December 4, 1982 (Sunny, Saturday)

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[My cousin] the day before yesterday, I went up with a cow and met Jinwa on the old weir ridge, and he was holding a handful of noodles and going down.

He said, "Yueping, there are two students in our class who are going to come to your class, do you know?"

(I remembered that these two best classmates who transferred from the village primary school to our second elementary school had a great influence on me, one was the same as the old one, and the other was the daughter of the introducer of me and my wife)

"Yes, what are you going to do today?"

"Politics. He affirmed, "Neither of them will fail." ”

The ** test in our class is very unusual, and I am too, but I still believe it. (It would be good for the village elementary school to be able to complete the teaching of the main subject.) ）

"Do you do your homework? ”

To my surprise: "I can't do it at all! I won't read it next year." ”

I hurriedly said: "If you are willing to read, as long as you grind hard, you will pass the test." ”

"I won't read it," he said. ”

"Why?"

At this time, Luo Guangdong came over and interrupted our conversation: "Hello"

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Seeing him holding noodles in his hand, I couldn't help but think of the origin of Jinwa's nickname.

It was when he was a child who secretly cooked noodles to eat, as for how young he was, it was estimated that he was seven years old, because he had too much fun on the way to school that day, and if he was late, he skipped school, and when he was bored and greedy, he thought of secretly cooking noodles to eat.

Seven-year-old children can cook noodles, not surprising at all, that year my eldest brother has been able to cook a variety of meals, less than four years old I gave him a fire, the eldest brother on the stove, even the complex noodles, corn paste (is corn paste, I have not cooked it by hand, will think it is simple, dry powder under the pot, the craft is a little not good enough to have countless undercooked dough. My brother invented a method, first add the powder and water to make a thick paste, wait for the porridge to boil and then put it in the pot, stir it while it is cooking, and wait for it to be cooked naturally, which is more authentic than my mother's cooking. Later, I came to the company to give full play to this technology, used for ink and lacquer, to solve the company's big problems, whether it is pad printing or spray paint baking paint, with my modulation techniques, never fade and peel off the phenomenon, more than ten years to do absolutely foolproof!) can often be cooked.

In the middle of the afternoon, he saw that his house was suddenly smoking, and his mother was also a fuss and a person who didn't know what to do, thinking that his house was on fire, so he hurriedly called a few members of the club to rush back to fight the fire.

At that time, Jinwa picked the noodles into the bowl, and before he could eat them, he suddenly heard a loud noise, and his mother screamed, knowing that something bad was wrong, and in a hurry, he poured the noodles into the urine bucket.

When it was discovered, Jinwa never admitted it, and insisted that "that's a mite, a mite, it's a mite!"

Several adults laughed and lost their big teeth, Jinwa was still dead in front of the facts, he rolled on the ground crying, and shouted hoarsely: "If you don't believe it, I'll hang myself!"

In fact, there are many people in this world who don't shed tears when they see a coffin, don't admit their accounts when they die, don't admit their mistakes, know that they are wrong, and they have to rely on them to hang themselves for death.

We think it's funny when it happens to children, take a Y number, and when you encounter it, you will be mocked and mocked, and it will be funny.

What about adults! Most of the noisy and quarrelsome fights in the neighborhood are caused by this kind of virtue.

Although this kind of virtue is small, it is from the infancy and this is breeding, at this time pay attention to guide and correct, most of them are still inconspicuous scabies, and when they grow up, they will be the descendants of "death and do not admit mistakes", and stepping into the society is a social problem.

Are we looking at these issues? Is this something that sociologists should be concerned about?

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Far from it. This brocade baby, why don't you read it?

He is 19 years old, and he is in the same class as my brother, who has graduated from high school and is still in the fifth grade.

He is the son of my fifth father, four years older than me, and he should have called him Brother Jin, but he has never won my respect since he was a child, and the great word brother cannot be used on him.

So I basically call him Jinwa, and even my two younger sisters don't call him Brother Jin.

His bad grades don't mean that he is not elfty, for example, learning to sing, is not slower than us at all, and much better than most of his classmates.

I figured that he couldn't steal in his studies, but he didn't meet a high-level teacher, so he taught him.

I have also tutored him countless times, many unique secrets of learning that I have never told others, all to him, he listened to it wonderfully, but all as a story to listen to, as a movie to watch, he also understood and remembered, but of course it was his own, he was short of that step: "transformation".

Transform into your own knowledge.

For example, in the application problem of column equations, first set the unknown as an X or A, that day I helped their house dig the soil, in the outer water hill soil of their house, I dug my own one wider, we can always go hand in hand, so close, I just talked about it a hundred times, he will not set it himself, his concept of that step is not what he should do.

After half a day, I exhausted my patience, but this small problem could not be solved, and he was as stubborn as he insisted that the noodles in the urine bucket were beetles, which made me cry and laugh. The root cause of his poor grades lies in the positive bar.

This kind of rigid conceptual determination is not uncommon in society.

For example, I always don't think of myself as the master of labor, I always think that I am helping others to do things, helping is like this, part-time work is like this, and I don't even think that I am helping myself when I do homework.

After all, he was still my cousin, and I couldn't help him at that time, so I insisted on not helping him write love letters to restrain him.