Thinking of this, Zhang Minyi became happy again, and she proudly showed off to her mother: "Mom, do you know? In the whole dormitory, there are only a few people who have the best heart for me! The two of us will never turn our faces again!"

"Silly girl, everything is not so absolute. "Although Zhang's mother has seen Gu Fanxin, it is difficult to make a decision for her based on one side.

Although her daughter always said that Gu Fanxin was good when she came back, and Grandma Minyi always praised that girl, after all, they didn't really get along.

The so-called 'knowing the face of the person does not know the heart, and it is difficult to draw the skin of the tiger and the bones.' It's better to teach your daughter to be a little more defensive.

Because of this complex and ever-changing world, no matter what kind of relationship, no matter how deep the relationship between the two parties is, and how harmonious the relationship is, there may be changes.

Don't be hurt by the stupid girl in her family, and it will be too late to wake up.

"First of all, we must understand that since each person has his or her own unique experience and unique background of emotions, understandings and interests, it is inevitable that there will be inconsistencies or conflicts between people.

Therefore, in the course of our dealings with anyone, we should be prepared for possible contradictions. Even if it's your best friend!"

"Won't you?!" Zhang Minyi opened her mouth wide in disbelief, "Mom, are you too grassy?"

"This stupid girl! Mom is not for your own good! This is to tell you to take precautions, and nothing else," Zhang's mother said angrily.

"Preventing contradictions and conflicts is the most effective way to correctly understand conflicts, actively and effectively deal with them, and avoid paying unnecessary and greater costs in conflicts. ”

"Think about it, under normal circumstances, if a person is directly involved in a conflict without preparation, it is very difficult to remain calm and rational throughout the conflict, right?"

"For example, when you suddenly heard someone say bad things about you behind your back in the bathroom, did you feel very angry at the time?"

People are emotional creatures, and when people are too excited, their thinking will be significantly disturbed, and it will be difficult to maintain a correct judgment of things.

It is not uncommon to do things in the midst of passion that are harmful to relationships or even criminal.

In real life, more interpersonal conflicts are avoidable.

“(⊙o⊙)… Uh..."

Zhang Minyi thought that when she heard others talking about herself, she was really angry.

Mother Zhang looked at her daughter's darkened face and understood.

"Learning to empathize with empathy to experience why others behave the way they think they are can effectively help us understand others correctly, avoid errors in judgment, and prevent inappropriate experiences and behaviors. ”

For conflicts that have already occurred, if handled properly, they often do not bring much harm to interpersonal relationships.

In interpersonal communication, it is also very important to grasp the scale of communication and take positive measures to maintain interpersonal relationships.

"Silly girl, remember, how to reduce conflicts and contradictions. First, try to avoid arguing with people. Although it is normal to say that arguments between people are very normal.

But arguments often end in unpleasant results. It turns out that whoever wins and who loses can be uncomfortable.

The winner may have a psychological satisfaction at the time, but the shadow of the deterioration of the relationship will soon be overshadowed, and the temporary satisfaction will become evaporated.

The psychological frustration of the loser is more intense, which often evolves into personal attacks, which are very harmful to interpersonal relationships, and the result of arguments is often to lose both. ”

"yes, we're just losing both, and it's a little sad to think about it. Snorting and raising her head, Zhang Minyi's eyes were slightly moist and red.

Mother Zhang touched her head distressedly, and her face was not very good. My own baby is being bullied like this outside, as a mother, can I not feel uncomfortable?

But for the sake of her daughter's future, she still has to enlighten and enlighten.

"Don't directly criticize, blame, and complain about others. Directly criticizing, blaming and complaining about others can damage their self-esteem and sense of self-worth, especially if they are embarrassed for a while.

Sometimes it is much better to change the method slightly, from direct criticism, blame and complaint to indirect hints and reminders, which is the so-called art of 'bad words'. ”

Zhang Minyi's mouth pursed aggrieved again, "I kindly reminded her, but no one listened to me!"

"That is, they don't take you seriously at all, and you can only be angry with yourself when you get angry with them. Mother Zhang said unceremoniously.

For people like this who don't know what to do and what they don't do, there is no need for their daughter to compromise and ease the relationship, and what should be given up should be given up mercilessly.

"What happens to you when you go to school?"

"Well, that's normal. ”

Mother Zhang frowned, dissatisfied: "This is too unusual." Why are they so low?"

Zhang Minyi, who began to cheer up again, smiled, "My good mother, don't worry about me, you can't ruin your impression of our school because of this, and when everyone adapts to the rules, there will naturally be no such thing." ”

"Okay (n_n). Mother Zhang smoothed her hair, "Silly girl, didn't you eat enough just now, did you?!Come, get up and eat some food again!"

"Hey...... Mom, don't say it, I'm really a little hungry......" Zhang Minyi touched her shriveled belly embarrassedly, and continued to enjoy the delicious food.

Father Zhang gave Mother Zhang an appreciative look. Or the wife has a way. My daughter is older, not like when she was young.

At such a time, only the wife can come forward to settle the matter.

"Here, this is the chicken stew with mushrooms you like to eat, and Dad gave you hot it just now. Father Zhang diligently pushed the chicken stew and mushrooms to his daughter.

"I'll peel off the armor of this crab for you, try it!" Before Zhang Minyi could eat two bites, Zhang's mother handed her a small plate like offering treasure there.

Zhang Minyi happily took it and dipped it in the sauce, feasted on it, and was addicted.

"Let's try this ...... again"

The husband and wife scrambled to pile their daughter's favorite food into Zhang Minyi's bowl.

Zhang Minyi was full of food and drink, and rubbed her stomach with a satisfied face, "Mom, the food you cook is so delicious, it has to compete with Fanxin's craftsmanship!"

Hearing this name from his daughter's mouth again, Zhang's father and Zhang's mother glanced at each other, it seems that this girl named Fanxin has a very high status in her daughter's mind!

The last time I came here, I still had a little impression, and I felt that I was quite polite.

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