Xie Han has no money, no good family, no good job, marrying a wife who is better than himself, his reputation is not very good, and his words and deeds always make onlookers suspect that he has other plans, not only because of his wife's personal ability to earn money, but also for her premarital property and the power of her mother's family.

If he keeps his duty, works hard, is proactive, and ranks among the upper class, even if he uses the power of his wife's family to change his life and his family's life, and get rid of the predicament of hardships and constraints, he will not lose his self-esteem and self-love.

Such an aspiring young man at the bottom is the original intention of the upper-class woman to marry down, because no one likes to eat chaff vegetables, eat vegetarian food and do not eat meat, and is willing to live in a dilapidated house for the rest of her life, visit the vegetable market every day, and wear stalls, which is also the life situation of the lower-class people who sacrifice their lives and want to get rid of.

The declining dog also wants to have meat to eat, the vulgar living environment, taught Xie Han many shady tricks, he used the next three indiscriminate means, to clean up the upper Yuan Qiuhua, seeing that she endured to retreat as a soft persimmon, thinking that she was kind and soft-hearted and easy to bully, he was a poor little ghost pretending to be a big man, scattering gold and giving money, like a savior to help his family, endlessly giving; seeing her as a cow and a horse slave, he burned money and showed off his money, supported his parents until he was old, raised his niece until he grew up, made profits on behalf of his relatives, and stood up for his friends, often spending a lot of money without asking for anything in return; he acted arbitrarily, disrespected every day, did not discuss everything, seemed to treat her worse, the more affectionate she was, and saw her without resentment or angerHe is idle, eating, drinking, prostituting and gambling, and he does not see her fighting back, and he does evil for him, thinking that the female literary youth is a female nerve, so what if he breaks through the world, and does not give up the whole world for the sake of his children? He hooked up and cheated, betrayed and betrayed, and did not see her pull her legs and leave, but he endured the humiliation and stayed, and continued to maintain peace and friendship, thinking that she was really a cheap bone who owed abuse.

But Xie Han sat in the well and watched the sky, he didn't know how high the sky was, how thick the ground was, he didn't know how vast and boundless the outside world was, how colorful it was, he personally thought that it was just a self-righteous fool talking nonsense, accustomed to darkness and gloom, the soft warm sun had pierced his eyes, and he couldn't see that his wife was drawing the ground as a prison at the same time, he was planning to escape from prison behind his back, and when the time came, he took his son away and flew away.

These words and deeds, in my opinion, have proved that he is simple-minded. Yuan Qiuhua's pre-marital personal property, if he is trustworthy, will not squander to buy face, willing to live a down-to-earth life, it is enough for a family of four to live, live a stable and worry-free life, if he is worthy of entrustment, she will not hide it, take it to him as investment capital, she will find a relationship to pull some construction projects, or introduce him to Xiao Lizi, contract some engineering projects, not to mention the good shade under the big tree, make a lot of money, at least the big river rises, overflows to the small river, and the branch flow is enough for him to enter the ranks of successful people. In order to test whether he is a talent, she once took out 30,000 yuan for him to build a private house for the villagers, but he was a poor man who saw a lot of money, saw people showing off, saw relatives scattering money, fox friends and dog friends asked for a treat, spent all day and wine, and the three relatives and six relatives opened their mouths to borrow money, and those who came did not refuse. In the end, the 30,000 yuan was not only useless in building a house, but also embezzled the deposit paid in advance by the homeowner, and used his wife as an ATM, asking her to donate again and again, but his wife did not agree, so he jumped like thunder all day long, was angry, treated his wife and children like enemies, and scolded him when he beat him, "You slut, you don't give me money, you don't need to use it to raise wild men? Find a cheap person to beat! A cheap person who owes a beating! If you don't beat or scold, you can't become a woman!"

Xie Han has low self-esteem and arrogance, does not fight for his own real estate, does not fight for his family, does not act in family life, does not care for his wife and children, is idle all day long, has nothing to do, is lazy to eat, and lives a big burden, so that Yuan Qiuhua suffered mental internal injuries, and his mother-in-law's family is a bottomless pit, selfish and self-interested, which makes Yuan Qiuhua greatly hurt his property vitality. He beat Yuan Qiuhua's nose and face were swollen, and he scared his children into panic, not only did she not listen to her words, she no longer served her, but her parents' relatives, new friends and old friends, even treated him as a street rat, shouting and beating in unison, and asked her every time they met, "He lives like this, do you have to endure it?"

When facing each other, Xie Han is also treated as a snake, but the upper-class people are not happy and angry, and the form of expressing emotions is not as direct and rude and despicable as the reckless people in the countryside, most of them are subtle and vague, beating around the bush, and being polite on the surface, but they don't pay attention to it, but they are opposed and deterred, and they are sold high, and they deal with the scene, but they can help but not help, but they add chaos and cause trouble. Everyone knows that behind Yuan Qiuhua's lying salary, she is raising a backwater battle, once the conditions are ripe, she raises the slap of defense, Xie Han must raise his hand to surrender, who would have thought that Yuan Qiuhua is also good and evil, and his intelligence is so high that it is terrifying, no matter who or what, it really provokes her, and if she can't bear it, she doesn't need to endure it anymore, and there are still ruthless tricks to deal with. When they asked about it, they said, "When you need my help, the contemptible people are happy to help!"

Yuan Qiuhua finally ran away from home and sued for divorce. In the indictment, the reasons stated were that they were sexually incompatible, had no emotional basis, were not fit to live together, and that the marriage could not continue. She took the initiative to go out of the house by herself, not to take away a stitch from the Xie family, and her son was raised by Xie Han alone, and she would pay a one-time maintenance fee of 80,000 yuan.

But Xie Han was reluctant to divorce, holding his four-year-old son and his twelve-year-old niece, chasing him to Yuan's house, arguing and crying, looking for death and life, kneeling down and begging for mercy.

Yuan Qiuhua hid in a relative's house, Xie Han held his son, led his twelve-year-old niece, chased him to a relative's house, quarreled and cried, looked for death and life, and knelt down to plead.

Yuan Qiuhua fled to a friend's house, Xie Han hugged his son, took his twelve-year-old niece, found a friend's house, quarreled and cried, looked for death and life, and knelt down to plead for mercy.

The child is Xie Han's nuclear weapon, Be'er angrily beats and scolds, Be'er hugs and cries bitterly, Be'er threatens to kill his wife first and then kill his son and then commit suicide, claiming that he can't stand the stimulation, he has gone insane, and he is mentally ill, but the principle issues such as separation and easy living are hypothetical and light, just crying and crying like a throwing woman.

The child is his biggest reason, the clothes are not as good as the new, the people are not as good as the old, tell sad stories, stage bitter scenes, no matter how good the stepmother, not as good as the mother, the mourning woman's tone, the resentful woman's rhetoric, compare herself to Xianglin's sister-in-law, and then beg for forgiveness, for the sake of the child to agree to anything, promise to change any problem.

The child is his best excuse, the father who would rather die as an official, the mother who is reluctant to beg for food, is willing to bear any crime and punishment on behalf of the child, and can bear any hardship instead of the child.

Yuan Qiuhua reasoned with the facts, the chaotic family is not entered, far away from the land of right and wrong, the family is in danger, and the disaster is avoided, either the child belongs to me, and I can raise it if I go to work to earn money, I will not ask you to pay a penny of child support, or the child will be raised by you, I will pay child support on a monthly basis, remarry and remarry each other, do not interfere with each other, and everyone lives their own new life. Or you and I can rent a shop in the city, do a small business, stay away from the interference of my in-laws, refuse the oppression of the Xie family, and live a quiet life in a down-to-earth manner, and the marriage can barely be maintained.

She is one, two, three, four, five, six, seven, eighty, ninety, every sentence is reasonable, everything is the way, and she can hear others nod yes.

Xie Han saw that the support was one-sided, the gambling curse was invalid, and the scoundrels were all messing around, and at the same time, he was like a shrew, pinching his waist and jumping his feet and scolding, framing insults and even crying and making trouble, tears and snot thrown together, eyebrows and mustaches, biting like mad dogs from time to time, shouting grievances, beating his chest and feet, pretending to hit the wall, proving his innocence with death, rampage, making a gesture to jump off the building, exchanging death for his wife and son.

He was rude and brutal, pitiful and disgusting, making everyone laugh and cry and laugh.

Yuan Qiuhua did not cry, did not make trouble, did not stop or hinder, and watched from the sidelines, listening to Xie Han say these unreliable nonsense, and watching Xie Han do these vexatious actions, I really don't know where his confidence came from?

It is difficult for Qing officials to judge family affairs, marriage is like shoes, whether it is suitable or not, only the feet know, the family has a scripture that is difficult to read, whether it is affectionate, whether there is affection, whether there is affection, whether there is affection, grievances and grievances, like fish drinking water, cold and warm self-knowing. Husband and wife conflicts, others are not good at commenting, but the children who are alive and kicking are innocent after all.

Persuasion and not persuasion to leave, is the normal situation of people, the normal state of life, relatives and friends all say, forget it, the mood is useless, the days have to live, forget those unpleasantness, go home, you bear with me, work together to raise the child to adulthood.

Under everyone's persuasion, for the sake of the child being too young, Yuan Qiuhua had no choice but to go back with Xie Han temporarily, even if he was unwilling, he had to go back with Xie Han temporarily, make do with his life, and continue to live. Naturally, she still gave him another chance to reform himself, although he has no ambitions, but he is not a reluctant person, but under the influence of his mother-in-law's family, outdated concepts, outdated thinking, narrow vision, change an open and beautiful living environment, contact advanced youth, accept the baptism of civilization, discover another sunny world, and strive to catch up with the trend, maybe you can gradually get rid of the bad things.

After this battle, Xie Han also relented, although he didn't make much money, at least he stopped scolding when he opened his mouth, and beat him when he started. Moreover, Yuan Qiuhua also followed the customs of the locals, abandoned the style of the Slovakia, scolded and scolded, the tip of the needle was against Maimang, the fight was beaten, the head was broken against the bloodstream, and they were on par with each other, and they were also injured, no matter how much, the losses were almost the same. Yuan Qiuhua returned violence with violence and could no longer endure it, and Xie Han could no longer want to gain the upper hand. And because Xie Han admitted his mistakes and repented, he swore in public that he would not beat and scold his wife and children again, and everyone commented on it, in addition to criticism, that is, reprimand, he simply took the blame of the public, and he was ashamed of himself.

Not long after, Yuan Qiuhua took out his savings from his part-time job, bought a breakfast shop in the city, and lived in the city with his children, but he still escaped from the control center of his mother-in-law's house and stayed away from the source of pollution of the Xie family. The only thing that remains unchanged is that she holds the power of property in her own hands as always, Xie Han wants to use money, he has to work to earn, how much money she earns, she doesn't ask, how much money is used, she doesn't listen, she doesn't care what kind of work she does, she just doesn't give him money anymore.

Xie Han wandered between the two homes in the city and the countryside, coming and going whenever he wanted, leaving whenever he wanted, going and staying at will, and going back and forth. Unfortunately, he is an honest man who will not mediate the contradictions, and unintentionally the contradictions will be exacerbated. For example, he is straightforward, he sees bad and dissatisfied things in the Xie family, and when he comes to the Yuan family, he will talk about the foundation, what Kefu lives to help the husband's luck, what looks at fortune telling and talks about feng shui, what no one in the court is not an official, what money can make ghosts grind, messy, more and more make the Yuan family look down on the Xie family, it is terrible to have no culture, and I can't find the reason for being poor.

In the same way, he didn't like the Yuan family, stayed in a place that he was not used to, and when he went back to the Xie family, he couldn't stop laughing, making irresponsible remarks, being high and unfashionable, arrogant and unrealizable, the article would not be passed on, he had the right not to be outdated, he did not make huge profits for his relatives, he was alone and no one was respected, knowledge was useless, literature and art were on the sidelines, businessmen helped the world, and rich people won the world, which made the Xie family think that the Yuan family was nothing more than that, the noble family was just a broken house, the courtyard was cold and sparse, the superior intelligence was just a sleepy worm, the feathered phoenix was not as good as a chicken, and even more unbearable than the villagers。