Tan Yinhe, the second daughter-in-law of the post-60s, although she is four years older than Sun Yue'e, Xie Wen is the eldest brother, and her husband Xie Wu is the second brother.

Tan Yinhe was the first to marry into the Xie family, loyal and honest, lowly and low-spirited, bitter as a little daughter-in-law, speaking with low eyebrows and pleasing eyes, and tearful as a stupid slave, which is the earliest and biggest victim of family rules. The palace magpie as a "living Bodhisattva" like a salute, every day around the mother-in-law, from the morning to pour the urine bucket, comb the hair and wash the face, to the evening quilt, never leave, call to arrive, from making tea and cooking, serving soup and water, to sweeping the floor and wiping the table, beckoning, waiting at any time, from grinding rice and flour, carrying water and chopping wood, to laundry and picking vegetables, call to go, go home on time, from something to report, to ask for instructions, to go out to ask for leave, return on schedule.

It is precisely because of the family rules on her that they have been thoroughly implemented, and the implementation has been carried out to the letter, which has fueled the arrogance of the palace magpie.

Tan Yinhe is introverted and passive, he will get it if he gives it, he will not fight if he does not give it, he should be his own, he will not dare to hold it accountable, he is afraid of causing trouble, he is afraid of conflict, he is afraid of offending people, he would rather suffer losses for peace, do not steal or rob without quarrel with the world, easy-going and docile and convenient with others. A gentle and generous woman, who suffers hardship, suffers anger, is patient, and chaste, if she marries into a wealthy family, or meets a sensible and reasonable aunt, she must be a good wife and mother who gathers traditional virtues.

It's a pity that her family is poor and miserable, her mother has no advice since she was a child, she is humble and poor, and she can't climb into a wealthy family. The golden dragon is paired with the jade phoenix, the young lady is matched with the young master, the maid ring is paired with the scholar, the princess is matched with the prince, and the sparrow is matched with the gray magpie. Poor households are against broken households, rich families are against powerful families, big and rough people are blind to them, and peasant girls are against country boys. There are three unfilial pieties, no queen is great, so poor that you can't afford to marry a wife, and you can't step your children and grandchildren, you must pass on the ancestry, the old society has two countermeasures, hold someone else's female doll, raise it, and then marry your son, and you don't spend money to have a daughter-in-law to have grandchildren, which is called a child daughter-in-law, and the palace magpie is a child daughter-in-law. The second is the exchange of relatives between the two families, your daughter, marry my son, my daughter, marry your son, both families do not spend money, and both have daughters-in-law and grandchildren. The Xie family is poor, the Tan family is also poor, and the two families changed their parents, Tan Yinhe married Xie Wu of the Xie family as his wife, and Xie Wu's sister Xie Jiajiao married Tan Yinhe's younger brother Tan Mingyue as his wife.

The poor lost their freedom, the poor had no choice, and the women were sacrificed first, treated as non-"human", traded for barter, and reduced to sacrifices. Poverty is the root of all evil, poverty is extreme, animal instinct, then the poor and vicious, scarce resources to survive, courtesy, righteousness and shame are useless, benevolence, righteousness and morality do not know, you fight for me to rob without humility, I deceive the face, lack of food in the trough pig arch pig, in the bowl there are bones in the dog bite dog. She is afraid of offending people, people are not afraid of offending her, she is convenient with others, people will take advantage of her, she does not fight or rob, people will deceive and coax, she will return defeated, people will win and return to the dynasty, she is not aggrieved, how can people be willing to be depressed?

Sun Yue'e made a family breakup, Tan Yinhe didn't mention the family, Gong Magpie said that they would be treated equally, and the two sons would split up on the same day, the house, food, and furniture were exactly the same, no more, no less. On the surface, it sounds like the two sons are treated equally, but because of the difference between the two daughters-in-law, the results are very different.

The house is an old brick house, old-fashioned even three, in the middle is the hall house, there is a wing room on the left and right, there is an attic on the top, the wing room is one by one, for the bedroom, the hall is separated from it, and the half of the family is the kitchen. The rich can't do without reading, the poor can't do without pigs, farmers want to raise chickens and ducks, pigs, toilets, the Xie family has no chicken and duck sheds, no pig houses, no thatched houses, poverty can be seen at the bottom, and these three brick houses are still bought from the third uncle's family, and the price of tofu is calculated as a row of bones, which is equivalent to grabbing the household for nothing, and picking it up for nothing.

Sun Yue'e is preparing to open a tofu workshop, to install a stone mill, to set up a plate rack, to set up a large stove, half of the hall house, can not put a lot of utensils, the profit of the tofu workshop, most of the profit comes from feeding the pigs with the scraps of tofu, there is no pig house, may not be raised in the bedroom? On the right side of the brick house, with a foundation, about 40 square meters, the two families are evenly divided, and each can build a pig house and thatched house. The two brothers had no money in hand, and the construction of the thatched house was just a talk on paper, mentioning pigs, and only saying that they would temporarily borrow someone else's pig house to raise pigs. Tan Yinhe couldn't come up with the money to build a thatched house, but Sun Yue'e slapped the money for building a house on the wine table in public. Everyone muttered and discussed, and made a decision after weighing, the foundation belonged to Xie Wen, and the hall belonged to Xie Wu. The hall house, Xie Wen's share, is only ten square meters, Xie Wu undoubtedly suffered a loss, and the people who persuaded him almost said, "It's just that you can't get the money", or "My own brother, it's a favor to suffer a loss, and I will have the opportunity to compensate for it in the future."

The first strike is stronger, Sun Yue'e got the foundation, started to build a tofu factory, and deliberately piled things up in the hall to occupy the place in disguise. Tan Yinhe has no place to stand, he can't cook on the stove, so he can only eat with his mother-in-law. The tofu workshop was completed, Sun Yue'e began to operate, shouting every day, chaotic, people coming and going, making Tan Yinhe dizzy, except for sleeping at night, he didn't want to sit in the wing room for a moment, and still went to eat with his mother-in-law. The hall has been occupied by Sun Yue, even if her mother-in-law came forward to urge, asked to empty it, and asked for a return, she found all kinds of excuses to drag it and refused to vacate the room. The mother-in-law regularly ordered to vacate the air, and Sun Yue'e sarcastically retorted, "Go to a family, learn from a family, what kind of mother-in-law, what kind of daughter-in-law, I am learning from you."

Sun Yue'e retorted and said disrespectfully, choking the palace magpie speechless, and sprinkled her anger on Tan Yinhe's head, "You can't grab hot to eat as a dog, you are really useless!" Although Tan Yinhe acted clumsily, he was not idle all day long, although he was slow to react, he listened to a lot of dissatisfaction every day, although his words were wooden, he pretended to be uneasy in his stomach, and he couldn't say it. She is illiterate, has never read and write, and has no experience in society, she can only farm and do housework in her mother's house, and she only knows how to swallow her anger in her mother-in-law's house, and the relationship between the two is not good, she can't talk about her mother-in-law, she can't do things, she can't scold her mother-in-law, she can't beat her husband, how can she afford to provoke her mother-in-law? If you can't afford to provoke, you will take refuge in safety, rely on to take care of it, surrender for protection, only be obedient and obedient, whatever your mother-in-law says, it is what you say, what your mother-in-law says is good, she admits her mistake in everything she says, she is angry and suffers, she will do whatever her mother-in-law tells you to do, she will do it, endure losses and hardships, and endure herself as a "living dead", all day long, sad and bitter, taciturn, and lifeless.

Gong Magpie looks at people gossiping, divides people into dishes, and is very snobbish, although his mouth praises Tan Yinhe as a good daughter-in-law, but he looks down on him extremely in his heart, how can he worship the poor maid ring? The mother-in-law is not looking for her daughter-in-law, just like picking rags in a sewing basket, colorful, and lacking everything, and she can grab it with her hands. often finds fault for no reason, shows her bad face, often shouts and screams to publicize her shortcomings, noisily ruins her reputation, and from time to time through her temper, first scolding, then scuffling, and then not allowed to eat.

The reason why he thinks he is unlucky, Tan Yinhe is because the internal and external conditions are not as good as ordinary people. First, I am weak, timid, and afraid, and I can get by. The second is that there is no one in charge of the mother's family. She died at the age of nine, her father has not continued the strings, her younger brothers and sisters are underage, because her father and mother-in-law are not in harmony, they are not on the right path, and they can't come to harmony, when they get married, their father and younger siblings don't come to cheer, or they enter the in-law's house alone, like this mother's house, they are beaten and scolded, who can support them? They are falsely accused and slandered, who can be angry? Not only do they have no chance to avenge their grievances, but they can't even find a few people who hug their heads and cry. The third is that the mother's family is poor. If his father is so poor that he has no money to marry a wife, how can he afford a decent dowry? Not to mention that his mother's family has money and supplements, and his younger brothers and sisters have no tuition fees for study, and they have to go to her for help, and they have no private money, so they are not cheeky to beg for money from their mother-in-law? They can only hide in a place where no one is beaten, and they hide and cry silently. Fourth, the mother died early, the housework was done in a sloppy manner, the needlework was learned in a casual manner, and the crop work was not the essentials. Her mother-in-law's family found fault with her, and she used a basket every day.

Gong Magpie was originally her aunt, the only aunt, the closest, most affectionate, and most dependent relative besides her own mother. Since she was a child, she regarded her aunt as her own mother, and after marrying, she did not have the concept of mother-in-law in her heart, she still had the idea of her aunt being her own mother, longing to be protected and cared for by her aunt, looking forward to the lack of maternal love, not only from her aunt, but also seeking additional compensation. Obedient and obedient, she thinks it is a matter of course, careful service, she takes it for granted, either beating or scolding, she has the right to teach and cultivate, because as the saying goes, filial piety comes out under the stick, and you can't become a talent if you don't beat or scold.

Tan Yinhe treated his aunt as his own mother, but his aunt did not care for her aunt as a daughter. Gong Magpie gave birth to three daughters, not a rare daughter, and gave birth to five sons, the daughter got married, but the son failed to marry a wife, many years of regret, but there is no daughter-in-law for her to play the prestige of her mother-in-law. Tan Yinhe is her first daughter-in-law, so she naturally wants to erect her mother-in-law's overlord authority in front of her daughter-in-law, win a jackpot, make a good start, and form a family style of "absolute obedience".

Ten family rules, Tan Yinhe thinks that she is the "special" care of her "kind" aunt, except for being able to do housework and serving people, she has nothing to do with her specialties or "attach great importance to" the test.

Gong Magpie's rampant domineering, cousin Liu Ruixiang saw it in her eyes, and fought for Tan Yinhe: Girl, your mother-in-law is bad, she bullies you too much!

Liu Ruixiang elaborated on the "bad" past of the palace magpie, and explained in detail the history of "a big evil": she herself is not a good daughter, nor a good daughter-in-law, and she has caused everyone to betray her relatives. Bleeding heavily from his buttocks, but treating hemorrhoids for others, and putting his mother-in-law on his face?

Tan Yinhe said: Bullying ghosts and deceiving ghosts?

Liu Ruixiang said: What age is this with ten family rules? The remnants of feudal society, wanting to restore the imperial system, she thinks she is the female Yuan Shikai!

Tan Yinhe said: Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are like mothers and daughters, do mothers still have the heart to harm their daughters?

Liu Ruixiang said: It's like a hypothesis, a fake mother and daughter pretended, you are wishful thinking, and the fake show is really done. There are three discords in the world, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are the first, and they have been like enemies since ancient times, and water and fire are incompatible.

Tan Yinhe said: I am not comfortable, her son can live happily, the small family cannot prosper, and future generations are too busy to take care of themselves, what can I do to honor the elderly? How can she enjoy her old age in peace? If she harms me, she harms herself.

Liu Ruixiang said: She doesn't want to be respected or loved, as long as she is hegemonic. One day cannot be two days, one mountain cannot tolerate two tigers, one family cannot have two masters, either the east wind overwhelms the west wind, or the west wind overpowers the east wind.

Tan Yinhe said: People don't have eyes before and after, they already knew that their mother-in-law was this kind of behavior, and I wouldn't enter Xie's house if I was killed.

Liu Ruixiang said: The deception is too great, it's a big deal not to give her a daughter-in-law! Except that she has a son, have all the sons of the world died?

Tan Yinhe said: If I get divorced, Xie Jiajiao will also divorce, what should my brother do?

Liu Ruixiang said: The mother-in-law's family bullied you, and the old witch abused you, what should you do?

Tan Yinhe said: Will she die first, or will I die first? I feel unsatisfactory in the present, maybe it will be a blessing in the future, the days will be long in my life, endure it, drag it out, and when she dies, I will come out.