Knowing
If true love is outside of marriage, don't hurt him.
A woman, if you're lucky, may meet a man in her life who truly loves you.
The man who really loves you doesn't have to be your husband.
No matter what situation you fall into, he still loves you to the letter, regardless of your distance, age, environment, economy, family and social background. This kind of true love has nothing to do with money, ethics, morality, or marriage, and its existence makes your heart have support and fantasy, pride and self-confidence.
This man may not be the person you think about all the time, but he has plucked your heartstrings and made your life have passion and vitality from now on, and his heart is no longer lonely and lonely.
Such a man is God's mercy and God's grace to you, and you can't ask for it.
Don't worry too much, whether he has a family or not, don't be suspicious, whether you are married or not, he will never harm the innocent, will not destroy your family life, because he loves you, so he is reluctant to embarrass you, and he can't bear to hurt anyone in your family, let alone be hysterical and unscrupulous in order to dominate you, on the contrary, he will help you silently protect your family from the dark within the scope of his ability.
Seeing Jun Chu and being fascinated by quality and temperament, it is like returning to an old friend. Between each other, the real longing and concern began from here. Stand not far away, keep a safe distance, and appreciate each other. This kind of feeling comes from the understanding of the heart, the integration of the spirit, the hearts of the two people, close to each other, but the body is "far away". This is a kind of spiritual level of "Plato", which can only be experienced by sensitive and delicate people, and can only be obtained by rational and calm people. When two people are together, they have a tacit understanding of the spirit, a unity of the heart, they can talk about love, marriage, and the future unscrupulously, and they can talk about life, philosophy, and confusion without any consideration. Because the heart has a soul and the heart is connected, so we know and cherish each other, support each other, because we know each other tacitly, we know each other, so we respect each other, are willing to each other, and live a noble life.
Between you, there is no physical possession, but there must be soul fusion, telepathy. When you think of him, your heart will be full of sweetness, happiness, and concern! You will not reach out to him to ask for money for the sake of life. He takes everything you give to heart. He will think what you think and love what you love. Your happiness is his happiness, and your sorrow is his pain.
Don't think he's a stupid man, he loves you in his own way and in his faith. At first, you may wonder if he is pretending, but after a long time, the truth will tell you that he has no pretense, no selfishness, and is simply loving you. His love for you is not selfish, and when he finds out that you don't seem to love him, he will choose to leave you silently and bless you. It's all just because he loves you, so he doesn't want you to be sad. In his philosophy, if you are happy, he has the value of existence.
Such men, not all women, are destined to be obtained. In the superficial view of the world, he is an unnoble third person, but he is definitely not vulgar.
If you are lucky, please don't hurt him!
No matter how lucky you are in your life, this kind of true love, the luckiest thing in a person's life, is only once, because no one is a darling of God.
You should be lucky to understand: apart from giving you his love, he has not asked for you or reciprocated anything! He has not asked you for anything in return! He chooses what he likes, and what you love and chooses, which should be voluntary and conscious actions in your heart.
Your life is still the same, your family is still the same, just because he chose to forbear and fulfill you, just because he desperately restrained and always held the last line of defense. Everyone is an adult, and you should understand the thoughts of men, the desires and expectations of men. He is not Tang Sanzang, but he wants to be Yanagi Hui, both deliberately alienated and carefully cared for, this feeling, the passion in his heart is surging, but the bottom of his eyes is as still as water, one will go to heaven, one will go to hell, if this is not a torment, what do you have to cherish?
Please choose to respect him!
If you still have a conscience, please love him well!
Accompany him well, use your gentleness and thoughtfulness, use your understanding, and use your romantic taste, in the last days, in a limited time, give him infinite warmth, and light up his heart!