Separation
Just after three days of marriage, according to the custom, "go back to her mother's house", go and walk back, Sun Yue'e was not happy, the family is surrounded by four walls, there are many monks and less porridge, lack of food and clothing, poverty and poverty, father-in-law is too nesty, mother-in-law is too domineering, the temple is a small demon, there are many brothers and disputes, there are many calculations and deceptions, there are many sisters, there are many provocations and instigations, anyway, I always feel that I am not a good person. For more up-to-date chapters, visit: ШЩЩ.(7)(9)XS.сОМ.
Before dinner, the mother-in-law announced ten new family rules for beating and scolding, requiring her daughter-in-law to be a cow and a horse, to work hard and complain, to be a slave and a maid, and to be beaten and scolded. The bride was not happy when she heard it, this is not marrying a daughter-in-law as a wife, taking over the housekeeper to support the 'door' household, like buying a maid ring as a slave, and serving the old lady full-time.
Sun Yue'e is the boss, she has helped her parents as half a family since she was a child, she doesn't want to suffer so-so, she is hastily engaged in it, and she is easy to reason when she encounters things, although she is lively and cheerful, rectum and belly are less scheming, outward attack, big grin and love to laugh, pistachio, happy people, twittering and sparrows, but talking about business, asking for a price, sitting on the ground to pay back, doing business, shopping around, each taking half a step back, returning customers to be long-term, reasonable, saying moral comments, words to go, words to tongue blocking, mouth kung fu but practice "eloquence" It's sharp, it's sharp, and ordinary people can't cope with it.
Marrying into the Xie family as a daughter-in-law, she must be self-reliant, self-made, it is unlucky enough, plus ten beating and scolding family rules, looking for nothing to turn over the old imperial calendar, she simply doesn't treat her daughter-in-law as a "person from the new world", and no one will agree heartily.
She talks about world affairs, mother-in-law, she has already changed the dynasty, not the queen mother is in power, the curtain is down and the feudal rule is listening, you read the newspaper, you watch television, they are all reform and opening up, invigorating the economy, no matter whether it is a white cat or a black cat, can catch mice, it is a good cat; she said favors, you used to be a daughter-in-law, this old etiquette, have you done it in the past? Do you do and say the same as you do and say? When you were young, did you abide by it? Your in-laws commented, are you a good daughter-in-law? You also have a 'daughter' and marry someone else as a daughter-in-law, if you were you' If the daughter can do this, I can do it; she sets the reason, the mother is kind and filial piety, the benevolence is the foundation, the husband sings the "woman" with the heart, the love is the main, the brother and the brother are respectful, the righteousness is the head, the way to govern the family is to convince people with virtue, harmony is precious, and the family and everything is prosperous. Beating and scolding, engaging in armed conquest, and boiling beans to burn beans are just the bane of the loser who causes disasters!
The reason is sufficient, everything is the way, every sentence is picked, and the palace magpie is speechless to deal with it, but when the daughter-in-law speaks, it is to talk back, it is to talk back, it is to collide. She scolded Sun Yue'e for being uneducated, for not speaking lightly or severely, for having no big or small heart, for having no respect for her elders, not as good as a pig and a dog, and for a wild beast; she also scolded her for being lazy, that the upper building was not upright and the lower beam was crooked, that her parents were not upright, that her parents were not upright, that her parents were not serious, that she was crazy and nerve-fated, and that her mother was stupid. The chicken's mother-in-law, who only knows how to hold the nest, does not know how to discipline the ground, scolds her father for being a stupid bull, only knows how to protect the calf, does not know how to teach, and raises a rebel to harm the Xie family.
spoke evil words, insulted her in-laws, scolded not like human words, scolded too badly, Sun Yue'e couldn't help but quarrel with her mother-in-law.
Sun Yue'e stood up and bowed: Marry a daughter-in-law and add a 'daughter', now you are also my mother, mine is not, or your mistake. You expose your own shortcomings, you scold your own mistakes, mother!
Gong Magpie pointed to his nose and scolded: You are a dog, a little **, and you are becoming less and less like a daughter-in-law.
Sun Yue'e bent down to salute and bowed to the end: Mother, why bother? You are my mother-in-law, and you have always been worshiped like a mother.
The palace magpie stomped his feet and scolded: Call your mother's b!
Sun Yue'e was respectful, and bowed: Mother!
Gong Magpie clapped his hands and scolded: Worship your mother's b!
Sun Yue'e bowed twice: Mother! Mother!
Gong Magpie shook his hair and scolded: Happy you mother!
Sun Yue'e bowed three times: Mother, you scold yourself!
Gong Magpie reacted, Sun Yue'e had a soft mouth, a hard face, the upper hand, a civilized greeting, a courtesy, polite to her mother-in-law, her mother-in-law scolded her, scolded her mother, but she went around herself and fell into her trap.
Sun Yue'e covered her mouth and secretly had fun: Hehe, strange, poor worm!
Xie Wen said: Farmers are illiterate, the exit is not covered or blocked, and they are dirty and meaty, what's so strange?
Sun Yue'e said: Poke the mother and scold Lao Tzu, curse the ancestors for 18 generations, and splash the 'woman' and scold the street! You are used to hearing it since you were a child! Strange, the superstar of the diva of the 'woman', why didn't she become the village head? Strange, the overlord of the king of splashing skin, why can't he be the head of the township?
Xie Wen said: After finishing elementary school, you chew the words in front of me, and you are swearing in a twist and a turn, and you don't use swear words, and I understand it as soon as I hear it!
Sun Yue'e said: If someone understands, they can comment on theoretical matters, and there is no need to find a third party to say it a second time. Well, mosquitoes are fanned just to hurt people in the mouth.
Gong Magpie felt that his face was swept away, so he stopped scolding. She thought that her daughter-in-law was bold, and she had a bad breath blocked in her 'chest' and could not obey it, so she activated the family rules, implemented the family law, and shouted at her eldest son Xie Wen to beat.
Xie Wen jumped up, rushed to Sun Yue'e, and slapped him in the face: The family is strong, playing with his mother-in-law, is he ashamed?
Sun Yue'e felt that Venus was in her eyes, dizzy, and almost fainted. The surprise in her heart was greater than the pain, Xie Wen would actually beat herself, it was something she had never thought of, she reached out and stroked her cheek, and was stunned for a while, in a trance.
Xie Wen slapped it, and Sun Yue'e immediately swollen half of her face, and the blood marks on her five fingers, like a statue of a bloody slap, were engraved on her face. The tears in her eyes were blurred, and the tears swirled in her eyes, blinking like raindrops, ticking, and falling.
Gong Magpie sneered: Hehe, the young lady is crying! Woo, the hero has become a bear!
Xie Wen scolded: As long as you kneel down to your mother to make amends, kowtow and beg for mercy, I will show mercy to my subordinates and let you go.
In Sun Yue's memory, her parents sometimes quarreled, quarreled but never scolded, refuted but never beat up, this is the case between husband and wife, and the same is true for the son and daughter, although they do not respect each other all the time, at least they are calm and persuaded by reason. She shook her body, shook her head, blinked, and calmed down, wanting to wake up from her hairy nightmare.
Gong Magpie shrugged his shoulders: Oh, people are old, they can't stand it, rheumatism is committed again, and the shoulder and back hurt badly, or you let her beat my shoulder, 'rub' and 'rub' my back?
The mother and son smiled and looked at each other, you winked at me, I raised my eyebrows at you, very proud, very happy.
Xie Wen pushed Sun Yue'e behind the palace magpie, and the cow pressed his head without drinking water: My mother has a lot, forgive you this time, why don't you hurry up and remedy it? Be a 'woman' who obediently listens to her husband!
Sun Yue'e took a mouthful of phlegm: I don't think you are poor, I don't think you are a peasant, but you bully me like this, beat me, and your conscience is eaten by dogs?
Xie Wen shouted: Cheap bones are not beaten, are you still not convinced? I am your husband, not too big, but also eight feet big, what is the big deal if I beat you? It's not worth mentioning, why worry about it!
Sun Yue'e roared: If you don't treat me as a wife, I won't treat you as a husband, and I will fight to the death with you today.
Sun Yue'e is of medium height, with a round face and big eyes, black skin and rough flesh, rough hands and feet, at first glance, she is a farmer who has been doing physical work for many years, not only is she strong and strong like a man, but she is also a model figure of the Iron Maiden team, and she is also a target pacesetter of the 'female' militia company.
Husband and wife teared, sacrificed their lives to fight, made trouble in the heavenly palace, men and women fought against each other, did not avoid it, ghosts cried wolves, and a 'mixed' battle came down, Sun Yue'e was disheveled, her nose was blue and her face was swollen, Xie Wen's head was bleeding, and her clothes and shoes were flying.
The temporary referee palace magpie also had to acquiesce, and the son either didn't listen to his mother's words, but he couldn't do it.
The beating and scolding didn't work, so Gong Magpie adjusted the method, and the mother and son pushed and pulled several times, drove Sun Yue'e out of the yard, locked the courtyard 'door', latched the room 'door', buckled the window, and did not allow the daughter-in-law to eat, the daughter-in-law was not allowed to enter the room, and the daughter-in-law was not allowed to go home.
On the third day of the wedding, he was kicked out by his in-laws' family and swept out of the 'door'. Sun Yue'e sat under the eaves, and the more she thought about it, the more sad she became, and she couldn't help crying loudly.
Alarm the tribesmen to come and watch, and ask what is going on. They all accused the Xie family of being wrong, this old etiquette is feudal dross, and it should have been raided and burned down a long time ago. This mother-in-law doesn't care about her daughter-in-law's feelings, she only plans for her own enjoyment, which is too shameless, too impersonal, and too unreasonable.
Sun Yue'e borrowed a lantern and carried it back to her parents' house.
The Xie family is in the western suburbs of the county. The Sun family is in the southern suburbs of the county. His grandfather was a primary school teacher, his grandmother was a farmer, and his family belonged to half of the households. My grandfather was originally a private teacher, and later became a public teacher. If you become a regular, you can bring your family members to transfer to a commercial grain account, but there is an age limit and a limit on the number of children and women. In order to take care of the younger, the grandmother and a few older ones are still farmers. Sun Yue'e is the boss, the first to bear the brunt, lost the opportunity to become a city resident, can't be like her younger brother, unemployed young people get job arrangements, she doesn't like to study, can't be like her sister, go to university and get assigned a job, plus long-term farming, black 'meat' rough skin, rough hands, can't marry a city person as a wife, and has lost the way to become a city person.
The family background prompted Sun Yue'e to be reluctant to marry a peasant when she was young, dragging and pulling, picking and choosing, high or low, delaying the youth 'spring' years, the boss is not small, lowering her value, choosing to choose, and pulling the eldest son among the short is still married to a peasant. Although Xie Wen is a farmer, he is not an ordinary farmer, he is a veteran and a village cadre, and he is not an insult to her and her mother's family.
It's just that no one thought that no matter how far Xie Wen traveled from south to north, and no matter how well-informed he was, the imprint of bad family education would never be erased. Especially when I return to my parents, my living habits, words and deeds standards will suddenly return to the previous level, and my parents cannot bow down, and my children must be low, as if they have not stepped out of the house 'door' for half a step, as if they have not experienced countless things, as if they have not had the slightest separation from their parents. To his wife, Ren Niang scolded if she wanted to, and her mother gave the order to beat, and he was obedient to carry it out, and he was over thirty years old, and he was still as assertive as a three-year-old doll.
Sun Yue'e is the eldest who has helped her mother work since she was a child, her father has to teach, and the farm work at home is almost contracted by her. Because of the sacrifice, her parents felt guilty about her, and because of the dedication, her younger siblings were 'excited' by her, and the better her life, the more she felt sorry for her. What happened to her in the Xie family, she was beaten without mistakes, and she was picked up in a good way, and her mother's family was naturally angry, and they wanted to support her, help her get justice, vent their anger for her, clear the obstacles for her, and want her to be safe and happy in her life.
A few days later, Xie Wen went to pick up Sun Yue'e and return to her mother-in-law's house. The Sun family did the same, and also set ten new family rules for him, and also called him through, and also kicked him out of the 'door'.
This "return gift" that uses the rules of others to treat others is not over, the 'daughter' is abused in the Xie family, and the mother's family has to go to the Xie family to ask for advice and save the situation for the 'daughter'. Gathered a group of relatives and friends, drove a big truck, and came to Xie Hejia in a big way. Seeing the Xie family, without saying a word, he kicked the 'door' and entered, rushed up, moved the dowry, and stacked it on the truck.
There is no need to tremble in words, and the action clearly indicates the intention of divorce. Gong Magpie panicked, Sun Yue'e was not at fault, but she picked on the 'hair' problem, originally just wanted to give her daughter-in-law a dismissal, and cleaned up her daughter-in-law's self-service, but she didn't expect that not only Sun Yue'e openly resisted, but even the Sun family was involved and openly retaliated. She knew that she was at a loss, and she was afraid that she would suffer a loss in front of her, so she hurriedly smeared oil on the soles of her feet, slipped away, hid, and avoided.
It is not easy for a poor man to marry a wife, Xie Wen spent all his savings, 'spent' tens of thousands, and saw that both people and money were empty, of course he did not agree, and hurriedly asked the clansmen and village cadres to come forward to help mediate.
Sun Yue'e said: I was born in a new society, grew up under the red flag, and I want to be the master of the house, not a slave.
The clansmen testified, and the village cadres presided, and they separated their families from their in-laws, separated their food and housing, separated their fields, and the young couples got their houses and grains, and started their own stoves.
Everyone discusses, everyone is in charge, the family is fair, and if it is unfair, I am afraid that Sun Yue'e will divorce.
The mother-in-law cried and cried: 'Daughter' has raised her son for more than 20 years, and her parents are reluctant to scold, beat a mile, top the 'stick' labor, marry you, help you farm and harvest grain, and give birth to 'daughters' for you, why do you want to punch and kick?
The father-in-law roared like thunder: I married my 'daughter' to you, I just hope you treat her well, not because you have itchy hands, and no one has a 'meat' sandbag to practice boxing!
My brother-in-law rolled up his sleeves and shook his fist: What kind of hero is my husband beating his wife? Isn't it a martial arts contest? I will fight with you when I fight alone! Isn't it a duel? I will accompany you to practice with knives and guns!
My sister said: If you beat my sister and beat my sister, it will be tantamount to insulting my whole family! My sister cannot be beaten in vain, and my family cannot retreat empty.
After some bombing, Xie Wen quickly admitted his mistake and apologized, vowed not to beat and scold again, and promised to work together to live.