Chapter 446: A Combination of East and West

"Niuniu, will you marry me?"

With the voice, Comrade Navy picked up the corner of his robe and knelt down towards Gu Fanxin!

The comrades of the navy knelt down on one knee, so that the villagers who watched the excitement at the door were dumbfounded, and let the groom kneel down on one knee and propose to the bride, which was the first time they had seen it. Fastest updates

It is only natural for a man to have gold under his knees, and to kneel down to his parents and to his teacher, and to kneel down and propose to a woman, and they have no precedent here.

Look at the city girl who was brought back as a bridesmaid by Fan Xin, and she was accustomed to admiring it, and couldn't help but look at each other: Is this all a new trend in a big city?

In the amazed whispers and inhalations one after another, Gu Fan smiled embarrassedly, and at the same time was very moved: people's words are terrifying, Brother Hai actually ignored it, and proposed to him according to the combination of Chinese and Western etiquette.

In big cities, this form has become commonplace and commonplace, but here in his hometown, Brother Hai will be looked down upon for doing so.

"Get up quickly! the man has gold under his knees, I know your heart, I know your heart......!"

She reminded her in a whisper, and she couldn't care less about being reserved, and stretched out her hand to pull Brother Hai up.

"Wow... It's so touching!" Seeing this scene, Zhang Minyi's children's shoes were moved.

Comrade One Piece also applauded.

Zhang Minyi, the girl, directly gave up the prepared embarrassing program, and now she just wants this pair of lovers who have gone through hardships to finally become married as soon as possible.

Under Zhang Minyi's hint, the embroidered shoes that were hidden soon fell into the hands of the naval comrades.

The groom's officer found the red shoes and squatted down to put on the red embroidered shoes for the bride.

It turned out that after the groom entered the door, he found the red wedding shoes prepared for the bride in the bride's room, and helped the bride put them on before taking the bride away.

Holding the jade feet, the naval comrades put on embroidered shoes for their bride steadily.

The two walked out of the room hand in hand, and when they came out, Comrade One Piece hurriedly stuffed a red envelope to Zhang Minyi.

Now it's time to go to the main hall to give tea to the elders.

It turns out that the custom here is that the two newlyweds should bow down to their parents and serve tea until the elders drink it before they can stand up.

Before the liberation, it was customary for the newlyweds to stand and serve tea when they were at the woman's house, because they had not yet gone to the man's house to meet Aunt Weng.

But now there is not so much emphasis, and both sides bow down to show the same respect.

The man is tall, handsome and chic, and the woman is beautiful and moving, and she is simply the golden boy and girl in the eyes of people. A couple in a retro wedding dress seems to come out of a painting, making people look like a good match.

When the two of them walk to the main hall of the hall, they will serve tea to grandparents, uncles, aunts, uncles, brothers and sisters, cousins, cousins, cousins, cousins, cousins, and cousins in the order of seniority.

After the tea ceremony is completed at the bride's house, the couple waits for the groom's house and will also serve the same tea to the groom's family.

In the past, the bride was married to mean leaving her family and hometown forever, so the bride had to cry for a few days before the wedding, and the family would take relatives and friends into their home in advance to accompany the daughter who was about to get married.

Gathering with friends and family to talk and laugh and relax, and then telling friends and family about interesting stories from childhood, laughing and joking together, this somewhat releases the fear of the bride in the face of an unfamiliar environment, and also prepares her to leave home.

In the hall, the top is grandma Liu Lanzhi, and on her left and right are Gu Zhongyi and Gu Fanxin's aunt and aunt.

Gu Pengcheng brought a tray. I saw two printed red porcelain cups in a red tray. Inside is tea for the elders.

As the saying goes: half a full cup of wine.

When serving tea, you should pay attention to the following: the tea should not be too full, and it is advisable to be eight points full. The water should not be too hot to avoid people being accidentally burned.

The tea tree will bloom and bear seeds when it grows up, so when the engagement is married, the man will give tea as a gift, plus other ornaments and candy bags.

Before a couple of newlyweds serve tea, they kneel down first, with men on the left and women on the right. The father sits in front of the bridegroom, and the mother sits in front of the bride, that is, the man and the woman face each other.

The bridegroom first toasts tea, and then to the family and then the aunt; Then the bride serves tea, also father first and mother first.

After the elders have drunk tea, they will send blessings to the newlyweds, and give them gift bags or gold and silver and other jewelry as congratulations to the newlyweds.

Couples should remember to use their hands when serving tea and receiving congratulatory gifts.

Folk tea hospitality should pay attention to the saying of "tea is full of deception" and "seven teas and eight wines", that is, when pouring tea, it is better not to be overfilled, and it is better to be full of seven points.

It is also rude not to hold tea with one hand, and do not put your finger on the rim of the teacup or dip it in the tea.

It is best to bring a handle to the elders to serve tea cups, so as not to spill or knock over the ground due to the hot tea during the tea ceremony.

In addition, avoid using the tea leaves of slimming tea, traditional weddings pay attention to good intentions, pay attention to the prosperity of the family, and losing weight is equivalent to reducing blessings.

In addition to tea, red dates and lotus seeds are also indispensable. Red dates indicate that good luck is at the head, branches and leaves, and early birth of noble sons.

In addition, the lotus seed should not be cut, it must be a complete one, and the two halves will be separated, and the skin should not be removed.

Therefore, it is best to make tea with lotus seeds in a single dress. In terms of portion, an appropriate amount is sufficient, generally speaking, good things come in pairs, and one pair of each is enough.

On the tea for respect, red dates and lotus seeds are usually placed to express good intentions and early birth of noble sons.

When a couple of newlyweds serve tea, they should present it with both hands, and the tea should be given according to their generations, first respecting the oldest elders, such as family husbands, aunts, and so on.

Each tea recipient will give a red envelope or jewellery to the bride and groom to show their acceptance, recognition and blessings.

The first thing the navy saluted was Liu Lanzhi, the oldest grandmother, who respectfully served tea with both hands. For this grandmother, the Navy comrades still have a lot of respect.

"Hallelujah, bless both of you in the name of the Lord Jesus for the days to come, to live in the Lord's teachings and build a happy family. Love each other, share joy and sorrow, send out the fragrance of saints, and get the praise of all.

May your love life be as the fruit of the fig tree ripens up, and as the vine blossoms and blossoms as a witness of the sweet fragrance of Christ, speaking with the heavens and the firmament of God's works and glory every day and every night!

I wish you two to fulfill your duty as a son of man in your family, honor your parents and aunts, respect the big and love the young, and make the whole family happy, shine in the world, and glorify the name of the Lord.

May you keep the Bible all your life, be filial to your superiors, and be kind to your neighbors, so that you may live a hundred times more blessed and blessed in the future!

May the Lord grant grace and blessing to your families: strong in faith, loving God and loving others, pleasing to the Lord, helping one another, happy and fulfilling, glorifying the name of the Lord, and bringing forth eternal blessings to both husband and wife and their children. Hallelujah, amen. ”