For example, some people lost their parents in their childhood, some people saw their parents divorce in their childhood, some people lost some relatives in their childhood, some people lost their very important friends in childhood, these pains are of course real, these pains may have cried for a day and a night, yes, these pains are real pains, and they can definitely accompany them throughout their lives, so that every time they think about it, they feel regretful and emotional.

But for most people, they don't actually have so much pain in childhood, in childhood, they are likely to be just temporarily separated from their friends, they are likely to just need to go to a place, and then temporarily separated from their friends, or in childhood, they are likely to have a puppy, and then this puppy suddenly got lost, and then they feel the pain, of course, at this time it is called pain, in fact, it is a little inappropriate, because this is not a painful thing, this is just a regretful thing, to say that the pain is a little heavy, can only say that they have a little bit of depression and regret。

Some people say that children have no way to feel pain, because children actually can't feel real feelings at all, they think that children's thinking is simple, children's thoughts are simple, and children's memories are not even very profound, because in fact, there are examples to give.

For example, if you hit a child, and then the child may be sad at the time, and then he cries for a day and a night, but when you go to play with him again on the second or third day, he is likely to have forgotten the previous events, or even if he has not forgotten the previous events, he still remembers that you hit him, but he actually seems to have no care about the previous events, and the children's memories seem to be very short, and they can still play happily with you.

Or he lost a very important toy, he may cry heartbreakingly, but you just need a little coaxing, he seems to be able to become happy immediately, as long as he gets another promise from you, even if you can't fulfill this promise in the end, even if your promise seems a little ridiculous, but the child will choose to believe you at that moment, and then stop crying, and then continue to live happily, yes, this is the normal situation of many children, this is the reason why the child is still young.

However, no matter what kind of experience or pain is in the child's own opinion, no matter what the child thinks, in the eyes of others, they will have another experience and understanding, just like that pain, if in the child's view, they feel that the pain is short-lived, which pain will eventually be forgotten, but in the eyes of others, he is pain, and in the eyes of others, he seems to be an insurmountable psychological threshold.

For Zhuzi, it seems that all the pain is indifferent, because Zhuzi feels that in his real childhood world, it seems that everything can be slowly forgotten, as if everything can be ignored too much, as if everything can make all people see the hope of the future, in the future world he seems to have everything is happy, in the future world he feels that he can have a very good life.

Of course, this is just an illusion, for him, his life will always seem to be full of sadness, full of frustration, in his world, as if everything is not going well, in his world, in the eyes of others, he is simply an unlucky ghost.

As soon as he was born, his mother died, and his mother's death was not just because of his birth, of course, there are also part of the reasons, everyone knows that it is actually very dangerous when giving birth to a child, although modern medical conditions and medical technology are so developed, but they dare not guarantee that the pregnant woman who gives birth to a child is 100% safe, because, there is no 100% thing in medicine, even if you have a cold, you may die because of other complications.

If you want to find a really reliable reason, it is actually because his mother's physical fitness is too poor, and finally the doctor told the family that this is the case, but why is his mother's physical fitness so poor? Of course, there is a reason, the countryside at that time was too poor, to what extent? Speaking of which, maybe all the people could not even believe it, and even felt like they were listening to a fantasy, the countryside at that time was really too poor, and the poor did not even have enough to eat.

Yes, you can farm in the countryside and have some food, but for those poor mountain villages, if this year is a little bit unpleasant, then they will most likely have nothing to eat. This situation may sound a little strange to people today, but in those days, in that barren place, it was a very normal situation, and it was in that situation that the pillar lost his mother.

His birth represented the death of his mother, at least, in the eyes of his father, who hated him, because his father loved his mother very much, so when his mother died, when he was born, his father even felt that his birth was a punishment for him, that his birth was a disaster for his mother, and that his birth was the beginning of all disasters.

Of course, this is a wrong perception, but in that era, in that era when the people's wisdom was not opened, everyone thought that there was no problem with this, and under his father's harsh criticism, he gradually grew up.

In the summer of the year when he was five years old, he lost his father, and yes, a cruel fate befell him again, such a miserable life, and this is how it befell him.

When he reaches the age of going to school, everyone else goes to school, only he has no way to go to school, because he has no relatives, because all his relatives are unwilling to care about him, in the eyes of everyone, he is an unlucky person, as long as people occupy this unlucky egg, as long as you are involved with him, then, your family will definitely suffer misfortune, and will definitely suffer some very difficult things because of him.

The gratuitous teasing of fate, in fact, when he came here, he was actually basically an orphan, yes, he lost his parents, and then other relatives were unwilling to support him, he was basically equivalent to an orphan.

People say that the children of the poor are in charge of the family early, which means that if the person's family is very poor, then they must need their children to help them do a lot of work, or that the child will take the initiative to help them do some farm work or help them do some things, in this way, it seems that the child will grow up as soon as possible, because they have experienced the ups and downs of this society in advance, because they have experienced the difficulties of life in advance, then they may grow up a little faster, at least compared with their peers, they appear to be very mature, and compared with their peers, they will appear more sensible。

They don't spend some money indiscriminately, they value their grades very much, they feel that they should study hard, they feel that they should be worthy of the tuition fee that their parents paid for them, yes, this is the so-called precociousness, this is the so-called sensible, but, here in the pillar, he has no chance to make himself very sensible, and he has no chance to let himself study well, because no one is willing to let him go to school, because no one is willing to pay a little money for him to study, so that he can have a good life.

In the eyes of the people in this village, Zhuzi is simply a dispensable person, and even they think that Zhuzi should leave this village, and Zhuzi should go to some wealthy people outside to see if those rich people are willing to take him in, whether they are willing to help him, whether they will pity him and give him a meal, but Zhuzi doesn't seem to want to go outside at all, he only thinks about his parents who are guarding in that small courtyard.

He is actually not big, but such a young child, it seems that he already has some thoughts, he wants to guard his father in that small courtyard, it sounds a little sad, but the pillar at that time, his heart is not sad at all, he feels that this is his life, or at that time he didn't know what was a happy life, what was a happy person.

He feels that since his life is like this, then it needs to be recognized, then he feels that this is his right life, the life he should have, so he feels that it doesn't matter if he is like this, he feels that he is the way he should live, but in any case, a child always needs to eat, so how can he eat.

He has such a small body to do farm work, he must not be able to do it, even if he goes to farm, he has no way, he doesn't understand at all, but the neighbor next door still has a little kindness, took the initiative to occupy his family's land, and then gave him some food, and then took care of him some food, but the child eats a lot, because the child is growing his body.

As the old saying goes, half the eldest eats the poor, which is what it means, often before the next harvest, he has already eaten all the receipts of the previous year, then, he began to think of some ways to increase his income, to this family, to help that family, and then to get a meal.

Yes, that's his life, that's his experience, but, anyway, he eventually grew up, he ended up letting himself grow, and then slowly he also recovered from the pain of losing his parents.

Time is indeed a good medicine, and whatever you have experienced before, you will slowly forget it later.