Gu Fanxin came to the eldest aunt with tea, and the eldest aunt smiled and said auspicious words and gave her a pair of silver earrings. Fastest updates

When it was time for the eldest aunt to serve tea, the eldest aunt also picked a few good words, and then gave her a copper bracelet.

He also said that after wearing this, he was sick or not, and he could see that he was sick or not through the bracelet.

Gu Fanxin also smiled and thanked her, although she couldn't use these things, she couldn't shirk them at this time.

Otherwise, he will definitely end up in a situation where he doesn't know what to do and looks down on people.

Looking at her own things, the niece's face did not show a little disgust, and the eldest aunt and the eldest aunt both breathed a sigh of relief, and they were very satisfied with the niece's performance.

After the tea ceremony, it can be regarded as completing the farewell ceremony between the married girl and her mother's family.

"The bride is out!"

With the excitement of the children and the young offspring children, the bride in the red dress walked out!

I saw her wearing a phoenix crown hijab on her head, supported by the girl from the city with one hand, and holding a red umbrella on her head with the other hand.

In film and television, there will always be such a scene when a woman gets married in ancient times: a woman wears a phoenix crown and a red cloth to cover her head, and the man plays music and sends a sedan chair to welcome her relatives.

On the night of candles in the cave room, the bride is picked off with a weighing pole or a horse whip and thrown on the roof or tent top.

After the groom unveils his head, he immediately strokes his hair with his hands, symbolizing the "married couple".

The big red hijab was lifted, and the delicate jade face began to appear. ”

The bride put a three-foot red turban on her head, and when she entered the cave room, the groom could remove the hijab and see the bride's face.

This is one of the etiquettes on the way to welcome relatives.

Gu Fanxin didn't expect that he would actually experience it, and covering his head did block the eyes of those people outside, and also reduced the embarrassment of the newlywed in front of everyone.

When going out, the bride comes out of the house to the sedan chair (or car), and it is usually carried by the father or brother to the sedan chair.

If the father or brother is not in good health and cannot carry it, he should temporarily put a pair of shoes on his or her feet, and then change into red embroidered shoes after getting on the sedan chair, which means that he cannot bring the soil of his mother's house to his mother-in-law's house.

Knowing that his daughter didn't like him either, Gu Zhongyi didn't want to come out to contribute, but Gu Pengcheng was very happy and willing to contribute.

This is a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to repair my relationship with my sister.

But Comrade Navy strode to Gu Pengcheng's side, and his voice was low but unquestionable: "Let me come!"

Hearing Brother Hai's voice, Gu Fanxin's frowning brows relaxed, and his heart suddenly felt relieved and relaxed.

In her heart, she didn't want to have such intimate contact with people who were not close to her, although Gu Pengcheng thought she was performing very well.

But what is in the bones, that can't deceive people.

In the stunned eyes of Gu Pengcheng and the villagers, the bride had been firmly carried by the groom's official.

From the time Gu Fanxin stood there and said, "Grandma, let's give me shoes and walk by myself!" The navy understood that Niuniu was not willing to have physical contact with the so-called family at all.

For Niuniu's comfort, even if he was unruly in the eyes of the villagers, he stood up.

Wow!

Zhang Minyi silently gave a thumbs up to the object of her heart in her heart. Then quickly spread out the red umbrella and followed.

The other hand took out a handful of red rice from his bag and scattered it on the ground.

It turns out that when the bride and groom go out, they must be accompanied by the bridesmaids with red umbrellas, and at the same time they must sprinkle rice on the side of the road, which means that the chicken will not peck at the bride.

"Zhu Bajie is carrying his daughter-in-law!Zhu Bajie is carrying his daughter-in-law!" a few little children were giggling and jumping around them, clapping their hands and laughing and shouting.

At this moment, Gu Fanxin, who was on the back of the Navy comrade, felt that Brother Hai's hand holding his buttocks was lifted up again, and his face couldn't help but be hot, needless to say, his face must be red and dripping blood, but fortunately, he covered his face with a hijab.

"Hurry up and fire the cannon!" Comrade One Piece hurriedly commanded.

Seeing that the bride was sent to the sedan chair, the boy in the car over there was also very eye-catching, and without waiting for the words to fall, he quickly lit the firecrackers and put them up.

The naval comrade wearing a big red flower turned over and got on the horse in high spirits, but he looked very chic.

A pole to welcome the relatives of the team blowing, and mighty on the road.

However, this time when I returned to Haijia Village, I had to take a long detour, otherwise it would be unlucky.

Generally speaking, it is enough for four or eight people to carry the sedan chair, and Grandpa Hai called these dozen young and strong postnatal boys to consider that there will be a replacement when they go back.

Because the newlyweds can't go directly to the destination after getting on the sedan chair, the sedan chair must go around all the local auspicious road names. This is individual work, and it cannot be done without manpower.

In the old days, brides were picked up in sedan chairs, but later they gradually switched to bicycles, tricycles, tractors, cars, and now they basically use cars.

In fact, when the daughter got on the sedan chair and wanted to leave home, according to the convention, the mother would chase after the sedan chair and hold hands to say goodbye to her daughter.

Mother and daughter generally have to cry goodbye on the field, the mother's crying, on the one hand, there is an element of reluctance, on the other hand, it means that the daughter has grown up to become a member of the family, and the distressed daughter can no longer be coquettish in front of herself.

The daughter crying also has two meanings, one is to express the remembrance of leaving her mother's house, and the other is to express her filial piety and reluctance to leave her mother.

There is a saying that "the fallen disciples laugh and cry, and the married girl laughs when she cries".

But how could it be possible to ask Gu Fanxin and Xu Zhaodi's mother and daughter to cry goodbye together.

Now she just wants to laugh in her heart, no matter what ups and downs there will be in the future, anyway, today she finally officially left this home, and she can finally get out of it, and she really can't do it anymore by crying and squeezing tears.

Besides, Xu Zhaodi, who is a mother, will not be reluctant, if she wants to hold the dead girl's pretending crying nose, she really can't cry.

It's better for both of them to pretend to forget and not cry, so that people can judge and see jokes.

Therefore, both of them tacitly "forgot" the farewell ceremony.

It is said that when the greeting team finally arrived at the head of the village, the two kisses arranged by Grandpa Hai were there carrying the thermos and cups in their hands, sticking their heads out and looking at the road.

This kiss is also particular. One must be an unmarried girl, and the other must be an experienced and eloquent aunt.

This is the tea prepared for the bride, to prevent the bride from being thirsty after a tiring journey all the way, first stop and drink tea to quench her thirst on the way to the village entrance.

This is also a more humane ritual.

The naval comrades got off their horses neatly and handed the tea prepared for the kiss to the bride in the sedan chair.