Although the family has been separated, each eats its own meal, and sleeps its own sleep, but the palace magpie is used to being a family for his son, is used to being the master, and is used to his son obeying her, but she can go straight to the door from the daughter-in-law, so that she loses her leadership, and her son's food, clothing, housing, transportation, wages and property are all managed by others, and nothing is reported to her. The daughter-in-law covered the sky with one hand, she was angry, her son was the shopkeeper, she was also angry, and the daughter-in-law showed that she was more angry than her mother-in-law.

Gong Magpie was so angry that she couldn't sleep in the middle of the night, the more she thought about it, the more unwilling she became, the more she thought about it, the more she was unconvinced, she was still irritable, and she was not good at doing ideological work. She has lived a Jiazi, from the Republic of China to the anti-Japanese, from liberation to **, from the division of fields to the opening up, who has not seen it? What has not experienced anything? Everyone commented that she is not easy to deal with, she feels that she is not an ordinary person, how can she count a few hairy girls as masters? An eagle who has fought all her life, and she is afraid of a few sparrows calling spring!

The daughter-in-law is either stiff and stiff, and does not bow her head when she is killed, or she is soft, mellow and slippery, she has been taught, and she was almost tricked and thrown to her grandmother's house, since the ten new family rules do not work, I will change another set of methods to rectify it, I treat you as a person, you have to be a dog, I will kick you a few times from time to time, see if you are honest or not?

The palace magpie deliberately finds fault, is picky about everything in life, puts her identity on the shelf, her daughter-in-law has new jewelry, and she wants her son to make money to buy it for the old lady, her daughter-in-law has new furniture, and her mother-in-law's room must also have a complete set, and her daughter-in-law's new electrical appliances must be used by her first, and her daughter-in-law's new clothes, she also has to try them on for a year, and she is angry and unhappy at every turn.

In short, tossing and entanglement, being arrogant and unreasonable, framing and wrongdoing, domineering and unscrupulous, contradictions and conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are inevitable.

After all, the daughter-in-law is young and more serious, if she can't hold her breath, her words collide, or she justifies herself, and argues with reason, Gong Magpie will feel her heart and cry out in pain, and then faint to the ground, looking delirious.

If the daughter-in-law does not kneel down to ask for her guilt, admit her mistakes, and apologize, the palace magpie will not open her eyes or pant, let the children push and cry and scold, and there will be no reaction when she dies. When she woke up, she still had to lie on the bed, her head was not combed, her face was not washed, her clothes were not changed, she did not eat or drink, she did not speak, she slept like a dead person, she should not call, she did not answer, she did not answer her crying, she did not pay attention to her begging, she just wanted to starve herself to death.

A day has passed, and it is still acceptable. Two days passed, and the daughter-in-law panicked. The mother-in-law and her daughter-in-law went on a hunger strike. The persuasion and scolding of the mother-in-law's family, everyone thinks that the daughter-in-law is forcing the mother-in-law to a dead end.

It's a big deal, the world is turned upside down, and it has to end with ideas, no matter how lively the stage is, there must be a time for the curtain to end. Parents, brothers and sisters, reunions, uncles and nephews, all peacemakers, relatives and friends, everyone comes to persuade. In this situation, if you don't look at the face of the monk and see the face of the Buddha, and the hat is not close to the monk, what else can the daughter-in-law say?

Everyone came to the palace magpie bedside, and in front of everyone, the in-laws counted their daughters, listed many mistakes, counted the virtues of the mother-in-law's family, reprimanded their daughters everywhere, and reviewed their many mistakes. The daughter-in-law is also self-deprecating and sarcastic, only sneering, self-defeating and self-harming, obeying orders, making apologies, apologizing, gambling curses, and swearing.

This way, this way, the big filial daughter-in-law, the virtuous mother-in-law, the righteous family, the stage is like a burlesque, I can't recognize the truth, I can't help it, I can only smile wryly and adapt to the situation. This is pretended, the mother's family deliberately wants to pretend to be such a bear, the mother-in-law's family just wants to see such a soft attitude, that is, hates the daughter-in-law's disobedience to management, not only the daughter-in-law is embarrassed in the mother-in-law's house, the majesty is swept away, and the courage and diligence are in the past, the wisdom has been turned over, and the in-laws can only be willing to be a child daughter-in-law in the mother-in-law's house, but also the in-laws are also in the mother-in-law's house. What you want is not to be convinced, as long as wood props, what you want is not to be able to build a family, but to sing falset-to-play.

Three days passed, and the family was in a hurry. Four days have passed, the children have been accompanied by the cooking, the house has no fireworks in the world, no children laughing and crying, no TV colorful changing lights, and there is a deathly silence, cold, dark, cold, and cold, not even a little popularity.

One person is in the corner, the family is unhappy, one person is sad and the whole family is sad, one person is angry and the whole family is angry, and one person is angry and the whole family is suffering. She didn't eat, drink, or speak, and she dismantled herself to the bone, bone to skin, so that all those who had a relationship with her shared the pain with her, and even more uncomfortable than her.

The verbal violence of discrimination and indifference, and the mental violence that tortures the strategy, are more vicious and vicious than Mama Rong. Talking too much, talking too badly, and paying too much for the courtesy, people don't say anything, and they can't say anything, because Gong Magpie's crooked mind can be thought out with his feet, and he has seen it with his eyes, and the mother-in-law is forcing her daughter-in-law to a dead end, not only offending her daughter-in-law, the intention is to kill chickens and scare monkeys, targeting all daughters-in-law, not only daughters-in-law, the purpose is to set an example, but also affect the sons.

Daughters-in-law, sons, even if they have great grievances, they don't dare to defend anything anymore, there is no reason to talk about this kind of old man, all efforts are in vain, and all self is nothing. Even if it is stupid, ignorant, and despicable, after all, it is an old man, even if it is family blackmail, kidnapping, and scourge, after all, it is an elder, and now, there is no room for choice, there is no possibility of talking, there is only one way to compromise, you must be obedient, obey your words, and you can't stick to anything, you can only tie your hands, raise your hands and surrender, and become masochist and masochist. Because at this moment, it is not the time to reason, but the time to save people's lives, not the time to seek fair treatment and fair treatment, but the time to walk humanely.

Regardless of whether it is wrong or not, the daughters-in-law and sons have to apologize, but the more she apologizes, the more she feels justified, the more she agrees with her victory, and the more often she uses this method to achieve her goals. Only when the descendants agree unconditionally, and her unreasonable demands, will she be willing to reconcile, get up, go out of the room, and eat.

Asking for instructions in the morning, reporting in the evening, and obeying all actions under command, she thus grabbed her daughters-in-law and sons to the death, tightly managed, and firmly bound, so that future generations could not move, sit at home as a prison, and revolve around her needs.

After all, the sons are flesh and blood, and the calves are also guarded from time to time, and the care is no exception, and the daughters-in-law are completely called slaves, and the labor at home is borne by the daughters-in-law, from laundry and cooking, sweeping the floor and feeding pigs and other housework, to carrying water and grinding rice, picking dung and digging the ground and other manual work. Under her supervision and under the spur, the daughters-in-law worked as cattle and horses without winter and summer, worked as slaves and servants day and night, and were busy inside and outside the details, so busy that they didn't even have time to comb their hair and wash their faces, and they couldn't sleep peacefully all year round.

There is no secret for a long time, and it will be seen in people's hearts for a long time. After living in the Xie family for a few years, the daughter-in-law slowly realized that her mother-in-law's "heartache" problem was regular. It doesn't hurt when you're happy, but it doesn't hurt when you're unhappy; it doesn't hurt when you go shopping, watch a play, and go from house to house; when you're busy farming, you have heavy work, and when you have hard work; your son doesn't hurt for many years before she gets married, but it hurts again when your daughter-in-law marries and enters the door; it doesn't hurt if a daughter hits her son-in-law and scolds her, and if her son is disobedient, her daughter-in-law doesn't hurt when she doesn't respect her; it doesn't hurt if she takes two grandchildren to play with her on her back, and it hurts when her daughter-in-law begs her to take care of her grandson for a while; when her daughter-in-law goes out of the house, she doesn't hurt when she takes a foot through the door, and she can't hold a broom when she steps into the door; as long as her daughter-in-law doesn't need her hands in the fields outside the house, she can be painless for ten days and a half months。

Gong Magpie's "heartache" disease was caused when she was pregnant as a child, but it was cured as early as 30 years ago. That is, in the late stage of her pregnancy, she is a little older, a little fatter, her heart is a little overloaded, coupled with a lack of exercise, she has chest tightness, increased heart rate, dizziness, uneven panting, etc., similar to the symptoms of hypoxia in the mountains. The doctor suggested that once you feel unwell, you can come to the hospital to inhale oxygen, or you can self-recuperate, the method is extremely simple, take a deep breath while still and learn some qigong exhalation exercises, and everything will be fine!

When the child was born, her husband served her until the full moon, in order to make it easier to call him, after that, she often touched her heart and cried out in pain, and fell to the ground and pretended to be dead if she ignored it, and he had to serve her meticulously, as a cow and a horse, as a slave and a servant. When her son is older, her daughter-in-law marries her, and she is promoted to become a mother-in-law, her daughter-in-law will take over and continue to serve her. If the service does not go well, her heart will hurt for a long time, and it will become a chronic disease, and it will be transformed into a stubborn disease. The pain can only be felt by oneself, and others cannot find out whether it is true or false, no matter how superb the medical skills of the county and township hospitals are, and how advanced the equipment is, there is still no way to take her "heartache".

The same means, used for all relatives, in order to remain unchanged to respond to all changes, and the time span is as long as decades, smart but clever mistaken, it was recognized by others, and the villagers gave her an indecent nickname "heart ache", which was used to make fun of her behind her back, but there are not many stupid people who are so cheap that they say it in person.