3. The root cause of the above phenomenon:

Destructive criticism (criticism of people and things; criticism-oriented); The consequences of destructive criticism: fear, timidity, lack of confidence, avoidance, abandonment, self-limitation.

When criticizing, we should pay attention to: not to the thing, not to the person, not to the future, not to dwell on the past, and to be incentive-oriented.

Unwilling to take responsibility (making excuses, finding reasons, finding reasons; complaining, blaming; everything is someone else's problem, I am the victim);?

?? The aim is to cover up mistakes;

Be a person who takes responsibility: no excuses, no complaints, no blame, I am the root of the problem, I am responsible, everything is up to me - I am the architect of fate, I am the master of my life.

Successful people are always looking for a way, and those who fail are always looking for excuses.

Opinionated?

Subjective stubbornness, negative diagnosis, I am right - stubbornness, others are wrong - verify the mistakes of others.

The aim: to rationalize one's emotions.

Why negativity prevents people from succeeding: Negative mindset is a serious mental illness that rejects wealth, success, happiness and health. There are no bad people in the world, only bad attitudes???

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This part is to the point, this period is really not good, and I am a little afraid of facing futures.

Since the books are all bought, let's take a closer look, and I'm idle anyway.

It would be great if we could prescribe the right medicine, and this bottleneck period of Hill Futures would pass sooner.

On the same day, President Liu called to inform him that the ring competition was ready, and asked Kowloon to pay attention to the news of the Gui Autonomous Region that night, and the organizing committee of the "ring competition" had an information conference to learn about the relevant market.

Finally, President Liu also implored Jiulong and President Wang Tianran to help select the best strange stones in Fujian and send them to the Gui Autonomous Region for exhibition.

Jiulong was very excited when he heard it, this President Liu is really a practical person, but he did not agree to President Liu's request, he felt that he was just an ordinary stone friend, he had done his best to help the master, and he really wanted to help choose the stone, he was not qualified enough in the stone world, and he didn't have any official position as a shield, or forget it, this is a thankless task, the most important thing now is to do a good job in futures.

Therefore, no matter how important Chairman Liu said about this matter, he refused to do it all, and really felt that it was not that he didn't want to help, but that he couldn't.

Seeing that Kowloon's attitude was so resolute, Chairman Liu just smiled and told him not to rush to conclusions, but to wait at the press conference in the evening.

Sure enough, at the time set by President Liu in the evening, Jiulong turned on the TV and turned to the satellite TV channel of the Gui Autonomous Region, and the press conference was being held.

In 2009, in order to carry forward the Chinese stone appreciation culture and art, prosper the strange stone trading market, preserve the Chinese strange stone art treasures, establish the strange stone value standard platform, the strange stone evaluation standard platform and the large-scale strange stone trading platform, standardize the strange stone art evaluation, and create the "Olympics" of the stone appreciation culture, so that the artistic, economic, and collection value of the strange stone can be recognized by the society and the market, and realize the maximization of the economic value of the strange stone, and establish the three major platforms of the theoretical platform, value platform and market platform of the Chinese strange stone. World Stone King Competition", sponsored by the Gui Autonomous Region Stone Association, the capital Stone Marketing Planning Co., Ltd., will be held in all provinces, municipalities and autonomous regions across the country from May 1 to August 1, 2009 to hold the challenge qualifiers, October 26 to November 6, 2009 in the capital of the autonomous region.

Overseas Stone Association participates in the competition according to the corresponding standards.

During the finals, the "Stone Appreciation China and the World - Stone Appreciation Culture High-level Forum" will be held, and the theme of Chinese stone appreciation culture and the world in the 21st century will be widely discussed.

The competition will set up 7 strange stones: modeling stones, picture stones, mineral crystals, traditional stones, combination stones, carvings, and polished stones.

The winner received a bonus of 100,000 yuan, and the registration fee was 1,500 yuan/person.

At present, the competition has opened the "World Strange Stone Arena Network", the website is ******, please sign up for the competition.

Good guys, they are indeed very tall, with a wide area, a wide range, and a long time, President Liu and Mr. Wei must have put a lot of thought into it, congratulations to them.

Here, Jiulong had just finished watching the press conference and had just turned off the TV, when President Wang Tianran's phone called: "Little brother Jiulong, you have watched the press conference of the World Strange Stone King Tournament, President Liu has already asked me to be in charge of the provincial selection, how about it, come and help me." ”

This President Liu is really a good person, knowing that he has no drama here, what should I do if I move out of Teacher Wang Tianran? How to refuse? Jiulong thought about it and responded cautiously: "Teacher Wang, I am very busy doing futures this time, I really don't have time, besides, with you as a respected person, it is not easy to get it, and I can't help much." ”

"Little Brother Kowloon, this world's Strange Stone King Ring Competition, if it weren't for your planning, there would be no such event, therefore, you have to participate no matter what, this is not only what I mean, but also what President Liu meant, besides, this competition is a very heavy task, how can I do it, you must participate. ”

Teacher Wang said in an almost commanding tone.

It seems that this matter can't be avoided, so let's kick the ball back: "Teacher Wang, you are exalting me too much, and I can't help me with my words." ”

"As long as you come to help, this matter is easy to do, I will talk to the president of the Zhangzhou Stone Appreciation Association, you can join our association as a consultant, just help me come up with ideas, if necessary, go with me to find the competition stone." ”

Mr. Wang seems to have thought about it a long time ago, and he has laid out the plan and Kowloon.

"Mr. Wang, I'm not from Zhangzhou, how can I join your association? Besides, the advisors are all famous people, and I can't afford it. ”

Kowloon wondered how this would work.

"Brother Kowloon, you are rare and strange, it is normal to participate in the association across regions, I have participated in the Ludao Bonsai Yashi Association, as for the consultant, a lot of care is not asked, you are really a consultant, I believe that the president of the Zhangzhou Stone Appreciation Association will still give me this face. ”

Teacher Wang directly blocked the words, you want to be a deserter, no way.

Okay, it's still early anyway, so it's up to Mr. Wang to toss it, Jiulong told Mr. Wang that since it is a provincial election, it should be fair and just, and it is best that Jiulongbi can also refer to Hongshui River Stone to make an evaluation standard.

Teacher Wang was overjoyed: "You kid is full of scheming, this is a good idea, I will immediately organize the people of the association to do this first." ”

Finally sent Mr. Wang away, and in the next time, let's understand the essence of the book "Challenge Yourself".

Jiulong locked himself in his room, didn't go anywhere, and turned off his phone, so he retreated and cultivated, trying to find out the crux of his failure to speculate in futures.

He is a person who either doesn't do it, or does it if he wants to be the best, so he also knows the priorities, and he didn't even tell Xiao Qiao about it, so he disappeared like evaporating from the world.

On the night when Mr. Wang Tianran received the notice of the World Strange Stone King Challenge, he spread the content of the activity to all corners of Fujian through text messages, and also emphasized the role of Kowloon, with a clear purpose, to establish prestige and clear obstacles for Kowloon to help him do things.

In Zhangping, after Cheng Wucai saw this information, he couldn't calm down for a long time.