Chapter 86 Psychological Counseling(3)
It's not that I don't know what Xinya means to me, otherwise I wouldn't have recognized her as a godsister. But she hasn't confessed anything since then, and I know about the open and secret fights between her and Wenwen and Guimei, but I didn't expect her to be so seriously concerned about the world she imagined.
I felt that this was another embarrassing thing, and I was worried that I would not be able to get along with Xinya when I went back.
"Professor Wang, you'd better not say that you told me what she said, otherwise the two of them will have to work together, and it will be ...... if you don't get it."
Professor Wang didn't say yes directly, just smiled, and then asked me, "Do you really know anything about Xinya's past, for example, her car accident, her age, whether she has ever been in a deep relationship, or even whether she has ever been married?"
I've always been more trusting of people, especially women. When Xinya inexplicably found the company's building, found our company's front desk, and said that she liked it with a sense of déjà vu, I did suspect that she was playing some kind of trick. But after she told me about her car accident in the café, I basically believed her. Xinya also admitted at the time that she had lost her memory in a car accident, and many things were told to her by her uncle later.
So when Xinya first arrived at the company, both Lao Zhang and Wenwen reminded me, saying that they didn't know the root of Xinya, and the way they entered the company was so incredible, so it was better for me to be vigilant. For this reason, I once asked Wenwen to go to the place where Xinya was born and raised to get a general understanding.
But what Professor Wang asked about such details, Wenwen didn't understand, or didn't think of these aspects at the time, let alone say.
"Do you think there's anything wrong with it?" I think Professor Wang must have a reason for asking this question.
Professor Wang, with his face facing out of the window, looked as if he was thinking, and shook his head in response to my question.
I took the opportunity to open the door to see what Xinya was doing, but I found that there was no trace of her outside the door.
After I sat down, Professor Wang suddenly turned his head with a serious expression.
"Xinya's problem cannot be treated simply as a 'sense of déjà vu', and the situation may be more serious than that. ”
My heart began to fall.
"How serious?"
Professor Wang reached out and nudged my shoulder, and I realized that I had thrown my whole body on the table, and my head was stuck in front of Professor Wang, waiting for his answer.
"Prima faciely, there is some kind of division in her. ”
"Do you mean schizophrenia?" I know that schizophrenia is a very serious psychological disorder, and in common people's words, it is mental illness. If that's the case, then Xinya is really finished.
Professor Wang gestured for me to sit down, and said slowly: "Not all schizophrenia is so terrible, some are lighter and some are heavier. No matter from the perspective of Xinya's emotional reaction, verbal expression, and logical thinking, it is relatively normal. Prima facie, she may have a delusional mental illness. ”
"What is it, exactly?" I don't know psychology, I can't tell what the difference is between those terms, and I don't like ambiguous expressions.
Professor Wang pursed his lips and said, "Delusion." You can understand it this way, it is also a type of schizophrenia. ”
"How do you explain it?"
"Fantasy is the idea of having no reason or too much basis for a thing, or longing for something that does not exist. She is an imagination that is connected to a person's desires and points to the future, a vision of the future, not a memory of the past, which is different from the pathological thinking of delusions that is detached from reality. ”
"When everyone has fantasies, they will look forward to the future, in the words of ordinary people who ridicule themselves: I don't have the ability to get what I want, and I don't break the law if I commit adultery, how can this be a disease?"
Professor Wang tugged at the corners of his mouth, smiled faintly, as if he had brewed a thought, and continued to popularize with me:
In life, some people are born introverted or have been traumatized, are not good at communicating with others or are unwilling to open their hearts, they can't release when they encounter problems and are depressed and depressed, they don't know how to vent, or they are ashamed to express their desires and desires for fear of being ridiculed by others, and their psychological demands can not be comforted in time, so they can only silently endure these pains in life, and can only bury themselves deep in their hearts about the things and people they like or dislike.
There is no effective way to relieve this kind of emotion or emotion, they can only unconsciously fantasize about the outlet for catharsis or release in the depths of their hearts, and fantasize about solving the problem or saving themselves. I know that this is wrong, but it is difficult to control myself, and it is easy to cause myself to be in a trance. If you have a very strong desire for a thing or a person, but it cannot be realized and happened immediately or in reality, this fantasy will become habitual and evolve into a disease, that is, fantasy, you can also say schizophrenia.
"Isn't that still psychotic?"
Seeing my stunned and disappointed look, Professor Wang added: "Considering that Xinya's current state is not so bad, according to people's psychological habits, using the word 'fantasy' may have less psychological impact on the person concerned, and it can also avoid the discriminatory eyes of the insiders around her to a certain extent." Because when individuals have fantasies, general fantasies are not a disease, only when the things you fantasized about were too absurd, too detached from reality, and indulged in them to seriously affect your normal work and life, it may be pathological and constitute a mental illness. ”
"You're saying that Xinya's situation doesn't constitute schizophrenia... Mental illness... Hey, I don't know what words to use?"
"No, it's sick! It's just that from what I know so far, it's not that serious. If you don't have to tell her the truth for the time being, just use the word 'fantasy', otherwise she will form a kind of autosuggestion, and the psychological burden will be heavier, and she will develop more and more in the direction of fantasy. ”
Although Professor Wang said that Xinya's condition is not so serious, I am not so relaxed in my heart. Perhaps when I described Xinya's situation, I was unable to accurately restore the scene at the time of the incident in front of Professor Wang, which affected Professor Wang's analysis and judgment.
"Then do you think Xinya's condition needs to be treated, or how can it be treated?"
"You're not done talking yet, are you?" Professor Wang was just about to speak, Xinya pushed the door in, I was so sad here, she was all right, happy and happy.
"Professor Wang, I understand what you said, thank you very much! I winked at Professor Wang.
"Come, seat. Professor Wang beckoned Xinya to sit down: "It's no big problem, usually pay attention to rest, keep a good sleep, and communicate more with the people around you if you have anything in your heart......"