Everyone wants that the love and affection between husband and wife will be intimate.

Mrs. Guan, the wife of the Yuan Dynasty painter Zhao Meng, once said in a poem that the loving relationship between husband and wife is like two small clay figures that have been broken and then re-added with water and pinched, I have you in my body, and you have me in your body. This is the highest level of love between husband and wife, and it is just a good wish.

For example, the dumb third brother, his wife is affectionate and loving, and he looks affectionate, but he resolutely can't do it.

After all, people are not ruthless objects made of clay, and the relationship between husband and wife has intricate social relations. It will be affected by various factors, as a support point for a dear relationship, it is not necessarily a husband and wife, and men are inferior to women.

The man is in charge of the outside, and the woman is in charge of the house.

And the richer human nature often is, it is precisely the realm of complementing each other, respecting each other like guests, and maintaining a certain distance.

Regarding this issue, the dumb third brother, since he had his first woman and his first wedding, he has read a lot of books seriously. For example, the family anecdotes of celebrities, the stories of high-ranking officials and couples.

There are many people who want couples to have common interests, common hobbies, and similar personalities. In fact, the harmony and different tastes may increase the relationship between husband and wife.

The female lyricist Li Qingzhao of the Song Dynasty and the goldsmith Zhao Mingcheng are very different in their interests and temperaments.

But they can take the initiative to take care of each other, and they can use their interests and hobbies to influence each other. Thus more common languages can be obtained.

This kind of husband and wife love is also rich, passed down to future generations, and its reputation is passed on. Dumb brother likes.

Being together every day, no matter how good a couple is, conflicts will inevitably occur. How did the third brother Hu Tuanjie, Shao Jianbo, Guo Jianguang, Xiao Erhei, and the current Chai Jin officials know and deal with this problem?

Couples should distance themselves from each other:

The appearance of this distance is not necessarily a bad thing.

In many cases, quarrels and complaints are just another way of expressing love. Although every woman is scolding this stinky mute, a thief is dumb, a woman can't have sex with her, and the poisonous water is huge and powerful,,,, she is not a normal person.

The dumb brother's view of love and marriage is: I am not a normal person, I am an extraordinary person.

God doesn't know how long I'll live, but if I live for one day, we'll be happy for a day. Do more good deeds, live a meaningful day, you want to follow me, follow me, don't want to follow me, let's break up amicably! You can also be friends and relatives.

I'm not in business, but I'm rich and have a lot of businesses;

I am an official and don't like officialdom, but there are always people who let me be an official and are willing to do practical things for the people;

I'm not a good person, but I have a lot of friends, brothers, sisters, and kisses!

It's a pity that I'm dumb, and the words of my heart are never known;

Since marrying Shui Cress and Juanjuan, he has slowly figured out some Taoism, and has also experienced some mysteries, so he handed over his family affairs to others, and I am afraid of trouble:

If you want to complain, go to the old leader and the old chief, and there is an old lady and old chairman, who is busy working on the sheep soup pot;

If you have an opinion, go to my eldest brother Hu Qianqian, he has a good memory, a careful heart, is good at work, and can resolve our contradictions;

If you have difficulties, go to my good brother Mosquito, Little North Wind, they will do their best to give you unexpected surprises and surprises;

If you have something to do with each other, find my eldest wife cress, she will coordinate and deal with it, neither will you eat your dry vinegar, but also have the overall situation in mind;

For children, go to my Juanjuan wife, she studies well, is patient, has both theory and practice, but is too kind and reluctant to beat the child;

The child orders a doll, the in-laws have something, let them come to me, I am not afraid of trouble, I like to play fists with my in-laws, drink and toast;

Other things, I'm really afraid of trouble, life is in the world, don't be full of blind tossing, the Tao is naturally beautiful;

Anyway, I'm just a seeder, I just want to have more children and more blessings, I don't like family planning, I just want to take advantage of loopholes and have more children;

I'm just an amorous, I can't help but love other women, I can't be single-minded, concentrated, love what's going on;

In this vocabulary of love, this is called opposite, which at first glance seems to be opposite, but in fact it is complementary;

He believes that this is a higher level of respect for each other.

What needs to be made special is to keep a distance, it is true that he does not deliberately create contradictions and distance himself, everyone thinks that she is a good woman, has her own job, has her own favorite career, and there is his special situation, there is no way to stay together every day.

Therefore, the small contradictions and small distances that arise are objectively inevitable, and everyone has their own way of living, a hundred destinies, and a hundred ways of living.

Big star Liu Xiaoqing said well, men are shoes on their feet, and only they know how comfortable they are, and they don't care about others.

This is the wonderful dumb and dumb women, the treasure book of husband and wife's love.

It may not be easy to say much now, but after 100 years, it may not be famous and praised by future generations:

People's attitude towards sex is always so ambiguous, secretive, the attitude of the Chinese people towards sex is even more, regret is deep, talk about sexual perversion, Ran Engels believes that the decisive factor in history is two kinds of production, one is the production of means of subsistence, the other is the production of human beings themselves, human reproduction, he has long been discussing sexual culture, new sexual knowledge, sexual order, this is a paragraph written in the book at home.

Anyway, the dumb third brother who has been going around for a long time, Chai Jin returned to the troublesome textile factory.

I found that the earth turned well without him.

It is said that the Ministry of Civilization has been established, and the security department, which is very troublesome and complicated, has been officially assigned to the subordinate of the Ministry of Civilization after lowering its specifications. Civilized law enforcement, civilized guarding the gate, civilized guarding the factory, a few civilizations, limit all the work of the security department.

The number of office staff has been reduced by two-thirds, and the number of staff in the office has been reduced by 80 per cent.

But it was not promoted to the society, and all the internal integration went to the service units. The newly opened specialty restaurant alone is lined up with a large number of applicants.

The personnel department reported that now we have more than 10,000 employees, many of whom are recruited from other places and recruited from all aspects of the city. Now the whole textile factory is proud that I am an old textile worker. The workers who are not easy to find a partner have also become fragrant and sweet, and firecrackers are fired every week, and there are many people who get married, many who marry in, and few who marry out.