One hundred and twenty-three episodes of success
"Have you ever heard a bystander clear this?"
Manager Wu asked rhetorically.
"Unless you're a fool, who hasn't heard of it. ”
"That's right, to change yourself, in addition to your own efforts, the most important thing is to have someone to supervise. ”
Jiulong pondered silently, but who to find to supervise himself, this person, must gain his own trust, and can only care about how he does futures, not everything, if you really want this, it is better not to, he is a person who likes to let go of himself.
Manager Wu seemed to understand what Jiulong was thinking, and told Jiulong that she had a risk controller in the futures company, although she was young, but she had done risk control for many years and had experience, and when Jiulong encountered futures problems, she could talk to her, and she would help Jiulong to control the risk, and she was going to take her with her today, but her mother was sick and asked for leave to go home.
The risk controller, Kowloon, knew that it was specifically to control the risks of futures operations, but it met Kowloon's requirements, so Kowloon did not say anything more.
Manager Wu handed the business card of the risk controller to Jiulong, Jiulong took a look, and knew that the other party's surname was Yun, the name of the water ballad, and he was slightly stunned, and the surname Shui, whose name was also quite poetic, was busy putting the business card away.
Manager Wu chatted with Jiulong at the observation deck for a long time, and finally had a light meal together in Jiangshan, all of which were local chickens, river fish, wild vegetables, etc., and left separately in the evening.
When he got home, Jiulong couldn't help but pick up his mobile phone and call Yun Shuiyao.
"Hello, Xiao Huang, if there is anything you need my help with, just say. ”
The other party's voice is soft, soft, and comfortable to listen to.
Kowloon told her about his current situation.
"Xiao Huang, listen to my advice, your current mental state is not suitable for futures at all, please stop, okay?"
Yun Shui Song softly persuaded.
"What else can I do if I don't do futures?"
Jiulong was very surprised, the other party didn't teach him how to control the risk, even if he didn't tell him to stop, what kind of bad idea was this, it was really nonsense, so even if the other party's voice was gentle, he didn't listen.
"I'm not telling you to stop and not do it, but I'm telling you to adjust mentally and find a way that works for you. ”
Yunshui Ballad is not discouraged, and advises with good words.
"Tell me what I'm going to do when I stop?"
Kowloon directly pushed the problem to her, and if she was reasonable, she could consider it.
"You go buy a copy of the book "Be Yourself", read it during this time, and tell me how you feel when you finish reading. ”
"Is it chicken soup for the soul? I don't look at it. ”
Kowloon is disgusted with books that talk about it and love to pour chicken soup for the soul.
“?? There must be a way to succeed, and there must be a reason for failure.
?“? Everyone aspires to be successful, and the need to succeed is innate.
"What is success? Success is about achieving one's own meaningful set goals.
"To be who you want to be, to do what you want to do, to say what you want to say, to go where you want to go, that's the greatest success in life.
"How are these passages?
Yun Shui asked rhetorically, his tone still gentle.
"This ......"
Kowloon has nothing to say, indeed, every word is in his heart.
"If futures don't do well, they just haven't found a good way, is this chicken soup for the soul?
Yun Shui Yu seemed to know what Jiulong was thinking, and Jiulong couldn't argue with every sentence.
"Okay, I'll buy it first, it's really useful, I'll thank you. ”
Jiulong said that he couldn't help the other party, so he no longer hesitated and went to Xinhua Bookstore to buy the book back.
He took a cursory glance at the catalog and walked down with a critical eye:
The main obstacle to not succeeding is self-limiting.
All human breakthroughs are a change of belief because your perceptions shape your outcome.
Beliefs determine attitudes, attitudes determine behaviors, and behaviors determine outcomes.
Change your beliefs and you can change your life.
There are two kinds of people in this world, one is the doer and the other is the wait-and-see.
?? There's nothing you can't do in the world.
?? Life has infinite possibilities, as long as you believe in yourself and keep trying, whether it is success or failure, it is a kind of growth and gain for you.
If you really want to succeed, you must be prepared?
Success does not depend on opportunities, but on opportunities and preparations, and opportunities are always for those who are prepared.
?? Bear down?
Going all out is a habit, an attitude, 100% seriousness and dedication, and the most important way to pursue success.
?? The past is not equal to the future?
?? There are three points in a person's life, the beginning (birth), the end (death), and the turning point.
Seizing the opportunity is the turning point of your success.
Today's results are the result of our choices yesterday, and our choices today lead to tomorrow's results.
There is no eternal success, and there is no eternal failure.
The most important thing in life is not where you come from, but where you are going.
Even if you have experienced severe blows and setbacks in the past, do not give up on your ideals, because the past is not equal to the future.
Believe in yourself and never say never.
Never give up!Never give up!Never give up!?
?? There is no failure in life, only giving up. Because you only fail if you give up!?
Never give up?
This part of Jiulong feels more chicken soup for the soul, although he is enthusiastic about it, he still needs a specific method.
Three keys to success
?? 1. Set clear goals?
The goal is the direction, the other side of success, the value and mission of life, without the goal, there will be no success.
1. What kind of person do I want to be?
2. What do I want?
3. What kind of results do I want to get???
2. Replication successful?
Learn from successful people how to succeed?
There must be a way to succeed, if you rely on yourself to practice and accumulate, the price to pay may be great, and if you learn from successful people, it will be more effective.
There are three opportunities in life that will make you successful, the first is born with a golden key, the second is when your partner comes from a wealthy family, and the third is when you work your own.
Third, act immediately?
Make up your mind and have the courage to try.?
Do what you're afraid to do.
The key to success is these three points, but it is a bit interesting, the three chances of success, the first two Kowloon do not have, only rely on their own hard work.
To succeed, of course, it is not easy, no one can succeed casually, Kowloon is also a person who can do what he wants and never say die, this part, there is nothing special.
Eliminate negativity?
Mindset and Success?
There are only small differences between people, but this difference often leads to a huge difference in the outcome of life, a small difference is whether the attitude towards life is positive or negative, and a huge difference is whether the result is a success or failure!?
There are only two kinds of mentality: positive mentality and negative mentality.
2. The inner world determines the outer world! The inner world is chaotic from 8 reasons: ??
(1) lack of clear goals, (2) fear of failure, (3) fear of rejection, (4) blame and blame, (5) apathy at work, (6) procrastination, (7) sloppy work, (8) pessimism and disappointment - negative imagination;
These eight aspects of the problem, Kowloon seems to have, although it is not obvious, what they do are confident, but self-confidence alone is useless, there is indeed a lot to overcome, Kowloon is becoming more and more interested in this book, next, what will you say, is there a solution?