I smiled bitterly and said, "You also know our current situation, Qiu'er." Do you think that at this time, is it appropriate for us to have this child? Rationally speaking, is this good or bad for my sister and for the child? Is it good to be born, or is it good?"

At this time, my cousin's eyes were also wide, and she wanted to get some advice from Tian Qiuqiu expectantly.

Tian Qiuqiu looked at me, then at my cousin, and hesitated, "Is this...... If you ask me for advice, let me come up with my thoughts first. ”

"Okay, you take your time...... Let's talk about it, my sister and I are now confused, and we don't have any ideas. ”

Tian Qiuqiu then got up and paced, holding his palms and thinking.

It took a while before I returned.

He said to the two of them, "I won't give you any advice." However, let me give you an analysis of each of the two scenarios. Then you make up your own minds. ”

"First of all, if we want to, with our current living conditions, it is indeed a big test for mother and child, and it can be said that it is very unsuitable. ”

"Because I have to travel and travel every day, my life is not stable at all, and my health care is completely insufficient. If there is any accident during childbirth, it will be bad for both mother and baby, and we have no timely and effective treatment methods at present. ”

"But this is a rare case. The older generation, especially the countrymen, when modern birth care was not yet popular, not all gave birth at home, and there was no special care, at most there was an experienced midwife to help when giving birth. ”

"It's mainly up to my mom to do this. The mother's endurance is not as fragile as she thinks, and it is reported on the news that some mothers, by themselves, secretly in the bathroom, gave birth to their children. And both mother and baby are safe. ”

"Besides, our ancestors, who did not reproduce in this environment. None of them felt anything wrong. ”

I listened, grinning wryly.

Although this is the case, this kind of thing can only be said to be in a group, and the vast majority of mothers can give birth safely. But there are always a small number of people who will have accidents and even die because of this.

Although this kind of probability, when placed in a group, seems very low, but in my cousin's personal body, it cannot be considered and measured in this way.

For my cousin, there are only two outcomes of this kind of thing: good and bad!

I'm thankful for the good things.

But as soon as it's bad, I can't accept it!

I don't want to accept it at all!

Not to mention anything else, just a postpartum hemorrhage, thinking about it makes people can't help but panic......

I shook my heart hard.

I only heard Tian Qiuqiu on the other side continue to speak.

"When it comes to this kind of risk, it's just a matter of just being afraid of what happens, and if something bad happens, we won't be able to do anything about it. At that time, my cousin is afraid that he will be in danger. ”

"However, I think that if you really want this child, you can actually divide your efforts to take good care of the fetus, do a good job of hygiene and recuperation, prevent infection, etc., adjust your mentality, relax your spirit, and especially prepare for childbirth in advance. There should be no problem with such smooth production. In the future, after the baby is born, how to raise milk, that is another matter, of course, it will not be easy. ”

"In the end, to sum up, if you want this child, you have to take a certain amount of risk, and then you have to spend many times more time to take care of your cousin, the pregnant mother. With our current situation, we must try to improve our warmth and diet, as well as medical and health care, bathing, and so on. ”

My cousin and I, after listening, both nodded together.

Tian Qiuqiu then said: "Then, let's talk about the situation of not wanting." ”

"Actually......" Tian Qiuqiu paused and said, "Actually, if you are already pregnant with a baby, it is basically not up to anyone to choose." ”

My cousin said, "What do you say?"

Tian Qiuqiu said: "Although I said, cousin, at this time, if you want to flow out, it is a more appropriate time, the embryo has not yet formed, and if you delay it, it will not work if it is late in the future." However, under our current conditions, there is no way to drain it. ”

I was stunned for a moment, and blurted out, "No...... No way?"

Tian Qiuqiu nodded and said, "It should be said that with our current conditions, there is no way to be healthy." ”

"The means of terminating pregnancy commonly used in modern times are generally surgery or the western medicine mifepristone, which belong to the very modern medical category and are not able to be implemented under our current conditions. ”

My cousin frowned and said, "Isn't it good to use traditional methods to take herbs and the like?"

Tian Qiuqiu shook his head: "This, abortion...... It is not the strong point of Chinese herbal medicine. The essence of abortion is to terminate the pregnancy, so that the embryo stops developing and is separated from the mother. This is very difficult to do by traditional means. ”

"To achieve this, unless...... I think only the use of some toxic drugs can be effective. But this undoubtedly has great side effects, which is too harmful to the pregnant mother's body, and even if the medication is not right, it will ...... So, I don't support it, and I won't use it, I haven't learned about it. ”

"In addition to the use of poisonous herbs, other abortion remedies, the success rate is even more insecure, if you use it indiscriminately, you can only rely on luck. If it is not successful, it is torturing the fetus and the pregnant woman, and it is likely to lead to a slippery fetus or an unhealthy baby. If you really want to do this, I think it is better to raise the baby seriously and give birth to the child and raise it well. ”

"So, Brother Lele, cousin, you two will finally settle these two situations, and then think about it. In addition, there is another point, that is, the use of external force to abortion, no matter what, is a great harm to the pregnant woman's body, and doing so is likely to lead to infertility in the future. I still want to have children in the future, but I can't help it. ”

My cousin and I, after listening to this, were silent.

For a while, they were all dumbfounded, like a demon.

In fact, from Tian Qiuqiu's words, he has already given us very euphemistic advice, that is, it is better to have this child than not.

But.

Protecting this fetus would have my cousin taking a great risk, and possibly even losing her life as a result......

And don't, it won't work......

Tian Qiuqiu touched me and my cousin, who looked like wood, and said, "Don't think about it so much yet, think about it slowly." Over there, Sister Su Wu called us to dinner. ”

……

This night, I was completely tossing and turning.

My cousin was the same as me.

In the dead of night, only the sound of our bodies turning over and turning.

I suddenly gritted my teeth, turned around and took my cousin into my arms, and said to her, "Sister, I see...... Or do you want it!"

(End of chapter)