanged for intensification, you want to settle things, they don't want to calm people, what I said is right, everyone can see it in the future.

Yuan Qiuhua said: You can't eat poorly, you can't wear poor, and you won't calculate that you will be poor for a lifetime. Lazy and lazy, ridiculed and starved, they have been eating and drinking for more than ten years, are they rich?

Liu Ruixiang said: The mother-in-law loves her lazy son-in-law, and what hurts is bad meat.

Inevitably, there were a few times when Yuan Qiuhua pretended to accidentally bump into him, and he was caught on the spot to enjoy it.

Yuan Qiuhua said: Hey, it's better to choose a day than to hit the sun, you eat comfortably, I will also participate in it!

Gong Magpie is not weak-hearted, and the second is not to pay attention to losses, which is a habitual practice, she explained: What a coincidence, you go out, the guest comes, you enter the door, and the guest leaves again!

Yuan Qiuhua said: It's a coincidence, I'm not lucky, no coincidence is not a book!

Facing a table of sumptuous meals, Gong Magpie didn't ask Yuan Qiuhua to sit down and eat together, Xie Jiaxi didn't open his mouth, invited Yuan Qiuhua to sit down, Shu Zhiqiang buried his head in drinking and eating meat, and didn't even raise his eyelids, treating Yuan Qiuhua as a beggar begging for rice. Seeing this kind of situation, no matter who looks at it, it can be determined that they are a family that loves each other, and the daughter-in-law is a poor relative who comes uninvited, fights the autumn wind, and rubs oil and water. Take 10,000 steps back and say, even if the beggar comes to the door and catches up with others to eat, he will give a bowl of rice to eat, and the right to accumulate yin virtue!

Yuan Qiuhua, on the one hand, can't erase his dignity, can't tear his face, like a sister-in-law, reasoning with them, arguing, arguing, shouting at the clan's comments, making trouble with them, fighting, on the other hand, trying his best to maintain his own dignity, unwilling to sit uninvited, like Ma Huilan, eating and swallowing vegetables by himself, making them laugh at their dead skin and shame when they meet people. But if you find out, you don't see it, so you go out silently, hide far away, both sad and angry, it seems too cowardly, right? Explain the truth through the ages, and tell the love of eternity, no matter how no status, no matter how virtuous, even if the daughter-in-law is not a housewife, at least she is a member of the family.

After thinking about it, Yuan Qiuhua was unwilling to do so after all, she stood aside, didn't say much, didn't get in the way, and didn't stare directly at their moves, a shallow skin, a kind of envy, jealousy and hatred, just being a competent waiter in a restaurant, busy adding food for them, humming children's songs while adding: two tigers, two tigers, run fast, run fast, one has no eyes, the other has no tail, it's strange, it's strange!

After the meal and tea, Yuan Qiuhua hummed a children's rhyme again: A pug, sitting at the gate, with green eyes, wants to eat meat and bones!

Later, picking up dishes and chopsticks, wiping tables and chairs, and washing pots and pots, she hummed nursery rhymes while drying: Little mouse, go to the lampstand, steal oil to eat, can't get down, Mimimi, call the cat, the cat is coming, twitter, get down!

Shu Shilei said: The song of the third aunt is really ugly, and it is not as good as the third aunt's belly "twittering"!

Yuan Qiuhua said: The third aunt is prenatal education, sing it to the little brother in the belly. The little brother was very happy to hear it, dancing with his hands and doing somersaults.

Shu Shilei said: I'm full, my little brother has no food, so I'm so hungry that I'm jumping around.

Xie Jiayan said: Debt collector, I want you to talk more! If you talk nonsense again, you will not be allowed to eat next time, see if you are hungry or not, you cheap bones!

Shu Shilei said: If you starve me to death, no one will give you a grandchild, you will have no son, you will have a grandchild, like a second uncle, you will have a nephew to inherit and pass on your ancestry.

Shu Zhiqiang said: What kind of mess, who did you listen to?

Shu Shilei said: I listened to what you said!

Xie Jiayan said: Flamboyant, flamboyant, and evil! I did evil in my previous life, and I was angry with me for giving birth to such an injustice from you!

Yuan Qiuhua said: Yo, don't be angry, it's self-defeating, hey, I didn't show up at the right time!

Gong Magpie's face turned black, and he even asked Yuan Qiuhua repeatedly: What happened when you went home halfway?

Yuan Qiuhua said: Weeds have grown on the ridges of the fields, and they need to be cut, so I forgot to take a sickle.

She instructed Yuan Qiuhua to take a sickle and leave quickly: clear the grass on the edge of the field, more fat and less pests, don't miss the season, be busy!

Yuan Qiuhua said: Alas, it's all my fault that I didn't choose the time to go home!

In terms of dressing, they buy whatever they want, and for Yuan Qiuhua, she buys whatever Yuan Qiuhua wears. Yuan Qiuhua bought clothes, she can see it, she is going to pass, even her dowry, as long as she likes it, also trade in the old for the new, cotton wool for a bed, for a good one, Hongyun fan for a floor fan, and borrow it at every turn, borrow a new quilt cover, Xie Jiajiao made a gift when she moved away, gave a gift, a set of Jingdezhen dishes and bowls, simply went to go and did not return, to Xie Jiadi's kitchen.

They are all dressed in trendy and fashionable clothes, not at all like rural people, but like the family members of cadres in the city, and if Yuan Qiuhua only wears the clothes she bought, she will become an outdated old woman in the countryside.

Xie Han was in front of him, and the palace magpie was still pretending to be kind, and occasionally he was kind and took care of housework. When her son goes out, she is completely exposed, and she is a slave to Yuan Qiuhua, and Yuan Qiuhua is responsible for all the work at home, from laundry and cooking, sweeping the floor and feeding pigs and other housework, to carrying water and grinding rice, picking dung and digging the ground and other physical work, without pity that she is a pregnant woman.

In Gong Magpie's heart, it is not that a person with a foreign surname is an outsider, but that she thinks that whoever is an outsider is an outsider, and her own person with the same surname or common blood can be specified as an outsider and given relatively equal treatment, and an outsider with a different surname or no common blood can also be indicated as her own person, and she should enjoy the gift of superiority. Whether it's a pro or not, but a non-pro but a pro, nothing works, no rules need to be said, her big reason is nothing more than who she is close to, who she contracts, who is her own person, who she hates, who makes evil, who is an outsider. Not only is the daughter-in-law an outsider, but even the grandson born to the daughter-in-law is also an outsider.